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Evolve Challenge 2023
Evolve Challenge 2023
Evolve Challenge 2023
EVOLVE CHALLENGE
S T R O N G
M I N D
S T R O N G
B O D Y
Mind/Body
STEP
Connection
03
Covers the physical, chemical and
emotional elements contributing to Escaping The
overall well-being. Connecting the mind
and body; aka updating your
Comfort Zone
subconscious program
STEP
04
The factors that interfere
with change and growth
from happening; fear,
The Evolved beliefs, distractions and
STEP relationships.
Version Of You
Improving the way you respond to
05
challenging situations. The secret
formula: mindset, effort, Strong Gut/
consistency.
STEP Strong Mind
06
Key foods, supplements and
nutrition planning designed
STEP Self-Mastery to make you healthier from
the inside-out.
07 Routine
Applying everything we know
into small actionable steps that
guarantee growth and long-
term success.
Exploring Your
STEP
Potential
08 30 day training plan designed
to make movement a part of
your lifestyle.
STEP
09
Repeat
WELCOME TO YOUR
EVOLUTIONARY PURSUIT
“You don't get what you want in life, you get what you are. In order to better who you are,
you must focus on within. If you're going to measure your worth, measure it by your effort,
not image. Who you are today and the fears you choose to face can soon be the struggles
that strengthen you. Mindset training” means that your brainpower is not fixed forever, but
can grow and change with effort. That's the beautiful thing about the mind, it's complex but
it's flexible. The ability to cultivate a growth mindset gives you the opportunity to improve
your perspective, thinking, habits and overall quality of life. Resilience is one of the core
qualities of a growth mindset. To be resilient means to be excited by challenges, not defeated
by them, to be confident in your ability to adapt and rise stronger. It takes real mental work -
it's not some magical quality. This quality shapes the "talented", "motivated" or "disciplined"
individuals who never give up on themselves. In this guide, you will build resilience by
improving your self-awareness, rational thinking, and emotional regulation skills. What you
learn is only of value to your life if you apply it. Just like any skill, if you stop practicing, you
lose your strength with it. This isn't just a program you run through once, revisit everything
you learn so it can live in your long-term memory and subconscious mind.
EVOLVE CHALLENGE
01 S E C T I O N O N E
WHY YOU
ARE THE WAY
YOU ARE
HABITS/
ENVIRONMENT/ SUB. MIND
INFLUENCE
WH E
Y Y U AR
OU Y O
ARE THE WAY
Of these five factors, beliefs and thoughts sit at the top tier holding the most
influential power on who we are , what we do and why we do the things we
do.While these factors are independent; they're also interlinked. I'll begin by
giving you a brief understanding of each element and then discuss how they
can influence one another.
ENVIRONMENT
Referring to external influences such as neighborhood, family, friends,
materialistic things, media etc. Relationships, specifically, have the greatest
influence on who you are and what you do and this links to the six human
needs (which we'll cover shortly). We typically identify with a 'group' and
as a result we can adopt to those beliefs. TV shows, social media and the
news have a slow yet subtle impact on people; and often can create false
realities (once again, influencing beliefs/thought patterns).
BELIEFS/THOUGHTS
We formulate beliefs every single day, some more hard-wired while others
are more susceptible to change. As we grow older, it's CRITICAL we take
stock of our current beliefs because they shape our self-perception and
view of the world. Beliefs and thoughts are intertwined. If you believe
you're not worthy of love, your thoughts will reflect that. To think differently
(and more constructively), you must let go of limiting beliefs confined from
'past failures' and experiences.
PERSONALITY TRAITS
While many assume that their personalities are fixed in childhood, plenty of
research shows that most people's personalities evolve throughout their
lives. (And this is heavily influenced by environment). There was a study I
read about identical twins that blew me away. Basically, they put one twin
in a suburban area and another in a rural area. Despite them having 100%
same genetic inheritance, both twins developed completely different
personality types as a result of their exposed environment. Changing your
environment doesn't imply moving from city to city; this study just proved
the point that personalities are in fact flexible. You can become more
optimistic, conscientious, disciplined and assertive if efficacy exceeds
excuses and if your environment is priming you for those changes.
"The Big Five” (Goldberg, 1990; McCrae & John, 1992; McCrae & Costa,
1987). The Big Five comprises five major personality traits:
Agreeableness: The tendency to agree and go along with others rather than to
assert your own opinion and choices.
The purpose of sharing this with you is to help you identify the traits that you
need to develop. Because you simply cannot hit a target you're not even
aiming at.
how motivating yourself works
"I want to be more motivated" isn't specific enough. You must have call to
actions, aka behaviors and habits to adopt. Motivation isn't going to fall out of
the sky and into your laps for you to keep forever. Motivation is an ACT and
behavior you have to create. The same goes for optimism, conscientiousness
and confidence; you must ACT it to become it.
So far, you've learned how personality traits and beliefs are influenced by
environment. Therefore, to change who we are we must change our
environment ( both internal and external ). Internal referring to our beliefs,
thoughts and self-perception. External referring to our friends, our screen
time, and our choice of entertainment.
For example:
To achieve this goal, you should first begin by exercising positive thinking and
self-talk because let's face it, you're in your own head 24/7. So, the most
important relationship to fix is the one with yourself.
Next after that is: identify which friends or relationships are inhibiting your
ability to be more positive.This goes for family too - create distance without
elimination. No personal feelings, this is what personal development takes.
We often feel the need to fit into shoes that aren't ours because we don't
want to "disappoint" or perhaps because we want to be loved and admired so
badly. Here's a reminder to love and honor yourself first.
Lastly: surround yourself with people who have the mindset and/or lifestyle
you aspire to create for yourself. AKA, Evolve Nation Community. If you're
going to spend time on social media (which most of us will), use it wisely. Use
it to build yourself up rather to compare and feel horrible about yourself.
Unfollow the accounts and people that don't mirror your values or your future
self. Drown yourself in positivity, focus and possibility.
To understand why are you the way that you are on a deeper, more
meaningful level, you must begin with understanding these needs. Because
once you do, you will understand why you act and react in certain ways.
And that awareness is a key step to making a pivotal shift in your life so
that you can overcome obstacles and embrace opportunities to ultimately
find absolute fulfillment. Let go of comparing yourself to others and focus
on achieving your own unique success.
The first four needs are necessary for survival and a successful life. The last
two needs (growth and contribution), are necessary to live a fulfilled life.
Many of your behaviors are based on which of your needs are – or are not –
being met. These are all important but since we're on this journey of self-
development I want to highlight on growth. Clearly that's one of the
reasons why you joined this challenge - I hope! ;)
GROWTH
Those who have a top core need for growth are always in a pursuit of
progress and have a high need to achieve. They are very good at their
scope of work, but tend to move on quickly as soon as they believe they’ve
reached their full potential. Even though their constant striving for more
ensures they won't get bored, they can deviate on the side of perfectionism
and neglect the rest and relaxation they need to keep stress levels
manageable.
huge influence
on your behavior
While all of these needs influence our behavior, psychological needs require the
most attention because we are social creatures, and our brain is a social organ.
Your environment is created around protecting your psychological needs. This
explains why some relationships are so hard to leave - even if they're toxic ( it
threatens your sense of belonging and love needs so you're willing to
compromise in any way to satisfy those needs. When you understand your
motives and the needs of others, you are able to identify which relationships in
your life are influencing you for better or worse.
The purpose of grasping this concept is not to cut off relationships or isolate
yourself but rather to become more aware of how we're influenced and go about
justifying our psychological needs.
Attention Security Comfort
Love Value
Most of us were never taught what we need in order to feel safe, secure, and
loved. When we’ve experienced safety, security, and love, we know that
we’re worthy of it. And we also know what to look out for. We naturally
gravitate towards people who offer it. And we swiftly change course when
we encounter people who don’t.
But if these basic needs were not fulfilled in our early life, this inner knowing
might not come so naturally. We may sense that something’s missing – and
feel frustrated and hurt – but we probably won’t know what to do about it.
We might even struggle to put our finger on what the issue is.
The problem with this is that it leaves us passive. We allow life – and people
– to lead us in all kinds of directions, whether they suit us or not.
How can we expect other people to know what we need when we don't
know what we need? So our relationship with ourselves comes first and
foremost.
Social connections are absolutely necessary for us, without them we can feel
lonely, isolated and a lose of purpose. People who are more socially connected to
family, friends and community are happier and physically healthier than people
who are less connected. The challenge here is outgrowing people who are not
supporting our growth or ability to progress.
So, to avoid isolation - create distance from those who you believe are distracting
you from your pursuit. At the same time, put the same effort into creating
relationships with people who share common interests and values.
Don't mistaken social connection by the size of friends you have. Quality far
exceeds the amount of friends or relationships you have. Also, every relationship
(casual or intimate) requires effort to upkeep. Confine your circle by spending the
most time with those who have a growth mindset and engage in habits/activities
that support their progress. You will be influenced by that too!
HABITS/SUBCONSCIOUS MIND
Habits/routines can be very useful to us. For most of us, we're capable of
carrying out good behaviors without much effort. For example: do you
have to think about or learn how to brush your teeth every morning? Of
course not, you can probably do it with your eyes closed. Do you have to
figure out how to get to work? Chances are you're not spending your
time on the road thinking about a million other things. This proves that
with repetition, we can take any desired skill/habit and make it a learned
behavior! If you want to be more active, simply get into a routine and
follow it long enough until its memorized by your subconscious mind.
INVISIBLE HABITS AKA MENTAL ACTIVITY
Habits aren't just physical things you do. Invisible habits form in our way
of thinking and often have the greatest impact on our self-perception and
choices. Negative thinking, self-doubt and judgement are ALL common
habits that are invisible to the eye yet carried out everyday.
THOUGHT PATTERNS
The way you THINK will influence the way you FEEL and vice versa. If you're
constantly thinking horribly about yourself, it is no wonder you lack the
confidence or optimism for change in the future. Giving your inner dialogue
more attention will allow you to put focus on the root of the problem. YOU.
Your thoughts and feelings are in your control. And though, being unhappy
with your current state is a normal emotion, it's you that holds the power to
your perception. Being ashamed of who you are will never yield positive
habits. To progress, we must accept where we are and focus our efforts on
the infinite potential we hold to change.
TO SUM IT ALL UP
ENVIRONMENTAL INFLUENCES
BELIEFS/THOUGHTS
/
The narrative we run in our mind will determine how we feel - and what
we do. To evolve, we must let go of limiting beliefs and be aware of our
internal dialogue.
PERSONALITY
/ TRAITS
Our personality traits are flexible and we have the power to outgrow
who we were if our environment and efficacy exceed our excuses.
SIX HUMAN/NEEDS
Many of our behaviors are based on which of our needs are – or are not
– being met. How we satisfy our needs is critical to monitor and adjust.
HABITS/SUBCONSCIOUS
/ MIND
Before you move on to the next section, please complete this self-check!
It's super important to fill this page out as honest and accurate as possible.
There's no space for shame or discouragement here. Be real with where
you're at. Identifying the habits, people and factors that interfere with your
goals is the first step to change. If you aren't aware of the problems, how
can you even begin to solve them, right?
You can print out the this page or write these questions in a journal.
Do this when you have time and aren't in a rush.
What are some of my unhealthy habits?
5
EVOLVE CHALLENGE
02 S E C T I O N T W O
THE HARDEST
PART
ABOUT CHANGE
30 DAYS
Choices are a critical part of our self-
development, because each one of the
decisions shape your experiences and brings
you to where you are today. There's power in
30 CHOICES
knowing that we have a will and choice, and if
something doesn’t go our way and we don’t
like where we stand, we can change that.
THE HARDEST PART ABOUT CHANGE IS NOT MAKING THE SAME
CHOICES YOU MADE THE DAY BEFORE, PERIOD.
The moment you decide to make a different choice, get ready because its going to feel
uncomfortable. Any shift to your current routine is perceived by your subconscious
mind as a threat. The subconscious mind DOES NOT like unfamiliar grounds.
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CONSCIOUS MIND FUNCTION CONSCIOUS VALUES: SUBCONSCIOUS MIND FUNCTION SUBCONSCIOUS VALUES
The analytical mind. It tries to use Helpfulness The emotional mind. It cannot tell Maintaining security
willpower to control behaviors, Choosing our own path the difference between what is Sexual fulfillment
habits, and beliefs but loses out Seek meaning in life real or imagined. It HAS to accept Honoring tradition
the subconscious mind's greater what you give it and emotionalize.
influence.
That means 95% of who we are in our adulthood is memorized set of behaviors, emotional
reactions, unconscious habits, hardwired attitudes, beliefs, and perceptions that function
like a computer program. So then a person can say with 5% of their conscious mind:
So then how do you begin to make those changes? Well, you have to get beyond the
analytical mind because what separates the conscious mind from a subconscious mind is
the analytical mind. It has the capacity to form new beliefs and think strategically whereas
the subconscious mind ONLY knows what it knows from the PAST.
E³ ENVIRONMENT. EXPERIENCES. EMOTIONS.
Most people spend majority of their life living in survival and living in stress. By
always anticipating the worst case scenario based on a past experience, they’re
conditioning their body into a state of fear. Why do we anticipate the worst?
When a bad event happens, the mind will automatically want to keep recalling
the event because of the emotions of stress hormones, the survival emotions are
saying ‘pay attention to what happened because you want to be prepared if it
happens again’. The stronger the emotional reaction you have to some
experience in your life, the higher the emotional quotient and the more you pay
attention to the cause.
The moment your brain puts all of its attention on the cause, it takes a mental
snapshot (that’s called a memory). So long term memories are created from very
highly emotional experiences AND stored in the subconscious mind.
Your body is the unconscious mind, it doesn’t know the difference between the
experience that’s creating the emotion and the emotion that you’re creating by
thought alone.
So then, the body is believing and living in the same past experience 24 hours a
day, 7 days a week.
When those emotions influence certain thoughts (and they do), then those
thoughts influence your behavior.
So if you’re living by the same emotion every single day and those
emotions are influencing your thoughts; then your lens of the future is
going to be colored by the past.
If you start thinking about some future worse case scenario and you begin
to feel the emotion of that event, your body doesn’t know the difference
between the event that’s taking place in your outer world and what you’re
creating by emotion or thought alone.
When it comes time to change and a person makes a different choice, all of
a sudden they don’t feel the same way.
The body says you’ve been doing this for x years, you’re just going to stop
feeling suffering and shameful? You’re not going to complain or blame or
make excuses or feel sorry for yourself? Now the body is in the unknown.
The body does not like the unknown and by default wants to return to a
familiar territory (even if it is suffering!). So the body starts influencing the
mind by saying things like:
“Start tomorrow”
“This isn’t going to work for you”
“This doesn’t feel right”
And so if you respond to that thought as if its true, then that same thought
will lead to the same choice, which will lead to the same behavior, which
will create the same experience which produces the same emotion.
Your self-efficacy influences your ability to change and how far you will go.
Most people have programmed themselves to notice the bad things first.
It's easy to look in the mirror and focus on what you don't like first.
Focusing on what makes you feel bad isn't going to lead you to take the
steps to real change. The problem here is that “like attracts like.” Feeling
bad only attracts behaviors that will continue to make you feel bad (self-
sabotage, negative self-talk, and devaluation). When you feel bad about
yourself, it's a lot easier to act in a way that justifies your limiting beliefs
about what you can or can't achieve. This is why most people self-
sabotage. Because it's "easier" to confirm a bias than it is to prove it
wrong.
ANOTHER THING THAT MAKES CHANGE SO HARD IS THE
PERCEPTION OF PROGRESS & FAILURE
OR
Right now, the advantage and benefit you have in doing this
challenge is starting this journey by choice and having a
supportive community that makes the experience all that better.
It's only when we decide to challenge the change are we able to
own our power. In this state, we are able to shift from a survival
state to a creator state.
YOUR GOALS
You might get in accident, you might get sick, you might lose your
job, it’s all a possibility.
One of the VERY few things you have genuine control over is
how you respond to these changes and circumstances.
These are things that in REAL time, you can control in your brain.
AND that is a very empowering fact to know. When you feel
powerless or weak; you have the power to change how you feel. By
feeding your mind with positivity and focusing on the good, you can
create the light in the darkest moments.
DECIDE IF YOU ARE GOING TO BE
DEFINED BY A VISION OF THE
FUTURE OR ARE YOU GOING TO LIVE
BY THE MEMORIES OF THE PAST.
EVOLVE CHALLENGE
03 S E C T I O N T H R E E
CONNECTING
THE MIND
& BODY
If you’re not being defined by a vision of the future then you’re left with old
memories of the past and you will be predictable in your life. The foundation of
change is rooted in awareness. To be unaware leads to taking far too much for
granted, such as who you are, what you are capable of, and what the future
holds. Awareness allows you to break free from fixed beliefs/habits and create
change in the present moment. It is far too easy to make conclusions about
what you can - or cannot do, and this has happened in everyone’s life to some
degree or another. Take any person who has had a bad experience doing
something. Do you think they are likely to do it again? Probably not. The human
mind prefers pleasure and avoids pain. Instant gratification over delayed
success. We cannot create a better future if we're stuck inside the mental
constraints of the past. It will always weigh us down, and the present will
unconsciously repeat the past, no matter how hard we try to make this not
happen. For all these reasons, it is so important to strengthen our awareness.
SELF-AWARENESS IS A HABIT
Patterns of thought. How do you tend to think about and explain what
happens to you? What’s your self-talk like? What expectations do you
hold in certain settings or with certain people? What are your core
beliefs that influence your thinking?
Journaling Meditating
Journaling is one of the best ways to improve your self-awareness and self-talk.
Writing down your experiences, emotions, daily habits, etc is so helpful. It
literally provides you with a blueprint of how and what you’ve achieved on a
daily basis. This allows you to visually evaluate what is going on in your mind
and life. You're also more likely to notice behavioral patterns that are getting in
the way of you achieving your goal. In other words, it's a GREAT way to
declutter our messy minds and put things in better order.
Slip-ups are totally normal and part of the process as long as you recommit to
your growth. Re-strategize your plan so you are not making the same mistake
over and over again.
Meditating
I get it, meditation can feel ridiculous, pointless or boring. But give it a chance
because in a world where we're all operating at lightening speed, it's nearly
impossible to cater to our internal world. Mindful meditation teaches you how
your thoughts and emotions work. When you practice watching and
observing your thoughts without attaching to them or thinking about them,
you begin to internalize a powerful idea:
All too often we lack self-awareness because we’re actually thinking too
much—overthinking. We easily become lost in our thoughts, assuming
they’re true or worth engaging with simply because our minds decided to
throw them at us.
A daily mindfulness practice will open your eyes to how the thinking mind
works and how much more there is to you than the mere content of your
thoughts. Cut 10 minutes from your social media time and just do it. You
have the time.
You learned that your body is the subconscious mind, and it primarily
lives in the past; curating the same beliefs, emotions and behaviors.
You also learned that it cannot tell the difference between what is real
or imagined. It HAS to accept what you give it and emotionalize;
therefore, you have the ability to CREATE a better future. The greatest
know-how is knowing how to engage your subconscious mind
because it works millions times faster!
WAYS TO REPROGRAM YOUR
SUBCONSCIOUS MIND
What thoughts do you want to think? What behaviors do you want to demonstrate
in one day? The act of rehearsing them mentally is extremely powerful way to
increase awareness and reprogram the subconscious mind. If you’re truly present,
the brain doesn’t know the difference between what you're imaging and what you’re
experiencing in 3d world. You begin to install new thoughts, emotions and
experiences in your mind. If you keep priming it that way, you'll no longer be defined
by past experiences because your focus is on NEW behaviors and beliefs.
The hardest part is to teach your body emotionally what the future will feel like
ahead of the actual experience.
This model means waiting for something outside of us to change how we feel
inside of us. Most people live in LACK waiting for something to change out ‘there’.
The moment you start feeling abundant and worthy, you’re creating wealth.
The moment you're empowered and feel it, you're beginning to step towards your
success.
And when you love yourself and you love all of life you’ll create an equal and now
you're causing an effect.
Victims justify why they are the way they are by putting blame on people or
experiences.
“They made me think and feel this way”
When you switch this framework around you become a creator of your world and
now that’s a whole different game where you start to believe more that you’re the
creator of reality.
THINKING
Begin with a snapshot in your mind of who you currently are then imagine yourself having
achieved your goal. Be specific and detailed about what it is you intend on achieving. The
intention is everything in this step. Think of the feelings you're going to have not only at goal
achievement but along the way in your journey towards achievement.
Make a mental note that this moment of achievement is meant for that moment but there are
others still to come, although no energy needs to be directed to them yet.
FEELING
Within your vision of the goal or experience, in combination with the image of what the result
looks like imagine what it would feel like. Let the feeling begin within your mind and flow
through your envisioned self of the future. Imagine the feeling throughout your body and
allow future thinking to recognize the feeling, creating an awareness of the future mind and
body. Take note of the environment when you are at your moment of success. Let all of those
things in your mental imagery take form and exist. Lastly, allow yourself a sense of
appreciation and gratitude for the journey and the new experience or achievement that has
come to be.
BEING
What is left after visualization by thinking and feeling? DOING. You must put your
envisioned future self into action. The only power that exists to create will always be the
present, now! What you have done is set a condition to influence your behaviors.
Through visualization and reinforcement of this vision through repeated exercises, you
will continue to reinforce the experiences, thoughts, and emotions associated with what
you've envisioned.
THOUGHT CATCHING
TECHNIQUE
When you catch yourself saying something negative either towards yourself or others,
change that thought to be either neutral or positive. Example: Change this negative thought,
“My thighs look so big today, I hate them.” to either something neutral, “My thighs help get
me to and from class each day.” or something positive, “My thighs are strong, they hold
power, and they make my body beautifully complete.”
This doesn't only apply to judging your image. This applies to any behavior you want to
break free from. Let's use emotional eating as an example. Let's say you've created a habit
of munching while you're working or studying. Whether this is a habit formed out of
boredom, distraction or procrastination it's obvious to catch when you're doing it.
Behavior is driven by thought first. This means you need to catch the thought first.
Subconscious thinking occurs at lightning speed so you better be QUICK! Before you know
it you're already halfway through your bag of chips. On a neurological level, you think better
when you're not in motion. You can interfere with your habitual pattern by using physically
stopping yourself.
The next time you start heading over to your kitchen. Literally, stop yourself from walking.
PAUSE and say to yourself " [ Name ], you're doing it again, you're going to grab a bag of
chips but you don't need to. You don't need it. It only feels like you do because it's become a
habit." Take it a step further and form a better habit by saying: "Let's get grab a bottle of
water, you're probably thirsty". In this way, you not only interfered with the learned habit,
but you also substituted it with a better one!
Trust me, this simple technique works wonders! By repeatedly doing this over and over
again, you allow this to be the new system you follow. A system that is less reactive and
more aware.
DISRUPT THE SYSTEM
TECHNIQUE
DISRUPT THE SYSTEM
When reprogramming your brain for new behaviors, you have to eliminate triggers and
disrupt your habitual patterns. Your environment really does control how you think and feel
unconsciously. Because every person, thing, place and every experience has a neurological
network in your brain. Every experience that you have with every person produces an
emotion. People NEED the outer world to feel something. So to change, then is to be greater
than your environment. Meditation is the tool. Disconnecting from your environment.
What you perceive to be a threat to your progress is worth introspecting. Spending time with
friends is often not looked at as 'bad' but if these friends play a role in your ability to make a
positive change then it's time you consider taking a break while you aim your focus on
yourself.
PROXIMITY IS POWER
The simple act of who you spend your time with is who you become.
04 S E C T I O N F O U R
ESCAPING
THE
COMFORT ZONE
A comfort zone is a psychological state where you feel more at ease because
you're not being tested. Sheltered in this bubble, people don’t typically engage
in new experiences or take on any challenges. They only participate in activities
that are familiar, making them feel “in control” of their environment.
People stay in their comfort zone to avoid feelings of anxiety or stress, and pain.
Anything outside the comfort zone creates uncertainty, and uncertainty makes
us feel anxious. Naturally, human beings are wired to avoid these feelings. This
makes them reluctant to leave their comfort zone.
As comfortable as it seems, this bubble holds you back from personal growth
and fulfillment. After all, life is to be experienced and how much can you
experience if you lack the courage or confidence to explore new things and
discover your capabilities!
PSYCHOLOGICAL
FEARS
Many of our fears are subtle, we go through life without ever giving them a
second thought, and this lack of attention can cause a lot of emotional
damage. The fears you want to make sure you address are the
psychological fears, not only "fear of spiders". These questions can help
reveal comfort zones you weren't aware of before. It may be uncomfortable
but it's transformative.
1.Are you afraid of what other people think of you? What about it scares you
most? How does this limit you?
2.What do you absolutely HATE doing and how does it make you feel? Do you
hate it because it triggers a deeper fear within you? What fear?
3.What causes you anxiety? What triggers your anxiety or what makes you
nervous and uneasy? Is it uncertainty "not knowing"?
4.What are some of your biggest, most obvious fears? What deeper fear is this
obvious fear-based in?
5.Are you currently in an unhappy or unhealthy relationship that you are scared of
getting out of? Why? What are you scared of? (fear of being alone, not finding
someone else, being hurt, not being loved) Whatever your fear is, can you go
deeper and see if it’s based on a deeper fear?
6.How do you feel about change? Does it scare you? What about it scares you?
7.Are you comfortable with being vulnerable? If not, why not? Can you pinpoint a
deeper fear?
8.Do you enjoy being alone? If no, why not and what deeper fear is it based in?
LEAVING YOUR
COMFORT ZONE
If we don't control the emotional mind it will continue to live in the same subconscious
cycle of settlement, and fear.
EMPOWER
YOURSELF DAILY
For most people, there is a clear understanding between feelings of
confidence and feelings of anxiety. When we feel anxiety, we tend to 'play
safe' and hold our potential hostage. When we feel confident, we tend to
face challenges and try new things. What made me a great runner was not
natural born talents - in fact, there were none. It was in my confidence and
efficacy that allowed me to achieve any goal I set my mind to. I had the
confidence and belief BEFORE I had the skills, remember that.
Instead of focusing on the task, like going for a run, our anxiety encourages
us to focus on potential threats, like the consequences of feeling out of
shape or 'underperforming'. This can create a chain reaction that impacts
our emotions, our behaviors, and ultimately, our performance.
VERBAL PERSUASION
+ SELF-TALK
Verbal persuasion can come from ourselves or those around us. This is a core reason to
why athletes need coaches and why people hire life coaches and personal trainers. The
more we trust and respect their opinions, the greater and more lasting an effect they
will have on our confidence.
"THAT'S RIGHT!"
"You're going to do
amazing!"
Negative Self-Talk
Positive Self-Talk
If you start to get a faster heartbeat or sweating palms, the best thing is not to fight it. Place
the palm of your hand on your stomach and breathe slowly and deeply. This calms the body
and teaches the mind how to cope with anxiety.
CHECK YOURSELF
It's impossible to think clearly when you're flooded with fear or anxiety. In those moments,
remind yourself of how strong and capable you are of controlling your emotions and mind.
TRANSFORMATIVE PHASE
It's a daily effort.
What growth
What they think actually looks like
growth looks like
When it comes to how we perceive success, we look at others and see their
brilliance and achievements. But behind this surface, there were years of
training and failing. It's not a matter of luck or talent. It's a matter of choices.
EVOLVE STANDARDS TO LIVE BY
Living in a body that reflects your highest level of health requires mastery of
these standards
Value Yourself, First. (value yourself and you'll value what you do)
Believe In Yourself. (you will never rise above the opinion of yourself)
Guard Your Focus. (If it's easy to do, it's easy not to do)
Run Your Mind: (You are not your thoughts)
05 S E C T I O N T W O
YOUR PLEASURE
CENTER
To understand why we are driven by tasty food, love, sexual desire, drugs,
chocolate, or social media, we need to learn about the reward system. As we
learned earlier we all have the same six needs. However, how we satisfy
those needs results in different habits. We all each have a different level of
intensity for each of those human needs. Because we're all unique.
The reward system, otherwise known as your pleasure centre, is one of the
most important systems in the brain. It drives our behavior towards
pleasurable stimuli such as food, sex, drugs, etc. And it drives us away from
painful ones that demand more energy or effort such as conflict, homework,
exercise, or healthy stresses.
This is where we feel emotions and process those emotions to start or stop
actions. In other words, this system is responsible for the habits we form. A
reward is a stimulus that drives your behavior - playing as reinforcer. That is,
they make us repeat behaviors that we perceive (unconsciously) as good for
our survival, even when they’re not.
HAPPINESS
HORMONES
OXYTOCIN SEROTONIN
We’ve been programmed (not good or bad), behind every substance addiction
or addiction on gaining or media; there is an emotion that a person is doing their
best to regulate.
When we have an event that changes our emotional state; the stronger the
emotion we feel from the shock, betrayal, the trauma, the news, whatever it is;
the more altered we are inside of us, the more the brain freezes, the brain and
takes a screenshot and that’s called a long term memory. It’s called a long-term
memory so we can remember them and the emotion associated with them.
Every time we think about or remember those events, we produce the same
chemistry in the brain and body as if the event was occurring. Now the body is
so objective it doesn’t know the difference between the real life experience
that’s creating that emotion versus the emotion that person is fabricating my
thought alone.
And you’re actually conditioning the body subconsciously into that emotional
state
And that sets the base line of a persons emotional state
Whether that is
“I feel empty”
“I feel anxious”
“I feel resentment”
…and I don’t know how to change
So people will look for things in their outer world to make that feeling go away.
Whether it’s a drug, gaming, complaining; it doesn’t matter what it is, but let’s
just use a recreational drug as an example. The moment they take it, they notice
a change in their emotional state, they associate that change with what caused
it.
There are degrees of addictions, some are very philosophical but when you get
to the bottom of it, an addiction is when the body has been conditioned to be
the mind. So now every time a person feels anxiety, emptiness, unworthiness,
their brain creates the image of what they need to do to make that feeling go
away. And the last series of times, it was that exogenous substance or activity
that made it go away.
Here’s the problem, let’s use gaming as an example. When you shoot, kill or get
points for doing something in a game; there’s a release of dopamine in the
brain, dopamine is the reward and pleasure chemical.
The problem is the amount of dopamine that’s released in a very short interval
of time is outside of normal. So now in order for that person to get that same
feeling, they have to play more, do more, the stimulus has to be GREATER.
Overtime we start recalibrating those pleasure centers, those receptors to a
higher level.
Now what’s the significance of that?
In the absence of that stimulation, our pleasure centers have been hijacked to such
a high level that we can’t find pleasure in anything.
We can’t find pleasure from a sunrise, you can’t find pleasure from sitting in
silence, or reading a book. And so in order for people to get that same rush they
have to play more, consume more, do more - and here’s the big problem:
LEARNING should be a reward in of itself. Learning should be the BIG reward. But
now for most people, they need a stimulus, they need something to drive their
attention to whatever they’re learning and now attention is dependent on
something outside of us.
And when you capture your attention, you capture your energy. And you can
program yourself as a result of it.
The Reward Chemical The Pain Killer The Love Hormone The Mood Stabilizers
What science has discovered, you can actually turn that conditioning around and not
wait for the experience to produce the emotion but learn how to self-regulate your
emotional states. You can learn train yourself to trade resentment, frustration and
anxiety for an elevated emotion. You do that enough times, and you keep practicing
it, you get so good at it you actually become it. Aka it becomes habit.
For example: When you notice your body is out of balance, you have one of two
choices:
OR
And the MAIN challenge with addiction is that the moment you say
“Heba, why don’t you start tomorrow. Tomorrow’s a better day. Any other
day but today. Todays not a good day for you…”
Now, if we act on that thought and we make the same choice, we do the same
thing, we create the same experience, we feel the same emotion, and then all
of a sudden that emotional state ‘emptiness or discomfort’ goes away and that
person returns to the known.
The act of doing something different causes the body to feel chaos when it’s
looking for the known and familiar.
Instead of yo-yoing to the other side; I teach people how to regulate their
internal emotional states to feel less anxious or afraid - over time you start to
see that every time you feel an elevated emotion like gratitude or relief that
you don’t need anything from outside to make you feel better, you’re actually
doing it yourself.
People often mistake love for pleasure, and when people start to feel whole
again they have less of a need for pleasure.
When you feel these elevated emotions, you have less of need for these quick
dopamine fixes.
06 S E C T I O N S I X
THE EVOLVED
VERSION
OF YOU
MINDSET, EFFORT,
CONSISTENCY, DISCIPLINE
THE EVOLVE MINDSET
& ATTITUDE
Effort: Show up DAILY. Whether you feel like it or not. Sustaining the effort
you put in relies on your level of satisfaction. Make sure you acknowledge and
celebrate your small wins. Even if the outcome did not meet your
expectations. Look for the lesson in every challenge and keep moving
forward.
Consistency: We’re rarely confident in our ability to do something on our first
attempt, but as our skills develop, our confidence correspondingly increases.
This is skill mastery. If we’ve done it before, we know we can do it again.
Running a mile gives us confidence in our ability to run another. The more we
properly practice and successfully execute a skill, the more confident we
become in our ability to do it again.
This visual on the left shows how trying to climb an inconsistent ladder is WAY
more difficult. This usually happens when we overcommit and/or fail to
strategize.
The visual on the right shows how consistent effort (no matter how small) can
lead to big changes; this is known as the compounding effect.
THE PURSUIT OF PROGRESS.
The purpose of this guide is to evolve your way of thinking and doing. To get
you more aware, adaptive and in control so you can stick to your goals and
continue to push your limits.
Apply these two concepts everyday, and you will develop the mental resilience
and momentum needed to support your goals.
Similar to a domino effect, these small, seemingly insignificant actions can reap
huge rewards and unintentionally carry over into other aspects of your life.
A simple goal of wanting to lose weight can result to achieving far more than
weight loss. It can result in better energy levels, increased focus, and mental
clarity.
But to get the domino effect going, you have to commit to the first change, and I
mean 'really' commit. Stick to it long enough so you can start to see/feel the
benefits. Feeling good, energetic and strong in your skin will become the driving
motives for better eating habits.
THE KEY TO DISCIPLINE
MOTIVATION FADES
DISCIPLINE REMAINS
We learned that we are driven by rewards. So what drives you to get up every
morning, ready to roll?
If you don't know the answer to this it's ok. But this shows how many of us get up,
get on with our days and do things we know we 'have' to do but are lacking
fulfillment in the process. You won't have drive or a "spark" when you don't tie
meaning to those things. Find value in what you're doing.
What are the benefits of waking up early for you? Have you ever identified them? Or
does your mind just automatically identify the downside?
For me, it's getting to catch the sunrise and much needed time to myself (when
most people are still asleep). My morning hours are my most productive.
It's holding myself to higher standards and a better quality of life, where I have more
hours in my day. It's setting the right tone for the day by getting ahead of the day.
When your intrinsic motives are clear and powerful to you, it's pretty hard to fall off
or delay your goals for "tomorrow". Instead, you are so eager and motivated to get
started because of the purpose and rewards it brings you. In the cost benefit
exercise your mind plays when making decisions, I am aware of the upside, and this
makes doing things that are good for me, easier.
That value then allows you to consistently show up and become more disciplined.
With discipline, you become conditioned to show up day after day despite
circumstances or feelings. You develop a routine that turns into ideal habits.
SET REMINDERS
Setting a daily morning routine is a great way to strengthen your discipline and
start off your day with more focus and energy. In today's world, our attention is
constantly being pulled in every direction. Since your phone is on you most of the
day, it's wise to set reminders and follow a routine. Schedule a time to go on a 10
minute walk or journaling period. Leverage what you have and set yourself up for
success. No more "I forgot". It's time to strategize better ways so you can create
long term change! Failing to plan is planning to fail.
WATER
WAKE UP WALK
Getting up earlier and on Your body is made up of 60% Listen to audios, move your
time will guarantee a better water. This is your primary body, get sun-exposure so you
tone for your day. energy source. Drink away! can get in the right head space.
I've been doing this for over a decade - and while there are days that go unplanned,
80% of the time I'm in this routine. I don't give up because I overslept one day, I
continue to carry out my efforts and that's what matters. I typically meditate in
morning as well; it was a difficult habit for me to develop because I'm super
hyperactive. Always ready to go-go-go. And that's really the reason why I wanted
so badly to get in the habit of meditating. I wanted to be less reactive in the
morning; more optimistic and focused. Meditation allowed me to do that and it's
truly INSANE how much patience and joy I was able to gain through practice. Crazy
to look back and remember how much I dreaded the idea of meditation, LOL.
Now, it's a thing I really look forward to and make time for. Give yourself a chance!
EVOLVE CHALLENGE
THE
SELF-MASTERY
ROUTINE
1 2 3 4 5
Fear of change is a constant. From the very beginning, humans have
liked routine. It makes us feel in control of our lives - and for the most
part it's beneficial. It helps us time manage our days, build discipline
and stay on track. But as change occurs, whether that be a change in
weather or unexpected life events, a shift in routine and perspective is
needed in order to make room for new habits. The first step always
starts with awareness. If you're not aware of what you're doing, how can
determine what you should and shouldn't be doing?
The self-mastery routine I've put together for you will leave the guess
work out on what to do and where to start. This routine will guarantee a
healthier you, supporting the basic needs to function at your best. Look
at these 'rules' as standards that serve a purpose to introduce a new
routine - and lifestyle.
While they are SIMPLE things to do, actually doing them and being
consistent is the challenge. Keep your focus on executing these
fundamentals and trust the process!
ALCOHOL ABSTINENCE
Alcohol is one of the most commonly used drugs in the world. It's literally
everywhere, from commercials, sporting events, restaurants, nightclubs,
and movies - it's constantly in front of our faces. For most people, they
drink to celebrate achievements, wind down after a stressful day, connect
with others, and, sometimes, escape our current state of mind. Yet, this
widely accepted form of self-medication can rob us of our higher selves.
While there is a such thing as 'balance', it's quite difficult to gauge your
awareness and zone in on your self-development even if you're only one
drink or going out once a week. Alcohol impairs your mind and body and
impairs the communication pathways in the brain. In other words, on a
physiological level, alcohol changes your chemistry and as a result you can
feel less energetic, more brain fog and even anxious. It is a poison. Oh, and
these are just the short term effects; over time with consistent drinking,
your immune system can weaken leading to poor mental health, memory
loss, etc.
The purpose of this challenge is to learn self-mastery and control over your
mind and body. Consuming alcohol is the antithesis of that. Inebriation can
remove your inhibitions, leaving you to slide backwards on your goals. Plus,
over-consuming alcohol one night can leave you groggy and unproductive
the next day, limiting your ability to be your best self. This can create a loop
where you feel guilty and look for more instant gratification to soothe the
discomfort, leading to a continuous sliding back away from your goals until
you fall back into your old routine.
During this 30-Day Program you will cut out alcohol completely (if you
haven't already). That doesn’t mean alcohol abstinence for life! You will use
these 30-days to focus on creating self-efficacy and solidifying your new
habits and lifestyle; allowing you time to cultivate a more healthy and holistic
internal (and external) environment.
Movement looks different for each person; it can mean running, walking,
biking, weight lifting, yoga, hiking, etc. Every person is right. There is no one
right way to exercise for everyone. We are all unique and thus, all have our
own unique interests, goals, and limitations. Yet, regardless of your
preference and goals, it is clear, movement is a necessity for a sound mind
and body.
-Improved metabolism
-Improved mental health and sense of well-being
-Weight management
-Improved energy
-Improved bone density
-Improved mobility and balance
-Reduced stress
-Reduced risk of depression and cognitive decline
It’s obvious that to be your best, most evolved and disciplined self, you have
to first master your daily movement. Block out a time on your schedule for
movement, even if it's 15-20 minutes. This will help fortify your mind and
body for the challenges ahead. You will see your brain fog lift, your decision
making processes will become clearer, and your energy increase. And you'll
notice the mental toughness you start to build as you set and achieve your
goals. Every day and every workout, you’ll flex your mental and physical
muscles, growing that self-efficacy which makes your goals feel within your
grasp.
GOAL: Move your body for at least 20 minutes every day (preferably at
the same time) for the next 30 days.
ONLY FIBROUS CARBS
Carbs are one of the three main macronutrients: proteins, carbs, and fats. SADLY,
today’s food is often refined to make cheap and highly addictive foods. This is
most notable with carbs and why majority of people are confused about carbs.
Should I eat carbs or should I not? The answer is yes, but not all carbs are equal!
These carbs have the same addictive and negative physiological response to your
body as alcohol. YUP! Sugar is highly addictive, hence why it's so difficult to stick to
'healthy' eating. The insulin spikes from simple sugars are the root cause of
cravings, brain fog, lack of focus and irregular energy levels.
So, it's time to clean house and introduce quality foods into our system. Focus less
on what you're giving up and more on what you have to gain.
Give up sugar. Gain mental clarity. Give up comfort food, gain emotional control.
It's all in how we self-talk ourselves that determines what we can do and how
enjoyable that process will be. There are plenty of good carbs like fruits and
vegetables that you can fill your tummy with! These natural sources of carbs
include high fiber and a large variety of micronutrients. Fiber keeps you full for
longer periods which reduces the need to munch and/or crave certain foods. PLUS,
the micronutrients will strengthen your immune system and body.
Sleep is one habit we all do everyday. No matter what your lifestyle or health status, we all
get tired and we all need rest. But, many of us don’t get the proper amount of quality
sleep. You’ll notice I said “quality” before sleep. That is an important distinction in today’s
age of non-stop entertainment and screen time.
Do you get 7-8 hours of sleep every night, yet you never feel rested? This is because
you're not getting the right sleep cycles to help recharge your batteries.
Think of sleep in terms of the previous section of this chapter. If I said you need to eat 100
grams of carbs per day and you said, “I already do that!”, but the carbs you eat came only
from candy….how do you think you’d feel.
Our bodies are smart and will help us over these next 30 days. We are designed with an
internal clock that syncs up with the day and night. We naturally release melatonin and
start getting sleepy when the sun goes down. But, if you are staring at the TV or your
phone all night, you might not recognize these cues. Or maybe you are tired but want to
stay up to finish a few episodes?
Well, that disordered sleeping schedule can prevent you from getting a restful night's
sleep, inhibit the next day’s productivity, and create a cycle where your sleep schedule
remains suboptimal. During this challenge, I want you to take control of your schedule so
you get at least 8 hours of QUALITY sleep.
GOAL: Get 8 hours of quality sleep nightly over the next 30 days.
DAILY SELF-CHECK IN
Journaling is one of the best ways to improve your self-awareness and self-talk.
Writing down your experiences, emotions, daily habits, etc is so helpful. It literally
provides you with a blueprint of how and what you’ve achieved on a daily basis.
This allows you to visually evaluate what is going on in your mind and life.
You'll also be more likely to notice behavioral patterns that are getting in the way
of you achieving your goal. Slip-ups are totally normal and part of the process
as long as you recommit to your growth. Re-strategize your plan so you are not
making the same mistake over and over again.
Your journal doesn't have to be just words. You can sketch out your plan and
create a mental image of how you see yourself adapting better to the challenge.
You can even do voice notes on your phone in addition to your journaling. Writing
allows us to slow down our thoughts and there is really no substitute for that. I
also recommend doing a self-check in voice note when you're out on a walk - and
especially if you're stemming off from a heated situation. Instead of letting the
thoughts float in your head and emotions boil inside - say it out loud - you'll not
only release the tension, but you'll hear yourself differently.
Once a day, preferably before bed. Remember, your conscious mind commands
and your subconscious mind obeys. The more conscious you are with your
thoughts, the faster you'll see changes. Once again, this is a simple task, that if
consistently followed can sharpen your self-discipline. On top of that, you'll
improve your awareness and self dialogue. Don't let your thoughts and emotions
go unnoticed.
Giving attention to our thoughts and emotions is a great step towards emotional
regulation and real self-love. It gives us the opportunity to show up for ourselves,
tuning from within to take responsibility for our own emotions rather than looking
for a solution outside of us (alcohol, friends, etc). Be your own best friend, first.
06.00 am
08.00 am
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08.00 pm
09.00 pm
Date:
SELF-PROMISES S M T W T F S
Movement
No alcohol
Fibrous Carbs
Self-Check In
Quality Sleep
MONTHLY TRACKER
HABIT CHECKLIST
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ATE MY VEGGIES!
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NOTE
EVOLVE CHECK IN
The most important relationship in your life is the one you have with yourself.
Your check-in's are for the sole purpose of keeping track of your self-
perception, thoughts, emotions and behaviors. Declutter your mind.
EVOLVE CHALLENGE
08 S E C T I O N E I G H T
STRONG GUT,
STRONG MIND
FOOD
WITH
PURPOSE
Food is quintessential to our survival, obviously.
We need it to live. But, we often abuse food to
be much more, often making it counterintuitive
to a vibrant life. The world is a complex place.
We have constant stimulation, demands,
stressors, experiences, and advertisements
coming in from every angle. This need for
stimulation is reflected in our foods. The most
popular foods are specifically designed to be
pumped with fat and sugar and salt to increase
their palatability, often at the cost of our health.
But this cycle can dull our senses and lead us
away from our best selves.
When you’re sick, what do you do? You should probably go see the doctor to get
medicine. Now, when prescribing the medicine, what are you looking for?
You are probably looking for a medicine that works. You ask how much you need
to take and when, and then you do it.
Why is that? Why do you ask how, when, and how much of the medicine to take
and not what color or flavors it comes in?
Simply, because even if the medicine tastes bad, you know you are consuming it
for a purpose.
Well, you probably do at some points. When you’re sick you will turn to some
simple remedies. You’ll drink hot tea, make a hot soup, drink plenty of water, and
make sure to take your vitamins. That is because innately we know that food can
also act as medicine.
The problem here is that we continue to hurt our health in the pursuit of food as a
source of pleasure and ignore its health benefits. Many of us only care about
nutritious food when we are already sick.
You don’t have to wait until you’re sick to nourish your body.
WHY DO WE SABOTAGE OURSELVES WITH
UNHEALTHY FOODS
1. WE MINDLESSLY SNACK
The snack food revolution has created thousands of high calorie, low nutrient
delicious salty, sweet, spicy, etc snacks. We are bombarded with advertisements
of people laughing while enjoying these treats. These are placed on grocery
shelves with big bold lettering, bright packages, and placed strategically to
increase our chances of grabbing a few snacks.
This leads us to have a pantry full of snacks that we can grab and enjoy while we
stream some movies or TV. It seems like 1 or 2 bites but before you know it,
you’re on episode 3 and you need to refill your bowl.
We are busy. Driving to work, picking up kids, going to school, working out,
connecting with friends, etc. consumes time. We put so much effort elsewhere
that we don’t want to put effort into what we eat. We end up choosing what’s
easy and readily available.
But, how much more energy would you have if you fueled your body properly?
How much more efficient could you be at the above and more present if you
made an effort to choose what can fuel you instead of what’s within arm’s reach>
During this challenge, we will never choose what is easy. It will be uncomfortable,
as all change is. Yet, it is necessary. Think of it like this, it’s uncomfortable to get
out of bed in the morning. Would you give up your life if it meant you never had
to get out of bed? No. Accept the momentary discomfort and live the life you
choose.
3. WE USE FOOD AS A DRUG
The emotional mind has been
conditioned to respond to stress
and/or satisfy needs through the
'reward' of food.
It screams: "I sugar to feel better!"
Food can be therapy to some. It’s why so many memes exist about wine and
chocolate. You had a bad day? You deserve an unhealthy treat. You had a
good day? You celebrate with an unhealthy treat. Eventually, we are
conditioned to look for any reason to consume hyperpalatable foods to help
us deal with our current emotions.
This emotional eating can be damaging to our mind and body. We begin to
look for comfort, not in ourselves or relationships, but in our food. There is a
feedback loop that requires consumption of these foods to make sure we can
avoid processing uncomfortable emotions.
Just like anger and excitement, a craving is a feeling that will come and go -
you don't need to respond to it. It's important to be aware of these emotional
triggers and traps so you can react appropriately before it's too late. It's
evident when you're emotionally eating and when you're not. Usually, these
cravings come on quickly and are followed by upset feelings. Your mind
knows that sugar releases dopamine ( sex does the same); so its attempt to
make you feel better is by persuading you to comfort food cravings.
Instead, we want to only use food as proactive medicine during this challenge,
not a drug. You won’t consume food to escape. You’ll choose foods that
nourish you and build healthy habits that add to our mental and physical
health, rather than mask the discomfort and contribute to future discomfort.
These are your thirty days to detox from our unhealthy dependance on junk.
For example, I don't eat late at night because I'm physically hungry. I eat
because I'm bored and lonely, and I have a subconscious belief that if I eat,
I will feel less alone.
Can you see that this belief has taken me from one problem (the illusion
that I am bored and lonely) to two problems (now I'm bloated, guilt-ridden,
and pissed at myself)?
I could guess that we are in the same boat: I'd rather do the work on one
problem than try to fix two of them!
There is an old saying, “if you fail to plan you plan to fail”. This is extremely true in
regards to food preparation.
Our hunger queues can make it difficult to make proper decisions. For example,
have you ever shopped for food when you’re hungry? I am willing to bet that your
cart looks drastically more impulsive than if you shop for food when you are well
nourished.
Similarly, how can you expect to realistically go to the store, search for healthy
food, prep, and cook a meal while hungry? You are much more likely to give into
your impulses and consume one of the hundreds of unhealthy options from door
dash, uber, or down the street.
This challenge is about being present, mindful, and living with purpose. I want
you to know what you are going to eat each day and have a plan to consume
these meals. It is easier to avoid temptation when you have structure. Prepare
your meals ahead of time for these next 30 days, whether that include cooking
ahead or just having the ingredients ready, so that you can make the most of
these 30 days.
5. WE WANT SHORT TERM SATISFACTION
This is the macro reason why we often fail. Even if we are given ample reasoning
for why we should change our behaviors and know they are harming us, we are
conditioned to seek short term satisfaction. This short term release is easy and
soothing. Yet, the concept of change seems hard and, at times, impossible.
Change is uncomfortable but that isn't a bad thing. As you read earlier, change is
necessary to move forward and progress. Discomfort prevents us from falling into
a set pattern from which we will never emerge. You need to test your limits to
surpass them.
Remember when you were in school? What happened when you finished a
grade? You’d move up to more challenging courses. Eventually, you’d be too big
for your school and you’d move to a completely new school where you’re
suddenly at the bottom of the totem pole. While this change was scary and
uncomfortable, it was a necessary path to gain valuable life skills and knowledge
that led you here. Where would you be if you decided to stay in 5th grade? Well,
besides in counseling, you’d have stunted your growth and potential.
Become familiar with discomfort and be willing to forgo short term satisfaction. If
you can forgo short term satisfaction, you will graduate to long term success! Use
the thought catching technique to help you overcome the intense emotions
accompanied by cravings.
Less energy
More energy
SO, let's clean the house and build a new home with a solid foundation.
I want you to undergo a process of decluttering your mind and home at the
beginning of this challenge. Throw away your junk food and clean your cabinets.
Stock your fridge, pantry, and mind with nourishing food that will sustain you.
You can donate food or hide it somewhere where you can’t access it. The key
here is to remove temptation as you seek to create new habits and patterns. We
need a fresh start.
The first step in creating a solid nutritional foundation is determining your caloric
intake. Calories are a unit of energy that we derive from macronutrients (carbs,
fats, and proteins). Everyone has a set amount of calories that they burn
everyday. If you eat less than you burn, your body taps into its energy stores (fat,
muscle, etc) and if you eat more than you burn, your body stores the calories (fat,
muscle, etc).
You will use the Mifflin-St Jeor equation to determine the amount of calories you
burn at rest. This is known as your RMR or Resting Metabolic Rate.
Equation:
Once you find your RMR, you need to find your Total Daily Energy Expenditure or
TDEE. Your TDEE is how much you burn.
Determine your daily caloric intake by multiplying your RMR by the number
below.
Sedentary (little to no exercise + work a desk job) = 1.2
Lightly Active (light exercise 1-3 days / week) = 1.375
Moderately Active (moderate exercise 3-5 days / week) = 1.55
Very Active (heavy exercise 6-7 days / week) = 1.725
Extremely Active (very heavy exercise, hard labor job, training 2x / day) = 1.9
You will finally take your TDEE and multiply it by 0.8. This will give you your
calories for the next 30 days.
Next, you will need to find your macronutrients. These are proteins, carbs,
and fats and are what gives you energy in the form of calories.
EXAMPLE:If you weigh 150 lbs you will eat 150 grams of protein.
FATS: Multiply your calories by 0.3. Divide this number by 9. This will
give you your grams of fat for the day.
EXAMPLE: If your calorie intake for the day is 1500 calories, you will
multiply that by 0.4. This gives you 600 calories. Divide 600 by 9. You will
be eating 67 grams of fat for the day.
09 S E C T I O N N I G H T
HEBA'S
NUTRITION
GUIDE
Now that you have your calories, you will need to break them down into
macronutrients that you can use to choose the right foods for you.
PROTEIN
Consume lean proteins during this challenge. I’ve listed some lean protein
options below:
Chicken (skinless).
White Fish.
Low-fat cottage cheese.
Low-fat Greek Yogurt.
Pork (lean cuts).
Salmon.
Skim milk
Tempeh.
Tofu.
Tuna.
Turkey (white meat).
Lean meats such as roast beef and pork.
Lean ground turkey or beef.
Whey protein.
Egg whites.
CARBS
All of your carbs will come from fruits and veggies during this challenge. Fruit
juices or processed smoothies are not included. Fruits and veggies are rich in
fiber, keeping you full, reducing cholesterol, and reducing risk of disease, and
micronutrients. I’ve listed some options below on the menu.
WHAT'S ON THE MENU?
IF YOU ARE VEGAN.
You can consume complex carbs; more specifically,
grain with high fiber and protein to ensure you're
meeting your protein requirement intake.
FIBROUS
CARBS/VEGGIES FRUITS MEATS
ASPARAGUS BLUEBERRIES/RASPBERRIES CHICKEN BREAST
PINEAPPLE
GREEN BEANS
APPLES
SWEET POTATO
LETTUCE/MIXED GREENS
LEMONS
NUTS/SEEDS
PEARS
MUSHROOMS
ALMONDS, WALNUTS
ONIONS
ALMOND BUTTER
GRAINS (FOR VEGANS)
PEPPERS CASHEW BUTTER
OATS/GRITS
PUMPKIN SQUASH PUMPKIN /SUNFLOWER
COUSCOUS
BABY SPINACH HEMP SEEDS
QUINOA
TOMATO CHIA/FLAX SEEDS
WILD RICE
CORN PISTACHIOS
FARRO
BRAZILIAN NUTS
You will have 3 meals per day during this challenge. The total calories should add
up to your caloric intake. You will make break it down as follows:
MEAL 1
MEAL 2
MEAL 3
The most important aspect of your challenge is what you consume. You will design your meals
and lifestyle to nourish your mind and body. An important part of this is setting a designated
schedule.
That means that you will try to eat at the same time everyday. Forget any nutrition myths
regarding eating before bed, not eating when you wake up, etc. During these 30 days you will eat
at the same time to build a habit and a structural foundation upon which you will build your life.
Your meals will be spaced 5 hours apart to keep you fueled while building lean muscle.
Meal 1: 9:00 AM
Meal 2: 5 hours later. [Example: 2:00 PM]
Meal 3: 5 hours later. [Example: 6:00 PM]
Do your best to train your body to adhere to this schedule. This will allow you to plan for success
and ensure access to the appropriate nutrients at each time!
NUTRITION
TIPS
Choose low-sugar fruits (like berries, Use healthy oils (olive and coconut
Aim for 1 juice a day. Best in the bananas, grapefruit, pineapple, kiwis, oil) for cooking, and dressings. Limit
morning or before training pears and avocado) butter. Avoid trans fat.
Vegans: Choose whole grains high in Choose lean proteins (fish, eggs, tofu,
Get creative with your flavor profiles
& STARCHY & STARCHY
VEGGIES protein and starchy veggies
VEGGIES (oatmeal, chicken) limit red meat; avoid bacon,
using spices instead of using sauces
quinoa, sweet potato, squash) cold cuts, and other processed meats.
Make your own salad dressing. Drink lemon water + apple cider The more veggies - and the greater
My go-to: honey, balsamic
& STARCHY vinegar, & STARCHY
vinegar every morning. the variety - the better. Add veggies
VEGGIES VEGGIES
Himalayan salt, olive oil, lemon, 1 lemon, 1 tbsp APC, 16 oz water to every meal except for pre-workout
paprika meal.
Observe
You feel guilty Something Am I hungry or
and powerless happens that thirsty?
Be Aware Be Present
over food upsets you Notice feelings Let go of technology
BREAD SUBSITUTES
CREPINI'S
This is another great bread substitute. It's super
thin and can be made into little wrap or "tacos".
You can find it on their site or costco. Made from
egg whites and cauliflower
CAULIPOWER
This is another alternative, a bit thicker and vegan
friendly! You can find it in whole foods, target,
amazon and their website.
MEAL PREP
TIPS
Keep your meals consistent + simple. It's more challenging to have to keep
recalculating your meals macros on a daily. But if you follow the same meal
plan you've written out then you know it meets your macros and don't have to
keep plugging numbers (making your nutrition plan much easier to follow).
It also allows you to see which foods work for your body and which don't.
Did your meal plan show any difference with energy levels? Better sleep
patterns? Weight loss? If not, you can make small adjustments again. Allow
your metabolism to adjust to the food you're giving it.
Less meal prep work. 3 meals a day x 7 days = 24 meals. Can you imagine
how much work would have to be dedicated to making 24 different meals!
Keep it simple. Simple is sustainable.
Save money. Less ingredients to buy and less food to possibly go bad in
your fridge. Only buy what you need and definitely don't buy anything you
shouldn't eat (because you'll eat it). Out of sight, out of mind.
Cook at home/ Eat in. In addition to saving money, you'll also know what's going
into your food. You can't control how much oil, salt or junk is going into your food
when you're not the one making it. I know we're all busy, but truth be told, meal
prepping takes less time out of your week then all of your stops for food. Make it
happen :)
REPURPOSING INGREDIENTS
Find or create recipes that have overlapping base ingredients to help you
save money. You can easily do this by visiting my recipes because I do
this often! Use the items you buy at bulk for breakfast, lunch and dinner.
For example one week you can plan to use veggies for a fajita salad or
bowl while also using these ingredients for a fajita omelette or breakfast
burrito . That way you're chopping up all your veggies once and making
use of them in several meals each day. Get creative!
Take all your extra vegetables and store them in the freezer for
future meals like a stew or soup - these are great options for
this season!
If I still find that I have extra veggies such as kale or spinach, I'll
freeze them and use for smoothies/juices.
This same concept can be applied with fruits. If you live alone,
chances are you're not consuming fruits in bulk. So, you can do
what I do and throw them in the freezer before they're on their
way out.
Sunday
Monday
Tuesday
Wednesday
Thursday
Friday
Saturday
EVOLVE CHALLENGE
10 S E C T I O N T E N
THE PHYSICAL
CHALLENGE
OBJECTIVES, WORKOUT
CALENDAR, TRAINING
BREAKDOWN, DEMO VIDEOS,
"The fear of suffering is worse than
the suffering itself"
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get th
evolve attitude
ADAPT TO ALL CONDITIONS.
It's amazing how we each have our own resiliency and ability to recover from, or
adapt to change when we believe in our hidden potential. When you live by the
evolve standards, you naturally embrace an evolve attitude. One that is unstoppable
with an unmatchable energy. Where errors are no longer perceived as failures but
rather as stepping stones to take us to the next level, where we belong. Keep
climbing the ladder with FULL confidence in your capabilities.
This challenge is here to push you - show up every day with your A game, ready to
do what it takes to LEVEL UP.
Use everything you've learned about your mind to break out of your limitations and
set the bar higher- beating your best, every week. It's GO TIME BABY!
CONSISTENCY
PHYSICAL STRENGTH MENTAL GRIT
IMPROVE STAMINA, SHOW UP EVERYDAY.
CONDITION AN
STABILITY AND OVERALL DON'T GIVE YOURSELF
AN OPTION. 30 DAYS, UNBREAKABLE MINDSET.
STRENGTH.
NO EXCUSES.
On Day One, you will take a benchmark of your mile time. Use your Apple watch or
MapMyRun App to track your distance and time. Each week you should see your time
dropping, but if it doesn't - DON'T get discouraged and trust the process. However, on
Day 30 there should be a great amount of progress made.
Given that the context of every individual has to be taken into account, putting strength
into words is almost impossible. Therefore, we subdivide strength into the three main
pillars:
1. Maximum power
2. Strength endurance
3. High-speed power
Maximum power
Your maximum power represents the highest possible strength with which your
muscles can still perform. This basically means your one repetition maximum (1RM) at
any exercise. For instance, athletes like “strongman” need high maximum strength. For
every athlete, the 1RM at any exercise can differ. For some a pushup or pullup might
already be a 1RM – whereas for others, they can perform multiple repetitions in a row.
So, the maximum strength always depends on an individual’s condition.
Strength endurance
Strength endurance is defined as “the resilience towards loads of more than 30% of
your 1RM”. Training your strength endurance means that you perform multiple
repetitions with 30% of your 1RM, so usually more than 20. What’s also important is
that the stress period on your muscles lasts between 45 and 60 seconds (time under
tension) when you perform more than 25 reps.
High-speed power
This type of strength implies the ability to move the body or any part of the body (legs,
arms etc.) as well as any subject, as fast as possible, with maximum speed. High-speed
power always “cooperates” with maximum strength. Sprinters, for example, have a lot
of high-speed power as well as maximum strength.
STRENGTH TRAINING
AKA RESISTANCE TRAINING
STRENGTH TRAINING HELPS IMPROVE MANY ASPECTS OF YOUR RUNNING, INCLUDING:
POWER
SPEED
ENDURANCE
BALANCE
INJURY PREVENTION
Weights are optional for beginners. But necessary for intermediate & advanced. Also,
KEY factor for effective strength training is CONTROLLED and CONSCIOUS training; in
others word, be present while training and focus on MIND-MUSCLE CONNECTION.
Resistance Bands are amazing for all fitness levels and highly
recommended. If you don't have a good quality band that doesn't roll
up, click here to get your evolve nation bands. The bundle comes with 3
different levels, so you can use them in many ways. MEN ALSO HAVE
RESISTANCE TO PRIORTIZE THE USE RESISTANCE BANDS.
BANDS
Controlling the pace of your reps is a big one. Especially the 'eccentric'
movement. Eccentric contraction refers to any movement that
lengthens a muscle at the same time it is being contracted. For
example, as you lower your body in a push up, that lengthening
movement would be considered eccentric. Effective strength training
CONTROLLED
is CONTROLLED and CONSCIOUS; in others word, be present while
REPS training and focus on MIND-MUSCLE CONNECTION.
In general, endurance is defined as the ability to physically and mentally be able to resist
fatigue under sports activity. But similar to “strength”, when defining “endurance” it must
also be subdivided into three different parts. This time with regards to the time period
your body is put under physical strain.
1. Short-term endurance
2. Mid-term endurance
3. Long-term endurance
Short-term endurance
Short-term endurance is associated with high levels of activity of the brain and high
recruitment of fast twitch muscle fibers. The goal here is to have the ability to sustain
speed during high intensity training that has a duration of 35 s to 2 min.
Mid-term endurance
The ability to sustain a strenuous activity which has a duration of 2–10 min.The
energy for the activities is supplied by both anaerobic and aerobic energy systems.
Interval Training is a prime example for this type of endurance training.
Long-term endurance
These types of activities last over 10 minutes, requiring an aerobic energy supply with
less intensity and speed. The goal here is to condition your slow twitch muscle fibers.
Long walks, cycling, hiking, etc are all examples.
Keep in mind that with increasing time under physical strain, the intensity decreases. For
example, when doing burpees or sprints you will not be able to sustain maximum speed
for more than a couple of minutes. Whereas with lower intensity (lower heart rate) and
moderate to slow pace, this is increased.
OUR FOCUS FOR THE EVOLVE
CHALLENGE IS STRENGTH ENDURANCE
STRENGTH WORKOUTS
In this program, there will be 5 strength training workouts. Kept low impact
(no jumping) so you can focus on pushing the intensity in your runs. These
workouts require weights or the use of some form of resistance. If you are
limited, then you can follow the workouts bodyweight and modify along the
way.
For men, you want to above 20 lbs for upper body and 40 lbs for lower body.
For women, anywhere from 5-15 lbs for ubber body and 20 lbs or > for lower
body.
Remember, we want to control the tempo of each rep; this alone will increase
the resistance. Put the ego aside and lift mindfully. If you can go heavier with
proper form. and control, GO FOR IT.
ADDING INTERVAL & TEMPO RUNS
Interval and tempo training are going to increase your level of fitness faster than
pretty much any other type of running. The beginners running plan is entirely
based around tempo/interval running.
Intervals differ from tempo runs mainly because you will have a break between
each repetition. Another difference is that your pace during intervals should be
faster than your tempo run/
WHAT TO DO IN-
BETWEEN INTERVALS
Standing: This alleviates stress and impact between short, fast reps when you’re
building speed and strength. Avoid dropping your hands to your knees, as this
could cause light-headedness. (You would ONLY follow this after a sprint)
Walking: Beginners will do this– it brings your heart rate down but, crucially,
keeps blood flowing to clear waste products.
Jogging: It keeps your heart rate elevated, extends the distance of your workout
and simulates late-race fatigue. It is good recovery for most workouts carried out
at less than all-out effort.
TEMPO RUNS
Tempo runs are one of those running workouts that every runner should really be doing; they’re a
moderate-to-hard intensity training run, designed to make you a faster and stronger runner.
During these 20-40 minute runs, you're aiming for a 6-8 effort out of 10.
After doing your dynamic warm-up and a brisk run to get loosened up, it’s time to get your game
on. Finding the right tempo pace might take a little bit of experimenting, but you'll start to find
that pace. Avoid running fast in the beginning even if you have the energy, you want to be able
to complete the whole run without stopping (that is the goal). However, if you find it extremely
hard, you can slow down into a jog or a speed walk for no more than 3 minutes at a time.
Tempo runs will help you develop the mental toughness and stamina needed to push yourself
during a timed mile run.
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
PROGRAM STRUCTURE
Depending on your fitness level, each day you will walk, jog or run
the mile. Stay out. of your comfort zone; when you get tired, slow
down into a speed walk or jog - but keep going.
The workouts are designed for males and females. Based on your
fitness level you can choose adjust the intensity by increasing
weight, reducing rest period and altering the tempo.
2 Mins Steady Run 5 Mins Steady Run 6 Mins Steady Run Run 1 mile
SUN 1 Min Walk 1 minute jog 30 sec jog [slow down if
Repat for 1 mile Repat for 1 mile Repat for 1 mile needed, but keep
steady pace]
2 Mins Steady Run 5 Mins Steady Run 6 Mins Steady Run Run 1 mile
MON 1 Min Walk 1 minute jog 30 sec jog [slow down if
Repat for 1 mile Repat for 1 mile Repat for 1 mile needed, but keep
steady pace]
3 Mins Steady Run 5 Mins Steady Run 6 Mins Steady Run Run 1 mile
1 Mins Walk 1 minute jog 30 sec jog [slow down if
WED Repat for 1 mile needed, but keep
Repat for 1 mile Repat for 1 mile
steady pace]
Run 1 mile
4 Mins Steady Run 5 Mins Steady Run 6 Mins Steady Run [slow down if
SAT 1 Min Walk 1 minute jog 30 sec jog needed, but keep
Repat for 1 mile Repat for 1 mile Repat for 1 mile steady pace]
EVOLVE NATION "If you can't run, walk. If you can't walk, crawl. But never stop"
SHIN SPLITS
Shin splints are symptoms of pain in the front of your lower
leg and at times along the inside of the lower leg, next to the
shin bone (tibia). Follow these tips to keep your legs strong
and healthy!
Foam roll your calves lightly and stretch the calf muscles 2-3 x /day
Ice immediately after a run for 20 minutes 2x a day
Use compression sleeves when you run
Run on softer surfaces like grass or a track (avoid the treadmill)
Stretch the bottom of the foot along with your posterior chain muscles
(back, hips, glutes, hamstrings, calves)
Reflexology massages can help release tension/knots in your feet (don't
run after a reflexology massage, so plan accordingly)
NOTES
Logging your workouts will show you where you have or have not progressed.
This is a must for running, log every run, distance, time, intensity, and
performance rating. Put your focus on the areas that need more attention and
celebrate the progress you've made!
Did you do the same amount of push-ups or more this week compared to
the last?
TRAIN SMART:
1 2 3 4
BACK TO CORE FULL BODY
TEMPO
BASICS STABILITY STRENGTH
RUN
+ RUN + RUN + RUN
5 6 7 8 9 10 11
SORE, CORE+ BACK TO SORE, FULL BODY
HITTIN IT TEMPO
NOT SORRY ARMS + BASICS NOT SORRY STRENGTH
HARD + RUN RUN
(REST DAY) RUN + RUN (REST DAY) + RUN
12 13 14 15 16 17 18
CORE BACK TO CORE+ SORE, FULL BODY
HITTIN IT TEMPO
STABILITY BASICS ARMS + NOT SORRY STRENGTH
HARD + RUN RUN
+ RUN + RUN RUN (REST DAY) + RUN
19 20 21 22 23 24 25
CORE BACK TO CORE+ SORE, FULL BODY
TEMPO HITTIN IT
STABILITY BASICS ARMS + NOT SORRY STRENGTH
RUN HARD + RUN
+ RUN + RUN RUN (REST DAY) + RUN
26 27 28 29 30
SORE, CORE BACK TO CORE+
TEMPO
NOT SORRY STABILITY BASICS ARMS +
RUN
(REST DAY) + RUN + RUN RUN
Weekly Schedule
If you're feeling super sore in
I joined this challenge because EVERY LIVE WILL week one, do more mobility
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RUN YOUR
BEST
You can watch each demo
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BEST 10 EXERCISES under the exercise name.
TO DO BEFORE RUNNING
Leg Swings Windwills
Complete 10 swings on each side Complete 30 seconds alternating
- both lateral swings and forward from one side to the other. Feet
swings. Keep your core braced position should be wide but
and shoulders pulled back. comfortable.
COOL DOWN
Recommended: 10-15 minutes
Complete 20 seconds.
Complete 15 reps.
Your back will want to arch. Focus
Your upper body and knees
on closing the gap between your
should be driving in together at
back and the ground.The higher your
the same time.
legs, the easier the exercise is.
Complete 20 seconds.
Complete 30 seconds. Your back will want to arch. Focus
This is a great coordination exercise, on closing the gap between your
teaching your arms and legs to work back and the ground.The higher your
in sync. Full range please! legs, the easier the exercise is.
HITTIN IT HARD WANT SPEED? WANT POWER? WANT STRENGTH?
WANT MENTAL GRIT?
Complete 10 reps.
Complete 10 reps total. Following 3-2-0 tempo. 3
If you need to take a break, do so seconds down, pause for 2
- but get right back in it. second then push back up.
Condition the mind!
STATIC STRETCHING
BREATH-WORK