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7–8 years old: Emotional

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Emotional development allows children to understand, express, and manage their emotions as
they grow. Children also develop the ability to recognize and interpret the emotions of others,
which helps them build relationships with those around them.
 Emotional development: 7–8 years old
 How can you help your child progress?

Emotional development: 7–8years old

At this age:
 Your child can distinguish between a variety of related emotions, such as
disappointment and sadness, joy and pride, and anger and jealousy.
 They use more complex strategies to cope with emotional situations, such as looking for
solutions to solve a problem, making compromises to resolve a conflict, or walking away
if they feel less in control.
 They are able to understand an emotional situation by considering it from different
angles. For example, if someone is sad, your child is able to use their observations or
what they know about the person or situation to understand what’s happening.
Remember that not all children develop the same skills at the same speed. The material on this
website is for general information purposes only. If you’re concerned about your child’s
development, speak with a doctor.
 Your child understands that people can have different emotional responses to the same
situation. For example, they know that while some children jump for joy when they see
a dog, others might be afraid and back away.
 They understand social norms and know how best to express their emotions based on
the situation they’re in. They attempt to conform to social norms in order to gain
acceptance from others.
 They understand when the adults around them can’t respond to their requests
immediately. They can wait more calmly and patiently than before.
 They want to be loved and accepted and are increasingly aware of what others think of
them.
 They have a more realistic understanding of their abilities. Thanks to their developing
self-esteem, they have better control over how they react to mistakes or failures.
 Their understanding of the notion of good and bad continues to improve. They can
explain why a word or action is or is not acceptable.
Little by little, your child is beginning to do the following:
  Assume more responsibility for their actions and feel guilty when they know they are in
the wrong.
 Mask their emotions to fit situational expectations. For example, they can hide their
disappointment when their grandmother gives them a present they don’t really like, so
as not to hurt her feelings.
 Become used to the idea that they can simultaneously feel contradictory emotions
toward the same person, such as feeling angry with someone they love.
 Affirm their identity through their values, beliefs, and personality.
 Develop their moral compass as they become more engaged with the notions of justice
and injustice.
 Worry about life events, such as the death of a loved one, being rejected by their
friends, or unforeseeable situations such as war, fire, accidents, and natural disasters.

How can you help your child progress?

Your child is unique and will develop at their own pace. They have strengths and weaknesses
and are becoming increasingly self-aware. You can support your child’s emotional development
with these simple everyday actions:
When you tell your child what you observe about they see that you care about their
their behaviour, such as: "You’ve been avoiding me feelings. They also become more aware
and averting your gaze since you came home from of body language and how it can be used
school. Did something happen?” to decode other people’s emotions.
When you ask your child to describe their strengths, they develop a good sense of self-
talents, tastes, and interests, awareness. They understand that their
interests are important.
When you let your child do things at their own they learn that they don’t have to go
speed—for example, when rather than forcing them through difficult emotional situations
to confront something they fear too quickly, you alone.
encourage them to deal with it step by step—
When you support your child when they fail, or help they gain more control over their
them become aware of their mistakes, emotions and realize that it’s possible to
overcome setbacks.
When you help your child find concrete ways to they feel loved, see that their goals
accomplish something they care about, matter, and learn to persevere to achieve
an objective.
When you give your child responsibilities, they gain autonomy and become more
involved in family life.
When you suggest various scenarios for dealing they feel understood. They learn to
with a situation your child is afraid of, manage stressful situations by exploring
what might happen and how they could
react.
When you ask your child to find an activity on their they increase their tolerance for delays
own while waiting for you to become available, and develop their creativity.
When you plan a vacation or birthday party with they learn to express their ideas and
your child, preferences, anticipate events, and look
 forward to them!

Scientific review: Chloé Gaumont, M.Sc., psychoeducator

Research and copywriting: The Naître et grandir team
Updated: January 2022

Photo: iStock.com/Wavebreak

Sources
Please note that hyperlinks to other websites are not updated regularly, and some may have changed since
publication. It is therefore possible that a link may not be found. If a link is no longer valid, use search
engines to find the relevant information.
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CHU Sainte-Justine, 2018, 264 pp.

 Gross, James J., et al. Handbook of Emotion Regulation. 2nd ed., Guilford Press, 2015, 669 pp.

 “Nos émotions.” emotion.ca

 Passeport Santé. “L’enfant de 5 ans : qu’est-ce qui change à cet âge?”

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 Shaffer, David, et al. Developmental Psychology: Infancy and Childhood. 5th ed., Quebec,
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 Sunderland, Margot. The Science of Parenting: How Today’s Brain Research Can Help You
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