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From Pain To Bliss 2nd Edition
From Pain To Bliss 2nd Edition
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Paramahamsa Sri Nithyananda Swamigal is a truly revolutionary
spiritual master of our century.
Swamiji embarked upon his spiritual journey at a very young age. He
traversed the length and breadth of India on foot, studying with great
masters in India and Nepal and practising intense tapasya with
extraordinary vigour. He experienced the final flowering of consciousness
on 1st January, 2000 - the sacred day of his Enlightenment.
With a pragmatic yet compassionate approach to life and spirituality,
and an enlightened insight into the core of human nature, Swamiji
has reached out to touch millions of hearts across the world.
Swamiji’s mission is simple - to awaken the divinity that lies latent
in man. To this end, he inaugurated the worldwide movement for
meditation - Dhyana Peetam - on 1st January, 2003. With its
spiritual nerve centre in Bidadi (near Bangalore in India) and over
100 centres around the world, Dhyana Peetam works towards the
transformation of humanity through the inner transformation of the
individual. Swamiji’s divine healing powers and simple, practical
meditation techniques help you blossom in every sphere of life - be
it physical, emotional, intellectual or spiritual.
The most frightening thing in the world is Pain.
that we are not fully alive in every cell, every limb. Even in our
minds, we make this distinction. The upper limbs are the masters,
the lower limbs the servants. When you create this separation,
even unknowingly, your energy or life force is channeled only to
those body parts that you focus on. Just touch your cheek.
Doesn’t it feel sensitive, alive? Now touch your foot. Does it feel
the same? Notice that you are not as alive in your foot as in your
cheek. Why is that? Though hard to believe, it is due to your lack
of attention to that part.
In much the same way, we too invite pain and disease upon
ourselves with our immoderate habits and stressful lifestyles –
and then forget all about it and complain later when disease
takes its toll.
This is not a wonder, for in the hectic pace of today’s life, who
has the time to pay attention to anyone else, unless they fall ill?
Attention is such a basic need! Psychology proves that normally
a man can stay alive without food for upto 90 days, but without
the attention of others he will lose his sanity in just 14 days.
Because attention is energy, it is a life-force. Though we are
unaware of it, the craving for attention is so great that to gain
it we create our own low-energy pool, and gladly suffer from
everything from cold to cancer.
This may sound funny, but it’s true: we live our lives in
much the same way. Through our lack of awareness, we first
invite pain upon ourselves, and then complain abut it and
resort to painkillers. And the truly shameful thing is, we
don’t even mind getting afflicted by the same disease again
and again – because we don’t identify ourselves as the root
cause of the problem. We throw the responsibility for the
pain on others, never on ourselves.
can try it out the next time you experience pain (e.g. leg pain).
It is definitely a better option to painkillers, whose side-effects
sometimes prove worse that the original complaint!
are the same, it’s the same sensation with two names. If you’ve ever
received a good massage from a friend or a professional, you’ll
realise that the same massage would seem like sheer physical
violence if you receive it at the hands of a stranger!
A short story:
Pain
Two men, one a gnani (enlightened person) and
can be a
the other a haughty landowner, are traveling
valuable
through a forest in the dark. Suddenly a shaft
lesson!
of lightning flashes in the sky. This leaves the
landowner trembling in fear of the impending
storm. On the other hand, the gnani uses uses the moment to
take a better look at the road ahead and ascertain that he’s
traveling in the right direction.
Pain is like this flash of lightning. Whether you use this pain,
or get used by it, is up to you. If you use it to look into your
being, you will realize that you are the cause of your own pain,
and only you can be the solution.
When you observe your pain deeply, an innocence opens up in
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you. For the first time, you become aware that you are not the
body. No pain can touch the real You. Once you realize that
you are beyond pain, you transcend pain to become a Dukkha
Ateeta (one who has gone beyond suffering). You experience
the rare freedom that arises with non-attachment to the body
which you carry all your life. You transcend your mundane life
and are transported to a spiritual plane. You then exist in the
world as an Atman, an enlightened master. The whole material
world disappears and another world arises – of incomparable
beauty, innocence, joy and compassion.
As the Gita says:
“Sama dukkha sukha swastha sama loshtaashma kaanchana
Tulya priyaapriyo dheerasthulya nindaatma samstuti”
(“He who is ever established in the Self, takes woe and joy alike,
regards a clod of earth, a stone and a piece of gold equal in value, is
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space and time away from you, isn’t it! You try to do the right
thing - by ‘giving freedom’ to your lover - but when she
actually uses that freedom, you end up feeling exploited. Honestly,
you never expected that she would never use that freedom to
do her own thing, or to be with someone else, did you?
Don’t make the mistake of generalising: ‘Every time I give
freedom in my relationships, I get used.’ Are you sure the fault
is not yours as well? The reason that love usually brings with
it so much pain is that lovers unknowingly force each other into
the golden cage of their own expectations. But true love can
never blossom in captivity. You try and imprison your lover,
and she does the same, time after time - till you end up feeling
that love is so much misery that perhapsit is better not to love
at all. But once you close yourself to Love, what is left?
Love can be a door to joy and freedom, or it can become a
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When do you undergo suffering? When you fall ill? When your
neighbour gets a new car? When your boyfriend / girlfriend leaves
you for someone else?
Well, suppose you decided to just accept these situations without
anger or resentment. Just as they are, so be it. Would you still
suffer as much? After all, there is nothing inherently painful
about your neighbour getting a new car. Even if there is pain
in the moment, as when a loved one leaves, you cannot wish it
away. Try to accept the inevitability of the moment, without
reaction. It is ONLY your negative response to an experience
that allows it to hurt you. Don’t you see, no one or nothing can
make you suffer without your silent permission?
Make a habit of witnessing experiences minus your personal
judgement. Learn to recognise with clarity the causes of your
suffering - the obvious and the subtle. The ability to do this will
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