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Roadmap of Peace: The Power of Repentance and Restoration in Conflict Resolution.
Roadmap of Peace: The Power of Repentance and Restoration in Conflict Resolution.
Roadmap of Peace: The Power of Repentance and Restoration in Conflict Resolution.
FUNDAMENTAL CHALLENGES:
Addressing Core Issues
PATHWAYS TO PEACE:
Embracing Repentance and Restoration
ROADMAP OF PEACE:
THE POWER OF REPENTANCE AND
RESTORATION IN CONFLICT RESOLUTION
Author:
Dr Avitus Leonard
Founding President
Dei Institute
Online University (DIOU)
ABSTRACT
The goal of justice and fairness often takes centre stage in debates about conflict resolution, which is a
complex process. The tremendous impact of repentance and restoration, however, is frequently missed
in the middle of this emphasis. The goal of this study is to shed light on the transformative potential that
these concepts have when given priority in organizational contexts. It explores the complex dynamics
of incorporating repentance and restoration into the structure of conflict resolution procedures by
looking at actual situations and relying on theoretical understanding. Through an exploration of case
studies and theoretical frameworks, this research elucidates how prioritizing repentance and
restoration can lead to more sustainable peace. It highlights the nuanced interplay between empathy,
compassion, and reconciliation, emphasizing their pivotal role in resolving conflicts at a deeper level.
By embracing these principles, organizations can navigate disputes with greater understanding and
empathy, facilitating more holistic resolutions that address underlying tensions and grievances.
Furthermore, this study calls for a paradigm shift in conflict resolution processes, pushing stakeholders
to acknowledge the transforming power of repentance and restoration. Organizations can promote
healing, re-establish trust, and eventually clear the path for lasting harmony by taking a more
compassionate and empathic position. Considering reconciliation's ability to spark constructive change
and foster long-lasting peace within organizational contexts, this research emphasizes the significance
of accepting restoration as the cornerstone of conflict resolution initiatives.
KEY WORDS:
Conflict resolution, repentance, restoration, dispute resolution, organizational settings, transformative
impact, reconciliation, empathy, compassion, sustainable peace, justice, fairness, holistic resolutions,
transformative potential, paradigm shift, empathetic approach, reconciliation processes, conflict
management, transformative justice, healing, understanding.
INTRODUCTION
When Paul sent Joseph of Arimathea to in society when religious institutions or a
England, he founded the first church at communities try to operate outside the true
Glastonbury. Unfortunately, today, that nature of their designs. In the nineteenth
same locale is the seedbed for a rejection of century, religion shaped the fundamental
Christianity and a search for transformative worldview of Western culture. However, it
values. This can be the source of conflicts wasn't that religion ceased to be present in
the culture; rather, it ceased to have a while restoration focuses on reconciliation
shaping effect on it. People didn't stop and rebuilding trust among conflicting
believing in God, but this belief ceased to parties. By prioritizing these principles in
have much practical effect on life. We've the peace process, stakeholders can address
seen that religion has been a part of the root causes of the conflict and pave the
conflicts within society. Repentance leads way for a future defined by harmony,
people to sacrifice their interests for the justice, and coexistence. Given that the
benefit of others, and restoration brings Israeli-Palestinian conflict is one of the
happiness knowing that you're on good most protracted and contentious conflicts in
terms with your brothers and sisters. This modern history, with deep-seated
'Roadmap of Peace' presents two valuable grievances on both sides, embracing these
terminologies that should be used in any principles becomes even more imperative.
conflict resolution: healing communities Decades of violence, displacement, and
produce healing generations. We must aim failed peace proposals have left severe scars
to create a healing society, one that believes on the collective conscience of both Israelis
everyone is made in the real image of God. and Palestinians. In this complex and varied
When you mistreat your brothers and struggle, finding a way to peace takes more
sisters, you're mistreating the image of God. than simply political conversations and
We've witnessed significant failures of security measures. It necessitates a
religious institutions in the Western world, fundamental transformation in mindset and
where they've lost credibility and strategy, one that recognizes the humanity
sometimes become part of the problems. As and dignity of all parties involved.
a result, people have sought alternatives to
reshape their beliefs. Repentance is a key principle that can help
break the cycle of violence and mistrust that
The case study suggests that the roadmap has characterized the Israeli-Palestinian
for peace in the Middle East should be conflict. It involves a sincere
anchored in the principles of repentance acknowledgment of past wrongs and a
and restoration. These principles are genuine commitment to rectify them. For
deemed crucial for achieving genuine and Israelis, this may mean acknowledging the
lasting peace in the region, especially dispossession and displacement of
concerning the Israel-Palestinian conflict. Palestinians during the creation of the state
Repentance entails acknowledging past of Israel and the ongoing occupation of
wrongs and committing to rectify them, Palestinian territories. For Palestinians, it
may involve recognizing the suffering and sacrifices on both sides. However, the
trauma experienced by Jewish communities alternative – continued violence, suffering,
throughout history, including the and division – is simply not sustainable. In
Holocaust. By acknowledging these past the realm of resolving conflicts, the
wrongs and committing to redress them, roadmap to peace often appears elusive and
both sides can begin to build a foundation complex. There is a beacon of hope: the
of trust and understanding. Restoration is transformative potential of repentance and
equally important in the pursuit of peace. It restoration. These principles, rooted in
involves the process of reconciliation and humility, accountability, and reconciliation,
rebuilding relationships that have been offer a pathway towards genuine healing
damaged by conflict. This can take many and enduring harmony. Through this case
forms, including dialogue between Israeli study will explores the profound impact of
and Palestinian leaders, grassroots peace- repentance and restoration in conflict
building initiatives, and efforts to promote resolution, illustrating how they can
mutual understanding and coexistence. One transcend entrenched hostilities and lay the
example of restoration in action is the work groundwork for sustainable peace.
of organizations such as the Parents Circle- Repentance, as a courageous act, involves
Families Forum, which brings together acknowledging past wrongs and assuming
Israelis and Palestinians who have lost responsibility for them. It necessitates
loved ones to the conflict to foster individuals and communities to confront
reconciliation and promote peace. their actions with humility and
accountability, leading to genuine remorse
By entering the roadmap for peace around and a commitment to change. By
the principles of repentance and restoration, recognizing past injustices, repentance
stakeholders can address the underlying becomes a catalyst for reconciliation,
causes of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict and fostering understanding and empathy
work towards a just and lasting resolution. between conflicting parties. Repentance
This approach recognizes that peace cannot also plays a vital role in breaking down
be imposed from the outside but must be barriers of resentment and animosity. When
built from the ground up through genuine parties involved in conflicts admit their
dialogue, mutual respect, and a mistakes and express sincere remorse, it
commitment to justice. It also creates opportunities for healing and
acknowledges that achieving peace will forgiveness. Moreover, repentance
require difficult compromises and painful contributes to rebuilding trust, which is
often fractured in the aftermath of conflict. Furthermore, restoration serves as a bridge
By demonstrating a genuine desire to between conflicting parties, facilitating
change, parties can start rebuilding trust and dialogue and cooperation. Engaging in joint
fostering reconciliation. Complementing initiatives aimed at addressing common
repentance is the principle of restoration, challenges allows parties to develop a sense
which focuses on rebuilding trust and of common purpose and forge meaningful
relationships damaged by conflict. connections. This collaborative approach
Restoration entails tangible actions aimed not only fosters reconciliation but also lays
at addressing the root causes of discord and the groundwork for long-term cooperation
fostering collaboration and coexistence. and coexistence. Repentance and
Through restoration efforts, communities restoration provide a roadmap for healing
can heal from the wounds of division and the scars of conflict and paving paths to
find strength in unity and shared purpose. harmony. They challenge entrenched
Restoration encompasses various activities, narratives of animosity and revenge,
including economic development envisioning a future characterized by
initiatives and cultural exchange programs. mutual respect and dignity. By centering
These endeavours aim to address the peace process around these principles,
underlying grievances and create stakeholders can transcend the cycles of
opportunities for collaboration and mutual violence and build a foundation for
understanding. By investing in restoration, sustainable peace.
stakeholders can create an environment
conducive to sustainable peace.
build trust, and create a more peaceful or previous toxic relationships, you may
assume that every argument will end badly. understand/think" often signal unhealthy
You might perceive disagreement as conflict behaviour. Understanding conflict,
humiliating, disheartening, or even becoming accustomed to it, and managing
terrifying. If your early experiences left you it in a way that keeps it apart from your
feeling helpless or out of control, conflict ingrained prejudices are prerequisites for
might even be traumatic for you. Physical finding conflict resolutions. Conflict
manifestations of conflict anxiety are resolution does not come easily. Sometimes
possible. Feeling intimidated can make it it calls for a time-out, allowing your
challenging to approach a conflict situation adrenaline and cortisol levels to drop, and
productively. You're more likely to shut coming back to the problem later. And
down or lose control in a fit of rage. when you do get conflict resolution right,
Conflict can trigger hurt feelings, make sure you reflect on the process,
disappointment, and discomfort, as it stirs celebrate it, and bank it for the next time
up powerful emotions. When handled you’re faced with a conflict situation.
unhealthily, it can lead to irreparable rifts,
Also, the term "restoration" means
resentments, and breakups. But when
rejuvenation, returning something back to
conflict is handled well, it improves mutual
its original state, etc. When problems are
understanding, fosters trust, and enhances
resolved, many people don't change at all.
relationships. If you are emotionally
Any resolution to a dispute should focus on
disconnected from yourself or under
restoring your brothers and sisters. Since
significant stress, you may struggle to
the conclusion of the Cold War, there has
recognize your own needs and articulate
been an increase in the number of apologies
your concerns to others. For instance,
and gestures of forgiveness around the
instead of addressing the underlying issue,
world. The battle more accurately captures
couples often argue about trivial matters
the philosophy and methods of the new
like how she hangs the towels or how he
century. The ability to restore as a conflict
slurps his soup. When a conflict becomes
resolution tool has helped people come to
person-focused rather than task-focused,
grips with their unpleasant pasts, modifying
things might go wrong. This shift is evident
the rules that govern the power dynamics
when someone begins blaming others or
between brothers and sisters. However,
putting the other person they are at odds
many realists would find it challenging to
with on the defensive, assigning negative
agree on the application of ideas and beliefs
traits to them. Phrases like "You don't
that are consistently important in the
listen," "You constantly...", and "Can't you
personal and spiritual domain of politics. relationships, and in so doing,
Restoration helps in the representation of reconstructing their identities, which results
the personal, private, and spiritual. in the restoration of the humanity of both.
Restorative justice approaches, such as Religion is a dominant and complex factor
criminal justice reforms and victim- in world affairs. It can be a powerful driver
offender mediation, sometimes rely on of violent conflict, stoking prejudice,
aboriginal justice. Some even consider this legitimating violence, and mobilizing
an opportunity for social healing and communities into war. However, religious
national self-reflection. In other words, ideas, actors, and institutions also serve as
resolutions that were previously dismissed incredible resources and motivation for
as ineffective in the field of conflict peacebuilding, inspiring people to
resolution during the technical phase of courageous and transformative acts of
rational problem-solving have now peace. Positive Peace represents an
emerged as significant issues. So, conflict ambitious and forward-looking
resolution must deal with restoration that conceptualization of peace that moves
can help resolve their disagreements, often beyond conflict and violence. Well-
emanating from mutually incompatible developed Positive Peace represents the
goals. Such disagreements entail not only capacity for a society to thrive. It creates
fights but also negative emotions that better economic and societal outcomes as
persist. The resolution of conflicts through well as lessens the number of grievances
various rational strategies such as and the levels of violence associated with
negotiations, mediation, and facilitation them. Positive Peace is empirically derived
might yield positive outcomes, but conflict through quantitative analysis. There are few
resolution focused solely on the issues that known empirical and quantitative
give rise to conflict cannot often address the frameworks available to analyse Positive
rupture in human relations that takes place. Peace. Historically, it has largely been
Failure to deal with this rupture might understood qualitatively and based on
increase the likelihood of future conflict. idealistic concepts of a peaceful society.
Instead, the Positive Peace framework is
Hence, restoration can play a role in
based on the quantitatively identifiable
conflict resolution when the parties accept
common characteristics of the world's most
that the conflict is a relational phenomenon
peaceful countries. An important aspect of
and is the result of failed interaction, that
this approach is to avoid value judgment
both sides have a role in reconstructing the
and allow statistical analysis to explain the
key drivers of peace. Conflict resolution to the past and the present while constantly
provides the opportunity to negotiate or keeping an eye on the future. Most of the
renegotiate to improve mutual outcomes, literature on conflict resolution likewise
and as such can be constructive, provided it emphasized nonviolent methods for
is nonviolent. Human beings encounter resolving disputes rather than violence as a
conflict regularly – whether at home, at primary means of settlement. This case
work, among friends, or on a more systemic study is aware that if the fundamental
level between ethnic, religious, or political problems are resolved and you can restore
groups. But most of these conflicts do not your brother or sister back to health,
result in violence. Positive Peace can recollections of past injuries are typically
instruct us to build and reinforce the assumed to disappear. It is now generally
attitudes, institutions, and structures that accepted that communities that have
either pre-empt conflict or help societies suffered from major acts of violence,
channel disagreements productively. Most whether they come from other identity
of the time, individuals and groups can groups or an ethnically divided state, cannot
resolve their differences without resorting establish lasting peace without a social
to violence. There are aspects of society healing process. And the restoration
that enable this, such as attitudes that process is inextricably connected to the
discourage violence or legal structures social healing process. Without repentance
designed to reconcile grievances. The and restoration in our society's conflicts,
Positive Peace framework draws out the social healing might be a major issue or
aspects of societies that prevent these never occur.
breakdowns, based on their statistical
association with the absence of violence. Transformative Oversight:
Embracing Repentance and
Early post-Second World War peace Restoration
models were more frequently based on
The problems occurring in our communities
visionary plans, in which bringing up
cannot be resolved solely by worldwide
unpleasant memories of the past is
apology campaigns. True resolution
discouraged. Restoration helps in
requires a fundamental change in our hearts
beginning in the present and imagining the
and minds, with repentance and restoration
future. The future is the goal, while the
at the forefront. Every culture faces various
present is viewed as a tool for moving
issues that lead to discord among its people.
forward. Restoration connects itself equally
It's essential to address these underlying predominant focus on reaching seemingly
problems to foster harmony and unity in the win-win agreements, often neglecting the
future. The world needs collective efforts to restoration of relationships. Engaging in
create solutions that address the cultural conflict resolution entails delving into the
challenges we face. In African countries, internal world of individuals—their
many cultures are undergoing the healing understandings, anxieties, hopes,
process. It's crucial to remember that perceptions, and interpretations of
forgiveness is accompanied by contrition. relationships. It is not merely about
Societies may experience various forms of superficial solutions but about addressing
conflict if leaders and individuals fail to fundamental issues. Relationships play a
cooperate or take action to restore harmony crucial role in peacebuilding as they
among their people. Hatred and the pursuit provide the context in which cycles of
of vengeance can consume individuals, violence occur and offer a pathway to
hindering the possibility of reconciliation, transcend them. They invite individuals
transformation, and a shared future. into moments of moral imagination, where
Healing in our communities involves the recognition of our interconnectedness
encouraging repentance and restoration for underscores the importance of fostering the
wrongful acts, offenders' willingness to well-being of others.
acknowledge their wrongs, persistent
Additionally, according to Lederach,
efforts to recall immoral behaviour, hope
humility is a virtue that comes with
for repairing relationships, exercising
experience. For him, it is especially
patience, refraining from retaliation, and
important that we strike a balance between
cultivating empathy for those who have
issues like truth (past), justice (current), and
caused harm. Unfortunately, many
the future (mercy and peace). Technical
civilizations have struggled to address these
dispute resolution cannot attain this
issues effectively.
equilibrium, but repentance and restoration,
In navigating such a healing process, many in this case study's opinion, can. In criminal
civilizations are enduring devastating justice, although punishment for past
losses. Traditional diplomats and political wrongs may be important to take place,
leaders face significant challenges in acknowledgment of guilt, naming, and
promoting peace due to the deep scars of shaming others who abused their fellow
history and a pervasive sense of injustice. In beings can contain a form of justice.
conflict resolution, there has been a However, according to my view, it is never
the case and can continue to create a bitter resolve conflicts and bring peace to our
society by creating a lot of enemies. Yes, country. This approach is effective when it
every wronged person or community's takes root in the hearts and minds of
initial reaction is that the offender should be ordinary people. Peace is paradoxical.
punished for the offense, but we must seek Many traditions extol its virtues while
and involve ourselves in restoring our condemning conflict and war. Yet, in times
brothers and sisters. Punishment is not of war, even ordinary individuals can
always the best solution. According to become heroes, displaying remarkable
Mahmood Mamdani, suggested that courage. Conversely, those who take risks
restorative justice is a means to address the for peace are often met with resistance or
problem through measures such as truth even assassination. Pursuing peace may
recovery, reparation, restitution, and so on, sometimes feel like a betrayal, as it requires
becomes important. Religious feelings can compromise and entails risks. However,
sometimes be the source of disagreements. maintaining peace is essential for
However, religious people must serve as preserving our identity and national
peacemakers in our cultures. The rise of integrity.
extremism, hate speeches and campaigns,
It is crucial for spiritual leaders to advocate
and the instigation of religious
for openness and dialogue on matters that
discrimination and violence; prejudice,
are crucial for maintaining peace in our
fear, and hatred caused by ignorance,
countries. While we may not have the
misperception, stereotyping, the negative
power to eradicate extremism entirely, we
impact of traditional and social media,
can educate and guide people towards
simplification and generalization, and
actions that benefit our countries and our
communal pressure; the misuse of religion
people. The importance of peace cannot be
by certain religious, political, and other
overstated. It is the foundation upon which
interest groups and individuals; socio-
societies thrive and prosper. Without peace,
economic dimensions of conflict; and spill-
progress and development become
over effects across the region have caused
unattainable. Believers of God have a
many of our societies not to be better
responsibility to speak out against violence
places. Faith has influence. It changes lives
and conflict, especially when religion is
and enables people to live at peace with
used as a justification for such atrocities.
each other. When we have faith in God and
When faith is misused to incite war, it is
our leadership relies on divine guidance, we
can come together at the conference table to
imperative for those who believe in peace greeting in ancient times (1 Samuel 25:6)
to raise their voices in opposition. and remains so in many cultures today.
While peace is influenced by human actions
Our faith teaches us the value of peace. Our
and attitudes, it is ultimately viewed as a
God is the author of peace, and the
gift from God (Isaiah 45:7; Leviticus 26:6;
scriptures emphasize the importance of
John 14:27). Its presence is often seen as a
living in harmony with one another. As
sign of God’s favour and blessing in
believers, it is our duty to share this
response to obedience (Isaiah 32:17;
message of peace with others, so that they
Malachi 2:5) and faith (Isaiah 26:3).
too may experience the blessings of living
Conversely, there is no peace for those who
in harmony with their fellow human beings.
persist in wickedness (Isaiah 48:22).
Peace is a universal desire, yet it is often
Despite its value, peace can also be
elusive. It encompasses tranquillity,
counterfeited or manipulated. False
harmony, and security, as well as prosperity
promises of peace may be used to deceive
and well-being. The Bible mentions various
and manipulate others, as deceitful
forms of peace numerous times,
individuals may feign peaceful intentions
highlighting its significance in the lives of
while secretly plotting harm (Obadiah 1:7).
believers. Whether it is inner peace, peace
The Antichrist will confirm a treaty,
with God, or peace with fellow humans,
producing a temporary peace that he will
pursuing peace should be a priority for all
abruptly shatter as he reveals his true
individuals and communities.
colours (Daniel 9:27). False teachers
proclaim peace when God is proclaiming
In the Old Testament, the primary Hebrew
judgment (Ezekiel 13:10-16). In Jeremiah’s
word for “peace” is shalom, which
day, the religious leaders dealt only with the
encompasses relationships between
symptoms of the national problems,
individuals, nations, and God with
without addressing the sinful root of the
humanity. Peace, represented by shalom, is
crisis. These false prophets declared that
a cherished state in all of these spheres,
everything was well between God and
often linked to the fulfilment of promises or
Israel, saying, “Peace, peace,” when there
covenants. For example, a "familiar friend"
was no real peace (Jeremiah 6:14).
in Psalm 41:9, translated as “friend of my
peace,” refers to someone with whom an
In the New Testament, the primary Greek
individual feels at ease and trusts deeply.
word for “peace” is eirene, which refers to
The term "peace" itself was a common
rest and tranquillity. A key focus of peace
in the New Testament is the advent of Jesus will give His peace to those who trust Him.
Christ, as announced by the angels in Luke Jesus took the chastisement of our peace
2:14 (“Peace on earth . . .”). Isaiah had (Isaiah 53:5) and made it possible for us to
predicted that the Messiah would be the have peace with God. Once His peace rules
Prince of Peace (Isaiah 9:6), and He is in our hearts, we can share that peace with
called the Lord of peace in 2 Thessalonians others; we become publishers of peace
3:16. It is through Christ’s work of (Isaiah 52:7) and ministers of reconciliation
justification that we can have peace with (2 Corinthians 5:18). Though we live in the
God (Romans 5:1), and that peace will keep conscious presence of differences.
our hearts and minds secure (Philippians
In the street, at work, and on the television
4:7). God commands us to seek peace
screen, we constantly encounter cultures
(Psalm 34:14; Matthew 5:9). We should
whose ideas and ideals are unlike ours. One
“make every effort to do what leads to
of the great transformations from the
peace” (Romans 14:19). Of course, there
twentieth to the twenty-first centuries is that
will be some people who do not desire
whereas the former was dominated by the
peace, but we are still to do our utmost to be
politics of ideology, we are now entering an
at peace with them (Romans 12:18).
age of the politics of identity. If people of
Believers must “let the peace of God rule” faith cannot live together in peace despite
in their hearts (Colossians 3:15). This differences, then for the sake of the future,
means we have the choice either to trust we must find another way. Unfortunately,
God’s promises (letting His peace rule) or our world is full of confusion, with conflicts
to rely on ourselves and reject the peace He arising between spiritual leaders on one
offers. Jesus gave His disciples peace based hand and politicians and business leaders
on the truth that He has overcome the world on the other. Everyone seems to be fighting
(John 14:27; 16:33). Peace is a fruit of the each other, and there is a lack of
Spirit, so if we are allowing the Spirit of cooperation and understanding. Spiritual
God to rule in our lives, we will experience leaders struggle to rebuke and correct
His peace (Galatians 5:22-23). To be politicians, and politicians face challenges
spiritually minded brings life and peace, in addressing the actions of business
according to Romans 8:6. The world will leaders. All leaders in their respective areas
continue to have wars and interpersonal are engaged in conflict with one another.
conflicts until Jesus comes to establish true, How can we make peace with each other?
lasting peace (see Isaiah 11:1-10), but God Who can help in the area of leadership? The
suffering of our leaders reflects the real change our world; we should aim to change
suffering within our societies. If our leaders ourselves first. If we desire to treat people
cannot communicate peacefully, then our mercifully, we must begin by treating
society is in a dire situation, and future ourselves mercifully. Without a deep inner
generations will blame us for the lack of sense of self-esteem and self-worth, we will
commitment to our leaders. We leaders consistently encounter problems with other
must convey the silent cry to those who people. We won’t extend mercy to them.
suffer today from want, hunger, disease, Instead, we may resort to violence and other
powerlessness, and lack of freedom. means to gain power because our thoughts
are not focused on serving others. Many
We should embrace liberal democracy in
leaders, driven by insecurity and a lust for
our societies to avoid unnecessary conflicts.
power, seek to protect their positions and
Acting according to our preferences within
impress people to maintain power. In many
a peace-oriented mentality can promote
African countries, leaders are reluctant to
contemporary politics and economics but
relinquish their positions of power.
may overlook essential aspects of the
human condition. Bullets beget bullets. A Leaders must understand that every
leader might assert, "I cannot be removed leadership crisis involves some form of
from office by a piece of paper (ballot)." God’s wisdom to intervene because without
Others argue that even though voters may it, conflicts can arise, leading to leadership
cast their ballots for their chosen stagnation. That is why repentance and
candidates, they may never succeed restoration are the best approaches when
because the system will never allow a leaders are resolving conflicts within their
candidate from the opposing party to win. communities. Conflict is always dynamic
Essentially, what we are trying to convey is and can be caused by natural or artificial
that our people are not changing. When we circumstances. Some circumstances are
attempt to resolve issues diplomatically, it beyond the control of the players, while
often results in further chaos. At the end of others are within their control, but the
bitter conflicts, there is a profound yearning players may choose to make decisions that
for peace. We need to understand how to end up in conflict. When trust is established
conclude matters for the benefit of our between a leader and their followers, even
people. Everything can be resolved at the the most difficult decisions will be
conference table over tea or coffee, without understood and trusted by the people.
resorting to bullets or war. We truly want to Decisions and the way they are made are
major reasons for conflict when a Jerusalem, having been sent by the church
community is in crisis. When a catastrophic to seek clarification on the issue of
crisis occurs, a leader must deal with the circumcision, which had become a source
aftermath. A crisis brings a new normal, of conflict among believers. Acts 15:1
and in the midst of a crisis, decisions are mentions certain men who came down from
made to try and resolve the problem. Judea and taught the brethren that, unless
However, some leaders make wrong they were circumcised, they could not be
decisions at the helm of a crisis, leading to saved. This misunderstanding caused
further conflict. tension in the early church. In Acts 15:6, the
apostles and elders came together to
So then, a leader must maintain their
consider the matter. Verse 7 shows that the
position as a provider of hope to society.
dispute intensified, and Peter had to remind
Conflict may serve as a vehicle for social
the assembly that Gentiles should hear the
change in which stagnant beliefs and values
word of the gospel and believe. As you
are dissolved, old tyrannies loosened, and
continue reading the same verses and
individuals released to achieve new and
chapter, you discover that the chapter not
higher goals. Conflicts are always contests
only talks about the conflict but also
between people with opposing needs, ideas,
provides the history of the conflict and
beliefs, values, or goals. Conflict arises
further guidance on how to handle disputes
when parties perceive that their interests are
among believers.
incompatible, express hostile attitudes, or
pursue their interests through actions that
To deal with conflict, we must understand
may damage the other parties. Conflict is
the importance of embracing love, as God
inevitable, though it may escalate and lead
is love. This should be an important lesson
to non-productive results or can be
on earth: "Love others as you love
beneficially resolved, leading to quality
yourself." Learning to love unselfishly is
final products. Although very few people
not an easy task, as it runs counter to our
actively seek out conflict, more often,
self-centered nature. According to Warren
conflict results from miscommunication
(2002), God is more concerned about how
between people regarding their needs,
believers love one another in his family.
ideas, beliefs, goals, or values.
Why does God insist that we give special
love and attention to other believers? This
In the book of Acts 15:1-8, it states that Paul
is because God wants his family to be
and Barnabas embarked on a journey to
known for its love more than anything else.
Life without love is worthless. Apostle Paul repentance because of love, and we restore
in the Bible makes this point: "No matter our brothers and sisters in Christ because of
what I believe, and what I do, I’m bankrupt love. In other words, repentance and
without love. Love will last forever. restoration are acts of love.
Another reason God tells us to love every
believer is that it is eternal: "Three things Believers must remember that conflicts
continue forever: faith, hope, and love. And among brothers and sisters in the body of
the greatest of these is love." Four of the Christ cause our message to lose its appeal,
Ten Commandments deal with instead of attracting many people to the
relationships with God, while the other six faith. The church must not contradict the
deal with relationships among people or biblical principles of love and unity. Also,
believers. But all ten are about remember that conflict resolution involves
relationships. using relationships, transitioning from an
order based on voluntarism to one
Jesus Christ summarized what matters most characterized by relationships. To achieve a
to God in two statements: Love God and great social order, we must be based on
love people. Jesus said, "You must love the equal dignity, love, mutual respect,
Lord your God with all your heart; this is freedom, and a radical sense of tolerance.
the first and greatest commandment." Then Our goal is to promote collective problem-
Jesus said to love your neighbor as yourself. solving, especially in strife-torn
This reminds believers to consider others communities.
first before themselves as this is the nature
of God. The Holy Bible in John 3:16 states,
"For God so loved the world that he gave
his only begotten son so that whoever
believes in him should not perish but have
everlasting love." Love is selfless and is the
greatest possession every believer should
strive to gain. Through love, we solve
conflicts among believers. We come to
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ROADMAP OF PEACE: THE POWER OF REPENTANCE
AND RESTORATION IN CONFLICT RESOLUTION.
Forging Paths to Harmony and Healing
Dr Avitus Leonard - Founding President
Dei Institute
Online University (DIOU)