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Most People Think of Themselves First. Here's What That Means For You - LinkedIn
Most People Think of Themselves First. Here's What That Means For You - LinkedIn
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The first way, which is typically the default, is what I’d call
the “bad for me” approach. This is where the client
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manager says that they don’t have time, that the request is
out of scope, or that it is simply too much to add to their
plate. Even if all the above is true, this approach almost
never receives a positive response from clients.
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The next time you are asked to do more with less, or need
to give feedback about something that did not go well,
think about orientating your approach around the “bad for
you” frame. That’s the best way to ensure the other person
sees the entire picture from their own vantage point.
Quote of the Week: “We see the world not as it is, but as we
are.” - Talmud
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