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Module Seven
Emotional Messages
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“I’ve learned that people will
forget what you said, people
will forget what you did, but
people will never forget how
you made them feel.”
-Maya Angelou
Part 1/2
• Emotional communication is at
the heart of Behaviours Feelings
• Emotional Intelligence
• Social Intelligence
Emotions May Be Primary or Blended
• Primary Emotions
• Emotions close
together on the
wheel are also
close in meaning
• Varying shades
with greater
intensity closer to
center of wheel
• Blended Emotions
• Emotions created
as a combination
of two other
emotions
What does your face look like when you experience the following emotions?
• Happy
• Lips turned up at corner, crows feet wrinkle at corner of eye, raised cheekbones
• Sad
• Droop upper eyelids, slight pulling down of lip corners, losing focus in eyes
• Surprised
• Lasts only 1 second, eyebrows raised, eyes widened, mouth open
• Angry
• Eyebrows down and together, eyes glare, narrowing of the lips
• Disgusted
• Nose wrinkling, upper lip raised
• Afraid
• Eyebrows raised and pulled together, upper eyelids raised, lips slightly stretched horizontally towards ears
How did you know? Do you think that our emotional expressions are innate,
or learned . . . . . Nature or nurture?
Let’s see how you do . . . Match the faces to the interpretation and be
prepared to explain your choice
A B C
Fear
Sadness
Joy
D E F Surprise
Disgust
Anger
Source: Matsumoto, D. & Hwang, H. S. (2011). Reading facial expressions of emotion. Psychological Science Agenda
(May). Retrieved from: http://www.apa.org/science/about/psa/2011/05/facial-expressions.aspx
Let’s see how you do . . . Match the faces to the interpretation and be
prepared to explain your choice
A B C
Fear E
Sadness C
Joy A
Surprise F
D E F Disgust B
Anger D
Source: Matsumoto, D. & Hwang, H. S. (2011). Reading facial expressions of emotion. Psychological Science Agenda
(May). Retrieved from: http://www.apa.org/science/about/psa/2011/05/facial-expressions.aspx
Science Today: Facial Expressions | California
Academy of Sciences 2009, David Matsumoto
http://www.calacademy.org/educators/facial-
expressions
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5G6ZR5lJgTI&list=PL85046FEB30
77AF8D&index=2
Nature or Nurture?
• Based on Dr. Matsumoto’s work, do you feel that the basic facial
expressions are innate, or learned?
• Which do you feel has a greater impact on memory . . . How you will
remember the event or encounter?
Emotional Arousal is a Multi-Step Process
• If you were to describe the events leading up to emotional arousal it
might look like this:
• You may not always want to reveal what you feel in every instance.
e. g.
• You always have a choice in the ways you express your emotions
• Agree or disagree?
• As a result:
• You cannot tell what other people are feeling simply from observing
them; therefore, do not assume that you can
• Others cannot always tell what you are feeling from the way you
behave
• If you want others to know how you feel, it’s probably a good idea to
tell them
Emotions Can Be Used Strategically
• Return to Blackboard
to view videos that
appear under the
posting of this lesson.
• Fear
• Many people simply don’t know how to express their feelings e.g.
Anger
• Anger is one of the 8 basic emotions identified earlier in Plutchik’s
model
• SCREAM (acronym)
• Self
• Context
• Receiver
• Effect
• Aftermath
• Message
Anger Communication
• What am I feeling?
• Understand your emotions
• Think about your emotions as objectively as possible
• Be specific
• Describe the reasons you’re feeling as you are
• Address mixed feelings
• Anchor your emotions in the present
• Own your feelings and take personal responsibility for them
• Ask for what you want
• Respect emotional boundaries
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SKILLS FOR RESPONDING TO
EMOTIONS
Skills for Responding to
Emotions
Emotional Communication involves both expressing feelings and listening
and responding to the feelings of others
3. Listen actively
4. Empathize
• Return to Blackboard
to view videos that
appear under the
posting of this lesson.