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Psed For Early Years Handbook Print
Psed For Early Years Handbook Print
Psed For Early Years Handbook Print
Acknowledgments
With thanks to the following who participated in focus groups and consultations so we could
ensure our work was relevant, engaging and accurate:
• Share learning, practical advice and co-designed resources rooted in attachment theory
and relevant to current policy developments
• Highlight practice that supports children and families who have been marginalised and
experience societal inequalities
• Promote a healthy, supported and connected workforce
For anyone working in healthcare, social care or childcare settings, attachment theory and
relational practice offer an invaluable approach to working with babies, young children and
their families. It can help practitioners to both support relationships between parents and
carers and their children, and to build nurturing relationships with children themselves.
Content
1. Introduction 2
Who is this guide for? 2
Why have we created this guide? 2
What is our approach? 2
How does this guide work? 2
2. What is PSED? 3
3. PSED and attachment 4
4.1 PSED for two year olds 6
4.2 PSED for three year olds 8
4.3 PSED for four year olds 10
5. When might extra support be needed? 12
6. Working with families 14
7. Strategies to supporte health PSED 16
Emotional containment 16
Repairing disputes with two - four year olds 18
Watchful waiting 18
Having sensitive conversations with parents and carers 20
Good nutrition and physical activity 23
Looking after yourselves as practitioners 24
Risk and safeguarding 26
9. Resources 27
10. Additional references 27
2 Personal, social and emotional development in the early years: a handbook for practitioners
1. Introduction
Who is this guide for? What is our approach?
This guide is for early years workers, managers Our work in the Early Years and Prevention
and practitioners from the wider early years department at the Anna Freud Centre is
sector. informed by Attachment Theory and we
recognise that young children learn about their
Why have we created this emotions and how to manage them through
their relationship with important adults around
guide? them.
Statutory guidance for the Early Years You will find that the tips we give in this
Foundation Stage (EYFS) was reformed in guide centre around your relationship with
2021. Its purpose is to: set the standards that children, their families and yourself i.e. self-
all early years providers must meet to ensure reflection. This also means reflecting on
that children learn and develop well; ensure these relationships in their cultural context,
children are kept healthy and safe; and ensure understanding how wider societal structures
that children have the knowledge and skills impact PSED in the early years, and considering
they need to start school. how your own worldviews may impact your
practice.
Personal, social and emotional development
(PSED) is one of three prime areas within the This approach is also mirrored in the EYFS,
EYFS but it connects the whole curriculum. which says ‘underpinning their personal
According to the EYFS, ‘children’s personal, development are the important attachments
social and emotional development (PSED) is that shape their social world. Strong, warm and
crucial for children to lead healthy and happy supportive relationships with adults enable
lives, and is fundamental to their cognitive children to learn how to understand their own
development’. PSED is divided into 3 areas: feelings and those of others’ to start school.
emotions, sense of self and relationships.
The reforms are all about early years How does this guide work?
practitioners spending time with children in
There will be a brief section of theory with
this way, rather than tied up in paperwork.
practical tips incorporated throughout, which
This is because it is the interested, playful and
we hope you find helpful. Some of this might
consistent adult that makes the biggest
be new information or you are probably doing
impact on a child’s development in all
lots of this already – either way, please do have
areas. This guide is intended to be a
a go at the reflective exercises that follow each
practical and reflective resource to enable
section. These are intended to deepen your
practitioners to support the healthy PSED of
practice and will be useful to work through
children in their settings.
individually, with a supervisor or in peer groups.
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2.What is PSED?
PSED can be thought of as three building
blocks - emotions, sense of self and
relationships – which contribute to a child
developing in the early years. Though
PSED is a separate prime area in the EYFS,
it is a foundation that connects the whole
curriculum – through positive relationships
with adults, children learn what their
emotions are, how to regulate them and
how relationships with their peers work. By
establishing solid and positive relationships
with young children, you are helping them
in all the prime areas.
Reflective exercise 1
Think of a child in your setting who struggles with relationships with their
peers. Reflect on:
Tips - children use their whole bodies, senses and full range of
No
communication and spoken (and unspoken!) language 54%
to let us know how
they are developing. You can do the same and communicate with children
with more than just words. For example, you could describe an emotion by
showing a child where you feel it in your body – ‘I feel a bit angry and I feel
it in my belly and my cheeks feels hot’. Always build trust with parents and
carers and discuss any plans with them.
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When we talk about ‘attachment’ we are • The parent rejects the child’s signals,
especially for bodily contact
referring to the psychological theory first
proposed by John Bowlby in the mid to late • There is a channelling of distress away from
20th century. the parent-child interactions.
This theory suggested that humans were 3. Insecure ambivalent attachment: it’s
evolutionarily primed to relate to others and thought that up to 10% of the general
that the way we relate to others is set in our population can be classified as Insecure
early lives. These relationship patterns were Ambivalent. Behaviours that show this in
organised into ‘styles’ and a huge field of the strange situation include:
research and therapeutic work on trying to
understand more about these ‘attachment • The child protests on separation from the
styles’ and consequences and applications of parent or carer
these has been happening ever since.
• The child is angry with the parent or carer
You can read about these ‘styles’ or broad on reunion
classifications which are based on an
experiment called the Strange Situation (a • There is an inconsistent parental response
situation created in a laboratory where a baby to the child’s signals.
is briefly separated from caregivers and their
reaction was observed) below. 4. Disorganised attachment: This pattern
of relating was classified in the early 1980s
1. Secure attachment: most people (60- and describes about 14% of the general
70%) are securely attached. In the Strange population. In the strange situation these
Situation this looks like: infants:
• The child being able to actively explore the • Had no strategy for separation
environment
• The child being distressed on separation • Displayed contradictory behaviours
from the parent or carer
• The child responding positively to the • 80% of maltreated children show signs of
parent or carer disorganised attachment.
• The child being wary of strangers Although attachment theory is based on many
• The parent being consistently responsive cultural universals, parts of it are skewed
to the child. towards a Western middle class parenting
ideal. So, it’s important to consider the wide
2. Insecure avoidant attachment: it’s range of cultural backgrounds that families will
estimated that 20-25% of the general come from and how this may influence your
population have this type of attachment perception of a child’s behaviour.
pattern. In the Strange Situation it looks
like this:
Reflective exercise 2
Think about a child who matches each of the attachment styles and
reflect on the following questions:
extra support be
frightening, shocking or overwhelming
experiences which happen in a child’s life
before the age of 18. Adversity can happen
needed? to any child at any point in their childhood.
Adversity in childhood impacts on mental
Children might need some extra support for and physical health in adulthood. Safe and
their PSED if there are particular situations at supportive relationships help children recover
home that might be challenging for example, from ACEs. ACEs include:
unresolved family conflicts.
• abuse – emotional, physical or sexual
Children may also have additional needs such
as: • neglect
Reflective exercise 3
Trauma can make a child feel frightened, threatened, humiliated,
rejected, abandoned, invalidated, unsafe, unsupported, trapped,
ashamed and powerless. For each of these words, think how this
might look for a particular child. For example, a child who is frightened
might find it hard to sperate from familiar adults or children who are
unsupported might seem content playing alone. For example, if they build
a tower of bricks, they may not feel the need to show an adult what they
have created.
Tips – don’t forget to think about ACEs and trauma in a social context.
Early years settings do not exist outside of wider societal structures. It is
therefore important to be aware of how inequalities and discrimination
affect families. For example, racism is traumatic and a child might display
signs of trauma because they have experiences racism. Increasing levels of
poverty with the cost of living crisis may also influence how a child presents.
It’s important to reflect on these wider issues and not to jump straight to
assuming something has happened at home.
Unsafe
Rejected Trapped
Threatened Ashamed
Frightened Powerless
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families
their PSED. This is particularly relevant for
identity formation. What children experience
and learn in their first few years will begin to
Early years practitioners do a fantastic job of shape how they are as an adult so it’s crucial
working with parents and carers. Making strong that practitioners understand how families from
relationships with families is what helps young some cultural, racial or ethnic backgrounds may
children settle into the setting and be able to experience early years settings differently. Here
make the most of the relationships and learning are just a few examples:
on offer there. Early years practitioners can be a
huge source of support to families and provide • If a nursery isn’t able to communicate
much needed encouragement and advice as to parents or carers who don’t speak
children move through the setting. English as their first language, important
messages about their children may be lost or
Every family is different, and as such early miscommunicated.
years practitioners might need to use different
techniques to engage different families. • Concepts of childcare differ between
Sometimes there is a perception that families cultures and communities. Some families,
struggle to engage or are hard to reach but it including some migrant families, might
might be that we need to adapt our approach not have been made aware of the support
instead. on offer in the early years. This may mean
that outreach is necessary to engage with
families and build trust.
Reflective exercise 4
Ask yourself the following questions:
How do I respond
Do I find myself
to the same
gravitating to certain
behaviours
parents and carers
by children
more than others?
from different
Why?
backgrounds?
Reflective exercise 5
Take a moment to do some deep breathing. If you are able to, place one
hand on your belly and one hand on your chest and breathe deeply. You
can close your eyes if you feel comfortable. Feel your belly rise and fall as
you breathe in and out and notice the sensation of your breath on your
nostrils as you breathe.
This is a way of regulating your nervous system and you can role model
this with children to help them regulate themselves if they are feeling
overwhelmed.
Tips - keeping yourself regulated through breathing also goes a long way.
You could frame breathing exercises in a child friendly way. For example,
Tell your little one to imagine they are smelling a flower, breathing in deeply
through the nose and out through the mouth. Smelling flowers is one of the
easiest breathing exercises to master, and a good starting point for your
child. Or, Have your child blow out the candles on a make-believe birthday
cake, drawing a deep breath in through the mouth, and blowing it out strong
through the mouth as well.
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Reflective exercise
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Reflective exercise 6
What do I already do in terms of watchful waiting?
Tips – in any situation, consider the child in the context of their current
developmental stage and remember that development isn’t just about
chronological age as there are many factors that could influence ‘typical’
development stages.
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Reflective exercise 7
Put yourself in the shoes of the person you have been talking to and try to
imagine what they might think and feel in relation to what you are saying.
Does doing this mean you might want to adapt what you are saying or
how you are communicating?
Tips - pay attention to, any emotional responses the parent or carer may
have to your concern. They might also be completely open to having a
conversation with you and see you as a supportive presence who can work
together with them on any issues. On the other hand, you might worry that
they may view you as critical or think that you are blaming them and holding
them responsible. With this in mind, it could be helpful to tell them that you
understand and empathise with their experience of the problem at the very
start of the conversation, before you launch into expressing your own view
on it or offering advice.
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Reflective
exercise 9
Think back to a time when you felt
stressed and reflect on the thoughts,
feelings, physical sensations and
behaviours you experienced and
displayed. Make a note of them. Next
time you notice of them happening,
it might be a clue that you need a
break or some support. It’s helpful
to identify this early on rather than
waiting till things get too much.
• To prevent harm
•
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