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Final - Autobiography
Final - Autobiography
Valdivia
3/17/2024
development and daily interactions. From the cooing conversations with my parents to the
playful exchanges with siblings and relatives, verbal communication formed the cornerstone of
my early social interactions. As a product of divorced parents, I vividly remember language and
communication being different in each home. One particularly memorable aspect of my early
language development was the bedtime stories my mother would read to me. Some nights, before
going to bed, I would eagerly await the soothing sound of my mother’s voice telling tales of
adventure, imagination, and wonder. These instances not only ignited my passion for books and
storytelling but also instilled in me a profound reverence for the influence of language and
My mother prioritized language and literacy in various ways, placing a strong emphasis
on communication skills, in both English and Spanish, and the value of reading. Speaking
Spanish and English in my home at a young age offered numerous benefits, ranging from
cognitive and academic advantages to cultural enrichment and stronger familial ties. It had
equipped me as a child with valuable skills and perspectives to prepare for success in an
increasingly interconnected and diverse world. My room specifically, was always filled with
books, ranging from classic children's stories to educational materials. My mother encouraged
regular reading habits by providing access to a diverse array of books and fostering a supportive
environment where curiosity and exploration were celebrated. My mother would take my brother
and I to the library and also supply us with funds to use at our school scholastic book fairs.
Although my mother fostered a sense of encouragement and delightfulness when
involving communication, my father was quite the opposite. Living in a verbally abusive home is
like walking on eggshells every day. The constant barrage of insults, yelling, and criticism
creates an atmosphere of fear and anxiety that never seems to dissipate. I feel like I'm always on
edge, never knowing when the next verbal attack will come. The words spoken to me cut deep,
leaving wounds that are not visible but hurt just as much. Each derogatory remark chips away at
my self-esteem, leaving me feeling small and worthless. I begin to believe the negative things
that are said about me, internalizing them until they become a part of how I see
up or express my thoughts and feelings, fearing that they will only be met with ridicule or
dismissal. It's easier to stay silent, to avoid drawing attention to myself and inviting further
criticism.
express myself clearly, stumbling over words and phrases as I try to articulate what I'm feeling.
Conversations become a minefield, with every word carefully chosen to avoid setting off another
round of verbal abuse. I thrive in my ability to express myself through journaling, when I can
Overall, living in a verbally abusive home can profoundly impact your emotional well-
being and linguistic development. It can create lasting scars that affect your self-esteem,
communication skills, and ability to form healthy relationships(Sylvestre, Audette & Bussières,
Eve-Line & Bouchard, Caroline, 2015). Seeking support from trusted individuals, therapy, and
interventions aimed at promoting emotional healing and healthy communication can be crucial in
overcoming the effects of verbal abuse. I’m blessed to have a mother who incorporated open-
they've exerted on shaping my connection with language and communication. From the earliest
moments of my childhood, speaking, being spoken to, and engaging with books and stories were
integral components of my upbringing, laying the foundation for a lifelong journey of learning
and discovery. As mentioned before, language in an abusive home can profoundly impact a
highlights the necessity of offering assistance, intervention, and secure surroundings to children
enduring abuse, in order to alleviate the enduring impact on their language and literacy
Growing up in a calm, loving home with healthy communication and a love for books
likely nurtured my own passion for learning and literacy. The positive language model such as
my mother and enriching verbal interactions with her, sparked my interest in teaching children of
the same background due to relatedness and compassion for children alike. Being raised in a
household that revered books and esteemed reading likely instilled within me a profound
My own struggles with communication and self-esteem stemming from verbal abuse
could motivate me to become a teacher who actively promotes positive communication skills and
fosters a sense of confidence and self-worth in my students. I plan to prioritize activities and
discussions that encourage open dialogue, active listening, and constructive feedback, helping
my students develop the tools to navigate interpersonal relationships and express themselves
effectively. I believe witnessing both healthy and un-healthy communication and loving
community characterized by trust, cooperation, and mutual respect, where my students feel
I. Sylvestre, Audette & Bussières, Eve-Line & Bouchard, Caroline. (2015). Language