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WRITTEN STATEMENT

I, Ema Yuliati (PP No. B4804165) state and say as follows: -

1. I am a household assistant employed by the Defendant since 2011.

2. I make this written statement to support the Plaintiff's statement submitted on 28 November 2019
for calling 3856/2019.

3. As far as the things stated here are in my knowledge, that is true.

As far as the things outlined here are not in my knowledge, they are true to the best of my knowledge
and information.

4. I have been employed by the Defendant since 2012 when her children were aged 5, 12 and 14
years.

I have a good relationship with the family and I am very close to her children where I take care of
their daily needs and household chores, such as cooking, washing and cleaning (bathing) them.

The children also did not hesitate to tell me if they wanted me to prepare (cook) special dishes for
their food or ask me to wash and iron certain clothes for special events.

I also want to add that Plaintiffs and Defendants also treat me like a part of their family.

5. Since I started working for the family, it is my job to prepare all the food for the family, including
making sure that the children bring their breakfast before leaving school with the Plaintiff.

Before December 2018, the Defendant was a full-time housewife and did not need to get up early.

Therefore, the Defendant was still sleeping when her children had breakfast with the Plaintiff and
when the Plaintiff took them to their respective schools.

6. When the Defendant starts working full time, I will prepare her breakfast for her separately from
the children and the Plaintiff because the Defendant does not eat with them.

The Defendant will go to work alone at around 8:30 in the morning, because the Plaintiff escorted his
3 children to school or work place for his eldest son and left at 07.00 in the morning.

I was ordered by the Defendant since January 2019 to prepare her own breakfast and not have
breakfast with the whole family, even on weekends.

7. Lunch is prepared every time a child comes home and wants to eat because their work hours are not
regular.

However, dinner is a gathering together every day and I have to prepare a full meal for the family,
including their grandfather and sometimes their grandmother comes for dinner.

Dinner time is usually 7:30 a.m. every day and it has been their family habit since I started working
for them.

8. One time in March 2019, I was ordered by the Defendant not to cook his portion dinner unless she
tells me otherwise.
The Defendant said that she had to work late every night and therefore could not arrive on time for
dinner.

The Defendant told me that if she wanted to have dinner, she would have told me beforehand but this
rarely happened.

I obeyed her orders and explained to the Plaintiff and / or her children that I did not prepare a place
for the Defendant at dinner and cook her share because she told me not to do it.

9. I noticed that the Defendant began to go home almost late almost every day since January 2019.

The defendant has instructed me to wash her clothes separately from other family members since
early 2019, which is something unusual and not a habit.

However, I have noticed that the Defendant began wearing fine and lace underwear and new clothes
when I was assigned to wash the clothes when I received them and kept them in the bedroom.

Her underwear will be washed by hand by the Defendant herself and hung the main bedroom toilet to
dry.

I believe the Plaintiff also saw clothes in the toilet.

Defendants became more aware of their appearance and struggled to dress up and dress up every day.

Defendants have moved to (slept in) their daughter's bedroom in or around June 2019.

The plaintiff will sleep in the main bedroom with their youngest child every night after the Defendant
moves.

10. In addition, the Defendant began to buy clothing and personal items from the internet and I will
receive this package on his behalf at home.

I noticed that these packages contained, for the most part, sexy lingerie and lace because I had to
dispose of the packages and boxes after the Defendant opened them, and washed them when the
contents were new and removed from the package boxes.

11. The plaintiff asked me to take photos of underwear and I showed these photos as "EY-1".

At that time, I did not know what the purpose was, but I obeyed her orders because I found
Defendant's lingerie very pretty.

12. I believe that the marriage is in trouble and that the Plaintiff suspects the Defendant was having an
affair when he asked me if I noticed the Defendant's clothes going to her office and the clothes she
was wearing back home which were then given to me to wash.

I don't want to say too much because it's not my place to discuss their marital problems.

13. By the middle of this year, it became clear to me that the Defendant no longer wanted to have a
relationship with the Plaintiff because he moved into his daughter's bedroom, the Defendant also did
not talk to the Plaintiff (as far as I know) and told me to cook and wash for her separately.

The plaintiff also does not go out again with the Defendant, and will go with only children.

Conversely, the Defendant will make her own plans to go out with the children.
14. I served Plaintiffs and Defendants separately according to their respective requests in or around
March 2019 even though they lived in the same house.

The Defendant also started using me to deliver the message to the Plaintiff because she did not want
to talk to him.

I am an intermediary for household matters and it feels like I am serving two different masters with
different needs.

15. I am also aware that there were many quarrels in the last 6 months prior to the Defendant's
departure from their home, because there were high-pitched voices by the Plaintiff and the Defendant.

16. When the Defendant left home on October 20, 2019, she told me that she left the children in my
care and asked me to take good care of them.

I assured her that I would do according to Defendant's request because I had watched them grow up
all this time and they were like my own children.

17. I make this written statement voluntarily at the request of the Plaintiff without compensation or
with the hope of reward.

In fact, the Plaintiff has warned me that the Defendant could cancel my work permit as my employer,
but I hope she will not for the sake of the children.

I just want to state the facts as I know them.

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