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Islamic Ethics
and Female
Volunteering
Committing to Society,
Committing to God
Merve Reyhan Kayikci
Department of Semitic Studies
University of Granada
Granada, Spain
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Foreword
Much of the social science that addresses Islamic topics has an emphatic
political dimension, reflecting the hyperpoliticization of the Greater
Middle East. An important compensating trend in the social-cultural
anthropology of Islam has been to investigate the ‘everyday.’ Merve R.
Kayikci’s book falls in this category, but the background is compli-
cated. She carried out her fieldwork among Turkish women volunteers
in Belgium starting in 2014. In late November 2015 and 2016, terror
strikes in Paris and Brussels provoked serious ethnic tensions in Belgium
and accusations that the country had failed to integrate its immigrant
population. Meanwhile, Turkey experienced political turmoil, peaking in
an attempted coup in July 2016 followed by a fierce clampdown on free
expression that is still in force.
Kayikci, who defended her doctoral thesis (on which this book is
based) at the University of Leuven in 2018 and now works at the Univer-
sity of Granada, inherits a strong Turkish tradition of free debate and
enquiry, including in the social sciences, which was still apparently unex-
tinguished as late as early 2015. The subsequent actions of the Turkish
government deeply affected the lives of many of her interlocutors, who
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fully appreciative of Mauss, have in different ways tried to elude the grip
of Maussian transactionalism.1
Time and labor, rather than material resources, are the gifts of these
Turkish Muslim women, a ‘muted’ minority. Following a line of thought
explored by Ira Lapidus and Saba Mahmood, Kayikci turns to the Arabic
term malaka as “that inner quality developed as a result of outer practice
which makes practice a perfect ability of the soul of the actor.” Kayikci’s
interlocutors proposed by themselves, without prompting by her, the
concept of a ‘second self,’ a second start in life as a different person that
committed volunteering can, in their view, provide. The nafs or ego, the
desiring or impulsive part of the soul, is seen by them as an obstacle to be
overcome in order to establish a pure bond with God. “Please God: make
me small in my eyes and great in yours.” Whereas emotional detachment
is generally recommended as good practice for volunteers, the absence of
love, compassion, and mercy is highly problematized by these Muslim
volunteers, and the cultivation of those emotions is considered as part
of cultivating the ethical self. Thus, according to them, the individual
is not a proper Muslim as long as one is unable to invest in bringing
oneself to have an affective connection with the people one volunteers
for. Kayikci concludes that time spent on volunteering is experienced
as having a divine value when it is approached with the correct niyya
(intention)—even mundane acts such as baking a cake for charity.
These women followed Islamic injunctions as regards prayer and some
degree of gender segregation in their personal lives. A few of them were
professionals with higher degrees; most of them worked in manual jobs.
The kernel of their associative life is the sohbet —Turkish for conversa-
tion—where a number of women meet to discuss a religious book or
sermon video. But their response to the challenge of belonging to an
ethnic and religious minority has been to reach out to the wider secular
society—denying that there is an incompatibility but without giving up
on what they see as non-negotiable. They often make light of the tradi-
tional Islamic emphasis on the merit acquired by making charitable gifts
discreetly rather than publicly.
Sohbet teachers encourage their students to read Belgian newspapers
and watch local news channels rather than tune into Turkish channels
via satellite. There is little or no impulse to convert non-Muslims: rather,
they set out to lead an exemplary life. None of their associations’ activities
aimed at the public at large had any religious content. They included a
Mathematics Olympics, a project to bring thousands of schoolchildren
to take a mathematics test in a large examination hall; a partnership with
UN Women in Brussels promoted as “He4She,” a solidarity campaign to
promote gender equality; and a three-day symposium entitled “Diverse
talents for the future of Europe.”
Comparison with volunteering by Christian and Jewish women would
be enlightening. This book should also feed into some current debates
about the relationship between self-care and self-sacrifice. James Laidlaw
and Jonathan Mair, anthropologists who specialize in dharmic religions,
have asked whether altruism and egoism are completely opposed, or can
be mutually reinforcing goals.2 There is room for comparison between
the Islamic concept of nafs, expounded by Kayikci’s interlocutors as an
obstacle to spirituality, and the more radical idea that the self is illusory.
More practically, this book should be hailed and used as a resource for
countering stereotypes of Muslims and particularly Muslim women—
especially welcome at this time of rising nationalism and xenophobia,
aggravated by immense economic strains.
2 Prospectusfor workshop, “Benefiting self and others: understanding altruism, egoism and the
space in between,” Cathedral Lodge, Canterbury Cathedral, 29 May 2018.
Acknowledgments
While the past year that I have invested in writing this book has been
one that I have spent mostly in my study, alone and lost in my data
and books, the past four years have by no means been ‘individualistic.’ I
have to say how lucky I have been to have an unconditionally supportive
environment, both intellectually and emotionally. And although it was
me who ‘wrote’ this book, it is the product of years of sharing, discussion,
motivation, and selflessness that were so generously provided to me by
my supervisors, colleagues, family and friends. It is for this reason that I
would like to express my gratitude to the many people who helped me
along this trajectory, who believed in me till the very end, and who saw
the merit of my work even at times when I could not. Your support is
worth, and has meant, more than I can express here.
I owe my deepest gratitude to Nadia Fadil for her guidance, super-
vision, and willingness to take under her wings a project which, at that
time, was the first she would supervise. I knocked on her door for the first
time as a young Master’s student trying to find her focus, her voice, her
style of writing. It is impossible for me to convey the many different ways
she has influenced me intellectually, always pushing me to think further,
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x Acknowledgments
to question further, to go deep into the details that are often taken for
granted in our field. For these and many more inputs, I will forever be
grateful.
This book is based on my doctoral project and I would like to show my
greatest appreciation to Erkan Toguslu, Steven van Wolputte, Jonathan
Benthall, and Chia Longman for guiding me in my research and always
providing insightful feedback. I must also thank Amira Mittermaier for
her gracious advice and guidance in the last couple of years, during which
I had the chance to meet her and correspond about my work. I would
like to thank Anya Topoloski for our discussions on relationality and rela-
tional ethics. Her intellectual influence on this work is great. I offer my
deep gratitude to the IMMRC for funding me throughout my research.
I would like to thank my colleagues and friends for their compan-
ionship over the years. Their contributions to me as a person and as an
academic have been invaluable, more than maybe they even know. Thank
you Mieke Groeninck, Johan Leman, Jaafar Alloul, Jeremy Mandin,
Naasiha Abrams, Laura Galian, Nadia Hindi and Elena Arigita, Roya
Imani, Nathal Dessing, Thijl Sunier, Catherine Trundle, Nil Mutluer,
Nella van den Brandt, Tilmann Heil, and my Race and Religion reading
group to whom I owe so much of my intellectual development. Very
special thanks go to Sertac Sehlikoglu, who has been a friend and mentor
throughout the years. Many thanks to Justin, who invested the time and
effort to proofread the manuscript.
For their constructive comments and feedback, I express my special
thanks to Poppy Hull and Geetha Chockalingam and the anonymous
reviewers of Palgrave Macmillan. Thanks go to the Palgrave Macmillan
team for guiding me through the publication process. It was a great
pleasure working with you.
I also have to mention my beloved friends, who have stayed my
‘beloved friends’ although I have been nearly absent in their lives over
the last couple of years. I owe them much of my sanity, as they have
always generously provided me with love and comfort: dearest Fulya
and Seda, Buket, Busra, Esma, Fatma, Neslihan, Neslihan, Sema, Tuba,
Vladiana, Pinar, Ebru, Melike, Busra, Gizem (those who have still been
there regardless of distance), Burcu, Kubra, Elif, Yasemin, Mesude, Serap,
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Gamze, Makbule, Sibel, Ulku, Nur and Sveta. There are so many more
names that I could not possibly fit into a few pages. Thank you all…
I am indebted to those closest to me for enduring this journey together
with me. For that I would like to thank my family, although I can never
thank them enough. Thank you, Riza, for standing beside me always and
reminding me to “finish the book.”
Finally, I would like to thank the amazing women without whom this
project could not have even started. Although anonymity requires that I
do not reveal their names, they deserve acknowledgment the most. The
female volunteers in Brussels and Antwerp were incredibly generous with
their time and patience, as I literally followed them around the cities, to
their homes and most intimate spheres. How grateful I am to have met
them, and have them become part of my life over the years. The past
two years have been rough for them, as a new wave of political and social
hostility has hit them, coming from their motherland. Witnessing lives
change so drastically has had its own impact on me. However, what has
amazed and humbled me the most is how my interlocutors continued
doing what they do, and in the meantime were still incredibly open to
me. It is to those who have been affected by this hostile wave that I
dedicate this book.
Contents
1 Introduction 1
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xiv Contents
Epilogue 329
Glossary 335
1
Introduction
The year in which I started working on this book, 2019, was the tenth
anniversary of the Brussels women’s association for which my inter-
locutors have been volunteering. For the occasion, we got together, the
volunteers and I, for an evening organized especially for the anniver-
sary celebration. The women blew out the ten candles on a cake bearing
the association’s logo and made promises for ten more prosperous years.
So far it has been ten years since my interlocutors, the Belgian Muslim
women, started their association in order to make their volunteering offi-
cial. Our first encounters coincided with their busiest years. We met in
highly formal settings, in European and federal parliaments, where we
discussed how to shatter the glass ceiling for women. We discussed topics
from equal pay to motherhood and were introduced to the experiences
of women from all kinds of social and cultural backgrounds. On their
tenth anniversary, my interlocutors still hold strongly to these issues and
have worked together with a range of international associations such as
UN Women and Amnesty in actualizing their aims. Not all their events
cater for political institutions and international movements, as they also
work very much with local people and local organizations.
with the motivational forces that drive people to volunteer and the
social/political/economic reasons and outcomes of the practice. Why do
people volunteer, and what difference does that make for the society?
This comes out as one of the major questions in the existing literature.
Indeed, religion has always been part of the reason why people volunteer.
The concept of (Western) charity itself is historically linked to Christian
benevolence. Nevertheless, in the existing literature there seems to be an
implicit insistence that volunteering is a secularized modern institution
that is based on the impulse to do good. Even in cases where the church
is involved, the form and content of volunteering are secular.
This came up when I was introduced to the director of the Catholic
volunteering association in Flanders. Although the institution itself is
Catholic by name, their starting inspiration was to find a way to keep
people occupied with something when they did not work. That ‘some-
thing’ did not necessarily have anything to do with the church. While,
similarly, my interlocutors pursue a secular form and content of volun-
teering, there is an undeniable nuance in how the religious is experienced
within a secular space. This aspect, I effectively argue, is the point that
deserves interrogation, more so because volunteering—a liberal-secular
space—is not only a space of religious experience but also of public
engagement. Thus, there are two factors in volunteering for the Belgian
Muslim women that merge: religion and the public. This brings me to
my main point. When I first started following the activities of the volun-
teers and observing their pious experiences, I also noticed that the ethical
turn in the anthropology of Islam was concentrated on the individual
experience. There is a profound emphasis in the existing literature on
piety as the individual’s endeavor of self-making: ethical self-making. On
the one hand I can only agree with this assertion, but on the other hand
my interlocutors’ experiences point to an observable social component in
ethical self-making.
The relationality of ethics and volunteering as an ethical self-making
process is effectively absent in existing studies. The case of my interlocu-
tors is significant in that not only does it contribute to the literature
on ethics but also on how two different ethical traditions merge and
diverge. These two traditions are namely the liberal-secular tradition of
ethics and non-liberal Islamic tradition of ethics. The compatibility of
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Islam with European social and political values has been an ongoing and
never-ending debate. The debate has increased in intensity over the years
especially with the rise of ISIS and European Muslims traveling to Syria.
Can Muslims ever be trusted with European values? Or does the loyalty
to religion tilt on the heavier side?
These debates have reflected on different kinds of Muslim networks,
including voluntary networks. When watching the news in Belgium or
the Netherlands, it seems like one fragment that appears every day is
the one concerning to what extent the state will allow Muslim networks
to start institutions in their country. These can be mosques, schools,
cultural centers and voluntary (aid) institutions. The flow of money is
one of the main points of concern. Who funds these institutions and for
what reason? Is it a non-liberal Middle Eastern government or organiza-
tion that invests in the expansion of such institutions and is the money
flow legal? Moreover, the sincerity of these Muslims is put into ques-
tion. Are these Muslims really seeking social betterment, or are they
actually serving a second agenda? Does this agenda include a mission-
izing project? Is the next new project establishing another Islamic state,
or are these European Muslims actually working for their own (Islamic)
governments? It is not a secret that Muslims who have volunteered
for international aid organizations have been subject to prosecution on
charges of terrorism/extremism. In particular, those Muslims who volun-
tarily departed to Bosnia during the civil war or to Afghanistan have been
listed as jihadi. Even when their aim was to deliver aid, they were closely
scrutinized by Western governments.
Even in cases where religious motivation is not blatantly apparent,
Muslim activists are a source of contention in Western eyes. What do
they really want when they ask for the liberation of Muslim cover-
ings? Why do they still argue for the niqab, or the burqa? Are they
still not liberated enough from the chains of their religion/culture? As
Muslims make their religious/cultural demands increasingly public, all
these debates become more and more heated. Significantly, even when
Muslims participate in public actions for their specific demands, they
use modern-liberal tropes of freedom and the freedom to choose.
1 Introduction 5
This book starts with details of these discussions. It starts with the
acceptance that Muslims can participate in volunteering, public partic-
ipation and social engagements and still retain their religious concerns.
This is an issue of negotiating different traditions while aiming to remain
sincere to these traditions, whether they are liberal or religious. Without
having to exclude one over the other, my interlocutors borrow from
multiple moral rubrics. As long as we are concerned with their sincerity
in being European, we will miss this nuanced dynamic. As long as we
restrict our perspective on piety as an individualistic trajectory, we will
miss seeing the social influence on how piety is actually lived.
There is one point that I wish to discuss before going further with the
book and that is this issue of sincerity. The hype in Western media over
Muslims’ true intentions may be seen as speculative, however there is one
core issue on which they center their ideas. This is that although some
Muslims may seem to be liberal, democratic, secularized, pro-gender
equality and so on from the outside, they are still attached to their reli-
gious values. The seemingly essential discrepancy between Western values
and Islamic ethos makes it impossible for them to co-exist in the same
body, thus claiming to embody both raises concerns over sincerity.
This book works with this assumption and each chapter engages with
how the Muslim subject is in constant conversation with the two tradi-
tions. This is where relationality and relational ethics become significant.
Piety is not only informed by society as I have mentioned above, but
also by the ethical sources that shape society and the state. More explic-
itly, the subject’s sense of piety is not restricted to Islamic ethics but also
by what is considered ethical in the liberal modern sense. Muslims such
as my interlocutors who were born, raised, and educated in a liberal-
secular country such as Belgium are shaped by these principles as much
as any other non-Muslim Belgian (or European). This is not an issue of
sincerity but of negotiation for my interlocutors. On the one hand they
are pious, while on the other hand they want to socially engage and be
accepted for who they are by society.
This is not a very straightforward experience and often includes much
accommodation, compromise, and adjustment on the side of my inter-
locutors. I will gradually deliberate what this means in the coming
chapters. To put it briefly, there are many cases where public discourses
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of volunteers still consists of older people who have time on their hands.
While in other associations there may also be younger volunteers, it is
basically about having that kind of extra time to spare.
This is roughly how volunteering works in the current context. Some
scholars express their concern over the increasing individualism that is
taking over volunteering, stating that this does not do much in terms of
social solidarity. Others highlight that it is not only about doing good,
but also about personal development and feeling the sense of doing good.
My interlocutors gave me a lot to think about in this sense. In many
ways, the ways in which they volunteer are disorganized but very strongly
attached—to the cause, to the people involved, to people who are on the
receiving end of volunteering—making the person the central focus more
than the cause or the project. Volunteering is not entirely about getting
the job done. As I have just mentioned, their projects have a broad focus
and the division of labor is very disorganized. This will be unpacked
further in the coming chapters as I discuss their events at length. While
the job is also important, the subject and the subject’s experience as a
volunteer are prioritized. The act of volunteering itself is what makes
the individual more ethical. Hence the volunteer is as much a part of
the cause as the cause itself. I found this very interesting and thought-
provoking. It also appeared to me as a different way of approaching the
ethical (relationally instead of individually).
In this context, I find it very difficult to fit my interlocutors’ volun-
teering in any existing category, just as I find it difficult to describe its
content and scope. It is not merely charity, as the content of their activi-
ties is not restricted to elevating poverty. It is not philanthropy, as they do
not commit to any long-term institutional program. Although there are
examples of such cases where the volunteers help establish school and so
on, these are marginal and do not represent most of their activities. They
are also not part of humanitarian aid projects or NGOs like many other
Islamic faith organizations. As with the previous example, while they can
be seen donating to international NGOs, they do not specifically focus
on this as their sole duty.
It is difficult to define my interlocutors in one holistic structure,
although it is tempting to do so. Their activities are very localized, and
can change and turn with local social and political shifts. The nature of
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with the aim of carrying out “public good” (Dekker and Halman 2003;
see also Dingle 2001; Goovaart et al. 2001; Wilson 2000).
Obviously, this definition is extremely general, as in some cases volun-
tary work is obligatory, such as community service or military work.
Moreover, the connotations of voluntary work differ greatly in different
contexts. In some countries, such as Germany, voluntary work is a
form of civic engagement necessary for a good political community
(Dekker and Halman 2003, 2). On the other hand, in the Anglo-
Saxon community, volunteering is considered as unpaid, charity work:
a service for the community and divorced from politics (Dekker and
Halman 2003, 2). Not unlike the definition, the different motivations
that lead to volunteering are also ambiguous and vast. These range
from the desire to fix disadvantages or help others; for personal experi-
ence (personal development) or socialization (Cnaan and Goldberg-Glen
1991); altruism and personal values (Clary and Snyder 1999; Halman
and Moor 1994; Kearney 2001); or being drawn in by others, that is,
family/friends/neighborhood/church congregation (Dekker and Halman
2003, 5).
While volunteering can be initiated by feelings of altruism and ‘neigh-
borhood values’ to help others in need, it can also be that the volunteer
takes up volunteering for personal development, to cope with their
personal issues, and even to ‘flatter their ego’ by doing something that
is much needed by others (see Pearce 1993). Thus, it is definitely not
always the case that volunteering stems from a heightened desire to
work for others’ betterment. There are many parallel and conflicting
reasons underlying peoples’ involvement in volunteering, and Wilson
rightly asserts that “overall, the relation between values and volunteering
is weak and inconsistent” (2000, 219). However, some studies indicate
that being part of a network which volunteers is one of the major reasons
people get drawn into volunteering (see Putnam 2000; Wuthnow 1998;
Trundle 2012, 2014).
Hence, if the person is part of a church network or social movement,
there is a higher chance that they will continuously volunteer. Putnam
(2000) observes that the decline of such networks and associations has
resulted in the decline of intensive direct contact during volunteering
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and has thus led to the decline of long-term volunteering itself. Indeed,
according to Wuthnow, this is not a contradiction, as he concludes that
book. I am also interested in the ways in which the volunteer comes out
of this trajectory. In this scenario, the volunteer is not another individual
who is there to get the job done; she is not a number, but as much of a
task as the task itself.
We need to bear in mind that my interlocutors are Muslims and in the
Islamic religion giving does something to the self. Giving to the needy
is an eminent part of the Islamic religion. Islamic conceptualizations of
giving under the names zakat and sadaqa go back to the core religious
texts, the Qur’an and Sunnah. The Qur’an clearly lists those eligible to
receive alms: “(1) The poor (al -fuqara’ ); (2) Al -Massakin: usually inter-
preted as the needy or very poor […]; (3) […] the people appointed
to administer the zakat and negotiate with outlying groups; (4) ‘Those
whose hearts are made to incline [to the truth]’ […], interpreted as
being to help those recently or about to be converted, and/or to mollify
powerful non-Muslims whom the State fears, as an act of prudent poli-
tics; (5) Most Islamic commentators seem to have thought that ‘captives’
means Muslims captured by enemies who needed to be ransomed […];
(6) Debtors: particularly, […] because those who cannot repay their
debts lose rank and become clients of their creditors; (7) Those in the
way of God, that is to say in jihad , teaching or fighting or on other duties
assigned to them in God’s cause; (8) ‘Sons of the road’ (ibn as-sabi ) that
is travelers.”
Benthall unpacks these categories; indeed, one of the most interesting
assertions in his book is that the category of poorness is quite problematic
in Islam (2009, 12). He points out that Islamic scholars have debated on
whether there is a group of poor who are considered more ‘deserving’
than others, that is those who are handicapped and thus cannot work
(2009, 12). When it comes to the target group of giving, in this book
we will see that my interlocutors do not necessarily address the poor.
Most of their activities address disadvantage, but more on a social and
political than economic level. There are some events directly addressing
the needs of students, refugees, and the needy, but these are very limited
when looking at the larger picture of their activities. It is apparent that
the subject of volunteering transcends poverty, or any kind of aid in the
classical manner (as described above); it is a social phenomenon that has
been somewhat overlooked in the literature.
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during the Bosnian War (Cordier 2009) and the Kosovo conflict in the
1990s (Benthall and Bellion-Jourdan 2003).
However, these organizations have also been the target of serious
skepticism, coming especially from Western governments who have
questioned what kind of body they fund through aid (e.g. Hamas or Al-
Qaida) (Petersen 2012). Especially after September 11, 2001, the assets
of some of these charities were frozen, while some were closed completely
(Ewing 2008). This does not change the fact that most Islamic aid orga-
nizations work very similarly to other secular or Christian NGOs. On
the one hand, Islamic aid organizations have a Muslim character and
base their conduct on the religious texts and traditional practices of their
religion; on the other hand, the jargon they use and the logistical strate-
gies they follow (fundraising, campaigning, charity events, focusing on
special holidays to advertise giving) is very similar to the practices of
other NGOs. Most Islamic NGOs communicate through professional
websites, which are user-friendly and easy to donate to.
Benthall (2016) explains that most organizations have signed the 1994
Code of Conduct for the International Red Cross and Red Crescent
Movement and Non-Governmental Organizations in Disaster Relief. He
adds that “signing such codes and declarations indeed reflects profes-
sionalization in the sense that it is a step towards obtaining professional
recognition and legitimacy [in the eyes of ] institutional donors and the
international aid sector” (De Cordier 2009, 613). This in itself presents
a complex situation: while these organizations pertain to Western stan-
dards of institutionalization, they
Outline
Chapter 2 of this book introduces the context of my research. The
two cities in which I conducted most of my research were Brussels and
Antwerp, and it is important to understand the multi-lingual and multi-
ethnic fibers of both cities in order to comprehend my interlocutors’
aim and scope in volunteering. The volunteers are mostly from Turkish
descent, which is an interesting point to unpack as establishing associ-
ations for different causes is quite popular among Belgian Turks. While
there is a substantial body of literature engaging with this phenomenon,
most of these studies do not look at the associations from the individual
perspective. They do not explore the individual motives, aspirations, and
different levels of relationality in their studies. I believe it is impor-
tant to acknowledge the history of Turkish associations and its impact
on belonging, religious/national identity-making and socialization. We
can then go into discussing how my interlocutors diverge from tradi-
tional Belgian-Turkish associations and have a very unique vision of
their own associations and volunteering. This is a necessary discussion,
especially when we consider that public discourse towards Muslims and
Islam is highly embedded in negative stereotypes. Most of my interlocu-
tors embody Islamic symbols such as the headscarf, and this creates a
1 Introduction 17
tension in their social engagements, for example in their jobs, their chil-
dren’s schools, and in their own education. Volunteering also provides a
space where they can confront these tensions on their own terms. This
chapter briefly touches upon Islam’s problematic visibility in Europe for
the aim of better understanding how this problem is articulated among
the volunteers.
We have already discussed the theory which postulates that Euro-
pean Islam is individualized. Most of the studies produced on European
Muslims take this theory into account, and while I also acknowledge it
in this book, I want to look as well at how piety is very much relational.
Chapter 3 unpacks relationality in the context of care and caregiving.
Here, caregiving has a very specific meaning and does not only refer to
giving care to the needy. The female Muslim volunteers locate piety in the
very act of caring for everyone and everything, and pious self-making is
embedded in how much they can fulfill this responsibility. This form of
piety takes the theory of individualization one step further. Yes, Muslims
are more attentive to how they engage with religious knowledge and
ethical self-making, however my interlocutors strongly emphasize that
proper piety is very much socially embedded. This chapter unpacks how
the practice of caregiving figures into this properness. It is important
what this relationality does to the agency of the subject and its entan-
glement with the divine. Indeed, the core of relationality proposes that
individual agency is bound to the agency of God and society.
Chapter 4 addresses the economic and spiritual undertones of volun-
teering. It examines how modern capitalist rational thinking has given
shape to traditional Islamic notions of ‘blessed giving.’ Moreover, starting
from my interlocutors’ own narratives and religious lessons, it attempts
to capture how the essence of giving is quite detached from modern
capitalism, influencing the growth of the spiritual self. Since volun-
teering is the very act of giving (to society), Chapter 4 discusses the
‘spiritual economy’ of giving. There is a very topical debate concerning
the relationship between giving and gaining thawab in Islam. Some
scholars argue that giving does not require any personal attachment
to the receiving end, and the aim is to merely give by only expecting
divine reward. My interlocutors argue the very opposite: the donor has
to be completely embedded in the life of the receiver and should not
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address how the social audience informs the form and content of da’wa,
depending on whether they are Muslim or not Muslim. Effectively, this
endeavor is not restricted to inviting non-Muslims to Islam, but also
covers (community) self-help, reminding Muslims of their ethical duties
and dialogue with non-Muslims.
Building on the previous chapter, the final chapter focuses on visi-
bility, and critically engages with the demand for my interlocutors to
be more visible in the public sphere. While society asks for them to be
more visible in decision-making processes and generally in the events, I
argue that this demand is also an urge for more transparency. Visibility is
framed as a plea for greater female autonomy in the volunteering scene,
whereas transparency implies a proving of sincerity and asks whether
the female volunteers are indeed autonomous enough. It asks if their
volunteering is sufficiently modern-secular to be counted as sincerely
volunteering, or is it just another network of Muslims re-instating gender
stereotypes? The chapter goes on to show how visibility and non-visibility
are construed by the volunteers through the concept of mahram. I inter-
rogate how space is disclosed or not disclosed to people depending on
the fluctuating operation of mahram.
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Another researcher did not add much excitement or change their lives,
and I enjoyed their ease around me in the first few months. In fact, their
ease and comfort allowed me to be more comfortable in being ‘nosy.’
It was only after four to five months with the volunteers that I felt this
situation should change. I do not know what I was expecting, but I think
it was some sort of bond with the volunteers. I wanted to be taken into
consideration when they organized events. I already knew the executives
of the associations, the presidents, vice presidents and secretaries, all of
whom had my e-mail and phone number. They would drop me a line
and inform me of an event when it happened, but this was not enough. I
always had the impression that so much was going on behind the scenes,
so many mishaps, discussions, arguments, intimacies. I was not part of
that intimacy, and while I was familiar, I was still in the position of the
audience; I was one of those who were meant to see the product, the
event itself, and not behind the scenes.
Not only were they not even remotely interested in what I did, but
I felt that they saw it as some sort of a temporary ‘school project.’
Being so young, only 23, did not help, as I was at least seven years
younger than my youngest interlocutor. But as the years went by, and
I got married, and the fieldwork grew more intense, I noticed that my
interlocutors took me more seriously, and truth be told, more like an
adult. It obviously helped when I got married, as they saw me juggle my
responsibilities and basically become ‘one of them.’
The turnover of people within the associations was very high. Some
of the executives that I grew very close to and who helped introduce me
to most of my interlocutors during the first years left their positions and
moved on to different jobs and even countries. As a researcher, it was
difficult to keep up with these flows because with every new person I
had to re-introduce myself and re-gain their trust. I would get so close
to some of my interlocutors that I could ask them favors (with regards
to attending events) and even visit them unannounced, and then the
next day that could simply change because of turnover. The rest of my
interlocutors were very used to this, however, and had a much easier time
adjusting. Of course, they did not have the problem of re-instating trust,
but even working with different people for short time periods did not
seem to bother them.
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in the labor force. I sat through that event, even though I did not under-
stand one word of their Dutch (it turned out that Elif was too busy to
translate), just to meet Gulsah, the head of the Antwerp women’s asso-
ciation. She proved to be a very important person for my research in
Flanders. Not only did she introduce me to most of her entourage, and
even arrange and plan our interviews, she also gave me a lot of infor-
mation about the city and how their events were different in scope and
structure from the ones in Brussels.
Antwerp is a Flemish city through and through, and the linguistic
diversity of Brussels is absent in Antwerp. What this means for the events
in that city is that the associations and all their events are organized in
Dutch. This unity makes it easier for them to interact with the local
‘white’ Belgians. These are the words of Gulsah, who has been a volunteer
in Antwerp for more than a decade.
The Europeanness and the diversity in Brussels are reflected in the
city’s associations’ events. Events at the EU might be in English; else-
where they might be in French and Dutch, addressing both linguistic
groups and their issues. The Flemishness of Antwerp also draws volun-
teers from other parts of Flanders. This is why, when I met Gulsah, I
decided my research would be narrowed to Brussels and Antwerp.
In December 2014, I was acquainted and familiar with the asso-
ciations in Brussels and Antwerp. The associations themselves were
established in 2008, so that the women had an official space to volun-
teer. They do not really tackle women’s issues, but try to tackle social and
economic problems relating to women. What that means is they try to
incorporate (especially minority) women in their associations and mobi-
lize them to raise awareness and solutions to problems pertaining to their
social setting. They also state that by doing so, they enable women to
be more confident, active, expressive, and educated. They make explic-
itly clear that they are not a gender-segregated association, and want
to provide a platform where people can co-exist together, peacefully,
regardless of differences.
My interlocutors are all pious women, and as I unpack throughout this
book, volunteering for them is a route towards perfecting piety. Never-
theless, none of the associations has a religious component in its mission
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Sohbet Meetings
During the second and third years of my fieldwork, I became part of a
larger network of volunteers. Having attended numerous events, I grad-
ually became very familiar with certain gatekeepers, women who were
very well known and trusted within the volunteering scene. Like I said
before, it was very difficult for me to be taken seriously at first, but once
one person took my research seriously, the work picked up speed. For
me that person was Elif, my close interlocutor and later friend, who
eventually moved back to Turkey for her husband’s job. One evening,
after a panel debate, Elif asked me if I wanted to participate in a discus-
sion group later on. It would not take place in the association but in
someone’s home, and it would be very informal; they would just come
together to talk about God and stuff. I agreed to be part of the discussion
group, and later that evening, took a bus to Laeken for my first sohbet.
Sohbet means conversation in Turkish. The sohbet meetings are places
where a number of women come together to discuss a pre-determined
subject from a religious book, sermon video, or other religious text. The
sohbet sessions are seen as gatherings during which they obtain knowl-
edge through active discussion and explanation of the texts by a leading
figure, one who probably has more experience with the texts that the rest
of the women. The leading figure, who is also a woman, may not neces-
sarily have been through any formal religious education, but she would
have more experience with the texts and would initiate the discussions.
Sometimes, sohbets are active, and everyone participates; other times,
they may be passive and the leading figure is the only one to speak.
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These are spaces where knowledge is transmitted, and the women have
the chance to actively share their experiences and articulate knowledge
through those experiences. This is a space to unwind from the daily
hassles and immerse in spirituality. It is also a space where the women can
socialize on a busy weekday. Most of the women have known each other
for years, and the informal, cozy setting of the homes reflects the inti-
mate atmosphere. The hostess always makes some delicacies, and if the
hostess is really good in the kitchen, the evening could be quite extrav-
agant. The intimacy of the home, the food, the tea, and the company
of women make the sohbet meetings much more informal than a classic
lesson, but they also provide the kind of space where the women can be
open about themselves, their lives, and their thoughts. It is the sohbet
where I got to know my interlocutors. The sohbet is the backstage that I
mentioned before: the place where the real action took place, the delib-
eration and honesty. The events are always polished, but the sohbet, the
place where those events are developed, is raw and most insightful.
These meetings are not just random. Every sohbet group has its own
internal structure. Every group has its teacher or co-ordinator, someone
who organizes the dates and places of the meeting and initiates the
discussions. The co-ordinator also decides who will be part of their
group. Each group comprises roughly ten women, and if it grows to
be more, the group is divided. The women who are in these groups
are usually from the same age and occupational group. It is difficult to
find a group where there are members of different generations or educa-
tional backgrounds. Doctors are usually in the same group with other
doctors; housewives with housewives; and blue-collar workers with other
blue-collar workers. The main reason for this is working hours. House-
wives meet during daytime when their children are at school; women
who work meet in the evening after work, and so on. Since these women
are volunteers and the main component of volunteering is charity, it is
important that the women in the same groups are from similar socio-
economic backgrounds, ensuring they do not feel uncomfortable about
money. Collecting money is usually done very openly among my inter-
locutors; hence, they are careful that people can be comfortable at such
events.
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The final important point about the sohbet groups is that these are the
spaces where decisions are made. It is usually within these circles that the
women decide on their yearly event calendar and distribute the duties
among themselves. I have participated in many different groups, with
housewives and doctors, from blue-collar workers to university students.
I have seen that the event calendars and the major decisions are usually
developed by the more highly educated (often professional) women. The
others are expected to contribute logistically. The decision-makers also
contribute logistically, with their labor, money, and time, but they make
the calls.
There is the impression that these women (and men) have a better
comprehension of their social and political environment, and also of
their own human capital of volunteers. Those from the more highly
educated layer of volunteers are always at the forefront of events and
represent their team.
The two cities that hosted this research are Brussels and Antwerp. Both
cities in a way represent the complicated political, social, and linguistic
composition of Belgium as a federal country. Belgium is a multi-nation
state (Kymlicka 1995), consisting of three cultural communities: the
Flemish, the Francophone, and a small Germanophone group (Jacobs
2000, 290). Belgium was a unitary state until 1970, after which consti-
tutional reforms took place (1970, 1980, 1988), eventually leading to
a more complicated and ‘diverse’ political system (Jacobs 2000, 290).
With the 1993 constitutional reform, Belgium was finally acknowl-
edged as a federal state (Jacobs 2000, 290). Although the country is
comprised of three cultural groups, the main political divide is between
the Flemish and Francophone administrative regions, with the sepa-
rate Brussels-Capital region making the third (Murphy 2002, 696). The
Flemish region, Flanders, is located in the northern part of the country
that officially speaks the Dutch language (Murphy 2002, 696). Wallonia
is the French-speaking region, while Brussels is administratively bilingual
(Murphy 2002, 696).
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