HOW TO BE A GOOD WIFE

Secrets to a happy home and a marriage that

lasts
 By

Dr. N. Victory
Copyright ©2022
 Table Of Contents
Introduction
● Chapter 1:- Who is a Wife?
What does it mean to be a good wife?
What a husband needs from his wife
● Chapter 2
What are the qualities of a good wife?
● Chapter 3:-What makes a man happy in marriage?
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What a husband needs to hear
● Chapter 4:- What do men look for in a wife?
6 things every man wants from a woman
● Chapter 5:- How can I talk to my husband?
How can I Attract My Husband Emotionally?
● Chapter 6;- How can I Improve My Relationship With My husband?
● Chapter 7 :-What is a WIFE'S role in a marriage?
8 ways to make your husband happy
Conclusion
 Introduction

Every woman wants a happy home and it's so unfortunate that just a few really work towards
building one.Before we proceed,let me tell you a little story about myself.Growing up as the
second child in a family of ten,I watched with shock as little issues kept causing problems in
our family to the point that my father left the house and never returned.It really hurt me and
my siblings because deep down we knew that things would have been different if our
parents could just reason together and try to work things out.
Over the years I've seen homes shattered, I've seen others flourish and from my own
experience too, I can tell you that you can have a happy marriage if you're ready to put in the
work.
A wife is the maker of the home, even the Bible recognizes that fact because it says that a
wise woman builds her house but a foolish woman plucks it down with her mouth.So in my
opinion for you to have a happy marriage there are things you need to do as a wife and that
is actually what this book is all about.Before we proceed,I think it's best that we have an
understanding of who a wife is or what it means to be a wife.
 Chapter 1

WHO IS A WIFE?

A wife is a female in a marital relationship.

WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE A GOOD WIFE?

A good wife exhibits both care and compassion. She is sensitive to the family's needs, and
does her best to provide a solution. She understands when her husband is frustrated, and
tries to make him happy. Her caring disposition makes sure the family does not lack in any
aspect of life.She is able to understand her husband and find ways to make him happy ,
because as a wife, your primary duty is to your husband.You can be a mother to your
children but when it has to be a wife, your duty is to your husband alone.
 WHAT A HUSBAND NEEDS FROM HIS WIFE?

Both the husband and wife need trust, loyalty, fidelity, and love in order for their marriage to
work at all. The same goes for compassion, kindness, respect, and the like. There's a host of
basics we must adhere to as married people, and I think most of you recognize and can
name what those things are.As a woman and a wife, you need to show your husband that
you trust him, you love him, you respect him and are loyal to him, and one thing about men
is that once you do this, you're going to get it much more in return.Your family is going to be
heaven on earth no matter how much or how little you have.This is because as you find
ways to please him,he also finds ways to please you and there's going to be balance in the
relationship.
 Chapter 2

WHAT ARE THE QUALITIES OF A GOOD WIFE?

Here I listed the top qualities of a good wife and that will help you to be better.

1.Love your Husband Unconditionally:- In nuptials, both the husband and the
wife are committed to spending their life together.You should love your husband
unconditionally, accepting him for who he is.Instead of focusing on his character flaws, focus
on his strengths and make him feel loved.
2.Understand Him And Be Supportive:-When he brings up an idea, even if it
sounds foolish,try as much as possible to understand him and also support him.Let him
know that he has your full support.

3.Learn How To Communicate With Him:-Men are different from each

other.The way you talk to your father is different from the way you talk to your brother, and
the way you talk to your brother is also different from the way you talk to your husband.When
you're are talking to your husband, never forget to touch him, your touch alone makes him
feel relaxed and he'll be able to respond to you in a more favourable way.

4.Respect your Husband:-as a good wife you need to show your husband that you
respect him don't talk to him anyhow especially in public learn to respect his opinions
5.Always His Best Friend. Be his best friend ,chat with him, laugh with him, smile
with him, do little things together, focus on him.

6.Be a good listener.:-As a good wife you need to be a good listener, always hear
him out, don't be so quick to speak because the more you listen and your husband knows
he's being heard he will always open up to you and this is going to build intimacy between
the both of you.

7.Express your love. Do you love your husband? …Always Express your love for
him tell him you love him let him know he's loved and accepted

8.Respect The Person He Is. …

9.Respect his need for space. …

 Chapter 3

WHAT MAKES A MAN HAPPY IN MARRIAGE?

Acceptance and appreciation. He wants to know he is needed,"
"Just being in a relationship and being committed to it, just showing up every day is an
expression of [his] love,

What A Husband Needs To Hear?

Your husband needs to hear you trust and respect him both in your daily interactions and the
words that you say, but we are going to focus now on the words you say by giving you some
solid examples of how to verbally communicate to your husband that you trust and respect
him.Say things like I love you I care for you I believe in you I trust you
sometimes you've got to go out of your way to please him.
 Chapter 4
What Do Men Look For In A Wife?
Like women, men want a life partner who will be trustworthy, faithful and reliable. They want
a wife who will stand by their side and, considering divorce rates, it's no surprise that
dependability would continue to be attractive.

6 Things Every Man Wants From A Woman

1.A sense of humor. Guys like to laugh, and it's important to them that you're able to find
some of life's silly situations as funny as he does. …

2.A positive attitude. …

3.Personal drive. …

4.A passion for adventure. …

5.A sense of understanding when things get stressful. …

6.Someone who's thoughtful.

 Chapter 5

How Can I Talk To My Husband?

First, relax by managing your emotions, words and actions. Secondly, relate to your
husband; seek to understand him. Finally, release: When an argument is over, leave it that
way. Before trying to have a talk with your husband, pick a time when he's most relaxed—
not when he's walking in the door from work.
How Can I Attract My Husband Emotionally?
1.Keep him emotionally happy.

2.Learn to Understand him.

3.Communicate with him -Men might portray they are content with it all, but they do
need emotional satisfaction like any other human being.

4.Be satisfied, emotionally & physically.

5.Don't play mind games.

6.Never set rules and stop advising.

7.Make him feel like a better person.

 Chapter 6

How Can I Improve My Relationship With My

Husband?

Here are some strategies to help you strengthen your connection with your husband.

1.Adjust your expectations. Accept yourself and your spouse as you are now.

2.Date each other. Spend time alone together to re-ignite the intimacy and romance in
your relationship.

3.Become friends
 Chapter 7

WHAT IS A WIFE'S ROLE IN MARRIAGE?

As a wife, you're expected to serve your husband, preparing food, clothing and other
personal needs. As a mother, she has to take care of the children and their needs, including
education. As a worker, she has to be professional, disciplined and a good employee.
Ways You Can Be A Good Wife

1.Be warm and affectionate. One of the best traits of a good wife is someone who
knows how to show love to her husband.

2.Be understanding

3.Tend to your husband's needs

4.Give him space

5.Support his goals

6.Know how to argue

7.Be healthy together

8.Respect him, especially in public

8 Ways to Make Your Husband Happy

1.Show Him Respect.

2.Show Interest in His Hobbies.

3.Have Consistent Sex.

4.Do Something Unexpected for Him.

5.Be the Best Version of Yourself.

6.Let Things Go.

7.Take Care of Him.

8.Don't nag at him.

Conclusion
Every wise woman who wants to have a beautiful marriage will have to dedicate
herself to make her husband happy.
When your husband is happy, you're happy and there will be peace and tranquility in
your home and the blessings of God will abound.Never forget that Jesus loves you,
and God bless you.