HOW TO ATTRACT HIGH VALUE

GIRLS:

Step-by-step Guide To Attracting High Value Girls

Without Stress

© 2024 Kelly David

This ebook is an original work and should not be subjected to any
form of change, alternation, used in any way, transferred or shared
without the consent of the Author..

KELLY DAVID
 TABLE OF CONTENT..

INTRODUCTION.

1. EASY TRICKS TO GET AND KEEP HER

ATTENTION.

1.1 LEAVE YOUR NICE GUY BEHIND.

1.2 STOP BEING CONTROLLED.

1.3 AVOID THE FRIEND/NICE GUY ZONE.

1.4 STOP BEING NEEDY.

1.5 DEMONSTRATE YOU'RE AN HIGH VALUE MAN.

2. BECOMING THE PRIZE EVERY WOMAN WANTS
TO WIN.
2.1 BELIEF YOU'RE THE PRIZE.

2.2 STOP CHASING VALIDATION.

2.3 BECOME THE DECISION MAKER.

2.4 ASK HER FOR FAVORS.

2.5 SET AND COMMUNICATE GOOD STANDARDS.

3. WEIRD WAYS TO BE "MASCULINE" WITH WOMEN

AND MAKE THE WANT YOU.
3.1 WILLINGNESS TO WALK AWAY.

3.2 SET AND DEMONSTRATE BOUNDARIES.

3.3 BE WILLING TO SAY NO.

3.4 MAKE HER EARN YOUR APPROVAL.

3.5 DON'T QUALIFY YOURSELF.

3.6 ACT LIKE SHE'S ALREADY ATTRACTED TO YOU.

3.7 ENJOY HER, DON'T TRY TO ATTRACT HER.

3.8 NEVER DIFFUSE MOMENTS OF CHEMISTRY.

4. TEXTING MISTAKES THAT LEADS TO FRIEND
ZONE.

4.1 HAVING A LONG TEXTING CONVERSATIONS.

4.2 GOING FOR THE MEET UP WITHOUT FIRST SPARKING EMOTIONS.

4.3 BEING TOO PREDICTABLE.

4.4 THINKING SHE'S DIFFERENT.

4.5 CONFUSING RESPONSE FOR ATTRACTION.

4.6 NOT CONVEYING FUN.

4.7 NOT HAVING A TEXTING STYLE.

4.8 TRYING TOO HARD

5. BIGGEST DATING HACKS YOU'D WISH YOU KNEW

EARLIER.

5.1 WHEN IN DOUBT DO NOTHING.

5.2 DO NOT SEND BOYFRIEND TEXT, UNTIL YOU'RE HER BOYFRIEND.

5.3 ATTRACTION TRUMPS ALL.

5.4 SOMETIMES IT'S HER.

5.5 WIDEN YOUR NET.

6. SKILLS TO HAVE BEFORE STARTING A
RELATIONSHIP.
6.1 APPRECIATE YOUR PERSONAL TIME.

6.2 CONTROL YOUR BUDGET.

6.3 CONTROL YOUR STRESS.

6.4 GO AFTER YOUR PASSION.

6.5 BE UNAPOLOGETICALLY YOURSELF .

7. HOW TO TURN THINGS AROUND AND CHANGE

HER MIND AFTER ACTING TOO NEEDY.
7.1 RATIONALIZE YOUR TIME AND ATTENTION.

7.2 ASK HER FOR FAVORS.

7.3 PULL BACK YOUR INTEREST A LITTLE BIT.

8. WHEN SHE WANTS A BREAK. (EASY WAYS TO GET

HER BACK)
8.1 DO NOT TRY TO EXERT CONTROL.
9. REAL REASONS SHE'LL LOSE INTEREST IN YOU (4
WAYS TO KEEP HER INTERESTED IN YOU)
9.1 NO PROMISES OR FUTURE EXPECTATIONS.

9.2 HOLD BACK INFORMATION.

9.3 MAKE FUN OF NICE GUYS.

9.4 LEAVE HER GUESSING YOUR TRUE INTENTIONS.

10. INTERESTING CONVERSATION STARTERS THAT

BREAK THE ICE, AND MAKE HER WANT TO TALK TO
YOU AGAIN.
10.1 ASKING DISARMING QUESTIONS.

10.2 THE PROP BASED OPENER.

10.3 THE SITUATIONAL OPENER.

10.4 THE OPINION OPENER.

10.5 THE COLD READ.

10.6 THE SOCIAL OPENER.

11. THE RULE OF "NON-COMPLIANCE"( TURN

WOMEN ON AND MAKE THEM DESIRE YOU).
12. THE 2 BEST WAYS TO CREATE SEXUAL TENSION
IN WOMEN. (MAKE THEM WET EVEN BEFORE
TOUCHING THEM)

13. TRUSTED WAYS TO REGAIN HER TRUST AFTER

YOU MESSED UP.
13.1 COMPLETE AND TOTAL TRANSPARENCY.

13.2 BE CONSISTENT.

13.3 BE ACCOUNTABLE.

13.3 FORGIVE YOURSELF.

13.4 SET BOUNDARIES AND EXPECTATIONS.

INTRODUCTION

Welcome to Never Chase Women Again, the ultimate guide for men
seeking to become confident, irresistible, attractive and wanted by all
women.

This book will empower you to become the man that every woman
desires and help you overcome the common obstacles and mistakes
that hold most men back from success in dating and relationships.
You will learn how to get and keep her attention with ease, become
the prize every woman wants to win, and uncover strange but effective
ways to make her want you.

Say goodbye to the friend zone, as we guide you through texting

mistakes that lead to it and teach you the essential skills to have
before starting a relationship.

By the end of this ebook, you will have a newfound sense of

confidence and attract women effortlessly.

Whether you're single or in a relationship, this book will be your

roadmap to becoming the man that women cannot resist.

Get ready to become the object of desire, and never chase women
again!

1.0 EASY TRICKS TO GET AND KEEP HER

ATTENTION.

5 secrets to becoming a pro at getting women to chase after you….

Some years back, getting women to love and date me was almost
impossible....

It was the hardest thing to do...

I couldn't even get a woman to like me if it was needed to save my
life..

I was that bad…

I remember in my 1st year at university, there was this girl in my

Department who I was madly in love with. She was the most beautiful
girl on campus at that time...

She was that beautiful...

We became friends and eventually got so close that people thought

we were dating…

We were so close and I felt all was good...

Not until she told me she was in love with someone…

That day was one of the worst days of my life...

I was heartbroken, emotionally shattered, and mentally unstable...

My GPA was affected, and I almost committed suicide...

At first I felt it might be because I wasn't financially stable, but I later

got to know the guy she left me for wasn't better off....

" What went wrong ?", "

" What did I not do right ?"

" Was I not good enough ?"

" I thought she was mine already"

So how did I lose her ? "

"How can I get her back ? "

These questions and many more made me realize that I need to stop
being the naive, shy, love and attention seeking little boy I was..

'I realized I needed to be the master of my game'…

I know you might be wondering how this concerns you, but after
reading the next few lines, you know how this concerns you…

You'll know what you've been doing wrong... But don't worry about
that….

At the end of this book, you'll be able to :

- Get on track with your love life..

- Know the mistakes you've been making and how to correct

them…

- And the simple tricks to get high class women to love and seek
your attention even if you're ugly or poor....
1.1 LEAVE YOUR NICE GUY BEHIND.

Attraction isn't black or white, it's a shade of gray, and this freaks a lot
of guys out..

most times we want to know if we take the risk, we won't get

rejected…

And what happens if you don't take the risk ??

'You wind up in the friend zone'

Most guys tell themselves they'll ask for her number tomorrow, or
they'll go for the first kiss on the second or third date…

But what happens instead ???

Second date never comes

She wants a man who leads, who makes it happen…

Do you know why it doesn't just work out when you confess your
feelings to a woman ??

Because that's not what she wants..

And now the big question…

What does she want ??

She wants to feel like it just happened…

she wants to go back to her friends and say,

" I don't know what it is about him",

" there's just something about him"," it just happened'',

'' he's not even my type of guy"...

A lot of guys thinks

" if I was richer or better looking, then I'd get her"

No !!!

You'd just be more depressed because now your excuse is gone..

Now you can't blame circumstances, or genetics, or the economy..

Check around , there are plenty ugly or broken guys with beautiful
women..

Why ??

Because they don't slink down, they don't say,

" I'm short and bald, so no attractive girl for me"

,"I don't deserve them" ," blah blah blah"

No.. A big no

They slapped a big price tag on themselves, they changed the

narrative…

We've all met some of these guys before..

You've got to be unapologetically you…

You've got to own it…

If you're short, own it….

If you're ugly, own it….

If you're fat, go on a diet….

It's always annoying when a guy says,

" I'm a nice guy",

" why can't she love me for me ?" …

Come on man, things don't work like that…

You don't like her for you…

I bet there are lots of really nice, obese women out there, but no
average guy will score a 200 pounder…
I mean, if that's your thing, cool, but my point is we like to complain
that women are too judgemental, too superficial, but so are we…

We want the trophy wife, so don't be bitter that she does, too…

Don't be bitter at all…

What you need to do is to become the trophy itself…

Leave the person you were behind, and become the best version of
you…

I tell guys "don't send her flowers until she becomes your girlfriend or
wife"...

Most of us had made this mistake… you won't like how it ends when
you do it…

Once a woman knows she has you, it's over, you'll never have her...

Girls are like hunters, they want to bag a lion, or a bear…

something really hard to catch..

And along comes you, and you're like this affectionate puppy..

You're cute, you're nice, you have a lot in common with her, but you're
way too easy to catch…

And that bores her, and to girls, boredom equals death….

Boredom is the Antithesis to attraction…

What is attraction ??

" Attraction isn't a choice"

A woman doesn't decide to get attracted to you..

she just does it..

it's a reaction, she doesn't choose who she's attracted to…

Nice guys wish that was the case, if they just do enough nice things….

That's not how it works…

Why is being nice such a woman repellent ??

Because it comes across as trying hard..

It comes across as fake…

A lot of nice guys say to me,

" I don't want to be fake ",

but you're already being fake…

Instead make yourself more attractive by flirting…

Get good at flirting and being playful or teasing a woman, in the way
where she knows it's on….
Speak her language..

women speak a secret language and they unconsciously speak it with

these guys that they're into…..

That secret language is flirting, and any guy can learn to speak it…..

Things are changing, and the whole dating scene is changing,

mediocre guys are getting crushed….

A woman doesn't just fall on your laps like the good old days….

You've got to understand how the game is played nowadays….

You've got to take risks and chances and become a better version of
you…

It's not pretending to be someone you're not….

A lot of guys say " I don't want to be someone I'm not" …

No…

It's becoming a better version of you…

He's in there, but he's not coming out until you're ready to leave who
you were behind….

That's it..
1.2 STOP BEING CONTROLLED..

"Are you being controlled ??"

" Who controls you ??"

I know this seems like a weird question, but one of the questions you
want to continually ask yourself is "

Am I being controlled right now ?"

" Am I really myself ?"....

How do you know ?? That's what we'll be talking about….

Nice guys are the kings of being controlled, actually they're the
opposite of kings…

They're the slaves, servant, they basically hand control of their life
over to someone else…

And they wonder why they never end up with who they want…

So, what do I mean by " am I being controlled ?"...

Most average guys I've met are being controlled by a woman…

They wake up and they reacted to this woman..

They wake up and check if she texted back, then they check social
media pages to see if she has seen their last post or story…
If they notice a new picture of her and maybe she's with a guy in the
picture their mind goes into a spin….

And in the next few hours they're thinking about her…

If she texts them back, or decides to hangout they're happy..

On the other hand, if she pulls back, if she cancels plans or she says
something they don't like, the rest of the day is spent dwelling on
her…

1.3 SHE HAS CONTROL OF THEIR MIND..

I see it all the time, and I ask them " why do you text them every night
?"

And they'll be like,

" because she expects me to",

or
" she might get angry"...

In that case you're controlled by the fear of losing her, you're

controlled by her approval, you're also controlled by her opinion…

"what does she think about me?"....

These are all things that control you…

One of my goals for the past some time now is to go deeper to the real
issue that nice guys have and suffer from…

And that's because what I've noticed from guys that suffer or have
suffered from this, including myself, is that it's never one area of your
life where you hand over control…

For instance, another area where I've seen nice guys hand over
control is in their financial life …

" I can't make more money",

" my boss won't give me a raise",

" I'm stuck with this job",

" the economy is bad "....

We see it all the time when we talk to other people, but we don't notice
it in ourselves most of the time…

" What happens when you give up control for too long ??"

What happens is,

"you become impotent"...

I understand the word " impotent" implice not performing well in bed..
but I'm not talking about that…

Impotent in this context is not being able to take effective actions…

And "nice guys" tend to be impotent in most areas of their life,
because they gave up control…

One of the things I personally noticed in myself was that, when I took
control back in my love life, and I said no one is going to control me,
the attitude cropped into other areas of my life…

I began to realize there's always a solution if you think clearly

enough…

And you can only think clear enough when you take ownership of your
thinking….

1.4 AVOID THE FRIEND / NICE GUY ZONE.

When a woman is just getting to know a guy, whether she's meeting

you out at a bar or a social event…

Maybe a mutual friend in a social circle just introduced you to her, or a

new co -worker…

What will happen is she'll quickly try to put you in one of these 4
categories…

I'll be telling you here and now what these 4 categories are…

And why most guys are mistakenly putting themselves in the wrong
categories and costing them the woman they really want…
When a woman is just getting to know a man, she immediately wants
to know " what are the potentials this guy has in my life"...

And this is the biggest reason most guys don't end up with the woman
they really want..

Pay close attention as I go through this, and you'll see it makes lots of
sense….

So the first category is the most common of all categories, and lots of
average guys fall into this category….

And that is the " nice guy" ….

And it's the worst of the 4 categories because the nice guy is invisible
to a woman….

He's the same like every other guy she has met…

He says the same thing, compliment her, he's just so ordinary that he
becomes invisible to her….

And most times, they're being nice not because they are, but because
they think this is the right way to win her heart…

When a woman is just getting to know a man, she immediately wants

to know " what are the potentials this guy has in my life"...

And this is the biggest reason most guys don't end up with the woman
they really want..
Pay close attention as I go through this, and you'll see it makes lots of
sense….

So the first category is the most common of all categories, and lots of
average guys fall into this category….

And that is the " nice guy" ….

The average guy is a nice guy….

And it's the worst of the 4 categories because the nice guy is invisible
to a woman….

He's the same like every other guy she has met…

He says the same thing, compliment her, he's just so ordinary that he
becomes invisible to her….

And most times, they're being nice not because they are, but because
they think this is the right way to win her heart…

The next category is the " friend zone" ….

Most guys think this is the worst place to be, but actually the nice guy
zone is the worst place….

The next category is the " friend zone" ….

Most guys think this is the worst place to be, but actually the nice guy
zone is the worst place….
If you're meeting a girl at work or a social circle, and she thinks,

" oh this guy is cool'," this guy is nice",

" he might make a good friend",

at least she has regards for you, she recognizes you, you're not
invisible to her…

And if truly you're friends with a woman, you can eventually date her…

The next category is the " potential boyfriend" ….

This is the stage where a woman thinks of you as a potential

boyfriend..

And the last category is the "potential lover" ….

She may or may not like you, she may or may not think you both have
something in common, but she finds herself attracted to you….

Even when you're not her type, and the feelings are bottling up inside
her…

Now, I want to tell you the biggest mistake a guy makes when he
meets a girl he likes….

And that is presenting himself as a potential boyfriend….

When an average guy sees a woman he's attracted to, he goes into
potential boyfriend mode…
Like,

" I'm the good guy",

" I'm the nice guy",

" I have a lot in common with her",

" we'll get along just well",

" I'm going to listen to her problems"

and

" I'm going to be attentive to her ".....

And what happens if you go into the " potential boyfriend mode" is
you're unconsciously turning into the average " nice guy"....

Because you're doing what every other guy does….

You're faking interest in things you don't really have interest in….

Your real personality is not coming through because you're going into
the mode of

" I need to show her that I will make a good boyfriend"

And when that happens you unconsciously wind up in the " nice guy
zone, sometimes in the "friend zone"....
But you never wind up in the " potential boyfriend", or " potential lover"
zone.

So what do you need to do ???

You need to realize that being a woman's potential boyfriend or

potential lover has nothing to do with being a Romantic perfect
gentleman…..

Your idea of romance is different from a woman's idea of romance.

Showing up on a date with flowers, or opening the car door for her is
good, but that's not romance….

The romance that women are accustomed to is the anticipation,

" is it going to happen?"

" Does he like me ",

" is he going to text me?"....

That's what romance is to her….

It's the anticipation and build up where all these feelings are being
created….

A lot of times she's viewing you as a " potential boyfriend''....

If a woman never views you as a " potential boyfriend ", " she'll never
view you as a potential lover "....
The main point is if you go into an interaction with a new woman with
certain assumed potentials and you say to yourself,

" I want to show her that I'll make a good boyfriend ",

you're actually doing yourself no good, and you're going to wind up in

the nice guy or friend zone……

Instead you want to be the " potential lover " that keeps her
anticipating what'll happen next.

1.5 STOP BEING NEEDY..

I've coached lots of guys for some time now, and one thing I've
realized is they don't act in their best interest when it comes to their
social life…

Even when a guy thinks he knows the game, his emotions take over
and cause him to act insecure, needy, clingy and predictable…

Once emotions take over, guys start doing things that they know they
shouldn't do..

'Feeling the need to call or text her'

'Unable to play it cool'

'Blurting out feelings too soon'

'making yourself too available' because you're scared if you don't hang
out with her she'll disappear…

'Showing noticeable jealousy' when she mentions another guy…

'Showing too much disappointment' when she can't hang out…

Here's the worst part….

"Women reactively test men to see if he has that needy side"

She'll cancel plans and pay close attention to see how you'll react…

She'll forget to text you back to see how you handled it…

She'll challenge you on stuff to see how quickly you back down…

Here's an example of how a woman can test a guy….

If you're listening to a kind of song you like, she might say

" do you like that ?",

In a tone that expresses that she definitely does not like the song….

How do you react or respond ???

Do you lie and say " Not really"?

If yes, you're trying hard and she realizes at that moment that you're
trying too hard to impress her, to make her like you.....

And she doesn't want that….

No girl wants a guy who won't defend himself, even against her….

She'll want you to look her in the eyes and say,

" yes this song is great ".....

DEMONSTRATE YOU'RE A HIGH VALUE

1.6
MAN…

So how do you let a woman know that you're a high value man ???

How do you get across and tell her about all your attractive
qualities???

Or the reasons she should be with you, choose you above other guys
after her…

What do you say to her ??

Well the answer is you don't say anything…

show don't tell

One of the mistakes that I used to make personally and a mistake that
I see most guys make is we kind of know after a while what women
are attracted to…

We know a woman wants a guy that other women want…

We know that they want an adventurous guy, maybe a dominant

guy….

And the mistake we guys make most times is we don't know how to
demonstrate these qualities…

Talk is cheap

A rich person doesn't walk around telling others that he's rich…

Likewise a confident guy doesn't really have to tell everybody

" hey I'm confident"...

Because when you do that, what you make other people think is you
actually care, or else you won't be saying anything…

It's the same thing with the way you express your quality to a
woman….

When you verbally say it, it comes across as trying hard and it actually
has the opposite effect…

Your " ATTENTION " tells a woman more than your words ever will….
You could sit there and tell a woman

"you have options",

"you've got so many girls you're talking to",

" you have a good social life" ….

But the minute she shows up and she gets all your attention, well then
she can see that whatever you're saying doesn't matter….

The reality is how much attention you give her demonstrates your
value….

Because it's harder to get a high value guy's attention…

So a woman knows when she walks into a place and a guy is all over
her, talks to her, if she asks him to hang out he jumps at it…

She knows she has all his attention, she knows he can't be too high of
a value of a guy….

As a high value guy, your attention is not easy to get, he has a lot of
stuff going on in his life, and he is not going to get locked up with her
too fast….

So if you're out with a woman you like and you're talking to her, for a
Moment take your attention from her and get talking with your
friends…

That does way more than you standing there talking for two hours
about your social life…
Seeing it would create a better emotional effect than you telling her….

Flirting or starting a conversation with another woman...

A woman wants to know that other women like you….

She wants to look at your confidence and know you're experienced…

She wants to know this, you don't need to tell her….

It could be you starting a conversation with another woman when

you're together…

Mind you, don't do this all the time, less it becomes disrespectful….

If you do this once in a while, she'll see that you have no problem
talking to other women, that you can create attraction with other
women….

The message has been sent….

She'll see this and it's more powerful than you telling her…

Another quality that makes you more attractive is being able to handle
things…

Instead of talking about this, demonstrate it..

Talk is cheap…
Handle something that is way out of her control..

It shows her that you're the guy that takes care of things, and you
have to demonstrate this in action….

And also lead and seduce…

Most guys when going through dating advice hears things like,

" you've got to bring sex into the conversation",

" you've got to be more sexual "....

And these guys do talk about it… they say things like,

" I love sex ",

" I can go all night ",

" blah blah blah"....

I've made this mistake too… You bring it in and try to talk all sexual….

But the reality is you'll accomplish way more by being a seductive guy,
instead of telling her how good you're in bed….

All these are meaningless as opposed to having a conversation with

her…
And then creating that moment where everything slows down, and
you're looking at her in a seductive way, maybe you touch her
hands…

That's going to demonstrate everything you think you were

demonstrating to her by talking about sex and telling her about your
fuck life and other irrelevant stuffs…

So getting the women of your choice or dream, or getting women to

chase after you isn't after all a big deal….

Only if you know how to play your cards well….

Trust me….

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