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HFDS 105 V-Chapter 5 Academic Essay-The Challenges and Triumphs of The Family Stage With Adolescents
HFDS 105 V-Chapter 5 Academic Essay-The Challenges and Triumphs of The Family Stage With Adolescents
"Families are the compass that guides us. They are the inspiration to reach great
heights, and our comfort when we occasionally falter" stated by the former governor of
Oklahoma, Brad Henry (Sinrich, 2023). Family stages are the different phases that
happen in life through time. These stages have varied family structure because each
family is unique as they are. According to Lauer and Lauer (1997), these family stages
initially start between families as each family includes 1) unattached young adults,
wherein there is establishment of self in work and individuals aim to develop their own
intimate relationships. This would soon be followed by the stage of 2) joining families
through marriage: the newly married couple, in this stage there is realignment of
relationships within the immediate family and the in-laws or the extended families to be
included and recognized. After the some period of time, with the process of accepting
new members in the form of children or offspring into the family system which are called
3) family with young children. As the children grow older, some of the boundaries
would have to adapt in becoming more flexible with the a 4) family with adolescents;
there is a prompt shift toward concerns for the older generation wherein communication
between the parent and adolescents is more highlighted. Moreover, in the phase of 5)
launching children and moving on, the system accepts numerous forms of exits and
entries like how the grown adults are soon to move out to start their independent lives.
This is followed by the last stage which is the 6) family in later life, this is where the
foundational system of family which now includes the elderly couple would have to
adapt in accepting the shifting generational roles as they grow older and become
providers of wisdom and guidance to the younger generation. The essence of these
family stages is further illustrated on the journey of families as they also progress
through time, with the family dynamics changing needs due to circumstances,
2018). According to Bi et al. (2018), there are different studies in the field of
Adolescence is the period of major physiological and psychological changes that have
restructure their roles and work towards a more equal relationship. Although
disagreements between parents become more heated and common during adolescents,
these disagreements are also regarded to be a way for parents and children to
negotiate relational changes. The short-term dispute between the parent and child that
take place during conflict exchanges are vital in the formation of parent-child
between the parent and the adolescent; it is directly linked to the adolescent’s
when encountering conflict is likely to adapt and rearrange their relationships more
parents and adolescents are capable of switching between a spectrum of positive and
negative emotions, then these said disputes, conflicts, or disagreements are beneficial
from different families to discuss their issues and what factors they consider before
making decisions. After interviewing the mother or the decision-maker it becomes clear
that every family has its own stage wherein difficulties and key events occur. The first
family interviewed is in the stage 4 cycle (the family with adolescents); their household
is comprised of two adults (a single mother and her sister) and three children (an
members; mother, father, and son (seventeen-year-old). The last interviewee focuses
on a family of four, consisting of a mother, father, and two children (fifteen-year-old and
sixteen-year-old)—they are also in the stage of family life characterized by the presence
mother is financial instability since it is costly to send all three children to school
simultaneously. Another prevalent concern is the amount of care given to each child in
the household that only favors the youngest and oldest. The second family faces lack of
more time with his peers and is wary of showing affection to his parents. The third family
finds it difficult to balance work commitments, household responsibilities, and time with
their children's extracurriculars in school, because believe it or not, even teenagers are
in need of their parents' full attention. Another issue is the lack of personal time which
leaves little time for individual activities or quality time as a pair. In terms of the factors
that contributed to their family issue, the single mother said she is too focused on her
work to provide financially for her children, and with that, she cannot give attention to all
of her children. On the other hand, the factors contributing to the second family's issue
are the parents' hectic schedule and their son's interest in being with his peers.
According to the mother from the third family, the variables that appeared to be
responsibilities. Moreover, the first family resolved their issue with the financial support
of the parent’s sibling; she would help pay the children’s tuition fee if they were in dire
need of help for the children to continue their education. The second family deals with
their issue through spending time, especially on weekends, and the parents adjust to
the interest of their son by learning the trends and his hobbies. The third family resolves
their issue by actively involving the father in important family choices, considering his
perspectives. They also resolve problems by having time management strategies and
exploring other support systems other than their extended family. With regard to the
decision-making of the single mother and her sister, they reach a joint arrangement that
is equally acceptable to all parties concerned. In the second family, the mother and the
father confer on what they believe is best for the family. While the third family embraced
shared decision-making, time management skills, seeking support, and focusing on the
well-being of all family members, all of which contributed to the family's progress and
The stages families go through as they progress in life bring forth their own unique
challenges and dynamics. The interviews conducted with family stage with adolescents
provided valuable insights into the common issues and factors that influence their
address their challenges. The diverse and ever-changing nature of family stages was
evident in this case study. Each stage presents its own set of challenges, requiring
families to adapt and evolve for a harmonious and happy life. Financial instability and
the struggle to balance attention among multiple children were issues faced by the
family with adolescents. They sought support from extended family and developed close
family ties with cousins their age, and financial assistance to ensure their children's
family, who addressed them through quality time and understanding their teenage son's
needs. One family struggled with work-life balance and unequal distribution of
support to tackle these challenges. The interviews emphasized the importance of open
considering all perspectives and needs, were reached by the first family. The second
family prioritized parental collaboration for the family's best interests. The third family
all members. The family stages serve as a guiding framework as families navigate the
different phases of life. Families are constantly evolving entities shaped by their
technology, and lifespan. The challenges encountered provide opportunities for growth
Overall, families are essential in our lives as they guide and inspire us. The
family stages illustrate their journey, showcasing resilience and the ability to overcome
insights into the complexity and diversity of family life. Effective communication, support,
and shared decision-making enable families to thrive and find happiness throughout
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