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Reclaim Newsletter Winter 2011
Reclaim Newsletter Winter 2011
Reclaim Newsletter Winter 2011
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RECLAIM Staff
Directors Notes
Janet Bystrom, MSW, LICSW Director / Therapist
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At RECLAIM, we believe that each person who comes through the door, client, volunteer or staff person alike, is capable of both transforming and being and being transformed through our relationships with one another. We also believe that there is no distinction between the act of giving and receiving and that participation in this process is fundamental to our well-being. This newsletter is dedicated to the incredible volunteers who participate in this active transformation of self and other each and every day at RECLAIM. We hope that reading what they have shared about the gift of giving will lift your hearts and inspire you to give in whatever way you are able, to the things that have meaning in your life.
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Dana
Mondy
What compels you to contribute? My own experiences as a trans person trying to access healthcare have pushed me to shift the way power and oppression play out in client/provider relationships. What do you hope your contribution makes possible for others? I hope trans and queer youth find relationships and space at Reclaim to heal.
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http://reclaim-lgbtyouth.org/
Jacob Kiakahi
I've been providing Reconnective Therapy, Classical Homeopathy, and teaching EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) at RECLAIM for about six months. By doing so, it feels like I am reclaiming an opportunity to help others. It also feels like I am reclaiming aspects of my own life history through my experiences of working with the youth served by RECLAIM. Using the life experiences that I've had to be of assistance to other people provides me with a concrete experience of the reality that we are all connected to each other that we share one heart and one world, and reminds me that the more I can have a concrete lived experience of that reality, the more fully alive and fully human I feel myself to be. It has been very powerful for me to witness, from the perspective offered to me by volunteering at RECLAIM, how much positive change there has been in the past twenty or thirty years for young GLBT people. What compels me to contribute? Being asked. For me, asking for help is a sacred act, and if I am able to sincerely answer that request, I am honoring what is sacred in the relationship between any two people. I hope to play a role in the continuous process of another person remembering who they are, in order that we both might experience in ourselves an unshakable foundation on which to build joyful and loving lives.
Rhys Preston
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http://reclaim-lgbtyouth.org/
Christy Lillibridge
I have been volunteering at RECLAIM as an acupuncturist for about three years--since the beginning. I am reclaiming giving back to the community. I came to RECLAIM because I was able to have a mentor when I was younger, and it made a huge difference in the emotional aspect of my life. This work gives me a fresh perspective on where folks are coming from. It allows me to work with folks who have different perspectives and are living in different times. It gives me perspective on how the world is changing, and also the similarities, the thread that runs through it. I hope that the people I work with will gain a sense of empowerment in a healing situation and they can use their power and voice to create how the appointment goes and gain the most out of it.
Stacy Husebo
To be able to work in the way that I get to work at RECLAIM is an empowering and humanizing experience. I dont feel like I have to cut off any part of who I am, and I hope that the people who come through the doors dont feel like they have to cut off any part of who they are. Its inspiring to see all of the diversity of challenges and diversity of strengths that people bring from their experiences and their lives. This work is compelling because it is a generative process. It's not a one-way thing, but a nourishing experience for everyone involved. Through meditation, I hope that people develop a deeper ability and capacity to know and accept themselves, to be in relationship with others, and to integrate their own experiences. I hope that this connection has a ripple effect, compelling them to give back and contribute to other people and our world. I also hope that people can connect with a greater sense of curiosity and joy in their lives. Thanks!
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http://reclaim-lgbtyouth.org/
Volunteer Therapist
Alex Iantaffi
I have been volunteering at RECLAIM for about three months by providing mental health services as a licensed therapist. Through my volunteer work, I am reclaiming the possibility of making a positive difference for my community. I feel like my work with RECLAIM allows me to stay connected with younger members of my community, and to broaden my understanding of the community beyond my own individual identity and experiences. I feel really grateful to be able to use some of my privilege in service to the community. I hope that my contribution helps to increase the well being of my communities, especially for younger community members.
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http://reclaim-lgbtyouth.org/
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Advisory Board
I have been on the Advisory Board of RECLAIM, and have been since shortly after the organization came into existence. I think the first time it came into focus that I was trans, it was about 1970. I had nothing. There was no resource. I could not be out, or open, with any other human being on earth. What I was dealing with felt impossible, shameful, and dark--it was unthinkable. If I had told my parents the best I could have hoped for was to be forced into therapy that would have been punishing. My stake in this is really personal. It's about making things different for other people, and through that, reaching back and making some repairs in my own life, and my own brokenness. What brought me into supporting RECLAIM was hearing Janet talk about how she didnt just want to provide queer youth with resources so that they can survive in a broken world. The goal of RECLAIM is to fix a broken world so that it is less hurtful to the people that have to live in it. I am calling on people to step up and support RECLAIM with their hands and their hearts and their wallets because our world is not yet repaired. Our youth are in pain, and are too alone. Its not okay for us to say that it gets better at some point. It has to be better now. Those of us who survived the brutality of our youths can say that young people will survive the brutality of their youths too, but thats not enough. Youth needs to be less brutal for our sons and daughters, nieces and nephews. These are the people who will thank us or curse us. We all benefit from this work. I benefit when they break open the boxes I was told I had to live in. I am freer and more gender nonconforming at 53 than I ever could have imagined being at 33, because youth has shoved queer identity into some directions that my generation did not, and from which I benefit. I owe the youth because they make me freer. I want RECLAIM to become stable and last a long time, with the support and strength of many people. I dont want it just to be something that exists because of the incredible passion of one person on whos shoulders we all stand.
MJ Gilbert
Ive been on the Advisory Board at RECLAIM for about a year and a half. I got involved because I believe that youth should have the experience of connecting with people who understand their specific needs. As a youth worker, I recently had a client who committed a crime and got a lawyer. When the lawyer was first assigned, I explained that my client was transgender and the lawyer looked at me and said what is that? That happens too often with different agencies. At RECLAIM youth who identify as LGBT can get resources from a place that understands exactly where theyre coming from, where they can feel comfortable, express themselves, and in turn learn how to heal. My connection with RECLAIM has been powerful for me. I have worked with Janet for many years, and I believe in the work that she does. I would like my contribution for RECLAIM to be a support so it can continue to sustain itself and grow.
Val Smith
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http://reclaim-lgbtyouth.org/
Advisory Board
I am on the Advisory Team for RECLAIM, and I have been since it started. Im reclaiming culturally competent mental health care for young people. Mine got squashed when I was young, and I put time and energy into RECLAIM because I know that the young people that go there get heard and get the things they are supposed to get when they connect with someone around mental health matters. They dont get some creepy old guy doodling on a notepad. I started referring young people to Janet before I even met her, because of what other young people said that she did for them. I never worry, ever, about referring anybody to RECLAIM. At some other agencies, the agency might be great, but I am going to be very specific about who the person talks to. At RECLAIM I know that anybody who might answer the phone will be a good first contact, and wont offend anybody. I hope that young people walk away from RECLAIM with a sense of self, and with intact beings. I hope that they get to experience connecting with themselves like they never have before, and that the impact that they have at RECLAIM affects them for their life, in all the relationships that they make.
Roxanne Anderson
Fundraising Volunteer
I have been volunteering with RECLAIM for about a year and a half doing administrative assistance. By volunteering I am reclaiming community in a new place. My work with RECLAIM has given me a sense of community and connection. I contribute so that there will be a space that exists like this. Its my way of giving back for all the spaces I have been able to have access to over the years as a queer person. I hope that my contribution can ensure a safe space, and a group of people the youth can talk to and relate to.
DRAKE
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http://reclaim-lgbtyouth.org/
I have been involved as a volunteer with Reclaim since the door of that lovely space in Uptown opened 2 years ago. As a co-facilitator of the Gender Exploration group, I was thrilled to see the new officemuch more of a shared community space than a stanch therapists office. I can see that youth feel a sense of belonging, responsibility and dignity when walking through the doors of Reclaim. Nine and a-half years ago, when I was working as a street-based outreach worker for homeless youth Janet asked me to help her start a group that focused on supporting Transgender and Gender Non-Conforming young people. From that day forward, I have spent nearly every Thursday night for the last nine and a half years with Janet, in a room full of comfy chairs, surrounded by amazingly resilient youth. My goal has been to support them in their search for authenticityfinding their authentic selves in relationship to gender identity. Most youth I have gotten to know through the Gender Exploration group are quick to find themselves and their gender identity but spend much time convincing and encouraging others to see and acknowledge them as their authentic selves. Most of the support I have offered has revolved around the challenges youth face with family, friends, co-workers and larger systematic barriers that refuse to recognize the complexity of gender identity. Specifically for those who do not fit within the culturally defined gender binary. I write this as I prepare to leave Minneapolis and move to the Washington DC area. The Minneapolis LGBT community has much to offer and has treated me well for many years: as a community member, a client receiving services and as a youth service provider I call Minneapolis home. The Gender Exploration group and Reclaim is called home by many young people and as a volunteer and group facilitator, I share that sense of belonging and will miss it terribly. My lifes work has been inspired by the resiliency, compassion and solidarity I have been privileged enough to share with the youth whom I have met through Reclaim. The commitment that I have witnessed group members make week after week over the last 9 and a-half years has been a resounding commitment to authenticity...to youth being themselves, regardless of how challenging, painful, costly and exhausting. I have witnessed youth grow into themselves with a fierceness that is indescribable. A fierceness that has inspired me weekly for nearly a decade! These youth have all become a part of me...of who I am, what I stand for and the belief I have in the world and in our community. From my filled up heart and my forever-inspired soul, thank you Reclaim for the daily support you give young people to meet these challenges and for allowing me to be a part of such a powerful journey for so many youth over the years. -Alex Jackson Nelson
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http://reclaim-lgbtyouth.org/
Thank You!
RECLAIM owes much of its success to the dedication of volunteers who have contributed literally hundreds of hours of support. We wish to highlight some people who have made significant contributions and deeply regret any oversights!
RECLAIM Services
Individual and Family Therapy
Services are provided by a licensed mental health professional. These sessions are available to clients regardless of their ability to pay. Effective integration of sexual orientation and gender identity is critical to accomplish successful transition from adolescence to adulthood; this is the focus of most individual and family sessions.
Support Groups
There are two support groups, the Gender Exploration Group and RECLAIM Families. Group is a place where young people can articulate their hopes and fears and encourage one another to find the strength to live their lives with authenticity and power.
Volunteers
Katie Burgess Terry Dickelman Florence Dillon Dana Jeffries Marcy Micek Jennifer Mouchet Alex Iantaffi Alex Jackson Nelson Moe Norton-Westbook Drake Oakley Qamar Saadiq-Saoud Alex Younger
74% of clients report having been harassed due to perceived sexual orientation or gender expression
Christy Lillibridge
Acupuncture
Funders
AHS Foundation Charter Oak Foundation Sisters of St. Joseph Rainbow Health Initiative
Maryrose Dolezal
Global Somatics
Stacy Husebo
Meditation
Special Thanks
RARE Productions for framing our beautiful youth artwork
Jake Kiakahi
RCT/EFT/ Homeopathy
Amelia Smith
Yoga
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http://reclaim-lgbtyouth.org/