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1. what was your first impression of me? what do you think 26. What's Your Favorite Kind Of Forplay?

of me now?
27. What About Your Sexuality Are You Still Learning To
2. Describe Our First Kiss Embrace?
3. When Did You Know You Wanted To Pursue A Relationship
With Me? 28. What Are You Still Trying To Unlearn About Sex?
4. What Do I Do That Turns You On?
5. How Do You Like To Be Touched? 29. Give Our Sex Life An Honest Yelp Review

6. What Makes You Feel Special? 30. How Do You Like To Communicate About Sex Or During
Sex?
7. What Are Your Needs In A Relationship?
31. What Is Your Favorite Sex Position? Why?
8. Have You Ever Broken Someone's Heart? Have You Ever
Had Your heart Broken? 32. Are You Friends With Any Of Your Exes?

9. Have You Ever Said "I Love You" Without Meaning It? 33. Name One Thing Better Than Sex

10. How Many Times Have You Been In Love? 34. How Do You Like To Communicate?

11. What Makes You Feel Sexy? 35. Describe Your Relationship History

12. Describe The First Time We Had Sex 36. Admit Something

13. When Do You Know You're In Love? 37. What Song Feels Like Falling In Love For The First Time?

14. What Is Your Love Language To Give Vs Receive? 38. What's The Best Lesson An Ex Has Ever Taught You?

15. How Do You Deal With Relational Conflict? 39. What's Something You Wish You Were Better At In A
Relationship?
16. Describe Your Ideal Date
40. What Do You Think The Hardest Part About Dating You Is?
17. What Are Your Favorite Physical Characteristics Of Mine?
41. What Do You Now Understand About Love That You Didn't
18. What Are Your Biggest Relationship Fears? Before?

19. What Do You Think Our Life Together Will Look Like In A 42. Are You Avoiding Any Hard Conversations Right Now?
Year? Five years?
43. How Do You Maintain A Healthy Relationship With
20. Would You Rather Relive Your Worst Heartbreak Or Erase Yourself While You're dating?
Them From Your Memory?
21. What Were Some Of The Most Important Lessons You've 44. What Can I Help You With?
Learned In Your Past Relationships?
45. How Do I Make You Feel Loved? What Can I Do Better?
22. What's Something You Wish You Understood More About
Me? 46. What's Something You Wish I Understood About You
Better?
23. What Instantly Makes Someone Attractive?
47. How Can I Support You?
24. What Sex Position Is Overrated? Explain.
48. What's The Hardest Part About Dating Me?
25. What Do You Always Get In Your Head About When Being
Physically Intimate? 49. If You Had To Give Our Relationship A Movie Title What
Would It Be?
50. What Do You Enjoy Doing With Me The Most? 73. What Boundaries Do You Have With Your Family And
Friends?
51. What About Me Do You Find Sexy?
74. What Are The Biggest Red Flags You Watch Out For?
52. What Are Your Favorite Personality Characteristics Of Green Flags?
Mine?
75. In What Ways Do I Bring Out The Best In You?
53. What's The Biggest Fight You've Ever Been In? What Went
Down? 76. What Do You Think About When Having Sex?

54. What Would Make You Feel Closer To Me? 77. What Are Your Relationship Dealbreakers?

55. What Are Three Things You Bring To A Relationship? 78. What Parts Of Our Relationship Do You Think We Need To
Work On?
56. What Makes You Feel Comfortable To Be Vulnerable?
79. What Are Your Romantic Relationship Boundaries?
57. What Do You Wish We Did More Of Together?
80. What Is Your Toxic Trait?
58. Have I Ever Hurt You? How Can I Make It Up To You?
81. When Do You Think Sex Is Over?
59. What Are Your Favorite Things About Me?
82. What Makes You Feel Confident In Bed?
60. What's Something You've Wanted To Ask Me But Never
Had The Courage? 83. What Makes You Feel Emotionally Safe In A Relationship?
What Can I Do Better?
61. What's The Worst Thing An Ex Would Have To Say About
You? 84. What Are Your Relationship Triggers?

62. What's Something We've Never Done That You Want To 85. What Is Your Attachment Style? How Does That Show Up
Do With Me? In Your Relationship With Others (Family, Friends,
Partners)?
63. What Is Your Favorite Memory Of The Two Of Us?
86. What Are Your Icks Or Turn Offs?
64. What Is The Worst Date You've Ever Been On?
87. What Are Your Least Favorite Characteristics Of Mine? Are
65. Do You Have Any Kinks Or Fetishes? There Ways I Can Work On Them?

66. What Draws You To People? 88. How Do You Deal With Conflict?

67. Who Was Your First Love? 89. Are You Able To Apologize And Take Ownership For
Mistakes Easily Or Is It Difficult For You? What Do You
68. What Are Your Sexual Fantasies? Think Is A Proper Apology?

69. How Would You Define A Good Relationship? 90. What Are Your Priorities In Life?

70. In What Ways Do You Think We're Most Compatible? 91. How Do You Communicate Your Boundaries And
Limitations?
71. Was There Anything That Surprised You About Me As We
Started Getting To Know Each Other More? 92. How Do You Communicate When I've Hurt You?

72. Are There Any Patterns That Have Been Revealed In Your 93. What Are Your Favorite Compliments To Receive?
Past Relationships, And Do You See That Happening With
Us? Are There Ways We Can Avoid Or Resolve Them? 94. What Makes You Feel Truly Seen And Understood?
95. What Do You Think I Don't Understand About You? 116. What Are Your Values In Life? In Relationships?

96. Who In Your Life Is Most Important For Me To Get Along 117. What Are Your Biggest Insecurities?
With?
118. What Was The Hardest Thing You've Been Though?
97. What Do You Think Is Innocent Flirting? What Are Your
Boundaries Around That? 119. How Would You Describe Me To A Stranger?

98. What Did You Not Hear Enough In Your Last Relationship 120. How Would You Describe Yourself To A Stranger?
That You'd Like To Hear More In Our Relationship?
121. What Are The Most Important Parts Of Your Identity?
99. What Is Something That Could Be An Issue In Our
Relationship? What Can We Do To Solve Or Avoid This? 122. Which Year Of Your Life Was Your Favorite?

100. What Are Your Goals For The Future? 123. What Makes You The Happiest?

101. What Relationships Have Been The Most Damaging For 124. What Or Who Pushes You To Grow?
You? How Have You Healed Or How Are You Healing From
Them? 125. What Is Your Best Memory?

102. What Do You Do To Unwind Or Destress? 126. What Emotion Do You Like Feeling The Best?

103. How Do You Process Your Emotions? 127. What Makes You Feel Connected To A Person?

104. How Do You Ask Someone To Take Accountability? 128. Who Are Your Best Friends? Describe Them.
105. What Relationship Are You Trying To Or Would Like To
Repair Right Now? How Are You/Can You Go About That? 129. What Makes You Feel Like The Truest Version Of Yourself?

106. What Are You Biggest Pet Peeves? 130. What Do You Think Is The Best Way To Breakup With
Someone?
107. What Makes You Feel Angry Or Frustrated?
131. If Someone Cheated On You, Would You Rather They
108. What Makes You Feel Sad Or Upset? Confess And Work Through It Together, Or Keep It To
Themselves And Commit To Never Doing It Again?
109. What Makes You Feel Disappointed Or Let Down?
132. What Do You Want Your Life To Look Like In 10 Years?
110. What Makes You Feel Abandoned Or Unseen?
133. What Attracts You To Me?
111. How Often Do You Like To Check In With Our
Relationship? What Will That Look Like? What Boundaries 134. How Do You Like Emotional Or Physical Intimacy To Be
Do We Need To Make It A Safe And Open Space To Voice Initiated?
Our Thoughts And Feelings?
135. What Are You Sexual Fantasies? Can We Do Any Of Them?
112. What Characteristics Or Traits In Yourself Do You Want To
Work On? How Will You Do That? 136. What Are You Proud Of Me For?

113. How Much Alone Time Do You Like? What Hobbies Or 137. Do You Get Jealous Easily?
Activities Do You Only Like To Do Alone?
138. Have You Ever Cheated? Have You Ever Been Cheated On?
114. What Similarities In Us Do You Like? What Differences What Do You Define As Cheating?
Between Us Do You Like?
139. Tw: Do You Have Any Past Sexual Trauma? How Can I
115. What Are Your Biggest Strengths? Weaknesses? Make Physical Intimacy Feel Safe For You?
140. How Often Should We Ask For Consent When We're 158. What Do You Appreciate Most About Our Partnership?
Physically Intimate? What Are Some Qualities That You Believe Make Our
Relationship Strong And Unique?
141. What Is Your Argument Style? (Attacking, Defensive,
Withdrawing, Open) 159. How Have We Influenced And Supported Each Other's
Personal Growth? In What Ways Have We Helped Each
142. What About Me Is The Most Interesting? Other Become Better Individuals? What Else Can We Do
To Foster This Growth?
143. What Are Your Favorite Quirks Of Mine?
160. What Do You Think Is The Best Way To Break Up With
144. What Attracted To Me When We First Met? What Attracts Someone?
You To Me Now?

145. What Do You Admire About Me?

146. Do I Give You Butterflies?

147. What Do You Think Is The Most Interesting Part Of My


Life?

148. What Part Of My Life Do You Want To Know More About?

149. Are There Any Things In Our Relationship That Make You
Feel Jealous Or Insecure? How Can We Handle These
Things?

150. What Are Your Boundaries Or Preferences When It Comes


To Sharing Information About Our Relationship With
Friends Or Family?

151. What Are Your Thoughts About Monogamy, Polyamory, Or


Non-Monagamy? What Do You Want Our Relationship To
Be In This Respect?

152. Are There Any Challenges We've Faced Together That


Have Made Our Bond Stronger? How Have We
Successfully Navigated Those Obstacles?

153. How Can We Continue To Nurture Our Relationship And


Ensure That We're Growing Together Rather Than Apart?

154. What Are Some New Experiences, Hobbies, Or


Adventures You'd Like To Share Together In The Future To
Keep Our Relationship Fun And Dynamic?

155. In What Ways Can We Improve Our Communication And


Understanding Of Each Other's Needs And Desires?

156. What Are Some Of Your Favorite Memories From Our


Time Together? Which Experiences Have Been The Most
Meaningful To You?

157. As We've Grown Together, How Do You Think Our


Relationship Has Evolved? Are There Any Significant
Turning Points That Stand Out To You?

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