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Module 2
Module 2
Communication Skills
Meaning
Communication skills are those skills which are needed to speak and write properly. A person
who is able to speak appropriately whilst maintaining eye contact with the audience, uses
varied vocabulary and articulate speech to suit the need of the audience is generally said to be
an effective speaker.
Communication skills are those skills which are needed to speak and write properly. A person
who is able to speak appropriately whilst maintaining eye contact with the audience, uses
varied vocabulary and articulate speech to suit the need of the audience is generally said to be
an effective speaker. Similarly, an effective writer should be able to use written words in
various styles and techniques to communicate his/her message and ideas to the readers. One
should have the ability to listen carefully and write and speak clearly in any situation.
Therefore good reading, writing, speaking and listening skills are essential for effective
communication. Importance of communication Your ability to communicate clearly and
share thoughts, feelings and ideas will help you in all your relationships. For example, you
can inform about something or you can also influence others through communication.
Communication skills are needed to:
• Inform: You may be required to give facts or information to someone. For example,
communicating the timetable of an exam to a friend.
• Influence: You may be required to influence or change someone in an indirect but usually
important way. For example, negotiating with a shopkeeper to reduce the price or helping a
friend to overcome stress due to exam or any other reason.
Process of Communication
Communication is a two way process in which the exchange of ideas links the sender and the
receiver towards a mutually accepted direction. The transmission of the sender’s ideas to the
receiver and the receiver’s feedback or reaction to the sender constitutes the communication
process. In order to Notes understand the proper and effective communication, both the
sender and the receiver have to function in a common atmosphere or in other words, we can
say that there should be two parties for communication-one is sender and other is always
receiver. The sender must have his/her ideas, thoughts, emotions which he/she can convey to
the receiver by any medium of expression which is called a channel.
The process of communication can be understood by the given steps:
1. Sender: The process of communication starts with a sender, the person who has an idea and
wants to convey it to the receiver. In other words, we can say that the person with ideas to
share is called sender. So communication process begins with the sender.
2. Encoding: The conversion of the idea into message by verbal or nonverbal method is called
encoding. While encoding a message, one needs to consider what will be interpretation of the
message. This process of converting the thought of the sender into message is encoding.
3. Message: It is an important part of communication. Message is the content that sender
wants to convey. A message could be verbal or non-verbal. The thought, idea, emotion or
anything that the sender wants to convey is called message.
4. Channel: The way or the medium of sending the message is called channel. The choice of
the medium is influenced by the inter relationship between sender and receiver. It also
depends upon the urgency of the message. Medium or channel can be oral, written or it can
be non verbal.
5. Receiver: The receiver is the person who notices or attaches meaning to the conveyed
message. In the best way, if it reaches to the receiver then there is no problem to the receiver
to understand the message properly. In other words, we can say that the receiver is the other
party who receives the message of the sender.
6. Decoding: It is a process where the received message is converted into understanding. It is
not necessary that the message reached to receiver will be understood by the receiver, but
decoding is a process which converts the message into understanding. There are chances of
misinterpretation of the message.
7. Feedback: This is the last part of communication process. After receiving the message, the
receiver reacts or responds to the sender. The response can be based on the perfect
understanding of the message or it can be based on the misunderstanding or misinterpretation
of the message. This reply from receiver to sender is called feedback. Feedback has its own
importance as the success or failure of communication is decided by feedback only.
The process of communication begins with idea, which refers to the formation of the idea or
selection of a message to be communicated by the sender. The scope of the idea is generally
determined by the sender‟s knowledge, experience and ability. Encoding is the next step in
communication. It is the process of changing the information into some form of logical and
coded message. It means the selection of language, medium of communication and formation
of communication.
Transmission refers to the flow of message over the chosen channel. It confirms the medium
selected for encoding and keeps the communication channel free from interference or noise
so that the message can reach the receiver without any disturbance. Decoding is the process
of converting a message into thoughts by translating it. It involves the message, which will
become his/her idea sent by the sender and on the basis of this idea; the receiver can give
reply that is known as feedback. So feedback is an important and last part of communication
process.
Types
1. Horizontal
Horizontal communication, also called lateral communication is the practice of sharing
information between employees, departments and units within the same level of an
organization.
When using this method, businesses aim to improve cooperation and problem-
solving by encouraging the flow of messages from people at the same level. Therefore,
when the company grows, horizontal communication provides a feeling of unity with a
team that works towards the same goals.
Here is an example of how horizontal communication between managers:
Advantages
Coordinate activities
Improve problem-solving
Decrease misunderstandings
Promote teamwork
Increase job satisfaction
Empower employees
Disadvantages
However, there are a few disadvantages to using horizontal communication that you
should consider before implementing it in your workplace. This method can:
be difficult to maintain control
be time-consuming
create conflict between employees
create a lack of discipline
2. Vertical
Vertical communication is a business communication strategy in which information, tasks,
and requests move upward and downward between senior management and lower-level
employees. Vertical communication follows a strict chain of command and offers
employees at all different levels a straightforward communication process.
Advantages of Vertical Communication
Without communicating with superiors and subordinates, no organization runs a single
day. Communication between the upper level and the lower level employee is very much
essential for organization. Some advantages of vertical communication system are as
follows:
3. Oral
Oral communication is the exchange of information and ideas through spoken word. It
can be directly in person in a face-to-face interaction or through an electronic device
such as a phone, video platform or radio. The most effective way for businesses to
transmit information verbally is through oral communication, such as a staff meeting,
webinar and workshop.
Advantages of oral communication
Less chance of any misunderstanding
Allows for easy, clear vernacular
Face to face communications promotes better understanding, patience and
productivity.
Promotes discussion and encourages streamlined banter
4. Written
Written communication is the exchange of information, ideas, or messages through
written language in the form of letters, emails, notes, and more.
The content: what is written.
The style: the way it is written.
The structure: the way the content is explained and how clear it is for the reader.
Now you can have a look at the particular skills that can directly affect these elements and
therefore improve your writing skills:
The content: your content should, of course, be interesting and enjoyable to read.
One way to improve your content is to train your creativity skills.
The style: your writing style is something you will learn with practice.
=> One effective way to improve your style is to ensure you are not making grammar and
punctuation mistakes.
Written communication is a very important aspect of human interaction for several reasons:
It provides a permanent and tangible record of information that can be referred to and
used at any time.
In business, written documents serve as legally binding agreements and provide
clarity and security in transactions.
It plays a vital role in conveying ideas, sharing knowledge, and transmitting
information across vast distances and diverse audiences. Without written
communication, much of our history, culture, and scientific discoveries would be lost
or forgotten.
5. Email etiquettes
Email etiquette refers to the set of rules and principles governing the proper conduct of
email communication. It involves using appropriate language, tone, and format to convey
a message effectively and professionally.
Email etiquette helps guide a person's behavior so they can communicate in an effective,
respectful, and polite manner. This increases the intention of the message, which is
sometimes murky as other nonverbal communication aspects are sometimes lost through
electronic communication.
There are 17 business email etiquette rules and tips to improve email communication:
It is the first thing people see in their email inbox. Most times, people click emails based on
subject lines.
If you are using email for direct marketing purposes, you should invest enough time
brainstorming subject lines before sending emails for each campaign.
If you communicate with businesses or colleagues, use a clear subject line addressing the
issue or topic. It will help your email get noticed quickly and not be lost in their email inbox.
Do not start your email with “Hey buddy” or “Hi there”! That’s the worst way to start a work
email. Be careful using casual words; you must use formal words to address the sender. You
do not want to offend your potential client, do you?
Make sure you know your senders and always use professional salutations.
We all need humor in our life, but not in a work email. Email is all about words without
facial expressions and if it is not aligned with your brand’s tone, your humor in email can be
lost in translations.
Not everyone will receive your humor the same as you. You may find something funny, but
the receiver may find it rude, insulting, and embarrassing. Leave out the humor in your
emails if you don’t know the sender personally.
Do you shout every time you talk to colleagues face to face when you are excited?
Then why overuse exclamation points in every sentence? It will only make you look childish
and immature. Do not overuse it in your emails; keep it simple. Only use exclamation where
it is needed.
Use simple and well-sized fonts for business communications to make your email look more
professional.
Every font and design has its place. Use standard fonts like sans serif in your emails, such as
Arial, Times new roman, Calibri, and Helvetica. Keep the font size 11-12 points, and use
black color. Keep it as simple as possible.
You can use text highlighting to highlight important parts of your email, but keep bolding,
italics, and underlining at a minimum. Overusing these can make your email feel more
chaotic. We want to make email easier to read for others.
Hearing the same word face to face over reading it in an email can be different based on
who’s reading it. Your tone of voice can be misinterpreted in emails. While you may think
you are straightforward with your words, others could find it very insulting.
Always read out your emails aloud before sending them. You will immediately know the
difference. Edit it accordingly, and use positive words like ‘Thank You’ or ‘Please’ where
necessary.
Email marketing is the cheapest way to reach millions of people. You can start an email list
using easy-to-use email marketing tools (like FluentCRM), make a landing page in a minute,
and start signing up visitors.
But getting a vast amount of email subscribers could raise a new problem. Different country
has different cultures. If you write emails for everyone, it can cause problems due to cultural
differences. Your words can be misinterpreted by others, especially when people can’t see
your body language or facial movement. Customize your email by targeting different
cultures. You can use tags and lists to segment recipients as your need. Different timezone is
also an important factor here; consider this while creating an email campaign.
Segmentation will make your life easier. You can send tailored emails targeting different
ages, gender, country, or even language. Choose your email marketing tool wisely; go for a
tool with a wide range of segmentation features.
Proofread your emails before hitting the send button. Do not depend on autocorrect and spell
checker. Read one or two times, and check for typos, and sentence order.
Occasional typos are okay, but repeated mistakes will make you look unprofessional.
Avoid that; add the recipient’s email address after finishing the email and proofreading. It
will save you from embarrassment.
Always double-check it before clicking send. You don’t want to send unwanted emails or
confidential information to the wrong person.
Pro Tip: Use the BCC and CC to add your co-worker or employee if you believe it’s
essential to notify them about it in the future.
Nobody likes unimportant emails sitting in their inbox. Use the “reply-all” button only when
necessary. Not every other department needs to know what you and your team members
discuss.
Pro Tip: Also, use the forward option wisely. Use it when you need to mass email everyone
about company-wide news & information.
Humans can be unpredictable when emotional. There will be many incidents of angry
customers, clients, or vendors’ emails which will make us furious. It is part of the job. You
will be triggered sometimes to reply instantly. Emotions can do that, and it’s okay. But you
should retain from responding or sending an email when emotional.
Once you hit send, you can’t take back your words. And every action has consequences. That
could be a viral news story becoming a PR disaster! Always try to write a reply formally
without emotional attachment. Take a break, go outside and free your mind. Then come back
and write. It always works!
Don’t get me wrong. Emojis for casula talk. You can use it in the company slack channel but
not in a professional email. Emojis will make you look immature, and others will not take
you seriously.
Pro Tip: Also, use shorthand in specific uses only. For general uses, always write in detail.
Always leave an out-of-office email for your network. These emails are short and on point.
You can schedule this type of email to let everyone know you’ll be unavailable and how they
can reach your colleagues.
Always be careful with attachments. Scan your files before sending them. Do not attach large
files to emails. It will eat up spaces in people’s inboxes. Use google drive or dropbox for
large files and then share them in the emails. Make sure you mention the attachment at the
end of your email.
Pro Tip: Always compress files and send them in zip format. It saves inbox space.
15. Use a professional signature
Give your email readers more information about you and your business using a professional
signature. You can use your signature as a high-end CTA, and collect leads and potential
customers using it appropriately.
Do not overuse it with everything. It will look messy. Keep it simple and the same as the rest
of the email.
It is not mandatory to reply to all emails in your inbox. It is hard to reply all at a time.
Prioritize your inbox using filtering options. You can use different categories and tags to
label them to your preference.
Some emails will need your immediate attention. Give other emails a 24 hours break, then
reply. Always reply to your colleagues and clients as soon as possible.
Want to look more credible in others’ inboxes? Want high open rates?
If you work for a company, always use a company-branded email address. Use your domain-
branded email to contact your customers if you run a business online.
6. Virtual meetings
Virtual communication refers to emails, text messages, webchats, and other forms of
communication that do not happen in-person. Being straightforward and having the
right tone is just as important here as with in-person communication.
A virtual meeting is a business meeting that’s held virtually, where the meeting
participants aren't in the same physical room, but are instead meeting together at the
same time from different locations through the use of technology. Depending on the
needs of the meeting participants, virtual meetings can be set up with audio only or
with audio and video for a more interactive experience.
Virtual meetings, especially those with video, are increasingly preferred by employees as a
primary means of communication. Virtual meetings are shown to improve engagement and
connection between employees, increase flexibility in the workday, and maximize
productivity.
In addition, companies that incorporate virtual meetings benefit in the following ways:
Employees with illnesses stay out of the office
Employees may feel the need to return to work before they fully recover from an illness,
which can put other employees at risk. With virtual meetings, employees can keep up with
work projects without jeopardizing the health of their coworkers.
Companies minimize travel costs and downtime
With in-person meetings, key stakeholders from different geographic locations must pay for
travel arrangements and lose valuable work time traveling to different cities. Fortunately,
anyone from your company can attend a virtual meeting with just a few mouse clicks.
Employees feel connected and included
Working remotely can leave employees feeling disconnected from their work team and
overlooked by managers. Virtual meetings can help reconnect your team and give employees
an opportunity to collaborate on work projects.
7. Delegation
Indeed, delegation is the downward transfer of authority from a superior to a subordinate.
This is important because the superior cannot look after all the processes. Also, this helps him
manage his work, as it is impractical for a specific superior to handle the volume of work all
by himself.
A hotel manager assigns a veteran employee to train all new employees on the company’s
values and overall approach to customer service. The manager gives the employee discretion
to design the training plan but with the manager’s guidance and support. The manager then
provides support to the employee as the new training program is launched and ensures the
training outcomes are regularly met.
3.When superiors delegate any function to the subordinates, it motivates the subordinates as
they feel trusted and appreciated in the organisation. The direct benefit of this is improvement
in employee morale and productivity.
This concludes the topic of Delegation – Elements and Importance, which is an important
topic of Business Studies for Commerce students
2. Delegating keeps you from putting too many irons in the proverbial fire
Leaders and managers are driven to succeed, and for this reason, they often take on more
projects than they can handle alone. The fear of failure drives them to avoid delegation for
fear that someone else will not get the job done correctly. When managers are juggling
priorities at the same time, they are more likely to make mistakes. Delegating tasks to the
right individuals is important in this case since it allows managers and leaders to focus on
planning and organizing.
8. Assigning tasks
Task assigning involves defining responsibilities and allocating resources for team members
to complete a project effectively. While workplace leaders can assign tasks to team members
in different departments, managers typically assign tasks to their department's members.
Discovering each team member's strengths, potential, and expertise can help you assign tasks
more successfully. By doing this, you can give people tasks that align with their strengths or
provide a learning opportunity to develop a new skill. Assigning tasks can enhance
productivity and guarantee that you meet project deadlines and previously defined
expectations.
You can follow these steps when assigning tasks to your team members:
You can monitor progress to stay updated on the project's development and offer assistance
to the team. This enables you to maintain communication channels with your team after
informing them of the tasks. As you evaluate the team's project, consider requesting and
providing feedback. For example, you can ask how a team member completed their task and
discuss what you feel they can do differently in the future. Doing this can help improve your
team member's morale, demonstrating that you appreciate their contributions.
8. Employee availability
Another factor to consider when assigning tasks is the team's availability. If new tasks
emerge during project execution, consider assigning them to an available team member,
especially if you're working with a strict deadline. You can create a timesheet that gives an
overview of the assigned tasks and the employees working on them. This can help you
identify who's currently available to complete additional tasks.
9. Priority
When dividing a project into tasks or milestones, consider determining each task's priority.
You can assign the top priorities to your team members, especially if they're time sensitive or
require more work and dedication. You can assign low-priority tasks to any team member
who completes the previous tasks first. Alternatively, outsourcing tasks can help provide
more time for team members to achieve a healthy work-life balance.
A communication matrix is a table that shows who needs to communicate with whom. This is
useful for project managers as it helps them keep track of who should be talking about what,
when and how much. It can also be used as an effective tool for planning and organizing
communications within a project team or organization
Executive Summary
You summarize the main points of the report, such as the report topic, the data obtained, the
data analysis methods, and recommendations based on the data. The summary could be as
short as a paragraph or as long as five pages, depending on the length of the full report.
Usually, the recipient of the report doesn’t always have the time to read through the entire
report. This summary gives the reader a gist of the important points.
Remember that although attached as the first page, this summary is always putting a
perspective for the entire report, meaning that effort-wise, the writer always needs to include
it at the end.
Most importantly, the summary should contain:
the purpose of the report
what you did (analysis) and what you found (results)
your recommendations; these recommendations should be short and not go beyond a page
Table of Contents
The report should begin with a table of contents. This explains the audience, author, and basic
purpose of the attached report. It should be short and to the point.
Introduction
This section is the beginning of your report. It highlights the major topics that are covered
and provides background information on why the data in the report was collected. It also
contains a top view of what’s covered in the report.
Body
The body of the report describes the problem, the data that was collected, sometimes in the
form of table or charts, and discusses with reasons. The body is usually broken into
subsections, with subheadings that highlight the further breakdown of a point. Report writing
format is very specific that way about clear and crisp headings and subheadings.
This just structures out readers clarity in understanding and further enhances the logical flow
that can get hard to follow. Since a report has no personal bias or opinions, you can imagine
that reading through a report can be a bit boring and people may find it hard to follow
through. In such a case, it’s always best to create pointers and lay out the points in short and
simple methods.
Note: Tables and figures must all be labeled
Conclusion
At the end of our main body lies the tying of ends together in the much-awaited conclusion.
The conclusion explains how the data described in the body of the document may be
interpreted or what conclusions may be drawn. The conclusion often suggests how to use the
data to improve some aspect of the business or recommends additional research.
This solution then may be implemented to solve a given problem the report was made for in
the first place. Big consultancies or service providers prepare reports in the form of Microsoft
Powerpoint or the Keynote in Mac to present to the stakeholders. At the end of which lies the
conclusive suggestion section.
Reference
If you used other sources of information to help write your report, such as a government
database, you would include that in the references. The references section lists the resources
used to research or collect the data for the report. References provide proof for your points.
Also, this provides solid reasoning for the readers so that they can review the original data
sources themselves. Also, credit must be given where credit is due.
Appendix
Lastly, comes the appendix. Although this one is not necessary, more like an optional
element. This may include additional technical information that is not necessary to the
explanation provided in the body and conclusion but further supports the findings, such as
tables or charts or pictures, or additional research not cited in the body but relevant to the
discussion. Note: Tables and figures must all be labelled.
In case you want to closely look at report writing format example or take a look at the report
writing sample, our next chapter will have a clear example of the same. Stay tuned.
11. Journaling
It's simply writing down your thoughts and feelings to understand them more clearly. And if
you struggle with stress, depression, or anxiety, keeping a journal can be a great idea.
Benefits of Journaling
1. Journaling helps to reduce stress
“Journaling can be a great pressure releasing valve when we feel overwhelmed or simply
have a lot going on internally,” says Amy Hoyt, PhD, founder of Mending Trauma.
Some research bears this out. For example, in one study Trusted Source, patients, families,
and healthcare practitioners from a children’s hospital reported a reduction in stress levels
after completing this journaling exercise:
write three things you’re grateful for
write the story of your life in six words
write three wishes you have
Take a micro-step
At the start, try not to bite off more than you can chew. As Hoyt explains, “micro-steps are
less likely to be rejected by the brain, whereas large sweeping changes can feel unsafe, and
we may give up.”
She suggests setting a timer for just one or two minutes a day for your journaling session.
Explore a prompt
Prompts are a powerful way to get to know yourself better. They’re also great when you
aren’t sure what to journal about.
Try these ideas from Lori Ryland, PhD, LP, a psychologist and chief clinical officer at
Pinnacle
Treatment Centers:
Write your favorite memories from childhood or your children’s lives.
Go out into nature, and write about the experience.
Describe something you fear doing and why.
Describe something you love doing and why.
Describe yourself, including your personality and roles at work and home. Then
describe yourself from the perspective of a close friend or family member.
If you wake up tomorrow having everything you want, what does this look like?
Where are you? Who are you with? What are you doing with your time?
Switch shoes
If you’re journaling about a disagreement, try writing with empathy. Consider the other
person’s perspective and motives behind some of their actions, says Romanoff.
Putting yourself in their shoes may help you gain clarity on the situation, reduce resentment,
and possibly even find a solution.
12. Feedback
Feedback is the response or reaction of the receiver after perceiving or understanding
the message. It enables the sender to evaluate the effectiveness of the message. It is
inevitably essential in case of two-way communication. Without feedback, two way
communication is either ineffective or incomplete.
Feedback is essential to effective communication because it helps the sender check that their
message has been understood and received as intended and modify their communication
strategy as needed.
Feedback is crucial in two-way communication to ensure both sides are on the same page and
can prevent misunderstandings or confusion. It also strengthens the bonds of trust and rapport
between the sender and the recipient.
You can give feedback on communication orally or nonverbally, in writing, through written
remarks, facial expressions, or body language. While negative feedback may be used to
pinpoint areas for growth, positive feedback is frequently utilized to support and encourage
effective communication.
There are several types of feedback in communication, each serving a specific purpose in the
communication process. Here are some of the most common types of feedback:
Formal feedback - many companies adopt this type of feedback for evaluating
productivity in a given time. Its structure is simple and objective, giving both the
managers and employees a chance to talk about what they can improve in their work
and communication strategy;
Prescriptive feedback is a form of advice in which the recipient tells the sender how
to correct their way of working. Although this type of feedback can be helpful in the
early stages, such as training or onboarding, it can also be a way to avoid giving
constructive feedback on the individual's work;
Descriptive feedback - as the name implies, this type of feedback is used to describe
the effects of an individual's action, which leads to the presentation of a relevant
opinion. Descriptive feedback is considered the best form of evaluation in the
workplace and other fields, such as education and science. To be motivated,
especially when working for someone else, team members need to feel appreciated,
even when improvements need to be made. A proven way to provide good feedback is
by combining the necessary recommendations with the quality of their work to
conclude positively about the evaluated person.
Feedback is a tool that can help people evaluate themselves and their work and also how
others perceive them. While employees and students need to receive feedback, it's also
essential for leaders who believe in growth to ask for an evaluation, give an example, and be
an inspiration for them.
Most team members appreciate honest evaluation - approximately 70% of employees said
they would work harder if their managers better appreciated their efforts.
Professional feedback will increase communication effects, whether you are a manager, team
member, student, or colleague. Therefore, in the feedback culture, evaluation should be used
permanently, both professionally and personally.
✅ Develops trust. Feedback delivered positively and encouragingly can aid in developing
trust between the sender and recipient. Over time, this may result in closer ties and improved
communication.
✅ Encourages positive behavior. Providing constructive feedback can motivate the recipient
to continue engaging in positive behaviors.
✅ Identifies areas for improvement. Negative feedback can be used to identify areas for
improvement. However, when given constructively and with the intention of helping the
recipient learn and grow, this can lead to considerable changes in the caliber of
communication.
The power of good feedback comes from the fact that it can change certain behaviors and
allows the other person to receive a realistic perspective on his action. Therefore, feedback is
constructive only when it focuses on an individual's work and actions.
For example, if you are a manager and want an employer to know what you think about a
particular project, highlight the issues based on those tasks and nothing more. In other words,
the feedback must be descriptive, not evaluative!
Recent research on work productivity showed that four in ten employees do not involve as
much in the company's goals when not given regular feedback (source). The same study
concluded that 43% of highly engaged employees receive feedback at least once a week
compared to only 18% of employees with low engagement.
So, managers must ensure that their team members will be evaluated correctly and regularly.
This way, people feel valued and more motivated to do a good job.
While giving and receiving feedback is not always comfortable, research shows that
employees expect to receive feedback from their managers and peers. According to a recent
study, companies that regularly solicit employee feedback experience a 14.9% reduction
in employee turnover.
So, as a people leader, make things straightforward and provide ongoing, real-time feedback
to your people if you want to keep them longer.
It improves efficiency
Feedback is not advice or criticism; sometimes, it can be interpreted as negative if it's not
formulated properly. So, it's crucial to explain the importance of feedback in the
communication process to the team members, so they can always be open to receiving it
positively.
If consistent, descriptive feedback can help individuals work on their mistakes and find ways
to be more efficient and productive.
Feedback sessions are just as crucial as transparent communication between team members.
The participants must be honest and pay attention to the information they are getting. It's
better to receive and offer face-to-face feedback because it allows the individual to ask
questions where ideas need more details or clarifications.
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So first, understand what the people involved are thinking and feeling, but not saying to
each other. In a difficult conversation, this is usually where the real action is. Before
stepping into a tense discussion or trying to calm a workplace conflict, ask yourself these
questions:
Sort out what happened. How do you see the situation? Where does your story
come from (information, past experiences, rules)? What do you think you know
about the other person’s viewpoint? What impact has this situation had on you?
What might their intentions have been? What have you each contributed to the
problem?
Understand your feelings. Explore your feelings and ask yourself, What bundle of
emotions am I experiencing?
Ground your identity. How does this situation threaten you or have the potential to
shake up your sense of identity? How do you see yourself (I’m the boss; I like
competition; I’m loyal; I’m good at developing my people)? What do you need to
accept in order to be better grounded?
Make sure you really need to raise the issue at all. Will that help you achieve your
purposes? To determine that, ask yourself:
If you do decide to raise a difficult issue, don’t lead in with your view or story. Approach it
as if a third, neutral person is looking on and leading the conversation. Describe the
problem as the difference between your stories. Include both viewpoints as a legitimate
part of the discussion. Share your purposes and let the other person know you’re looking
to sort out the situation together.
Actively listen to understand the other person’s perspective on what happened. Ask
questions. Acknowledge the feelings behind the arguments and accusations.
Paraphrase to see if you’ve got it. Try to unravel how the 2 of you got to this place.
Share your own viewpoint, your past experiences, intentions, and feelings. And
constantly reframe assumptions: from truth to perceptions, blame to contribution, and
accusations to feelings.
5. Problem-solve.
Invent options that meet each side’s most important concerns and interests. Keep in
mind that relationships that always go one way rarely last. Talk about how to keep
communication open as you go forward.