Embracing the Impermanence of Life: A Tribute to Mothers

The text was jotted out of my inner thoughts about my mother; I hope that
this might help you too to find a candle.

In the journey of life, few bonds are as profound and enduring as that between
a mother and her child. From the first flutter of life within her womb to the
tender moments of nurturing and guidance, a mother's love shapes our very
existence. Yet, intertwined with the beauty of this relationship is the
inevitability of loss. The thought of losing our mothers can evoke a profound
sense of fear and sadness, stirring within us a deep-seated apprehension.
However, it is in confronting this fear that we come to understand the true
essence of love and the importance of cherishing every moment with our
mothers. The impending loss of a mother is a reality that many of us grapple
with, often shying away from the discomfort it brings. Yet, in acknowledging
the impermanence of life, we are compelled to confront our fears and embrace
the fleeting nature of our existence. The inevitability of death serves as a
poignant reminder to cherish the time we have with our loved ones, to
express our gratitude, and to savor each precious moment together. The fear
of losing our mothers stems from a profound sense of attachment and
dependence that we have nurtured since birth. They have been our pillars of
strength, our confidantes, and our guiding lights through life's myriad
challenges. The mere thought of their absence leaves us feeling adrift,
grappling with a sense of loss even before it occurs. Yet, it is in this
vulnerability that we discover the depth of our love and the significance of our
mothers' presence in our lives. In confronting the specter of loss, we are
reminded of the fragility of life and the transient nature of all things. Each
moment becomes a precious gift to be cherished, a fleeting opportunity to
express our love and appreciation for our mothers. No gesture is too small, no
words too insignificant when it comes to conveying the depth of our emotions.
Whether it's a simple "I love you" or a heartfelt embrace, every act of kindness
and affection serves to strengthen the bond between mother and child,
transcending the boundaries of time and space. As we navigate the
complexities of life, let us not dwell on the inevitability of our mothers'
departure, but rather celebrate the love and joy they bring into our lives each
day. Let us seize every opportunity to create lasting memories, to share
laughter and tears, and to bask in the warmth of their embrace. For it is in
these moments of connection and intimacy that we find solace amidst the
uncertainty of the future. In conclusion, the impending loss of a mother is a
sobering reminder of the impermanence of life and the importance of living
each day with intention and purpose. Let us not allow our fears to
overshadow the love and gratitude we feel for our mothers, but rather let
them serve as a catalyst for embracing the beauty of the present moment. So,
to all those who are fortunate enough to still have their mothers by their side,
I urge you to love them fiercely, cherish them deeply, and honor their legacy
with every beat of your heart.

LOVE YOUR MOTHER MOST AND MORE WHEN SHE IS WITH YOU.

Clifford Jose Nediyaparambil