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Conflict and Negotiation Section 1
Conflict and Negotiation Section 1
Types
◦ Task conflict – related to the content and goals of work
◦ Relationship conflict – interpersonal relationship
◦ You are a mean person versus you did a bad job.
◦ Process conflict – how the work gets done
Conflict
• If task and relationship conflict occurred at the same time, task conflict will be
negative. If the task conflict occurred itself it may be positive for the
performance.
•How conflict varies with personality and organizational level
• People with high openness to experience and emotional stability – High or Low?
• Organizational level - task conflict effective at higher level for performance; not effective at
lower level
◦ Personal variables
◦ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_tyuQrWu1F0
Stage 2 – Cognition and Personalization
Perceived conflict – awareness by one or more parties of the existence of the condition that
create opportunities for conflict to arise.
You called and informed your mother/father around 6 pm that you will be late. You reach back
home around 2:30 am in the morning. Next day your mother/father is not talking to you in
usual manner. You go to the college and return back in evening around 4 pm. Now also your
mother/father is not talking in regular manner.
Communication?
What could be the perceived conflict?
You start thinking about what could have made your mother/father angry due to which
he/she is not talking properly. Deep down you are not feeling good and could not sleep that
night.
Felt conflict – you are emotionally involved in the conflict which creates anxiety and frustration.
Conflict Process – Role Play
• Two volunteers
• Role of father/mother and son/daughter
• Enact the scenario and try to find the solution
Stage 3 – Intentions
Intentions intervene between people’s perceptions and emotions
and explicit behaviour. They are the decisions to act in a given way.
◦ Think about the intention in the previous role play scenario.
When do conflicts escalate?
◦ Misinterpretation of intentions
◦ How do we infer about intentions?
◦ Behaviour
◦ Misalignment between intention and behaviour
◦ Two dimensions
◦ Assertiveness - degree to which one party sticks to their point or concerns
◦ Cooperativeness - degree to which one party attempts to satisfy other party’s concerns
Intentions
Assertive and uncooperative – Competing
◦ Desire to satisfy one’s interest regardless of the impact on other party of the conflict.
◦ Father/Mother – I don’t know what you understand by coming late; no matter what you should be here at 11
in worst case, or find someplace else to sleep.
◦ Son – I told you that I will be late. It is my life. Stop interfering with it.
Assertive and Cooperative - Collaborating
◦ Situation in which the parties to a conflict desire to satisfy fully the concerns of all parties.
◦ Father/Mother – I understand you want to enjoy your college life. You should try to come back by 12 or give
me a call if it is going to be late than that. I will come and pick you.
◦ Son – I understand you are worried about me. I will try to come back by 11 or if I get late than that, I will call
you….you can come to pick me.
Unassertive and Uncooperative - Avoiding
◦ Desire to withdraw from or suppress a conflict.
◦ Walking away from the conversation without any agreement. Continuing the silent treatment for more days.
You don’t ask your mother/father again if she/he is angry.
Intentions
Unassertive and Cooperative - Accommodating
◦ Willingness of one party in a conflict to place the opponent’s interest above his or her own.
◦ Father/Mother – Okay. I understand you want to enjoy time with your friends/enjoy your college life, don’t
worry about me. I will learn to live with this fact.
◦ Son – Okay. I understand that you are worried about me. I will not opt for any late night parties and be home
by 8 pm.
Midrange on both assertiveness and cooperativeness – Compromising
◦ Situation in which each party to a conflict is willing to give up something to resolve the conflict.
To understand this better – let me add more information. The conflict is due to the late coming +
frequent late comings. The son/daughter is coming late every other day.
◦ Father/Mother – This is getting repeated very frequently. Let us agree to 1 late coming in a week and not
beyond that.
◦ Son/Daughter – I will try to reduce the number of late comings to 2 in a week and not beyond that.
Distinguishing characteristic of compromising is that both parties are ready to give up something on
their end.
Stage 4 - Behaviour
Intentions are eventually translated into behaviour.
Try to identify the behaviour in each of the five scenarios which we just discussed.
What is behaviour?
◦ Observable actions – statements, actions, and reactions which are seen as attempts to implement
intentions.
◦ Competing – individual effort is to achieve ends without working together
◦ Collaborating – creating multiple solutions and find win-win situation
◦ Avoidance – refusal to discuss issues
◦ Accommodate – deferring to others’ opinions
◦ Compromise – both expect and do sacrifice part of interests
Stage 5: Outcomes
Action reaction interplay between the parties can have certain consequences.
◦ Functional outcomes - low or moderate level of conflict can improve the group effectiveness.
◦ Functional when it stimulates creativity and innovation, encourages interest among members, provides medium for problem
sharing.
◦ Dysfunctional outcomes – destructive consequences results from uncontrolled opposition.
◦ Certain other outcomes that results from conflicts – poor communication, reduced cohesiveness, and infighting among members.
Short activity
◦ Two volunteers
◦ First party wants to sell the phone and second party wants to buy the phone. First volunteer – identify
only seller and declare the device that should be sold
◦ Second volunteer – who wants to buy this device
◦ Seller - Take a moment and prepare a sales pitch for the device you want to sell. Private message me the
best price and worst price at which you would like to sell.
◦ Buyer – take a moment about the price which you would like to buy. Private message me the highest
and lowest price at which you would like to buy.
◦ Make offers and counter offers if you would like to go ahead in the transaction.
◦ There can be all types of possibilities – the deal goes through; buyer/seller walks out with a deal
Staking out the bargaining zone
Target point for A – Seller’s highest price at which he/she would like to sell
Resistance point for A – Seller’s lowest price at which he/she would like to sell
Target point for B – Lowest price at which buyer would like to purchase
Resistance point for B – Highest price at which buyer would like to purchase
Distributive Bargaining
What should be done in distributive bargaining?
◦ First offer
◦ Aggressive offer
◦ First offer sets the anchor – what happened in the activity?
◦ What do you think could be an aggressive offer?
◦ As seller – ideally as close to the resistance point of buyer
◦ As buyer – ideally as close to the resistance point of seller
◦ How to do that?
◦ Get more information
◦ Similar models; specifications; compare prices from different sites; etc.
Integrative Bargaining
What was the objective of distributive bargaining?
◦ Maximize our gain which means that it will result in other party’s loss i.e. zero-sum condition
Integrative bargaining
◦ E.g. two individuals arguing for who should get orange.
◦ One wants it for pulp and second wants the peel for making a cake.
◦ What can be done?
◦ Focus is on interest and not on position.
◦ Goal is to create a win-win situation.
Challenges for Integrative Bargaining?
◦ Mutually exclusive interests
◦ Information about interest
◦ No sensitivity among parties
◦ No trust to facilitate such negotiations
The Negotiation Process
Preparation and Planning
◦ Understand the nature of conflict
◦ History of the conflict
◦ What are your goals?
◦ What is the most hopeful scenario and minimally acceptable scenario
◦ The Best Alternative To a Negotiated Agreement (BATNA); the least a party in a negotiation should
accept.