Love is usually related to themes of happiness, but there is a type of love that can make people feel pain

and sorrow. I am gues0073 that among all you guys here, someone who have experienced it. Yes, that is
unrequited love.

Unrequited love is when you have feelings for someone, but you don't say it, you just quietly watch
them from afar. Whatever the reason, unrequited love is still the saddest, loneliest and most painful
feeling. People often say that Unrequited love is like hugging a cactus. Even though we know it will hurt
us, we still accept it and still don't let it go.Sounds really stupid, right. I also thought so until I actually
experienced it.

I had the unrequited love, that was the first time I knew what love was like, when I was high school
student who was a shy and naive . All things started to change when I fell in love with the girl who was
my classmate.She may not a very pretty girl , but she has a beautiful smile. Her smile like sunshine made
my heart beat erratically . Perhaps I have loved her from the moment I didn't even realize.The feeling of
loving someone for the first time was extremely intense , and then when I found out she had , she loved
another guy. The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love someone
else.my heart was sort of break, I felt like I was falling down to a deep abyss that it was impossible to
escape. Many times , I tried to forget her, but whenever I met her , I felt an indescribable pain. I had a
really bad year, I just cried, missed her crazy , couldn't concentrate on studying or didn’t laugh as much
as before. And it took me 2 years to finally give up my unrequited love, at which point I realized how
stupid I had been, how I wasted too much time with negative emotions, instead of learning to accept it
and move on, I tried to hold onto it and let it hurt me. But unrequited love has also brought me many
valuable lessons. I suddenly realized that love is like a bus, if we miss this one, we will still have the next
one. Don’t try to get a pair of v shoes that are too tight, give them to someone else more suitable.

And the most important thing is, before loving someone, you need to learn to love yourself first. Learn
to accept failure, instead of being sad for someone who doesn’t bn belong to you, take that time to
upgrade yourself. Appreciate every relationship around you. Just Be yourself. Then one day, you will
meet someone who can accept your feelings and accompany you for the rest of your life.