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Soulful Ties
Soulful Ties
Soulful Ties
● when we become overzealous to try to have a demeanor and control however that only
comes when you have taqwa.
● Islam respects culture
– culture has no right to contradict Islam
– If you differ in something then bring it back to Allah.
– Roles of genders need to be respected.
. The man has the right to be obeyed in Islam.
What is obedience ?
– obedience is not when the man can tell the woman everything even in disobeyed Allah.
– Obedience isn't when if doing the act the wife's degradation follows
– Obedience doesn't mean he tells his wife to do something that he should be doing.
– Obedience is everything other the following:
. Disobeying the Creator in obeying the Creation
. Doing something that wife cannot bear
. Obeying in something that the husband should be doing
QnA
How do you get the dear of marriage?
– you're always going to see examples of good and bad. You cannot let failures determine
your path. Marriage is always a risk.
– As many examples of bad, there are good
– Spend time learning about Taqwa of Allah.
– Maybe Allah expects you to be the exemplary marriage
How much contact is too much contact ?
Follow the local context. Pakistani context: follow your parents.
Follow the local context. Pakistani context: follow your parents.
– the man has to provide for the women. The man should be generous. Stingy and
cowardliness go together.
– A woman shouldn't accept more that what the man can do.
– Man should be affectionate and generous.
– Women shouldn't have unreal expectations.
– Marriage is clothing. Red flag is when the man doesn't do anything.
– The spending of the wealth is dependent on the man. So, trust Allah