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Reviewer PD103
Reviewer PD103
RAPPORT- The Oxford English Dictionary (OED, 1999), defines rapport in similar
terms as ‘a close and harmonious relationship in which there is a common
understanding’.
THE NATURE OF RAPPORT
- As an emotional ‘state’ created from a flow of interactions with other people.
It’s important to understand that rapport is in a constant state of flux.
Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) personality preference principles to try
and guestimate. - it is developed by Katherine Cook Briggs and Isabel Briggs Myer,
and first published for practical application by CPP Inc. in 1975. It is the world’s most
widely used personality assessment tool.
THE THEORY STATE THAT PEOPLE LIKE PEOPLE WHO HAVE THE
SAME PREFERENCES AS THEIRS.
Why rapport is so important in working relationships?
- As a professional you will already know that the workplace is not just a
network of systems, processes, and tasks, it’s a human network too. To enjoy
success, you have to be able to work successfully with a wide variety of
people from different backgrounds, with various life experiences and
viewpoints, who may have little appreciation of your world.
MODEL OF THE WORLD- derived from the cognitive psychology, the term refers
to the internal thought processes that define a person’s understanding (perception) of
how the real world works.
Note:
Firm handshake – stand straight, make eye contact, reach out and greet.
Double Hander – represent as the corporate favorite. Also known as politician’s
handshake.
Rapport as two-way process based on verbal ‘give and take’: you speak, I listen vice
versa. It will therefore help the conversation flow if you prepare questions to ask a
person you are meeting for the first time. Or, take a few minutes to learn something
about the person before you get together.
MIRROR-MATCH-PACE
- a meta program from NPL.
- you build rapport through a skill called pacing achieved though mirroring or
matching the communication channels.
Posture - refers to the position or stance of the body, particularly when standing or
sitting. It can also refer to the attitude or approach one adopts towards a particular
situation or topic.
Body Movements- refer to the gestures, motions, or actions made by a person's body,
such as hand gestures, facial expressions, or shifts in posture. These movements often
convey nonverbal messages and can communicate emotions, intentions, or attitudes.
Gestures - Gestures can include hand signals, nods, shrugs, or facial expressions, and
they often accompany speech to emphasize or clarify meaning.
Facial Expression - These expressions include smiles, frowns, raised eyebrows, and
squinted eyes, among others, and they play a significant role in nonverbal
communication.
Breathing - refers to the rhythm and pace of speech, including pauses for clarity and
emphasis.
When matching their voice, you can try varying your own
Don't be dishonest: Honesty and integrity are essential for building and
maintaining rapport. Misleading or deceiving others can quickly destroy trust and
credibility in relationships.