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Table of Contents
Schedule for Lester’s 90-Days to Fulfill Your Destiny Program 1 If I’m imperturbable, I won’t be interested in… . . . . . . . . . 55
Belief Questionnaire—The First Week . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6 I’ll be imperturbable as long as I can still… . . . . . . . . . . . . 56
Belief Questionnaire About Wealth—The First Week . . . . . . . 7 I’d have to give up ________ to be imperturbable. . . . . . . 57
Belief Questionnaire About Freedom—The First Week . . . . 10 The hardest thing about being imperturbable is: . . . . . . . . . 58
Lester’s 90-Days to Fulfill Your Destiny Program . . . . . . . . 14 People won’t like me if I’m imperturbable because… . . . . 59
The Three Ways to Release . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15 Happiness . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 60
How to do the Attachments and Aversions Exercises . . . . . 19 Topic . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 60
Releasing with a Partner . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21 Attachment/Aversion to Wanting . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 61
Wording a Goal Statement . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22 Attachment/Aversion to Having . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 63
Sample Goal Statements . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23 Ways I Express Wanting Approval . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 65
What is a Clean-Up and How to Do It . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24 Ways I Experience Wanting Disapproval . . . . . . . . . . . . . 66
The General Release Questions . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24 Ways I Express Wanting Control . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 67
Fast Steps to Freedom . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25 Ways I Experience Being Out of Control . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 68
Asking Yourself the Questions - Approval . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27 Ways I Express Wanting Safety . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 69
6 STEP RELEASE - Control . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28 Ways I Experience Lacking Safety . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 70
6 STEP RELEASE - Safety . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29 WEEK 2 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 71
Asking Your Partner the Questions - Approval . . . . . . . . . 30 What do you want to do with your life? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 72
6 STEP RELEASE with a Partner - Control . . . . . . . . . . . 31 Attachment/Aversion to:________________ . . . . . . . . . 73
6 STEP RELEASE with a Partner - Safety . . . . . . . . . . . . 32 RESPONSIBILITY . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 81
General Releasing Sheet . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 33 Wherein Did I Cause My Lack of Abundance? . . . . . . . . . . 82
Keeping Gains . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 34 Abundance can only come from… . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 83
Gains and Benefits . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35 I need to demonstrate abundance in my life because…. . . 84
Your Personal Record of Benefits from I’m afraid to reach out and have abundance because… . . . 85
The Abundance Course . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 36
I’ll never have abundance because... . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 86
Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet Week 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 37
I can’t ___. That’s for ___ kind of people. . . . . . . . . . . . . 87
Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet Week 2 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 38
What would I have to let go of to raise my
Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet Week 3 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 39 consciousness about abundance and success? . . . . . 88
Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet Week 4 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 40
WEEK 3 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 89
Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet Week 5 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 41
What do I know about my life's purpose? . . . . . . . . . . . . . 90
Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet Week 6 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 42
What’s the most important thing in life? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 91
Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet Week 7 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 43
What is my inner calling? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 92
Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet Week 8 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 44
What are my skills and talents? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 93
Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet Week 9 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 45
What can I do to make a contribution to this world? . . . . . . 94
Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet Week 10 . . . . . . . . . . . . . 46
Attachment/Aversion to Doing What I Love . . . . . . . . . . . . 95
Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet Week 11 . . . . . . . . . . . . . 47
Attachment/Aversion to Loving What I Do . . . . . . . . . . . . . 97
Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet Week 12 . . . . . . . . . . . . . 48
What are my beliefs about thriving doing what I love? . . . . 99
WEEK 1 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 49
What would I have to give up to do what I love? . . . . . . . . 100
Imperturbability . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 50
What am I afraid will happen if I followed my inner calling? 101
Attachment/Aversion to Imperturbability . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 51
Attachment/Aversion to Stepping Out Into
What do I know about Imperturbability? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 53 Courageousness . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 102
I can be imperturbable because… . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 54 Attachment/Aversion to Taking the Next Step . . . . . . . . . 104
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WEEK 4 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 106 Attachment/Aversion to Escaping . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 177
Goals I Would Like to Achieve . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 107 Attachment/Aversion to Having Problems . . . . . . . . . . . . . 179
Goal Charts . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 108 Attachment/Aversion to Agreeing with Others . . . . . . . . . 181
Attachment/Aversion to My Goals . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 112 Attachment/Aversion to Disagreeing with Others . . . . . . . 183
Attachment/Aversion to Doing My Goal Charts . . . . . . . . 114 Make a List of Things You Resist . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 185
Attachment/Aversion to Having Expectations . . . . . . . . . . 116 What Do I Resist About Being In Apathy? . . . . . . . . . . . . . 186
Nothing Needs to be Done . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 118 What Do I Resist About Being In Lust? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 187
In The World . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 118 What Do I Resist About Being In Courageousness,
Acceptance and Peace? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 188
Attachment/Aversion to Winning . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 119
What Do I Resist About Doing This? Fill In Goal . . . . . . . . 189
Attachment/Aversion to Losing . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 121
Attachment/Aversion to Success . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 123 WEEK 7 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 190
Attachment/Aversion to Failure . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 125 Attachment/Aversion to Getting Things Done . . . . . . . . . . 191
Attachment/Aversion to Using the BUTT System . . . . . . . . 127 Attachment/Aversion to Putting Things Off . . . . . . . . . . . . 193
Attachment/Aversion to Taking Action . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 129 Attachment/Aversion to Procrastination . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 195
Attachment/Aversion to Taking No Action . . . . . . . . . . . . 131 Attachment/Aversion to Being Busy . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 197
Attachment/Aversion to Effort . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 133 Attachment/Aversion to Having Responsibilities . . . . . . . . 199
Attachment/Aversion to Everything Being My Picture . . . . 135 If I don't do ________, it won't get done. . . . . . . . . . . . 201
WEEK 5 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 137 If I don't do ________ , I will let ________ down. . . . . 202
Attachment/Aversion to Doing Everything . . . . . . . . . . . . . 203
Attachment/Aversion to Figuring Things Out . . . . . . . . . . 138
Attachment/Aversion to Doing Nothing . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 205
Attachment/Aversion to Disapproving of Myself . . . . . . . . 140
List and Release One at a Time . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 207
What do I know about the world? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 142
I have no time for _________ . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 208
What do I know about myself? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 143
I wish I could stop having to do _________ . . . . . . . . . . 209
What do I know about abundance? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 144
What's the worst thing that will happen if I stop doing
List and Release One at a Time . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 145
everything? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 210
What do I know about my intention? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 146
WEEK 8 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 211
What do I want to change about my life? . . . . . . . . . . . . 147
What do I want to change about the world? . . . . . . . . . . 148 Releasing Pride Sheet . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 212
What do I want to change about myself? . . . . . . . . . . . . 149 Digging Deeper . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 213
Attachment/Aversion to Beating Myself Up . . . . . . . . . . . . 150 Chart of Emotions . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 214
Attachment/Aversion to Trusting . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 152 Pride . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 216
Attachment/Aversion to Satisfaction . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 154 Pride Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 217
Attachment/Aversion to Beingness . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 156 “My Persona” Pride Exercise . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 218
Attachment/Aversion to Abundance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 158 Describe Your Persona . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 219
Attachment/Aversion to Judging Myself . . . . . . . . . . . . . 220
WEEK 6 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 160
Attachment/Aversion to Judging Others . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 222
Resistance Worksheet . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 161
Attachment/Aversion to Being Better Than Others . . . . . 224
Assignments . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 162
Topic: Seeing Pride in Others . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 226
Resistance Suggestions to Release on or Ponder . . . . . . . 163
Who am I jealous of? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 227
Resistance Exercises . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 164
Who do I want to be jealous of me? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 228
Assignments Worksheet . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 165
Topic: Allowing Myself to Be Equal to Everyone . . . . . . . . 229
Want-To Evaluation Worksheet . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 166
Topic: Allowing Everyone to Be Equal to Me . . . . . . . . . . 230
Priorities Worksheet . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 168
WEEK 9 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 231
Attachment/Aversion to Resistance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 169
Attachment/Aversion to Feelings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 171 What is a Program? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 232
Attachment/Aversion to Being Stubborn . . . . . . . . . . . . . 173 Program Worksheet . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 233
Attachment/Aversion to Having Regrets . . . . . . . . . . . . . 175 Where do I find my program? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 234
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What are my operating programs about Releasing? Attachment/Aversion to Being One . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 292
(Effect—poor me programs) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 235 Attachment/Aversion to Being Alone . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 294
What did people tell me about abundance and Attachment/Aversion to My Mind . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 296
happiness when I was young? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 236
Attachment/Aversion to My Body . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 298
What events occurred that affected my abundance and
Attachment/Aversion to My Ego . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 300
happiness when I was young? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 237
What decisions did I make about abundance and WEEK 12 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 302
happiness when I was young? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 238 Attachment/Aversion to Being in the World . . . . . . . . . . . 303
Attachment/Aversion to My Beliefs . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 239 Attachment/Aversion to Letting Go of the World . . . . . . . 305
Attachment/Aversion to Programming Myself . . . . . . . . . 241 What do I know about desirelessness? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 307
Attachment/Aversion to Past Decisions . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 243 What would I have to give up to be completely desireless? 308
Attachment/Aversion to Sabotaging Success . . . . . . . . . . 245 What do I know about being selfless? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 309
Attachment/Aversion to Automatic Behavior . . . . . . . . . . 247 What do I like about being selfless? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 310
Attachment/Aversion to Insecurity . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 249 What would happen if I became completely selfless? . . . 311
Attachment/Aversion to Unconsciousness . . . . . . . . . . . . 251 What would happen if I witnessed only? . . . . . . . . . . . . . 312
Lester Levenson on Demonstration . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 253 What would I have to do to get everything by
What Am I Demonstrating In My Life? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 255 releasing only? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 313
Topic: Believing the World Controls Me . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 256 What does it mean to me to be all giving? . . . . . . . . . . . 314
Attachment/Aversion to Taking What do I like about taking responsibility for everything? . 315
Responsibility for Everything . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 257 What do I like about taking all my joy from within? . . . . . . 316
What could I do with ease if I had no resistance? . . . . . . 259 Attachment/Aversion to Sharing the Method with Others . 317
What could I do with ease if I had no fear? . . . . . . . . . . . 260 More Attachment/Aversion Topics . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 319
What could I do with ease if I had no wanting? . . . . . . . . 261 Belief Questionnaire—The Last Week . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 322
Attachment/Aversion to Going to the Final Step Retreat . 262
WEEK 10 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 264
The Past . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 265
If I could change something from my past, it would be
_______ because _______. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 267
The best things that ever happened to me were
_______________. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 268
The worst things that ever happened to me were
_______________. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 269
Attachment/Aversion to Making Mistakes . . . . . . . . . . . . . 270
Attachment/Aversion to Being Perfect . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 272
Attachment/Aversion to Having a Past . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 274
Attachment/Aversion to Having an Identity . . . . . . . . . . . . 276
What do I know about letting go of the past? . . . . . . . . . . 278
What do I know about my identity? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 279
WEEK 11 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 280
The World as a Dream . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 281
Notes by Sri Ramana Maharshi . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 282
What Will Happen In My Life? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 283
Attachment/Aversion to Holding On . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 284
Attachment/Aversion to Letting Go . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 286
Dropping the Mind . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 288
Ways in Which I Seek to be Separate . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 289
Attachment/Aversion to Being Separate . . . . . . . . . . . . . 290
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Everyone is experiencing his or her infinite and unlimited Beingness every
moment of that one’s life.
That which is not is sought for, but not that which is obvious. In other words, that
which appears is sought for, but not that which exists.
To think is not your real nature. Your real nature is to be. The natural free state is
the ultimate goal. That is to be with no thinking. No thinking happens when there
are no more feelings; i.e., no more AGFLAP and CAP.
The essence of your self is only awareness or consciousness. When the ego
dominates it, your consciousness functions as the reasoning, thinking or sensing
faculty. When you are totally released, you identify with your beingness only. You
are intuitive with no thinking.
You begin with dissatisfaction. With dissatisfaction you are always restless and
seeking. Releasing undoes the dissatisfaction. When you are totally released, you are
eternally satisfied. You will never stop your agitated state of dissatisfaction until you
are totally released and constantly satisfied. This is the sense of fulfillment. This is
the ultimate state.
You do not acquire happiness; your basic nature is happiness. You simply remove
the unhappiness, the AGFLAP and CAP.
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Belief Questionnaire—The First Week
Rate yourself from 1–10 with regard to each of the following statements.
1 = most negative 10 = most positive
A. Mother ____________
B. Father ____________
C. Siblings ____________
E. Boss ____________
F. Co-workers ____________
G. Friends ____________
8. My health ______________
9. Confidence ______________
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Belief Questionnaire About Wealth—The First Week
____ 3. Most rich people probably did something bad or dishonest to get their money.
____ 11. Striving for wealth won’t allow much time for anything else in life.
____ 12. To be rich, you have to use people and take advantage of them.
____ 13. If I get rich, everyone will want something from me.
____ 14. If I get rich, there are certain people in my life who won’t like it or me.
____ 15. If I have a lot of money, it means someone else is going to have less.
____ 17. I’m not very good in the area of money and finances.
____ 19. If I really strive for wealth and don’t succeed, I’ll feel like a failure.
____ 20. I have the potential for wealth; all I need is a break.
____ 21. This just isn’t the right time for me to start “going for it” financially.
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____ 23. Money isn’t really that important.
____ 24. I’m too busy to put a lot of time and energy into learning.
____ 25. If I go become rich, that’s great. If not, that’s fine too.
____ 31. It’s better to get paid for my “time” than strictly for my performance.
____ 32. I’m already quite comfortable. I don’t need to push myself.
____ 33. If you’re rich in love, health and happiness, you don’t need money.
____ 34. I can make it on my own. I don’t need help from others.
____ 35. If I ask for help, people will think I’m weak.
____ 37. There’s no use earning a lot more money because I’ll just have to pay more taxes.
____ 38. Once I have a lot of money, I’ll finally feel secure.
____ 40. Getting rich is not really a skill you can learn.
____ 44. Investments are for people who have a lot of money.
____ 45. Most investments, other than with the bank, are too risky.
____ 46. You can’t strive for wealth and be happy and fulfilled at the same time.
____ 48. It’s not right to make a lot more money than my parents.
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____ 49. You can’t get rich doing exactly what you love.
____ 52. People should only have as much money as they need to live comfortably.
____ 53. Striving for wealth can cause stress and health problems.
____ 66. I don’t need to manage my money because I hardly have any.
____ 68. It’s not right for me to be rich while others have nothing.
____ 69. Financial security comes from having a good job and a steady paycheck.
____ 70. If you are not born rich, changes are you will never be rich.
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Belief Questionnaire About Freedom—The First Week
____ 11. Striving for freedom won’t allow much time for anything else in life.
____ 13. If I go free, there are certain people in my life who won’t like it or me
____ 14. I’m not very good in the area of going free.
____ 17. I have the potential for freedom; all I need to do is figure it out and know how
to do it.
____ 18. This just isn’t the right time for me to start “going for it” (freedom).
____ 21. I am not accepting of the world and the people around me.
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____ 23. Freedom isn’t really that important.
____ 24. I’m too busy to put a lot of time and energy into doing it.
____ 27. I am not completely free from reacting to people’s wishes and thoughts.
____ 28. I’m not free to do or not to do the things I want or don’t want to do.
____ 31. I’m not willing to take responsibility for what is happening to me.
____ 35. I haven’t got a clue about being omniscient, omnipotent, or omnipresent.
____ 39. I don’t know how to access answers from my Higher Self.
____ 41. It’s not easy to live in this world, but I don’t know how to get out of here.
____ 46. I just don’t have enough conviction to go all the way.
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____ 49. If I can’t figure it out, I will DIE trying.
____ 54. I don’t want to share the Method with those around me, because they will use it
against me.
____ 63. Once I have a lot of money, I’ll finally feel secure.
____ 65. You can’t strive for freedom and still make a living in the world.
____ 67. Lester says, “I’m already free,” so why do anything at all?
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The Three Ways to Release
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open. Open the door. You can do it! It takes practice because in half a second we’ll close
down. You get distracted, you close down. So you learn to focus on the door opening. Once
you see how nice it feels and you get used to it, you’re going to notice the contraction a lot
more by practicing it.
Second way to Release (Love is the Answer). Let go of figuring it out, let go of
disapproving of yourself and give yourself approval.
Ask your mind if it knows how to…
It doesn’t know, so asking something that doesn’t know is like looking in an empty file
cabinet for an answer and you keep looking. Can you see how silly that is? Now your friend
your mind told you to beat yourself (or someone or something) up? How has beating up on
yourself (or someone or something) helped you resolve any situation? It hasn’t helped at all,
has it? Ok, and who is doing it? You are, right? Alright, if you’re doing it and it doesn’t
resolve the situation, now you have a decision to make: You can be positive and love
yourself (or someone or something), or you can be negative and beat up on yourself (or
someone or something) What do you decide? (positive and love myself) Good. So, can you
let go of disapproving of yourself and more and more, etc. Now can you give yourself some
approval? And more and more, etc. Now check. Does it feel more possible or less possible
to resolve the situation than it did just a minute ago? More possible, right? Ok, good. That
lets you know you are headed in the right direction now. And the law of the universe is
“positive attracts positive, and negative attracts negative” So keep going and you’ll see the
results, keeping letting go of asking your mind, keep letting go of disapproving and send
approval.
Third Way to Release. Letting go Wanting Approval, Wanting Control, Wanting to be Safe
Can you let go of wanting approval, wanting control or wanting to be safe?
The Third way to release corresponds to Step Three of the Six Steps.
See all your feelings culminate in the want of approval, the want of control or the want of
safety/security. See it immediately and immediately let go of wanting approval, wanting
control or wanting to be safe.
The Third Way to Release is about making a decision. Can you let it go? It is not
kinesthetic. You don’t locate a feeling in your body. It is just a decision. Can you let it go?
Yes.
Some releasers may shorthand the question and say, “Is it wanting approval, control or
security?” However it’s important to say, “Is it, wanting approval, wanting control or
wanting to be safe (or security)? We know want = lack. So, putting the word Lacking instead
of wanting is very effective and helps people discriminate. Could you let go of the lacking
approval feeling? Could you let go of the lacking control, out of control feeling? Could you
let go of the lacking security feeling? There is nothing wrong with having approval, having
control or having security. It is the wanting/lacking approval, wanting/lacking control or
wanting/lacking safety that is off. (This corresponds to the First Step of the Six Steps, I must
want Imperturbability more than I want approval, want control or want to be safe.)
When you ask someone if they can let go of wanting control, the lacking control, out of
control feeling? (for example), and they say, “Yes,” ask them to check, do you feel more in
control than you did 2 seconds ago? They will say yes, and you say, “Notice when you let
go of wanting control (or the lacking control, out of control feeling), you immediately feel
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more in control ( or safe or approved of). Releasing is instantaneously provable.
Remember…
All three ways to release are effective. Each has its place in your Releasing arsenal. The
most effective of the Three Ways to Release is the Third Way to Release called Letting go of
the wants (wanting approval, wanting control, wanting to be safe). Sometimes Releasers get
confused and think they have to put their head down and find the energy in their body when
they are using the Third Way to Release. Not so. The Third Way to Release does not involve
a feeling in the body. The Third Way to Release is just a decision. Is it wanting approval,
wanting control, wanting to be safe? Can you let it go? Yes. It’s just that simple. The Third
Way to Release corresponds to The Third Step of the Six Steps. Immediately see the want of
approval, want of control and want to be safe and immediately let it go.
and Remember…
Wanting Approval is a Lacking Approval feeling
Wanting Control is a Lacking, Out of Control feeling
Wanting Safety is a Lacking Safety Feeling.
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★ WANTING APPROVAL IS A LACKING APPROVAL FEELING
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How to do the Attachments and Aversions Exercises
The Attachments and Aversions Exercise is a very powerful method on the road to Freedom.
It digs up subconscious feelings so we can Release them.
An Attachment is a desire to have something.
An Aversion is a desire to get that thing away from me.
The Attachments and Aversions Exercise is divided into three sections.
The Top Section is called the Stream of Consciousness. You ask, “What is your first thought
or feeling about…( the subject of your exercise)?” Example: Being Free.
Just let your mind think of things, about the attachment. Whatever comes up, write it down.
Asking the question stirs up the subconscious mind and you will begin to see answers.
Example: “If I’m Free I have everything I want.”
You bring the answer to wanting approval, wanting control, wanting to be safe and you let go
of whichever want (or wants) it is. Sometimes there is more than one want. Sometimes it’s all
three. You take the strongest want to release first.
Say, for example, it’s wanting control.
Ask yourself, “What feels better… wanting control or having control?” This question helps
you to discriminate.
Then ask, “Could I let go of wanting control so I can have control?”
Keep repeating as you let go of wanting control more and more.
As you do so occasionally remind yourself, “What feels better… wanting control or having
control?” This helps keep you focused and discriminating.
When you feel released of the wanting, ask yourself, “Does it feel like I have control or do I
still want it?” This helps you to recognize the experience that when you let the wanting go,
you’re automatically left with the feeling of having.
And if you DON’T feel like you have, it just means you are still wanting. Go back to the first
question, “What feels better…wanting control or having control?” Continue letting the wanting
go until you feel like you have control.
Once you feel like you have, move on. “What is your next thought or feeling about...(the
subject of your exercise)” and release. You continue asking and releasing until your mind seems
quiet on the subject.
Then you move to the Second Section of the exercise, Advantages and Disadvantages.
On the topic you’re Releasing on, you ask, “What is the Advantage of (blank). Once the
answer is given, you ask “Is that wanting approval, wanting control, wanting to be safe and you
let go of whichever want (or wants) it is until you feel like you have.
Then you ask, “ What is the Disadvantage of (blank). Once the answer is given you ask, “Is
that wanting approval, wanting control, wanting to be safe and you let go of whichever want (or
wants) it is until you have.
You keep going back and forth of Advantages and Disadvantages until your mind quiets and
there aren’t anymore Advantages or Disadvantages coming up.
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Then, you go to the Third Section of the exercise. This Section is called the “Squeeze the
Lemon” section. It is so called because in this section we want to squeeze out any more
subconscious feelings we have on the subject we’re working on.
We say, “Imagine never, ever having (blank).
We continue to look for wanting. See if it’s wanting approval, control, or safety. Let go of the
wanting until you feel like you have approval, control, or safety.
We repeat “Imagine never, ever having (blank)” two or three times and we repeat the
procedure above. Remember we are trying to squeeze out any remaining wanting on the topic
we’re releasing on.
Next we ask, “Can you let go of your entire Attachment to (blank)? If you can’t say, “Yes,”
100% there is still some wanting. Identify which want it is and let it go until you can say, “Yes”
100%.
We then move to the Aversion side and we repeat the exact same procedure with a few
exceptions.
We say “Like and Dislike” rather than “Advantages and Disadvantages.” When we Squeeze
the Lemon we say, “Imagine Always having (blank).” And, we say, “Can you let of your entire
Aversion to (blank),” etc.
Important: Notice what comes up for you during an Attachment and Aversion exercise.
When you do Attachments and Aversions, thoughts and feelings come up for release. That’s
the purpose of the exercise. When you notice a certain thought or feeling coming up over and
over again during the exercise, that tells you that you should do an Attachments and Aversions
exercise on that recurring thought or feeling.
These recurring thoughts and feelings are a gift for you because they have been suppressed a
long time and are now up for release. Notice them. Write them down as you are doing the
exercise. Come back to them later and do Attachments and Aversions on the recurring thoughts
and feelings. This is the way to get full benefit from the Attachments and Aversions exercise.
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Releasing with a Partner
First of all, when you and your partner write and release on each thought or feeling that
comes up (whether it be your thought/feeling or your partner’s thought or feeling), you are
multiplying the value of the exercise. “Piggybacking,” and releasing on whatever feelings that
may come up for you when your partner responds.
Remember, one thought or feeling at a time. Release the thoughts and feelings one at a time
as they come up rather than making a list and then releasing.
Ping pong back and forth with your partner. When you come to Advantages and
Disadvantages or Likes and Dislikes, each partner releases on the Advantage (or Like) and then
the same person releases on the adjacent Disadvantage or (Dislike) before ping ponging over to
the partner.
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Wording a Goal Statement
1. Phrase it in the NOW—as though it is already achieved. Phrasing it as a future event tends to
keep it always out of reach—in the future.
2. Phrase the goal positively, without any negatives. Put in what you want—not what you don’t
want. Your goal statement should reflect the end result that you want to achieve; therefore, be
sure you do not include in your statement those things you’re wanting to get rid of. Keeping in
mind tends to create it.
3. It should feel real, realistic, and right to you—possible, with a sense of “I can have it.”
5. Be precise and concise. Use as few words as possible while being sure to make it a complete
statement of what you want. Choose the exact words that convey a specific meaning to you.
6. Be specific, but not limiting. Don’t limit the results by including limiting specifics. Leave
things open as much as possible to allow for results being upgraded from what you initially
project.
9. State the goal or end result and not the means or how you’re planning to get it. These action
possibilities would more appropriately go on your Goal ‘to do’ list.
10. Focus on one goal per statement. Don’t diffuse your energy by creating multiple goals in a goal
statement.
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Sample Goal Statements
Job/Career/Financial
I decide to experience my full abundance and wealth every day.
I allow myself to perform effectively and successfully at work.
I allow myself to release with ease throughout my workday.
I allow myself to easily have and enjoy the best job for me at this time in my life.
I allow myself to easily find and develop a career which will greatly utilize my creative abilities
(and/or skills) and which will provide abundant financial rewards.
Relationships/Communication
I allow my relationship with ______________ to be joyful, loving and supportive.
I allow myself to easily and effectively communicate with ______________.
I allow my situation with ______________ to be resolved with fairness and mutuality for all
concerned.
I allow myself to love and accept (or forgive) myself (or ______________) no matter what.
I allow myself to love ______________ (put in all the people in your life).
Diet
I allow myself to easily achieve and maintain my ideal body weight.
I allow myself to enjoy eating foods that keep my body slender, healthy and fit.
General Health
I allow myself to release naturally and with ease.
I allow myself to sleep well and awake refreshed and well-rested at ___a.m.
I effortlessly allow myself to live at optimum health and well-being.
I allow myself to enjoy being a nonsmoker.
I allow myself to lovingly support ______________ in their growth (and freedom).
I allow ______________ to have what they want for themselves.
Please note:
These can be used as a basis for creating your won individual goal statements.
Simply adjust the final wording to reflect your particular situation.
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What is a Clean-Up and How to Do It
A clean up is just what it says. During our day, unless we are totally awake and releasing all
the time, we can pick up some AGFLAP. The Clean Up clears the AGFLAP, it “cleans it up,”
and quiets the mind. We begin each releasing session with a basic Clean Up.
The General Release Questions may also be used for a Clean Up.
Use the General Release Questions 20 times a day. Soon you will have them memorized and
they will serve you in two ways: You will be discriminating all the time and you will be
releasing all the time. The General Release Questions take you off automatic.
1. Who or what are you afraid of right now?
2. Who or what do you want to control right now?
3. Whose approval do you want right now?
4. Who or what do you feel insecure about right now?
5. Who or what do you want to be separate from right now?
6. What is the worst thing that can happen right now?
7. Who or what are you resisting right now?
8. Can you let go of protecting yourself with fear?
9. Can you let go of being so smart and allow it to be other than you think it is?
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Fast Steps to Freedom
There is only one single growth and that is letting go of the ego. The ego thinks and causes
all thought. The more we’re looking into the mind and releasing, the quieter we become.
Lester Levenson
Release Technique
The Six Steps
1 You must want imperturbability more than you want
approval, control and security.
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Release Technique Release Technique
1 You must want imperturbability more than you 1 You must want imperturbability more than you
want approval, control and security. want approval, control and security.
2 Decide you can do the Method and be 2 Decide you can do the Method and be
imperturbable. imperturbable.
3 See all your feelings culminate in three wants— 3 See all your feelings culminate in three wants—
the want of approval, control and the want of approval, control and
security/survival. See that immediately and security/survival. See that immediately and
immediately let go of the want of approval, want immediately let go of the want of approval, want
to control and the want of security/survival. to control and the want of security/survival.
5 If you are stuck, let go of wanting to control the 5 If you are stuck, let go of wanting to control the
stuckness. stuckness.
6 Each time you release you are happier and 6 Each time you release you are happier and
lighter. If you release continually, you will be lighter. If you release continually, you will be
continually happier and lighter. continually happier and lighter.
1 You must want imperturbability more than you 1 You must want imperturbability more than you
want approval, control and security. want approval, control and security.
2 Decide you can do the Method and be 2 Decide you can do the Method and be
imperturbable. imperturbable.
3 See all your feelings culminate in three wants— 3 See all your feelings culminate in three wants—
the want of approval, control and the want of approval, control and
security/survival. See that immediately and security/survival. See that immediately and
immediately let go of the want of approval, want immediately let go of the want of approval, want
to control and the want of security/survival. to control and the want of security/survival.
5 If you are stuck, let go of wanting to control the 5 If you are stuck, let go of wanting to control the
stuckness. stuckness.
6 Each time you release you are happier and 6 Each time you release you are happier and
lighter. If you release continually, you will be lighter. If you release continually, you will be
continually happier and lighter. continually happier and lighter.
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Asking Yourself the Questions
APPLY STEP 2:
I DECIDE to release and be IMPERTURBABLE
APPLY STEP 6
Example:
Could I let go of the way I feel to see if it gets any better?
Could I let go of the way I feel to see if it gets any better?
Could I let go of the way I feel to see if it gets any better?
REPEAT OFTEN TO FEEL LIGHTER
(there’s no end to Step 6)
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6 STEP RELEASE - Control
APPLY STEP 1:
I must want IMPERTURBABILITY more than WANT APPROVAL, WANT CONTROL &
WANT SAFETY
APPLY STEP 2:
I DECIDE to release and be IMPERTURBABLE
APPLY STEP 6
Example:
Could I let go of the way I feel to see if it gets any better?
Could I let go of the way I feel to see if it gets any better?
Could I let go of the way I feel to see if it gets any better?
REPEAT OFTEN TO FEEL LIGHTER
(there’s no end to Step 6)
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6 STEP RELEASE - Safety
APPLY STEP 1:
I must want IMPERTURBABILITY more than WANT APPROVAL, WANT CONTROL &
WANT SAFETY
APPLY STEP 2:
I DECIDE to release and be IMPERTURBABLE
APPLY STEP 6
Example:
Could I let go of the way I feel to see if it gets any better?
Could I let go of the way I feel to see if it gets any better?
Could I let go of the way I feel to see if it gets any better?
REPEAT OFTEN TO FEEL LIGHTER
(there’s no end to Step 6)
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Asking Your Partner the Questions
APPLY STEP 2:
I DECIDE to release and be IMPERTURBABLE
APPLY STEP 6
Example:
Could YOU let go of the way YOU feel, to see if it gets any better?
Could YOU let go of the way YOU feel, to see if it gets any better?
Could YOU let go of the way YOU feel, to see if it gets any better?
REPEAT OFTEN TO FEEL LIGHTER
(there’s no end to Step 6)
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6 STEP RELEASE with a Partner - Control
APPLY STEP 1:
I must want IMPERTURBABILITY more than WANT APPROVAL, WANT CONTROL &
WANT SAFETY
APPLY STEP 2:
I DECIDE to release and be IMPERTURBABLE
APPLY STEP 6
Example:
Could YOU let go of the way YOU feel, to see if it gets any better?
Could YOU let go of the way YOU feel, to see if it gets any better?
Could YOU let go of the way YOU feel, to see if it gets any better?
REPEAT OFTEN TO FEEL LIGHTER
(there’s no end to Step 6)
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6 STEP RELEASE with a Partner - Safety
APPLY STEP 1:
I must want IMPERTURBABILITY more than WANT APPROVAL, WANT CONTROL &
WANT SAFETY
APPLY STEP 2:
I DECIDE to release and be IMPERTURBABLE
APPLY STEP 6
Example:
Could YOU let go of the way YOU feel, to see if it gets any better?
Could YOU let go of the way YOU feel, to see if it gets any better?
Could YOU let go of the way YOU feel, to see if it gets any better?
REPEAT OFTEN TO FEEL LIGHTER
(there’s no end to Step 6)
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General Releasing Sheet
Let it go
4. Am I insecure now?
9. Could I let go of being so smart and allow it to be other than I think it is?
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Keeping Gains
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Your Personal Record of Benefits from
The Abundance Course
Following are some of the gains others have reported from the training. Please check off, when
they occur, those which you experience and make a brief notation as to details. This will be very
helpful to you by encouraging you to continue using The Release® Technique.
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Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet
How strong do you have each of the six steps in place? Rate yourself each day on a scale of 1 to
10, with 10 being the strongest and 1 being the least strong. This will help you track your
progress and strengthen your decision for freedom.
WEEK 1 Freedom My Intention
Remember—there are no exceptions to the six steps. If you feel stuck, review the steps and see
where you are off - then you can get back on track. Also, notice there is no stopping in the Six
Steps. Make use of Step 6—when you are feeling good, ask yourself, “Could it get any better?
Can I let go and find out?” so that you keep letting go.
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Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet
How strong do you have each of the six steps in place? Rate yourself each day on a scale of 1 to
10, with 10 being the strongest and 1 being the least strong. This will help you track your
progress and strengthen your decision for freedom.
WEEK 2 Freedom My Intention
Remember—there are no exceptions to the six steps. If you feel stuck, review the steps and see
where you are off - then you can get back on track. Also, notice there is no stopping in the Six
Steps. Make use of Step 6—when you are feeling good, ask yourself, “Could it get any better?
Can I let go and find out?” so that you keep letting go.
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Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet
How strong do you have each of the six steps in place? Rate yourself each day on a scale of 1 to
10, with 10 being the strongest and 1 being the least strong. This will help you track your
progress and strengthen your decision for freedom.
WEEK 3 Freedom My Intention
Remember—there are no exceptions to the six steps. If you feel stuck, review the steps and see
where you are off - then you can get back on track. Also, notice there is no stopping in the Six
Steps. Make use of Step 6—when you are feeling good, ask yourself, “Could it get any better?
Can I let go and find out?” so that you keep letting go.
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Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet
How strong do you have each of the six steps in place? Rate yourself each day on a scale of 1 to
10, with 10 being the strongest and 1 being the least strong. This will help you track your
progress and strengthen your decision for freedom.
WEEK 4 Freedom My Intention
Remember—there are no exceptions to the six steps. If you feel stuck, review the steps and see
where you are off - then you can get back on track. Also, notice there is no stopping in the Six
Steps. Make use of Step 6—when you are feeling good, ask yourself, “Could it get any better?
Can I let go and find out?” so that you keep letting go.
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Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet
How strong do you have each of the six steps in place? Rate yourself each day on a scale of 1 to
10, with 10 being the strongest and 1 being the least strong. This will help you track your
progress and strengthen your decision for freedom.
WEEK 5 Freedom My Intention
Remember—there are no exceptions to the six steps. If you feel stuck, review the steps and see
where you are off - then you can get back on track. Also, notice there is no stopping in the Six
Steps. Make use of Step 6—when you are feeling good, ask yourself, “Could it get any better?
Can I let go and find out?” so that you keep letting go.
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Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet
How strong do you have each of the six steps in place? Rate yourself each day on a scale of 1 to
10, with 10 being the strongest and 1 being the least strong. This will help you track your
progress and strengthen your decision for freedom.
WEEK 6 Freedom My Intention
Remember—there are no exceptions to the six steps. If you feel stuck, review the steps and see
where you are off - then you can get back on track. Also, notice there is no stopping in the Six
Steps. Make use of Step 6—when you are feeling good, ask yourself, “Could it get any better?
Can I let go and find out?” so that you keep letting go.
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Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet
How strong do you have each of the six steps in place? Rate yourself each day on a scale of 1 to
10, with 10 being the strongest and 1 being the least strong. This will help you track your
progress and strengthen your decision for freedom.
WEEK 7 Freedom My Intention
Remember—there are no exceptions to the six steps. If you feel stuck, review the steps and see
where you are off - then you can get back on track. Also, notice there is no stopping in the Six
Steps. Make use of Step 6—when you are feeling good, ask yourself, “Could it get any better?
Can I let go and find out?” so that you keep letting go.
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Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet
How strong do you have each of the six steps in place? Rate yourself each day on a scale of 1 to
10, with 10 being the strongest and 1 being the least strong. This will help you track your
progress and strengthen your decision for freedom.
WEEK 8 Freedom My Intention
Remember—there are no exceptions to the six steps. If you feel stuck, review the steps and see
where you are off - then you can get back on track. Also, notice there is no stopping in the Six
Steps. Make use of Step 6—when you are feeling good, ask yourself, “Could it get any better?
Can I let go and find out?” so that you keep letting go.
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Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet
How strong do you have each of the six steps in place? Rate yourself each day on a scale of 1 to
10, with 10 being the strongest and 1 being the least strong. This will help you track your
progress and strengthen your decision for freedom.
WEEK 9 Freedom My Intention
Remember—there are no exceptions to the six steps. If you feel stuck, review the steps and see
where you are off - then you can get back on track. Also, notice there is no stopping in the Six
Steps. Make use of Step 6—when you are feeling good, ask yourself, “Could it get any better?
Can I let go and find out?” so that you keep letting go.
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Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet
How strong do you have each of the six steps in place? Rate yourself each day on a scale of 1 to
10, with 10 being the strongest and 1 being the least strong. This will help you track your
progress and strengthen your decision for freedom.
WEEK 10 Freedom My Intention
Remember—there are no exceptions to the six steps. If you feel stuck, review the steps and see
where you are off - then you can get back on track. Also, notice there is no stopping in the Six
Steps. Make use of Step 6—when you are feeling good, ask yourself, “Could it get any better?
Can I let go and find out?” so that you keep letting go.
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Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet
How strong do you have each of the six steps in place? Rate yourself each day on a scale of 1 to
10, with 10 being the strongest and 1 being the least strong. This will help you track your
progress and strengthen your decision for freedom.
WEEK 11 Freedom My Intention
Remember—there are no exceptions to the six steps. If you feel stuck, review the steps and see
where you are off - then you can get back on track. Also, notice there is no stopping in the Six
Steps. Make use of Step 6—when you are feeling good, ask yourself, “Could it get any better?
Can I let go and find out?” so that you keep letting go.
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Six Steps Daily Evaluation Sheet
How strong do you have each of the six steps in place? Rate yourself each day on a scale of 1 to
10, with 10 being the strongest and 1 being the least strong. This will help you track your
progress and strengthen your decision for freedom.
WEEK 12 Freedom My Intention
Remember—there are no exceptions to the six steps. If you feel stuck, review the steps and see
where you are off - then you can get back on track. Also, notice there is no stopping in the Six
Steps. Make use of Step 6—when you are feeling good, ask yourself, “Could it get any better?
Can I let go and find out?” so that you keep letting go.
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Imperturbability
Ask yourself:
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Attachment to Imperturbability
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Imperturbability
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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List and Release One at a Time
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List and Release One at a Time
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If I’m imperturbable, I won’t be interested in…
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I’ll be imperturbable as long as I can still…
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I’d have to give up ________ to be imperturbable.
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The hardest thing about being imperturbable is:
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People won’t like me if I’m imperturbable because…
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Happiness
Topic: ______________________________________________________
Did I
completely
let go?
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Attachment to Wanting
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Wanting
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Attachment to Having
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Having
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Ways I Express Wanting Approval
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Ways I Experience Wanting Disapproval
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Ways I Express Wanting Control
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Ways I Experience Being Out of Control
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Ways I Express Wanting Safety
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Ways I Experience Lacking Safety
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Week
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What do you want to do with your life?
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Attachment to:________________
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to: ____________________
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Attachment to: ________________
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to: ____________________
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Attachment to: ________________
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to: ____________________
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Attachment to: ________________
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to: ____________________
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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RESPONSIBILITY
“If you want one practical key for quickly reaching the Goal,
I would recommend that you take full responsibility for
everything that happens to you. We have lost sight of our
mastership and have deluded ourselves into thinking that we are
victims in a world that controls us, that pushes us around. It isn’t
so! We are causing what is happening to us by giving power, our
power, to the external world. If you want to regain your control,
you must take full responsibility.
How to regain our control? Examine your thinking and correct
it. Develop the habit of honest introspection by asking yourself,
‘Wherein did I cause this to happen to me?’ and holding it until
the thought that caused the happening comes out of the
subconscious into the conscious plane. Then you recognize your
mastership, that you caused that pleasant or unpleasant
experience to happen to you. The more you will do this, the easier
it becomes and the more able you become until, finally, you
recognize that you were always the master.”
by Lester Levenson
Fill out the attached sheet. Write down whatever comes up and release it without
censoring what you discover. Be open to seeing your underlying pattern or program
about abundance. Take responsibility, but let go of beating yourself up. By
taking responsibility, you can take control of what happens to you in your
world. If you did it, you can change it. If you feel, “I didn’t do it, it happened
to me,” you’re stuck and you have to wait for something or someone outside
of yourself to change—you become a victim.
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Wherein Did I Cause My Lack of Abundance?
(Sit quietly until the answer comes. Write it down and keep releasing until you are
100% released about it.)
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Abundance can only come from…
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I need to demonstrate abundance in my life because…
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I’m afraid to reach out and have abundance because…
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I’ll never have abundance because...
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I can’t ___. That’s for ___ kind of people.
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What would I have to let go of to raise my consciousness
about abundance and success?
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Week
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List and Release One at a Time
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What’s the most important thing in life?
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What is my inner calling?
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What are my skills and talents?
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What can I do to make a contribution to this world?
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Attachment to Doing What I Love
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Doing What I Love
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I love about doing what I love? What do I not love about doing what I love?
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Attachment to Loving What I Do
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What advantage is it to me to love what I do? What disadvantage is it to me to love what I do?
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Aversion to Loving What I Do
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I love what I’m doing? What do I not love about what I’m doing?
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What are my beliefs about thriving doing what I love?
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What would I have to give up to do what I love?
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What am I afraid will happen
if I followed my inner calling?
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Attachment to Stepping Out Into Courageousness
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
1. Imagine never, ever being able to step out into courageousness again.
(See what you wrote or thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure
and then release the want.)
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Aversion to Stepping Out Into Courageousness
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Attachment to Taking the Next Step
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What advantage is it to me to take the next step? What disadvantage is it to me to take the next step?
1. Imagine never, ever being able to take the next step again.
(See what you wrote or thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure
and then release the want.)
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Aversion to Taking the Next Step
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about taking the next step? What do I dislike about taking the next step?
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Week
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Goals I Would Like to Achieve
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Goal Chart
Goal: __________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
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Goal Chart
Goal: __________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
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Goal Chart
Goal: __________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
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Goal Chart
Goal: __________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
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Attachment to My Goals
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to My Goals
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Attachment to Doing My Goal Charts
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Doing My Goal Charts
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about doing my goal charts? What do I dislike about doing my goal charts?
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Attachment to Having Expectations
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Having Expectations
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about having expectations? What do I dislike about having expectations?
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Nothing Needs to be Done
by Lester Levenson
1. Actionlessness
In The World
1. Imperturbability
The “I” thought rises up as subject and object. “I” alone being held, all else
disappears. It is enough, but only for the competent few.
Investigate the mind it will disappear. He who thinks raises troubles. The degree of
the absence of thoughts is in the measure of your progress towards Self-
Realization.
There is nothing but your picture out there. The quiet mind, i.e., no activity of
feelings, leaves one in the beingness only. Achieved by dropping all wants.
HOW THINKING AM I?
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Attachment to Winning
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Winning
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Attachment to Losing
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Losing
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Attachment to Success
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Success
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Attachment to Failure
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Failure
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Attachment to Using the BUTT System
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What advantage is it to me to use the BUTT System? What disadvantage is it to me to use the BUTT System?
1. Imagine never, ever being able to use the BUTT System again.
(See what you wrote or thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure
and then release the want.)
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Aversion to Using the BUTT System
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about using the BUTT System? What do I dislike about using the BUTT System?
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Attachment to Taking Action
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Taking Action
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about taking action? What do I dislike about taking action?
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Attachment to Taking No Action
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Taking No Action
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about taking no action? What do I dislike about taking no action?
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Attachment to Effort
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Effort
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Attachment to Everything Being My Picture
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Everything Being My Picture
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about everything being my picture? What do I dislike about everything being my picture?
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Attachment to Figuring Things Out
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What advantage is it to me to figure things out? What disadvantage is it to me to figure things out?
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Aversion to Figuring Things Out
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about figuring things out? What do I dislike about figuring things out?
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Attachment to Disapproving of Myself
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Disapproving of Myself
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about disapproving of myself? What do I dislike about disapproving of myself?
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List and Release One at a Time
What do I know about the world? What don’t I know about the world?
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List and Release One at a Time
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List and Release One at a Time
144
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List and Release One at a Time
145
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List and Release One at a Time
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What do I want to change about my life?
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What do I want to change about the world?
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What do I want to change about myself?
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Attachment to Beating Myself Up
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What advantage is it to me to beat myself up? What disadvantage is it to me to beat myself up?
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Aversion to Beating Myself Up
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about beating myself up? What do I dislike about beating myself up?
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Attachment to Trusting
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Trusting
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Attachment to Satisfaction
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Satisfaction
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Attachment to Beingness
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Beingness
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Attachment to Abundance
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Abundance
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or thought
as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release the want.)
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Resistance Worksheet
5. Wanting to control the other person, who you think is trying to control you, you can only
experience their pushing you, you can only experience your own resistance.
6. The “I can’t” is resistance, it takes a conscious effort to overcome the unconscious effort
(habit) of holding down the feelings.
7. Resistance is just another program which we have programmed, to protect all other
programs that we programmed.
8. If there were no resistance, one would go free, we are constantly having to release the
resistance in order to let the feelings up and out.
9. Resistance is when you haven’t decided yet whether to do the thing or not. And you’re
doing it anyway, and it’s difficult. To make it easy to do, all you need is to decide to do it,
or decide not to do it, and don’t do it.
10. Resistance is pushing against the world so that is will push back.
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Assignments
We assume that you are here because you wish to move more quickly toward freedom.
Therefore, we are giving you the following assignments to enhance your use of the Method. To
obtain the maximum benefit, we ask you to adhere to the following for a period of 4 weeks.
2. No television or movies.
6. Do a minimum of 15 minutes jogging or other physical exercise each day. Use it to release
on resistance.
8. Carry your notebook with you at all times. Write down each gain, however small, as it
happens.
10. Speak to your partner about the Method and releasing at least once a day, either in person
or by phone.
11. Keep a record of your escapes and the approximate length of time spent on them.
12. Keep the 6 Steps in view during your morning and evening releasing sessions.
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Resistance Suggestions to
Release on or Ponder
• Let go of what we want to prevent—then we are not holding it in mind. What is it you
want to prevent?
• One of the ways you know that you are resisting is you HAVE TO or YOU SHOULD or
anything you have EFFORT IN IT. Check.
• If you did not have it in you—it would not bother you. What bothers you?
• Every time we come from feelings, we are coming from the past. It is only a program—so
let go of wanting approval or wanting control or wanting security.
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Resistance Exercises
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Assignments Worksheet
1. No drugs or alcohol
2. No television
or movies
4. Cleaned up day
5. Worked on resistance
chart
6. Work on your
resistance chart at
least 5 minutes a day.
7. Exercise
9. Number of gains
written today
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Want-To Evaluation Worksheet
Step #1—You must want Freedom more than you want approval and control.
Note: Your wish to be Free is in inverse proportion to your wish to escape.
Wanting to escape indicates a resistance to seeing and releasing the feelings. What are your
escapes? How much do you use them?
Sleep at night?
Watch television?
Socialize?
Smoke?
Drink?
Take drugs?
Hobbies?
Vacations?
Read books?
Magazines/newspapers?
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Want-To Evaluation Worksheet (cont.)
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Priorities Worksheet
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Attachment to Resistance
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Resistance
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Attachment to Feelings
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Feelings
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Attachment to Being Stubborn
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Being Stubborn
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about being stubborn? What do I dislike about being stubborn?
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Attachment to Having Regrets
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Having Regrets
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about having regrets? What do I dislike about having regrets?
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Attachment to Escaping
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Escaping
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Attachment to Having Problems
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Having Problems
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about having problems? What do I dislike about having problems?
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Attachment to Agreeing With Others
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What advantage is it to me to agree with others? What disadvantage is it to me to agree with others?
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Aversion to Agreeing With Others
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about agreeing with others? What do I dislike about agreeing with others?
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Attachment to Disagreeing With Others
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What advantage is it to me to disagree with others? What disadvantage is it to me to disagree with others?
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Aversion to Disagreeing With Others
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about disagreeing with others? What do I dislike about disagreeing with others?
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Make a List of Things You Resist
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What Do I Resist About Being In Apathy?
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What Do I Resist About Being In Lust?
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What Do I Resist About Being In
Courageousness, Acceptance and Peace?
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What Do I Resist About Doing This?
Fill In Goal
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Attachment to Getting Things Done
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What advantage is it to me to get things done? What disadvantage is it to me get things done?
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Aversion to Getting Things Done
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about getting things done? What do I dislike about getting things done?
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Attachment to Putting Things Off
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What advantage is it to me to put things off? What disadvantage is it to me to put things off?
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Aversion to Putting Things Off
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about putting things off? What do I dislike about putting things off?
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Attachment to Procrastination
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Procrastination
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Attachment to Being Busy
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Being Busy
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about being busy? What do I dislike about being busy?
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Attachment to Having Responsibilities
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Having Responsibilities
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about having responsibilities ? What do I dislike about having responsibilities?
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If I don't do ________, it won't get done.
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If I don't do ________ , I will let ________ down.
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Attachment to Doing Everything
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Doing Everything
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about having to doing everything ? What do I dislike about having to doing everything?
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Attachment to Doing Nothing
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Doing Nothing
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about having to doing everything ? What do I dislike about having to doing everything?
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List and Release One at a Time
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I have no time for _________
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I wish I could stop having to do _________
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What's the worst thing that will happen if I stop doing everything?
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Releasing Pride Sheet
Now let’s take a look at the Releasing the Pride sheet. The following exercise is designed
to allow you to let go of your pride and move up into beingness faster.
Pride is an emotion that gets us stuck because often we want to hold on to it and protect it.
Pride is sometimes a sense of having done it and not being sure if we can do it again.
Therefore, we hold on to what we’ve done and try to get acknowledgment for it instead of
just moving on to our next accomplishment. It’s also sometimes a subtle sense of being
better than others.
Pride is a blind spot for most of us. We often get stuck in pride and don’t know it. Doing
this exercise will uncover your pride for yourself and let it go. What I want you to do is
just follow along and see what happens.
1. Ask yourself “What am I proud of?” Make a list and release the wants associated
with each item. Do one at a time.
3. Things that people are often proud about, that we are not consciously aware of:
• being stubborn
• being able to drive others crazy by us acting negative
• being a woman or being a man
• being smart
• being proud of certain things you do in life
• being a smart ass or a brat …
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Digging Deeper
Keep asking yourself the question and continue letting go until you have no more wanting
approval, wanting control, wanting safety, security or survival on each subject before moving on
to the next set of questions.
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CHART OF
IMPERTURBABILITY
Wanting to be Safe, Secure, to Survive
Wanting Approval Wanting Control
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EMOTIONS
IMPERTURBABILITY
Wanting to be Safe, Secure, to Survive
Wanting Approval Wanting Control
Results in:
Feeling
Above it all Cool Rejecting
Aloof Disdain Righteous
Arrogant Haughty Rigid
Better than Holier than thou Smug
Complacent Icy Special
Conceited Irreverent Superior
Condescending Judgmental Uncompromising
Contemptuous Pious Unfeeling
Vain
Thinking
I’ll just reject! I’m in a better place than all of It’s your fault.
How dare you! you. Maybe I’ll do it and maybe I
I knew that. I’m not like them. won’t.
I know everything. I’m right. My way is the only way.
I know. I’m smarter than everyone else. What do they know?
I won’t associate with “those kind” I’m the only one who can do it What’s wrong with you?
of people. right. Who do they think they are?
I’ll look like I’m agreeing and do I’m the only one who can get it Who do you think you are?
it my way. done. Why is everyone so incompetent?
I’m better than all of them. I’m the savior/hero. You don’t belong.
I’m better than you. I’m too busy with important You need me to get it done.
matters to have time for you.
Acting
Aloof Distant Patronizing Stoic
Arrogant Dogmatic Pompous Stubborn
Bigoted Egotistical Putting others down Stuck-up
Blaming others False Humility Remote Talking against others
Boastful Gloating Sabotage Unforgiving
Bored Hypocritical Sanctimonious Impenetrable
Closed Indifferent Self-absorbed Unreadable
Complacent Know it all Self-centered Unyielding
Conceited Narrow minded Self-important Withdrawn
Detached Never wrong Snobbish Walk away
Disrespectful Opinionated Spoiled
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Pride Exercises
The Abundance Course Workbook is a goldmine for releasers aiming for Total Freedom
and Imperturbability! Here’s more on how to use its exercises to dig deeper.
Larry Crane asks all his Teachers to do the Pride exercises—“Releasing Pride Sheet” and
“Digging Deeper” questions—at least once a week, as well as during their teaching time.
Why? Ego/Mind hides loads of disapproving (negative) energy here! And because Pride
is a set of higher emotions compared to the rest of AGFLAP, we don’t pay attention to the
quality of that energy. We feel strong and powerful compared to those in AGFLAP, so we
don’t notice the negativity we are holding onto.
Just look at the Chart of Emotions and the Pride page (“Pride Results in …”) to see words
like “complaining,” “critical,” “contempt,” “prejudice” and others. If you express these in
thoughts/thinking, behavior and the like— aren’t you really disapproving of something or
someone? Watch for it!
Example:
Who/What am I ______________ about? Complete the question with a Pride word. Release
each answer at the Want.
Exercise:
Do the “Digging Deeper” page questions, THEN add all the Pride words on the Chart of
Emotions and from the “Pride Results In” page of the Abundance Course Workbook, and do
it again! And again, and again.
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“My Persona” Pride Exercise
Fill in the blanks with whatever comes up (see examples below) and release the Pride and its
corresponding Wanting feeling.
Example: I am Free (Lester said so), so I don’t need to [won’t] take responsibility for what
people think about me.
More fill ins for the 2nd blank, [“so I don’t/won’t _______”], try these to get going and/or
whatever comes up for you.
• What is going on with my body
• Get involved in their garbage
• Do as much as others, etc
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Describe Your Persona
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Attachment to Judging Myself
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Judging Myself
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about judging myself? What do I dislike about judging myself?
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Attachment to Judging Others
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Judging Others
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about judging others? What do I dislike about judging others?
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Attachment to Being Better Than Others
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What advantage is it to me to be better than others? What disadvantage is it to me to be better than others?
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Aversion to Being Better Than Others
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about being better than others? What do I dislike about being better than others?
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Topic: Seeing Pride in Others
What do they say? Let go? How do they act? Let go?
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Who am I jealous of?
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Who do I want to be jealous of me?
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Topic: Allowing Myself to Be Equal to Everyone
What is the advantage to me? Let go? What is the disadvantage to me? Let go?
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Topic: Allowing Everyone to Be Equal to Me
What is the advantage to me? Let go? What is the disadvantage to me? Let go?
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What is a Program?
1. A Belief System
2. A Set of Instructions
• Repetitive behavior
• A master plan
• A directive
• Forgetfulness of what/who you are
• An energy saver
• A thinking saver
* Something that makes us feel safe—approval
3. A Past Decision
Consciously made and now unconsciously running.
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Program Worksheet
Write down, in one or two sentences, what you believe to be your currently operative program
in each of the following areas.
MONEY
HEALTH
SEX
RELATIONSHIPS
CAREER OR WORK
ANY COMPULSIONS
ANY INHIBITIONS
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Where do I find my program? List and Release
RECURRING THOUGHTS AND ATTITUDES RECURRING SITUATIONS RECURRING BEHAVIOR
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What did people tell me about abundance and happiness
when I was young?
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What events occurred that affected my abundance and happiness
when I was young?
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What decisions did I make about abundance and happiness
when I was young?
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Attachment to My Beliefs
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to My Beliefs
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about holding onto my beliefs? What do I dislike about holding onto my beliefs?
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Attachment to Programming Myself
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Programming Myself
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about programming myself? What do I dislike about programming myself?
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Attachment to Past Decisions
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What advantage is it to me to hold onto past decisions? What disadvantage is it to me to hold onto past
decisions?
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Aversion to Past Decisions
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about holding onto past decisions? What do I dislike about holding onto past decisions?
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Attachment to Sabotaging Success
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Sabotaging Success
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about sabotaging my success? What do I dislike about sabotaging my success?
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Attachment to Automatic Behavior
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Automatic Behavior
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about having automatic behavior? What do I dislike about having automatic behavior?
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Attachment to Insecurity
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Insecurity
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about being insecure? What do I dislike about being insecure?
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Attachment to Unconsciousness
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Unconsciousness
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about being unconscious? What do I dislike about being unconscious?
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the universe and everything that happens in the world, in the universe. So, if you take
this thing called mind, which is only a creator, and try to imagine what it is like
beyond creation, it’s impossible. The mind will never know peace (quiet) because
you have to go just above the mind to know peace (quiet) to know the Infinite Being
that we are—to know what it’s like beyond creation. The final state is beyond
creation. The ultimate State is the changeless state. In creation, everything is
constantly changing. Therefore, in creation, the Ultimate Truth is not there. So
demonstrate what one wants, one needs to become aware of the fact that all we need
to do is to think only of the things we want, and that is all that we would get, if we
would do just that. Only think of the things you want, and that’s what you’ll be
getting all the time, because the mind is only creative. Nice and easy, isn’t it? Also,
take credit for all the things you create that you don’t like. Just say, “Oh, look what I
did,” because when you become aware that you’ve created things you don’t like,
you’re still in a position of creator. If you don’t like it, all you have to do is turn it
upside down and you’ll like it.
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What Am I Demonstrating In My Life?
(If what you are doing in life or what is happening to you brings up a clutching or resistance in
your stomach or chest, keep releasing the energy until it is completely released.)
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Topic: Believing the World Controls Me
What is the advantage to me? Let go? What is the disadvantage to me? Let go?
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Attachment to Taking Responsibility for Everything
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What advantage is it to me to take responsibility for What disadvantage is it to me to take responsibility for
everything? everything?
1. Imagine never, ever being able to take responsibility for everything again.
(See what you wrote or thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure
and then release the want.)
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Aversion to Taking Responsibility for Everything
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about taking responsibility for What do I dislike about taking responsibility for
everything? everything?
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What could I do with ease if I had no resistance?
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What could I do with ease if I had no fear?
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What could I do with ease if I had no wanting?
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Attachment to Going to the Final Step Retreat
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Going to the Final Step Retreat
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about going to the retreat? What do I dislike about going to the retreat?
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The Past
This worksheet is designed to jog your memory with regard to your past. It is intended to be
used in conjunction with this Growth Seminar and is for the exclusive use of those participants
only.
Use a separate sheet for each item, as needed. As you complete the releasing on each item,
you may cross it off. It may take you several times through the lists before you are completely
released on an item, but if you persist, you can clean up entire areas of your life.
The intention of this work is to complete thing so that they are gone forever, so that they can
never affect you again. It is important to remember that a thing is completed when you are
totally released on it…and when you decide that it is finished.
1. Family
Make a separate sheet for each family member. Ask the following questions about each one and
release on each thing.
a.) What did they do to you?
b.) What did you do to them?
c.) What did they deny you?
d.) What did you deny them?
2. Old Loves
Make a separate sheet for each one. Ask the following questions for each.
First: List the things you remember about them and your relationship (good and bad). Release until
you are complete on each item. Then ask yourself the following questions.
a.) Could I allow them to be in the past?
b.) Could I allow them to leave me, to be gone?
c.) Could I allow them to move on?
d.) Could I allow myself to move on?
e.) Could I allow myself to never see this person again?
f) Could I allow it to be totally finished?
g.) Could I allow myself to forget this person?
h.) Could I allow this person to forget me?
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The Past (cont.)
3. Old Pains
List the following and release until you are completed on each. Itemize the details and release until
completed.
a.) Traumatic experiences.
b.) Illnesses.
c.) Operations.
4. Old Losses
List the following losses, itemize the details and release until each item and each loss is
completely released.
a.) Rejections.
b.) Jobs.
c.) Possessions.
d.) Deaths.
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If I could change something from my past,
it would be _______ because _______.
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The best things that ever happened to me were
_______________.
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The worst things that ever happened to me were
_______________.
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Attachment to Making Mistakes
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Making Mistakes
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about making mistakes? What do I dislike about making mistakes?
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Attachment to Being Perfect
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Being Perfect
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about being perfect? What do I dislike about being perfect?
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Attachment to Having a Past
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Having a Past
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about having a past? What do I dislike about having a past?
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Attachment to Having an Identity
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Having an Identity
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about having an identity? What do I dislike about having an identity?
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List and Release One at a Time
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List and Release One at a Time
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The world as you now see it is really a Product of your imagination
and when you see the Truth, the world turns out to be a dream, a
fiction created in your mind. First, you will see it as a dream, then you
will see it as a dream that never really was. In fact, you will
experience it exactly as you do a night dream.
While you are in the night dream, you have a body, there are other
bodies, there is action, interaction, there is good and there is bad. And,
so long as you remain in that night dream, everything there seems real
to you. But when you awaken from the night dream, you say, “My
gosh, it was just a dream! It never really happened! It was all a
dream.” This is exactly the same manner in which you will awaken
from this dream called waking state. You will come to see that it was
only a creation of your imagination, only a dream; and then you will
let go of it lock, stock and barrel.
And what you will be left with is the infinite you! Then you will
call yourself fully realized, totally free.
Actually, we are fully realized all the time. That is part of the irony.
We are fully realized Beings saying that we are not. So, all we have to
do is let go of “we are not” and what is left over is the fully realized
and free Being that we are.
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“Surrender once and for all and be done with desire. So long as the sense of
doership is retained there is the desire that is also personality. If this goes, the
Self is found to shine forth pure.
The sense of doership is the bondage and not the actions themselves.
‘Be still and know that I am God.’ Here stillness is total surrender without a
vestige of individuality. Stillness will prevail and there will be no agitation of
mind. Agitation of mind is the cause of desire, the sense of doership and
personality. If that is stopped there is quiet. There ‘Knowing’ means ‘Being.’
Thoughts, good or bad, take you farther and not nearer, because the Self is
more intimate than thoughts. You are Self, whereas the thoughts are alien to the
Self.
Every being in the world yearns to be always happy, free from the taint of
sorrow and desires to get rid of bodily ailments which are not of his true nature.
Further every one cherishes the greatest love for himself; and this love is not
possible in the absence of happiness. In deep sleep, though devoid of everything,
one has the experience of being happy. Yet, due to the ignorance of the real
nature of one’s own being, which is happiness itself, people flounder in the vast
ocean of material existence forsaking the right path that leads to happiness and
act under the mistaken belief that the way to be happy consists in obtaining the
pleasures of this.
The world is false. The false delusions of ignorance, the vicious and age-long
tendencies of the mind, which constitute this knot, are destroyed. All doubts are
dispelled and the bondage of Karma is severed.”
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What Will Happen In My Life?
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Attachment to Holding On
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Holding On
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about holding on? What do I dislike about holding on?
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Attachment to Letting Go
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Letting Go
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about letting go? What do I dislike about letting go?
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The greatest thing, and the most difficult thing we have to do is to drop the
mind. It’s a junkyard full of refuse from ages past; refuse of thoughts of
limitations—I am a limited body, I have troubles. All thoughts contain limitation.
We pile them up in the thing we call mind. Mind is nothing but the total
accumulation of all these thoughts. So, mind is kind of a junkyard of limitation.
All right, so how do we get rid of the mind? By quieting it. When we quiet the
mind we discover our infinity. The more we see our limitlessness, the more we
recognize that junkyard called mind, and the more we let go of it. We let go of it
until we go so far that we drop the whole remaining mind at one time. However,
before that, we keep battling the thoughts as they come up. As the thoughts come
up, we let go, let go, let go, until we let go of enough of them so that the Self that
we are, is obvious. Then it takes over and takes us all the way. The greatest thing
is quieting the mind, which is eliminating the mind.
Releasing is a necessary step in quieting the mind. This is the major point I am
addressing. Release. Learn how to Release and in that state learn how to get quiet.
The deeper one goes the more one discovers the innate joys to which there are no
limits. No matter how joyful you get you can always go further. If you were a
thousand times more joyful than you are now, you could still go on and on…joy
is unlimited because you are infinite.
But the major thing to accomplish is the ability to control the mind, and to
release. To drop into peace at will. A person can control a whole nation and if
they cannot control their own mind, what kind of control have they got. They are
a victim of their own mind. Rather than being free in control over their thoughts,
they are actually pushed around by past habits. They are no Master. Only the one
who can control their mind is a Master. A Master of not only themselves, but of
anything and everything they do. Releasing is the way.
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Ways in Which I Seek to be Separate
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Attachment to Being Separate
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Being Separate
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about being separate? What do I dislike about being separate?
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Attachment to Being One
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Being One
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about being one? What do I dislike about being one?
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Attachment to Being Alone
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Being Alone
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about being alone? What do I dislike about being alone?
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Attachment to My Mind
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to My Mind
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about being a mind? What do I dislike about being a mind?
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Attachment to My Body
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to My Body
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Attachment to My Ego
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to My Ego
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about being an ego? What do I dislike about being an ego?
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Attachment to Being in the World
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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Aversion to Being in the World
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about being in the world? What do I dislike about being in the world?
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Attachment to Letting Go of the World
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What advantage is it to me to let go of the world? What disadvantage is it to me to let go of the world?
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Aversion to Letting Go of the World
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
What do I like about letting go of the world? What do I dislike about letting go of the world?
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List and Release One at a Time
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What would I have to give up to be completely desireless?
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List and Release One at a Time
What do I know about being selfless? What don’t I know about being selfless?
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List and Release One at a Time
What do I like about being selfless? What don’t I like about being selfless?
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What would happen if I became completely selfless?
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What would happen if I witnessed only?
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What would I have to do to get everything by releasing only?
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What does it mean to me to be all giving?
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List and Release One at a Time
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List and Release One at a Time
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Attachment to Sharing the Method with Others
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the attachment. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
1. Imagine never, ever being able to share the method with others.
(See what you wrote or thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure
and then release the want.)
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Aversion to Sharing the Method with Others
Stream of Consciousness:
(Just let your mind think of things about the aversion. Write it down and see what you wrote or
thought as wanting approval, wanting control, or wanting to be safe or secure and then release
the want.)
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More Attachment/Aversion Topics
Make copies of the following blank Attachment and Aversion pages and fill in using the list
below.
Do the exercises as many times as you wish and add your own topics to the list.
1. Perfection
2. Intelligence
3. Procrastination
4. Saying Yes
5. Saying No
6. Getting Overwhelmed
7. Having All the Time in the World
8. Procrastination
9. Giving Up
10. “I Can't”
11. “I Won’t”
12. Having Nothing to Do
13. Controlling Time
14. Now
15. Health
16. Having a Perfect Body
17. Getting Older
18. Exercise
19. Breathing
20. Eating
21. Fatigue
22. Illness
23. Pain
24. Rejection
25. Automatic Behavior
26. Sabotaging Success
27. Laziness
28. Decisiveness
29. Unconsciousness
30. Self Doubt
31. Being a Millionaire
32. IRS
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33. People Knowing I Have Money
34. Sharing Money with Others
35. Having Employees
36. Working for a Living
37. Opportunities
38. Luck
39. Greed
40. Secrets
41. Frustration
42. Fairness
43. Giving
44. Receiving
45. Responsibility
46. Being a Leader
47. Being a Follower
48. Enlightenment
49. Total Freedom
50. Being Strange
51. Being Good Enough
52. Knowing What to Do
53. Feeling Love All the Time
54. Controlling Reality
55. Manifesting My Dreams
56. Conviction
57. Socializing
58. Entertainment
59. Sex
60. Being Sexy
61. Being Vulnerable
62. Pleasing Others
63. Pleasing Myself
64. Indulgence
65. Heartache
66. Rejection
67. Excitement
68. Proving Myself
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69. Opinions
70. Knowing it All
71. Being Cool
72. Compromising
73. Adventure
74. Being Alert
75. Compassion
76. Independence
77. Being Flexible
78. Motivation
79. Optimism
80. Spontaneity
81. Supporting Others
82. Invincibility
83. Honor
84. Ethics
85. Joyfulness
86. Being Childlike
87. Being Intuitive
88. Gentleness
89. Appreciation
90. Playfulness
91. Radiating Love
92. Everything's Okay
93. Being Ageless
94. Awareness
95. Being Boundless
96. Fulfillment
97. Serenity
98. Stillness
99. Timelessness
100. ________________
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Belief Questionnaire—The Last Week
Rate yourself from 1–10 with regard to each of the following statements.
1 = most negative 10 = most positive
A. Mother ____________
B. Father ____________
C. Siblings ____________
E. Boss ____________
F. Co-workers ____________
G. Friends ____________
8. My health ______________
9. Confidence ______________
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