Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 28

NARCOSIA Publishing -2008

Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 28

NARCOSIA Publishing ARAD COUNTY, MACEA 2008 3

CIP description of the Romanian National Library Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean

ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-606-8048-07-9

Urge to read, analyze and apply these meditations By reading and analyzing the meditations of AGC, by applying one or more thoughts we will find solutions that will help us: I. Discover: 1. qualities; 2. defects; 3. capabilities; 4. skills; 5. some opportunities to succeed in life; 6. finding a partner for life; 7. keeping our marriage; 8. discovering our feelings; 9. discovering our mistakes; 10. etc..
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II. To prevent some: 1. mistakes; 2. accidents; 3. divorces; 4. trouble; 5. bankruptcies; 6. failures; 7. conflicts; 8. etc.. III. Become: 1. more efficient; 2. happier; 3. more loved; 4. more honorable; 5. appreciated; 6. more respected; 7. more loved; 8. more organized;
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9. more optimistic; 10. more plan; 11. most active; 12. best; 13. fairer; 14. more humane; 15. more unselfish; 16. popular; 17. more famous; 18. etc.. IV. Come out of: 1. the state of lost hope; 2. the state of pessimism; 3. the state of despair; 4. the state of passivity; 5. the state of inactivity 6. etc.. V. Participate at:
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1. social life; 2. political life; 3. the activity of nonprofit organization 4. etc.. VI. Find more opportunities to meet favorable or more favorable conditions. VII. To let us change our lives more in better, to make it more beautiful. VIII. To expand our chances to find the right partner for life. IX. To let us realize and to
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maintain a happy marriage. X. To let us raise and educate our children better, to take more care of them. I am writing these meditations and adding these books, other publications and on the Internet, etc.. because we need them every day and it is necessary to apply them so that we each achieve what we want: a more beautiful life, a more prosperous and happy one. These meditations reflect a tiny part of reality, of what would be good to be present in real life and in human relations. I expect good news from you, good deeds that you have done influenced by the fact that you have
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read and applied one or more ideas to make your life more beautiful, more prosperous, more happy and to be positive lively models for others. Each of us can become a positive new model for those around us thus participating in the creation of a better human society, of a more prosperous one, and a happier one. I would be very happy and excited if one or more ideas that you have read, help you in one way or another or make you happier, more prosperous, etc.. I wish you all health, happiness and the achieving of all things that you want. I expect your news, ideas, opinions, troubles and joys, etc..
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Sincerely, love and with much joy, I invite you to visit my site www.ardeleancornel.eu and to write to me at: agc.arad@yahoo.com

Ardelean Gheorghe Cornel (AGC)

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1) Those who are willing to try new ways have more and greater chances to achieve a more beautiful life. 2) Those with the sense of objectivity have greater chances to achieve efficient co operations. 3) Those with the sense of objectivity must be rewarded. 4) Those with the sense of objectivity have the capacity to maintain a happy marriage. 5) Those with the sense of objectivity have more and greater chances to achieve a true mature love. 6) People who are full of life and active have a greater capacity to achieve outstanding performances. 7) People who are full of life and
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active have more and greater chances to achieve a happier life. 8) People with prejudice because of some prejudices might not achieve their happiness. 9) People with prejudices may not maintain some true friendships because of prejudices. 10) People with prejudices may not maintain a happy marriage because of some prejudices. 11) People with wrong ideas neglect global humanization because of some wrong ideas. 12) People with wrong ideas cannot prevent many failures because of some wrong ideas. 13) People with wrong ideas cannot become more efficient because of some wrong ideas. 14) People with wrong ideas cannot
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achieve outstanding performances because of some wrong ideas. 15) People with wrong ideas cannot achieve a happy life because of wrong ideas. 16) People who inspire trust must be supported. 17) People who inspire trust maintain true friendships more easily. 18) People who inspire trust more easily achieve a mature love. 19) People who inspire trust more easily achieve efficient co operations. 20) People who inspire trust have greater chances to maintain a happy marriage. 21) People who inspire trust have a greater capacity to achieve a happy life. 22) People who inspire trust have a greater capacity to become more credible. 23) People with the sense of discipline
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must be promoted. 24) People with the sense of discipline have a greater ability to maintain mature love. 25) People with the sense of discipline have more trust in themselves. 26) People with the sense of discipline make fewer mistakes. 27) People with the sense of discipline have more chances to succeed. 28) People who are not careful with others must not be appreciated. 29) People who are not careful with others achieve happy co-developments a lot harder. 30) People who are not careful with others have difficulties in achieving a happy marriage. 31) All who are not careful with others achieve social relations much harder. 32) The simplicity of decisions allows
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them to be taken in a short period of time. 33) The simplicity of decisions allows you to take quality decisions. 34) The simplicity of decisions makes them more easily applicable. 35) The simplicity of decisions makes them more easily understood. 36) The state of political uncertainties causes great economic damages. 37) Political uncertainties cause us big troubles in succeeding in life. 38) Those who only solve problems through constructive methods have a greater ability to achieve their own happiness. 39) Those who only solve problems through constructive methods must be appreciated. 40) Those who only solve problems through constructive methods prevent many failures.
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41) Solving problems only through constructive methods increases our credibility. 42) The state of nervosity stops us from achieving a more beautiful life. 43) The state of nervosity stops us from preventing more failures. 44) The state of nervosity makes it very hard for us to achieve some efficient global co operations. 45) The state of nervosity makes it very hard for us to achieve ourselves. 46) Assuring personal freedom is necessary to achieve the desired future. 47) Assuring personal freedom ensures the achievement of efficient co operations. 48) Not assuring personal freedom must not be rewarded. 49) Assuring personal freedom ensures the achievement of more and greater successes.
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50) A positive conception of life contributes a lot in achieving the greater good. 51) The exchange of information helps a lot in achieving a positive conception of life. 52) A positive conception of life must be promoted. 53) The uncertainty of incomes stops our success in life. 54) The uncertainty of our incomes stops us from achieving more and greater successes. 55) In order to discover more unique ways to work efficiently for a better life it is necessary to study the knowledge stored in books, on the Internet, and in magazines, newspapers, etc. 56) Those who know how to take advantage of the opportunity to create must be supported.
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57) Those who know how to take advantage of the opportunity to create have more chances to find the right partner for life. 58) Those who know how to take advantage of the opportunity to create increase their credibility. 59) Those who control circumstances have a greater ability to achieve a mature love. 60) Those who control circumstances have a greater potential to maintain a happy marriage. 61) Those who know that discipline is one of the greatest qualities must be promoted. 62) Those who know that discipline is one of the greatest qualities must be supported. 63) Those who have had better economic and social conditions during
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their evolution have a greater potential to achieve the desired social relations. 64) Those who have had better economic and social conditions during their evolution have a greater capacity to become even more effective. 65) Those who are oriented towards the future have a greater capacity to achieve the desired social relations. 66) Those who live their life passionately and not at random must be supported. 67) Those who live their life passionately and not at random mostly trust the future. 68) Those who have opportunities to develop have greater chances to achieve efficient global co operations. 69) Those who have opportunities to develop have more chances to prevent many failures.
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70) Those who willingly expand their positive experience have a greater ability to maintain the desired social relations. 71) Those who willingly expand their positive experience have greater capacities to efficiently co-develop. 72) Those who willingly expand their positive experience contribute a lot to global humanization. 73) Those who willingly expand their positive experience continuously increase their ability to achieve a happy life. 74) The need for success increases our ability to achieve personal goals. 75) The need for success increases our number of chances to meet more favorable situations. 76) The majority of those who do not have a goal in life maintain a mature love harder. 77) Those who have the ability to
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consciously choose must be promoted. 78) Most of those who have the abilities to consciously choose also have trust in themselves. 79) Most of those who have the ability to consciously choose have a higher capacity to achieve a happy marriage. 80) Most of those who have the ability to consciously choose have a greater capacity to become more credible. 81) A positive enterprising spirit increases our ability to maintain a mature love. 82) A positive enterprising spirit increases our trust in ourselves. 83) A positive enterprising spirit increases our ability to maintain positive co-developments. 84) People who are effective in positive actions have greater chances to achieve personal goals.
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85) The sense of quality is a necessity. 86) The sense of quality contributes a lot in achieving the greater good. 87) The sense of quality increases our chances to prevent almost all failures if not all. 88) The sense of quality develops our trust in the future. 89) Constructive thinking makes us have zero tolerance towards incorrect thinking. 90) Constructive thinking must be promoted. 91) Constructive thinking increases our chances to achieve more and greater successes. 92) The sense of fairness increases our trust in ourselves. 93) The majority of those who have the ability to react with understanding have a greater capacity to understand others.
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94) The majority of those who have the ability to react with understanding make more exchanges of information. 95) The majority of those who have the ability to react with understanding must be promoted. 96) People who know how to motivate other people have a greater ability to achieve efficient co-developments. 97) People who know how to motivate other people have greater chances to participate more in global humanization. 98) People who know how to motivate other people have a greater ability to prevent more possible mistakes. 99) People who know how to motivate other people also develop their trust in the future. 100) Preventing problems through positive methods increases our chances to participate in achieving efficient global co
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operations. 101) Solving problems through positive methods must be appreciated. 102) The sense of commitment in work helps us a lot to achieve a happy life. 103) The sense of commitment in work helps us a lot to become more credible. 104) The sense of commitment in work helps us a lot to become more performing. 105) The sense of commitment in work helps us achieve our desired future. 106) Humanist ideas are mandatory. 107) Humanist ideas contribute a lot in global humanization. 108) Humanist ideas help us achieve a more beautiful life. 109) Humanist ideas help us achieve a happy life. 110) Using preventive thinking helps us achieve our own happiness. 111) Using preventive thinking
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contributes to the development of global thinking. 112) Using preventive thinking helps in the achievement of some positive social relations. 113) Preventive thinking contributes a lot in achieving efficient co operations. 114) Using preventive thinking requires many exchanges of information. 115) Preventive thinking must be maintained. 116) People who respect their collaborators have a greater potential to achieve a happy life. 117) People who respect their collaborators through this respect become more credible. 118) Respecting ones collaborator is an obligation. 119) Most of those involved in several projects also have creative qualities.
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120) The greater good can be achieved a lot faster through as many rapid efficient global co operations as possible. 121) The majority of those involved in several projects have a greater ability to achieve a mature love. 122) The majority of those involved in several projects have more chances to achieve a happy marriage. 123) People who can control their emotions have greater chances to succeed in life. 124) People who can control their emotions have great contributions in achieving the greater good. 125) People who can control their emotions have greater chances to achieve more and greater outstanding performances. 126) People who can control their emotions have more chances to achieve a
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happy life. 127) Solving problems through positive methods helps us a lot to contribute to global humanization. 128) Those who are remarkably gifted can become more creative a lot faster. 129) Those who are remarkably gifted many times have a creative thinking. 130) Those who are remarkably gifted mostly have the sense of social justice. 131) Most of those who are remarkably gifted have the sense of social justice. 132) Most of those who are remarkably gifted possess self control. 133) People who have successes many times also have the sense of commitment. 134) People who have had successes have succeeded many times in solving conflicting situations. 135) People who have had successes mostly have a preventive thinking.
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136) Most of the people who have had successes are intelligent. 137) People who have had successes are reliable people. 138) Most of the people who have had successes are serious people. 139) Most of the people who have had successes are resistant to stress. 140) Most of the people who have had successes are emotionally stable. 141) Most of the people who have had successes are efficient in action. 142) Most of the people who have had successes are people with an innovative spirit. 143) People who have had successes know how to control their emotions. 144) People who have had successes know that the key to fulfilling their dreams is discipline. 145) People who have had successes
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have always searched to achieve successes. 146) People who have had successes mostly have envious feelings. 147) People who have had successes know how to recognize both their qualities and defects very well. 148) People who have had successes know how to form and develop the necessary abilities to achieve the successes they want to fulfill. 149) People who have successes are involved in many future projects. 150) People who have successes mostly have a high level of energy. 151) People who have successes mostly make friends easily. 152) People who have successes are mostly professionals in the areas in which they have achieved successes. 153) People who have successes are
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mostly capable. 154) People who have successes are mostly people with judgment. 155) People who have successes are mostly prudent people. 156) People who have successes are mostly balanced people. 157) People who have successes are mostly preoccupied with obtaining an optimal cooperation in their team. 158) People who have successes respect rules. 159) People who have successes respect procedures. 160) People who have success appreciate their success. 161) People who have successes know how to perfect themselves day by day. 162) Most of the people who have successes are preoccupied with creating new ideas to achieve new successes.
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163) Most of the people who have successes are looking to become more efficient. 164) Most of the decisions taken without the necessary research are wrong. 165) An illegal decision cannot be applied. 166) People who take positive decisions are also engines of progress in all areas of activity. 167) People who take positive decisions have more chances to succeed in life. 168) People who take positive decisions can participate more rapidly in efficient global co operations. 169) People who take positive decisions must be appreciated. 170) The persons that take positive decisions must be promoted. 171) Skilled people are the engines of progress in all areas of activity.
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172) Skilled people become more credible. 173) Skilled people have more and greater chances to achieve a more beautiful life. 174) Skilled people have more and greater chances to meet more and greater favorable situations. 175) Skilled people continuously develop their trust in the future. 176) Skilled people have fewer failures. 177) Accidents can be prevented. 178) Crimes can be prevented. 179) Bankruptcies can be prevented. 180) Stress can be prevented. 181) Illnesses can be prevented. 182) Misunderstandings can be prevented. 183) Reconciliation between two real friends is always welcome. 184) Forgiveness is not a weakness.
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185) Forgiving is a noble behavior. 186) Forgiving is a positive behavior. 187) Forgiving is a wise behavior. 188) Meanness is harmful to he who is mean. 189) Meanness produces only harm. 190) Meanness must be prevented. 191) Meanness can be prevented. 192) Meanness is destructive. 193) Meanness is the cause of many misfortunes. 194) Meanness is the cause of many troubles. 195) Meanness is the cause of many human sufferings. 196) Meanness is also human stupidity. 197) Meanness is the cause of many miseries. 198) Meanness is also the effect of human stupidity. 199) Meanness is also the fact of the lack
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of culture. 200) Meanness is also the effect of the absence of our home education. 201) Animosities must be prevented. 202) Animosities can be prevented. 203) Animosities can produce many troubles. 204) Bitterness is very harmful. 205) Bitterness must be prevented. 206) Bitterness can be prevented. 207) Prolonged bitterness is very harmful to our health. 208) Hatred is very harmful to the one who hates. 209) Evil is very harmful to the one who is evil. 210) Revenge is very harmful to the one who takes revenge. 211) Creativity must be encouraged. 212) Creativity must be appreciated. 213) Creativity must be rewarded.
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214) Creativity must be supported. 215) Creativity can be formed. 216) Creativity can be developed. 217) Creativity can be enhanced. 218) Creativity can be made more efficient. 219) We must develop our creative qualities. 220) Creative qualities help us a lot to succeed in life. 221) Creative qualities can be developed. 222) Creative qualities must be appreciated. 223) Creative qualities help us a lot to achieve happy marriages. 224) Creative qualities help us a lot to attain our personal goals. 225) We must permanently develop our creative qualities. 226) We must permanently enhance the efficiency of using creative qualities.
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227) Ingenuity is a creative quality. 228) Ingenuity must be appreciated. 229) Ingenuity must be recognized. 230) Love must produce love. 231) Love must also produce understanding. 232) Love must also produce kindness. 233) Love sometimes creates a lot of goodness. 234) Negative deeds must be prevented. 235) Negative deeds can be prevented. 236) Negative deeds must be stopped. 237) Positive deeds can be created. 238) Positive deeds must be appreciated. 239) Positive deeds must be rewarded. 240) Positive deeds create many positive facts. 241) Positive deeds must be supported. 242) Positive deeds must be encouraged. 243) In friendships we must be fair. 244) Positive deeds must become
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models. 245) Positive deeds must be pursued. 246) Positive deeds must be made known. 247) The hugging of lovers brings them even closer. 248) The caresses of lovers bring them very close. 249) The comforting of lovers brings them very close. 250) The kissing of lovers brings them very close. 251) The hugging of lovers increases their mutual sexual attraction. 252) The caresses of lovers increase their mutual sexual attraction. 253) The comforting of lovers increases their mutual sexual attraction. 254) The kissing of lovers increases their mutual sexual attraction. 255) The tenderness of lovers brings
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them even closer. 256) The tenderness of lovers increases their sexual attraction. 257) Mutual understanding of lovers brings them even closer. 258) The mutual understanding of lovers contributes a lot to maintaining love. 259) The mutual understanding of spouses contributes a lot to maintaining a happy marriage. 260) The mutual understanding of true friends contributes a lot to maintaining that friendship. 261) The mutual understanding of collaborators contributes a lot to maintaining that collaboration. 262) The caresses of lovers contribute a lot to maintaining true love. 263) The tenderness of lovers contributes a lot to maintaining true love. 264) The hugging of lovers contributes a
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lot to maintaining true love. 265) The comforting of lovers contributes a lot to maintaining true love. 266) The kisses of lovers contribute a lot to maintaining true love. 267) The caresses of spouses contribute a lot to maintaining a happy marriage. 268) The tenderness of spouses contributes a lot to maintaining a happy marriage. 269) The hugging of spouses contributes a lot to maintaining a happy marriage. 270) The comforting of spouses contributes a lot to maintaining a happy marriage. 271) The kisses of spouses contribute a lot to maintaining a happy marriage. 272) Lovers can increase their sexual appetite also through caresses. 273) Lovers can increase their sexual appetite also through tenderness.
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274) Lovers can increase their appetite also through hugging. 275) Lovers can increase their appetite also through comforting. 276) Lovers can increase their appetite also through kissing. 277) Spouses can maintain their appetite also through caresses. 278) Spouses can maintain their appetite also through tenderness. 279) Spouses can maintain their appetite also through hugging. 280) Spouses can maintain their appetite also through comforting. 281) Spouses can maintain their appetite also through kisses. 282) Lovers can maintain their desire also through caresses. 283) Lovers can maintain their desire also through tenderness. 284) Lovers can maintain their
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desire also through hugging. 285) Lovers can maintain their sexual desire also through comforting. 286) Lovers can maintain their sexual desire also through kisses. 287) Spouses can increase their sexual desire also through caresses. 288) Spouses can increase their sexual desire also through tenderness. 289) Spouses can increase their sexual desire also through hugging. 290) Spouses can increase their sexual desire also through kissing. 291) Friendly women more easily find the right partner. 292) Affectionate women more easily achieve happy marriages. 293) Affectionate women more easily achieve true loves. 294) Tender women more easily achieve true loves.
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295) Understanding women more easily achieve happy marriages. 296) Understanding women more easily achieve true loves. 297) Understanding women more quickly find the right partner. 298) Tender women more easily achieve happy marriages. 299) Tender women have more chances to maintain happy marriages. 300) Understanding women have more chances to maintain happy marriages. 301) Affectionate women have more chances to maintain happy marriages. 302) Friendly women have more chances of maintaining happy marriages. 303) Tender women have more chances to make men more understanding. 304) Loving women have more chances to achieve happy marriages. 305) Loving women have more chances
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to achieve true loves. 306) Affection must be rewarded with affection. 307) Tenderness must be rewarded with tenderness. 308) Understanding must be rewarded with understanding. 309) Friendship must be rewarded with friendship. 310) Caresses must be rewarded with caresses. 311) Kisses must be rewarded with kisses. 312) Comforting must be rewarded with comforting. 313) Hugs must be rewarded with hugs. 314) Love must be rewarded with love. 315) Feelings must be expressed. 316) Feelings must be appreciated. 317) Feelings must be rewarded with feelings.
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318) We must recognize the qualities in everyone. 319) We must appreciate the qualities in everyone. 320) Loving gestures support true loves.

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About the author and his ideas Hmm ... I do not know where to begin. It is difficult to really know someone. Often, the person on whom you stopped is difficult to decipher. That is not the case of Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean. From the first moment I knew and he got my attention. I recognized him immediately from the descriptions made by his colleagues: "One small, with white haired man with many books and newspapers in his hand, they said. My curiosity pushed me to address him, cheerful, open; he began to talk to me as if we knew each other for years. A person opened both to dialogue as well as current jokes. I got to know him
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even better when we met at Club Central. A nice company as long as you succeed not to be attracted in that part of the discussion where his future plans are. Plans that are repeated endlessly become a burden for the people around him. Not because it would be something wrong in what he says but through their very repeatability. On several occasions I have read some of his meditations, others have been published in the magazine "Freedom in Thought". By their simplicity and the fact that they expresses absolute truths, for those who do not take seriously the writings of Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean they may seem indeed to read seriously what to write, I bet they will find
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among the apparently simple lines, a message equal to a person who has suffered enormously because of human and system injustices. The cry of a man eager for more, eager for simplicity, for the truth and for a Utopia, wishful of a perfect world. If even 10% of what he writes would be put into practice by us, then certainly we would set ourselves and with others at the same time. Surprisingly, nobody sees that Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean even puts into practice what he writes, which means that he really believes it. With an analytical style impossible to confuse, Mr. Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean is successful in a few lines and penetrates into the
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essence of truth. By this thinking, he is venturing into an area still unexplored in specialized literature. Specialized topics are part of the absolute truths that each of us have deep within our being, so acknowledged, so obvious, so natural that no one has ventured to put them on paper. But surely there will be many who, after reading and rereading these absolute truths will solve many of the problems of their existence. The novelty that makes Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean stand out besides putting on paper a well-known truth, is that it also leads to problem solving. It is a promising start in an area of astute competition and often an unscrupulous one.
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I wish you success Mr. Ardelean and may these meditations help as many people as possible. Do not give up, continue on the path that you have chosen and maybe in the nearer or further future the world will be at least 5% as you want it to be. Do not give up ... We ... only a few, I must admit, we are beside you. SIMION SEBASTIAN EDUARD Graduate of the Academy of Theater and Film Former journalist of the national newspapers and Romania Libera, Evenimentul Zilei, was Her Majesty's Paul of Romanias adviser a businessman resident in Italy
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Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean Writer (66 books written in English, 66 in Romanian,7 edited) born 03rd.11.1954, in Macea, Arad County, Email: agc.arad@yahoo.com www.ardeleancornel.eu
I have known the economist Cornel Ardelean for dozens of years, as a guy that outraged the thought of some who did not believe in his ideas, innovative, simply put but with a long and efficient duration. After the Revolution he proved that he is indeed a good economist by founding the first small enterprise of Arad County, in the year 1990 of the post-communist age. I have always been by Cornel Ardeleans side, never ceasing to believe that the man can rise above his time if he wishes to and if he has the potential to do it. SABIN BODEA President of the Writers League of Romania Arad Branch ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-606-8048-07-9

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