Ruby Cardoza

April 14, 2024

Personal Statement

Personal Statement
Describe an example of your leadership experience in which you have positively
influenced others, helped resolve disputes, or contributed to group efforts overtime’s.

Throughout my life, I have always believed in the power of compassion and the importance

of standing up for others. This belief was put to the test during my junior year when I

encountered a fellow student who was struggling with anxiety and becoming a target of ridicule.

I remember the moment vividly.

In the crowded hallway between classes, I saw a group of students mocking him for his

nervous mannerisms. It was a scene that could easily go unnoticed or be dismissed as harmless

teasing by some. However, I saw the pain in his eyes, and I knew I had to act. Drawing on my

own experiences with anxiety, I approached him after the incident. We found a quiet corner, and

I listened as he shared his struggles. I reassured him that he was not alone and that his feelings

were valid and important.

We spoke about coping mechanisms that I had found helpful, such as mindfulness exercises

and journaling to process emotions. In the days that followed, I became a friend and an advocate.

I encouraged him to speak with a counselor, and together we reported the bullying to school

authorities. I also initiated conversations with my peers about the impact of their words and

actions, fostering a more empathetic school culture.

This experience was transformative, not only for the student I helped but also for myself. It

reaffirmed my commitment to empathy and advocacy. As I look towards the future, I am

determined to carry these values into my college education and beyond, with the goal of creating

inclusive and supportive communities wherever I go.