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Week 5 Discussion Relationship Building
Week 5 Discussion Relationship Building
Building
This week's materials take a close look at interpersonal attraction. As social
animals, the concepts presented within this week's chapters may seem at times
obvious or simplistic. However, consider how you develop friendships and
establish a rapport with a prospective "special someone." As you stand there
interacting with another person do you think to yourself…
1. (proximity) "If I lived somewhere else I wouldn't even know or like this
person."
2. (affect) "If I were in a better mood this person would almost seem ok,
but since I'm not, I don't care for him/her."
3. (attractiveness) "If only I could get past how good looking this person
is/is not…I wonder what they are really like."
4. (attractiveness) "He is really good looking…he has to be a trustworthy
car salesman"
5. (attractiveness) "She is too beautiful to be smart."
Your Task
Reference:
Jhangiani, R., & Tarry, H. (2014). Principles of social psychology (1st
international ed.). BCcampus. https://opentextbc.ca/socialpsychology/
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Kenneth Trottier posted Jun 15, 2023 1:48 PM
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will address option 1: Post a brief analysis that ranks, in order of
importance, the factors that lead to attraction in chapter 8.
1. Proximity: Proximity refers to physical or geographical closeness
between individuals. It is considered a fundamental factor in
attraction because frequent exposure to someone increases
familiarity and the likelihood of developing a connection.
2. Similarity: Similarity refers to the extent to which individuals
share common characteristics, values, attitudes, and interests.
People are often attracted to those who are similar to themselves
because it facilitates understanding, validation, and the potential
for enjoyable interactions.
3. Physical Attractiveness: Physical attractiveness plays a significant
role in initial attraction. While beauty standards can vary across
cultures and individuals, there is a general tendency for people to
be attracted to those whom they perceive as physically appealing.
This can include factors such as facial symmetry, body
proportions, and grooming.
4. Affect and Attraction: Affect refers to the emotional responses or
feelings that individuals experience in the presence of others.
Positive affect, such as happiness, joy, or excitement, can
contribute to feelings of attraction towards someone. Similarly,
negative affect, such as anger, sadness, or anxiety, can diminish or
inhibit attraction. Our emotional state and the affect we
experience can greatly influence our level of attraction to another
person
Four vocabulary words from the reading:
Companionate Love: defined as love that is based on friendship, mutual
attraction, common interests, mutual respect, and concern for each
other’s welfare.
Self Disclosure: the tendency to communicate frequently, without fear
of reprisal, and in an accepting and empathetic manner.
Exchange Relationships : relationships in which each of the partners
keeps track of his or her contributions to the partnership.
Communal Relationships : are close relationships in which partners
suspend their need for equity and exchange, giving support to the
partner in order to meet his or her needs, and without consideration of
the costs to themselves
Kenneth T.
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Rylan Bennett posted Jun 15, 2023 3:35 PM
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I would argue that we have complete control over who we like.
Personality traits have a tendency to influence who we hang around as
well as what we like, but we as individuals can think for ourselves and
decide above it to branch out of our comfort zone and utilize effects
such as the mere exposure effect and proximity liking to find ourselves
new friends or acquaintances. In addition to this, we could also
utilize altruism to a degree and just generally be a helpful person around
other people. Doing so would promote not only your reputation as
someone to be liked but also reinforce why people should help
you, Reciprocal Altruism taking effect.
In essence, we choose who to surround ourselves with and who we
choose to like, as well as using our attitudes and actions to establish and
reinforce those relationships we have.
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Jacquette Anderson posted Jun 15, 2023 11:40 PM
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Post a brief analysis that ranks, in order of importance, the factors that
lead to attraction in chapter 8.
Proximity
Proximity allows people the opportunity to get to know one another and
discover their similarities, this can lead to a friendship or an intimate
relationship. Proximity is not just about geographic distance but rather
functional distance or the frequency with which we cross paths with
others. Therefore, some of us become close to co-workers and even best
friends; also, this is how some people met their future spouse. I have
seen this often in the hospital, since you’re there a lot you end up
getting to know your co-workers and build an attraction then the rest is
history. This is also why you see hospital medical staff dating polices
officers, EMTs, or even firefighters. They often cross paths with each
other, mere exposure effect refers to the tendency to prefer stimuli
(including, but not limited to, people) that we have seen frequently.
Physical Attractiveness
Physical attractiveness is how physically attracted are you to each other.
You’re most likely to be emotionally or romantically attracted to people
that you find attractive. There’s no standard of what’s attractive, each
person has their own idea of physical attractiveness.
Similarity
There’s a popular belief that opposite attracts but in reality, most
couples tend to be very similar whether it’s in age, social class,
education, values, and attitude. Being similar doesn’t mean that the
couple must be twins it’s means that they similar traits that help boost
their attraction for one another. For example, there were several of
people who used to think that my late husband and I were opposites.
Yes, we were different, but we had a lot of similarities like values and
attitude that boost our attraction beyond the physical component.
Affect & Attraction
When we find someone attractive, for instance, we experience positive
affect, and we end up liking the person even more. However, mood that
is created by causes other than the other person can also influence
liking.
Affect and Arousal, though I consider them less critical, still play
roles in attraction. Affect pertains to mood, suggesting that our
feelings towards others are influenced by our emotional state.
Arousal, on the other hand, is the physiological counterpart of
affect, with heightened arousal potentially amplifying attraction.