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Trust NS 10
Trust NS 10
Session 10
Establishing Trust and
Building Relationships
Part Two
Negotiation Skills
Money vs. Relationships (1 of 3)
A successful, win-win negotiation is not just about
maximizing money or economic value.
The true definition of a win-win agreement is one that
allows negotiators to fully maximize whatever
negotiators care about, which can include: (see Exhibit
7-1)
• Love • Goods
• Money • Status
• Services • Information
Money vs. Relationships (2 of 3)
Exhibit 7-1 Resources that May be Exchanged in a
Relationship
Source: Adapted from Foa, U., & Foa, E. (1975). Resource theory of social exchange.
Morristown, NJ: General Learning Press.
Money vs. Relationships (3 of 3)
Each of these valued resources varies in terms of:
• Particularism – how much utility we derive depends on
the provider.
• Concreteness – the tangibility of the resource.
• Dispositional attributions
Declaration of Negotiator vows to change their “In the future, I will make sure to explain
repentance future behavior my thinking and engage in a conversation”
Offer of repair Negotiator takes steps to rebuild trust “Is there a way we can move forward?”
Request for Negotiator asks to be forgiven “Please forgive my hasty email offer”
forgiveness
Based on Benoit, W. L. (2015). Accounts, excuses, apologies: Image repair theory and
research, 2nd edition. Albany, NY: State University of New York Press; Schlenker, B. R., &
Darby, B. W. (1981). The use of apologies in social predicaments. Social Psychology
Quarterly, 44(3), 271–278.
Relationships in Negotiation
• Relationships influence not only the process of how people
negotiate, but also their choice of interaction partners.
• Friends are less competitive with each other than they are
with strangers.