WORKSHOP ON

SEX EDUCATION

Parwarish Institute of Parenting

 About child sexual abuse

 Sexual abuse is common

 Happens only in India
 Exists in only a certain socio-economic
strata of the society
 Only girls are affected
 Happens only in troubled families
 Generally perpetrated
 by males

 by socially misfit people, people

who need help

 by strangers.
Bad Touch

 That makes you feel uncomfortable

Unsafe Touch

 Touch on Private Parts

What are private parts

Mouth

Breast/Chest Area

Area between the legs

Bottoms – Genitals
 Sensitive
Infections Emotions
can enter /feelings

Why are they

‘Private’ ?

Your private parts are NOT private

from YOU
Child Sexual Abuse…

 Touching a child's genitals (penis, testicles, vulva,

breasts, or anus) for sexual pleasure or other
unnecessary reason.

 Making a child touch someone else's genitals, or

playing sexual ("pants-down") games.

 Putting objects or body parts (like fingers,

tongue or a penis) inside the vagina, in the
mouth, or in the anus of a child for sexual
pleasure
 Child Sexual Abuse…
 Showing pornography (sexual pictures and/or
videos) to a child forcefully/without consent.
 Emails/ texts with sexual content and/ or intent
 Somebody sharing/telling a dirty joke
 Photographing a child in sexual poses.
 Encouraging a child to watch or hear sexual acts
either in person or on a video.
 Watching a child undress or use the
bathroom, often without the child's
knowledge.
How to deal with this
situation?
How do you deal if your child
experiences abuse ?

Do not begin to impose

Acknowledge & Deal Deal with that person
restrictions on the
with your feelings STRAIGHT
child

Acknowledge your Empower them for

child for sharing protection

Help them to cope up

with emotions
Acknowledge their
feelings (dirty, not at fault, not
loved, failure, just
body)
 PUBERTAL CHANGES

BOYS GIRLS
• Around the penis • Around the vagina
• Under the arms • Under the arms
Hair Growth • Face, legs and chest
areas

Skin gets oilier and acne may occur; perspiration

Acne & body odour increases and may cause body odour

• Height • Height
• Weight • Weight
• Muscles increase • Width of hips increase
Shapes and sizes • Shoulders broaden • Fat at the abdomen
• Buttock and thigh
areas increases.
 PUBERTAL CHANGES

BOYS GIRLS
• Penis and testes enlarge and • Breasts develop
lengthen • Menstruation occurs
• Erections and ejaculations
occur more frequently
Unique changes • Wet dreams
• Voice cracks
Boys

Two Openings:
1. For the Urine and
Semen
• Through the
bladder
• Through the
Testicles
2. For Faeces
Girls
Three
Openings

1. For Urine
2. For Faeces
3. For Baby
Functions
• Ovaries produce the
egg
• The baby grows in
the uterus
• Comes out of the
vagina
•When egg is
not
fertilized?
How are babies made?
• The sperm from the
fathers testicles must
meet the egg in the
mother’s fallopian tube
• The father must use his
penis to put the sperm in
the mother’s
vagina
• This is called “Having
Sexual Intercourse”
• Only Adults should have
sexual intercourse
How does a baby grow?
• Grows in
approx 9
months
• In the uterus
• Inside a water
bag
• Upside down
• Gets food from
the mother’s
blood through
the umbilical
cord
Birth Process..
Birth Process...
• The opening
enlarges
• The water bag
bursts
• Baby comes
out
Birth Process …

•The umbilical
cord is cut
•That’s your
belly button