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Communication - Building Harmony at Home 2016
Communication - Building Harmony at Home 2016
Communication:
Building Harmony at Home
Presented by:
Corriyn Choy, Masters in Counseling
Objectives:
• Understand the role of communication in the family
• Analyse your communication style & learning how to
communicate with different styles
• How to communicate effectively within the family
• Face-Saving
• Assumption
• Own agenda
• Inhibition
• Incongruence
• Substitution
Levels of Communication
Needs
Level of Feelings
Intimacy
Opinions
Facts
Clichés
Level Three • Willing to step out of his solitary confinement and risk
OPINIONS telling some of his ideas and decisions
Level Two • Shares what he feels about facts, ideas and judgments.
FEELINGS • Feelings underneath these areas are revealed.
What is my
Communication Style?
Director Promoter
Supporter Analyzer
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DIRECTOR
• Not shy – no problems giving orders
• Private about personal matters
• Comes on strong in conversation
• Tends to express strong opinions
about things
• Take charge of conversations at times
• Fearless; no obstacle is too big to
tackle
• Results Oriented
Communicating
Strengths Limitations
with them
•Confident •Too brief, blunt • Be brief and direct
•Takes charge •Dominates • Stick to the point
•Clear, to the point, •Listens but is more • Focus on what
results oriented interested in their you want, not how
•Decisive without agenda you want it
delay •Inspires fear, • Let them share
•Pragmatic burnout ideas, be in charge
•Impatient, so as to get results
insensitive quickly
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PROMOTER
• Full of ideas and impulsive in
trying them
• Talkative and open about self;
asks others’ opinions
• Talk rapidly
• Express views with enthusiasm
• May use vigorous hand gestures
• Easy to express point of view
dramatically and forcefully
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Communicating
Strengths Limitations with them
• Talkative • Oversells ideas • Be specific
• Many ideas • Unprepared, unclear • Friendly
• Approachable • Misses details, • Let them verbalize
• Generates optimism follow through ideas and thoughts
• Enthusiasm • Too sensitive, • Offer ideas,
• Persuasive trusting recognition, other
• Too agreeable, incentives
• Successful with and
through others makes promises just • Limit details in
to be liked writing
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SUPPORTER
• Good listener
• Timid about voicing contrary opinions
• Concerned for others’ feelings
• Friendly & sensitive
• Relationship Oriented
• Makes and express decision in a thoughtful,
deliberate manner
Communicating
Strengths Limitations
with them
• Sincere, • Avoids confrontations • Be sincere, agreeable,
trustworthy • Too patient, yielding, supportive
• Patient, persistent gives false hopes • Focus on what you
• Listens actively • Too quiet, passive, want and how you
• Calm, easy going taken advantage of want it
• Depends on proven • Slow to change • Present changes non-
processes • Holds grudges threateningly,
minimize risks
• Be patient, give time
to think, respond,
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ANALYSER
• Introverted
• Quick to think and slow to speak
• Closed about personal matters
• Cautious, logical, thrifty approach
• Thoughtful; no problem is too big to
ponder
• Express problems in a disciplined,
deliberate manner.
• Often quiet and seemed aloof
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• Result • People
Oriented Oriented
Don’ts of Communication
• Lecturing/ Preaching
• Judging/ Condemning
• Threatening
• Blaming
• Criticizing
• Ridiculing
• Mind-reading
• Comparing
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Avoid asking/using...
Do’s of Communication
• Find time to talk
• Be a Good listener
• Take Genuine Interest
• Open Mindedness
• Show Empathy
• Be Specific
Active Listening
o Paraphrase points of view (thought)
o Show empathy (feeling)
o Assertiveness
o Using “I” statement
How to Paraphrase ?
Giving Feedback
Positive: “I know that you work very
hard to contribute to the family”
Negative: “However, when I called
you yesterday, you did not
sound very friendly”
Positive Suggestion: “It would be
good if you can speak in a more
friendly tone”
Check-Out: How does this sound
to you?/ What do you think?
Questions?
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