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2011 DISC Sample
2011 DISC Sample
Style: Persuader
DISC Assessment
Tuesday, March 01, 2011
Introduction
SampleUser
D=Dominant,Driver
DISC Assessment
Tuesday, March 01, 2011
Introduction
SampleUser
SampleUser
Thechartbelowhelpsputthefourdimensionsofbehaviorintoperspective.
Seeks Strengths D=Dominant Control Administration Leadership Determination Impatient Insensitive PoorListener I=Influencing Recognition Persuading Enthusiasm Entertaining LackofDetail ShortAttentionSpan LowFollowThrough S=Steady Acceptance Listening Teamwork FollowThrough Oversensitive SlowtoBegin DislikesChange C=Compliant Accuracy Planning Systems Orchestration Perfectionist Critical Unresponsive
2011,PeopleKeys,Inc.
Challenges
Somepeopleareprecise,sensitive,andanalytical. ThisistheCStyle
SampleUser
Thechartbelowhelpsputthefourdimensionsofbehaviorintoperspective.
Seeks Strengths D=Dominant Control Administration Leadership Determination Impatient Insensitive PoorListener Inefficiency Indecision Decisive I=Influencing Recognition Persuading Enthusiasm Entertaining LackofDetail ShortAttentionSpan LowFollowThrough Routines Complexity Spontaneous S=Steady Acceptance Listening Teamwork FollowThrough Oversensitive SlowtoBegin DislikesChange Insensitivity Impatience Conferring C=Compliant Accuracy Planning Systems Orchestration Perfectionist Critical Unresponsive Disorganization Impropriety Methodical
Challenges
Dislikes Decisions
BelowareyourthreeDISCgraphs,andabriefexplanationofthedifferences betweenthegraphs.
DISCgraph1representsyour"publicself"(themask)
Thisgraphdisplaystheyouotherssee.Itreflectshowyouperceivethedemandsofyourenvironment,andyourperceptionof howyoubelieveothersexpectyoutobehave.
DISCgraph2representsyour"privateself"(thecore)
Thisgraphdisplaysyourinstinctiveresponsetopressure,andidentifieshowyouaremostlikelytorespondwhenstressor tensionarepresent.Thiswouldbeyourinstinctivereaction.
DISCgraph3representsyour"perceivedself"(themirror)
Thisgraphdisplaysthemannerinwhichyouperceiveyourtypicalbehavior.Itcouldbereferredtoasyourselfperception. Althoughattimesyoumaybeunawareofthebehavioryouusewithotherpeople,thisgraphshowsyourtypicalapproach.
Description
understandingyourstyle
Sample'sstyleisidentifiedbythekeyword"Persuader".
Sample,asaPersuaderstyle,isanintegrativeleaderwhoworkswithandthroughpeople. Persuadershaveanoutgoingspirit,highinterestinpeopleandtheabilitytogainrespectand admirationfromvariedtypesofindividuals.Theydobusinessinafriendlyway,whilestrivingto winotherstotheirobjectivesandselltheirpointofview.Theycanbeinattentivetothe"little things"anddetails.Persuadersmayactimpulsively,maybeoverlyenthusiasticandmayoversell. 2011,PeopleKeys,Inc. Theymayoverestimatetheirabilitytomotivatepeopleorchangethebehaviorofothers.Sample seeksfreedomfromroutineandwantsauthorityaswellasprestige.Persuadersneedavarietyof activitiesandworkmoreefficientlywhenanalyticaldataisprovidedbyothers.Sampleneeds assignmentsrequiringmobilityandchallenge.
SampleUser
DISCgraph3representsyour"perceivedself"(themirror)
Thisgraphdisplaysthemannerinwhichyouperceiveyourtypicalbehavior.Itcouldbereferredtoasyourselfperception. Althoughattimesyoumaybeunawareofthebehavioryouusewithotherpeople,thisgraphshowsyourtypicalapproach.
Description
understandingyourstyle
Sample'sstyleisidentifiedbythekeyword"Persuader".
Sample,asaPersuaderstyle,isanintegrativeleaderwhoworkswithandthroughpeople. Persuadershaveanoutgoingspirit,highinterestinpeopleandtheabilitytogainrespectand admirationfromvariedtypesofindividuals.Theydobusinessinafriendlyway,whilestrivingto winotherstotheirobjectivesandselltheirpointofview.Theycanbeinattentivetothe"little things"anddetails.Persuadersmayactimpulsively,maybeoverlyenthusiasticandmayoversell. Theymayoverestimatetheirabilitytomotivatepeopleorchangethebehaviorofothers.Sample seeksfreedomfromroutineandwantsauthorityaswellasprestige.Persuadersneedavarietyof activitiesandworkmoreefficientlywhenanalyticaldataisprovidedbyothers.Sampleneeds assignmentsrequiringmobilityandchallenge. AsaPersuader,Samplemayhaveahardtimeresting.Persuadersmayseemasiftheyare nervousorfidgetytheyarealwaysactiveandinthemiddleofsomeactivity.Sampleisvery optimisticandmotivating,knowinghowtogetresults!APersuaderisagoodcommunicatorand hasatrueinterestinpeople.Theyaregoodproblemsolvers,buttheyneedtorelaxandpace themselves.Persuaderswoulddowelltorememberthattheydonotalwayshavetotakethelead positiontheycanbesupportersandhelpersalso.Persuadersneedtolearntorelaxandtrynot tocontroleverythingandeveryone.Persuaderswantthepeoplearoundthemtocommunicate efficientlyandeffectively.Sampletendstomakedecisionsquicklyandiscomfortablemaking highriskdeterminations. Oftenviewedbyothersasoverconfidentorconceited,Persuadersmayappearaggressive, especiallywhencommunicatingwithpeoplewholiketopayattentiontoallthefinepoints. Persuadersareoptimisticandtendtooverestimatetheabilitiesofothersbecauseoftheirhigh trust,optimismandconfidenceinothersaroundthem. Averycreativeperson,Sampleisoftenwillingtoseekoutnewsolutionstoproblems,isself motivatedandoftenworksatafastpacetoaccomplishgoals.Samplelikesnewchallengesandis usuallyabletomakedecisionseasily,evenunderpressure. Anextremelyoutgoingandsocialperson,Sampletendstomakefriendseasilyandlikestohave funwithothers.Thispersonwantstomakecommitmentsevenwhenunabletokeepthem.This comesfromtheirstrongdesiretoplease,notbecauseofanyintenttodeceive.Sampletendsto beveryspontaneous,easilybecomingboredwithroutinetasks. OthersseeSampleasaversatilepersonwhomtheyrelyupontobreakupmonotonousorroutine situations.Sometimespreferingtodothingsoutsideoftheteam,thispersontendstobe individualistic.Samplemayevenbeperceivedas"restless"andtendstomovequicklyfromone thingtothenext. Sampleisuninhibitedintryingnewthingsandprefersgoingbyfeelingsratherthanjustthefacts. Thispersonisnotafraidtotrythingsandmayevendothingsinuniqueorunprovenways. Samplepreferstoletothershandlemuchofthedetailworkassociatedwithvariousendeavors, preferringtofocusonthecreativeandinnovativeaspectofthetask.
SampleUser
GeneralCharacteristics
MotivatedBy
MyIdealEnvironment
HistoricalCharacters
2011,PeopleKeys,Inc.
SampleUser
Famouspeoplewhoshareyourpersonality
ChristopherColumbus 14511506
HistoricalCharacters
Famouspeoplewhoshareyourpersonality
ChristopherColumbus 14511506 ItalianExplorerandSailor BestknownforhisdiscoveryoftheNewWorld,Columbusdriveformobilityandchallengesfirst broughthimtoseawhenhewasonlyfourteen.Hebelievedthathecoulddiscoverawesternroute toIndia,andsetabouttowinotherstosupportthisobjective.Hisabilitytopromotehispointof viewanddeterminatelyinsistonhisopinionsfinallywonthesupportofSpaininthispursuit.Heset sailfromSpaininAugustof1492toaccomplishhisgoal.Persuadersthrivewhengiven assignmentsrequiringmobilityandchallenge,andthisledtothediscoveryoftheBahamas,Cuba andHaiti.UponhisreturntoSpain,hereceivedtheprestigeandrecognitionthatPersuadersvalue sogreatly.FuturevoyagesledtothediscoveryofseveralCaribbeanislandsandtheSouth Americancontinent.Columbuswasinvitedtoabanquet.Anothermanwhowasmeanlyjealousof himaskedabruptly,"HadyounotdiscoveredtheIndies,aretherenotothermeninSpainwho wouldhavebeencapableoftheenterprise?"Columbusmadenoreply,buttookaneggandinvited thecompanytomakeitstandonend.Theyallattempted,butinvainwhereuponhetappediton thetable,dentingoneend,andleftitstanding."Weallcouldhavedoneitthatway!"thejealous manaccused."Yes,ifyouhadonlyknownhow,"retortedColumbus."AndonceIshowedyouthe waytotheNewWorld,nothingwaseasierthantofollowit." HarrietTubman circa18201913 U.S.AntiSlaveryLeader Bornintoslavery,Tubmansneedformobilityandauthorityweresignificantelementsinherdesire togainfreedom.Shemarriedafreeblackmanin1844,andattemptedtoconvincehimtobreak awayfromtheboundsoftheSouthandmoveNorth.Heopposedher,butshedisplayedthe determinationofthePersuaderandinsistedonherownwaysheescapedaloneviathe UndergroundRailroad.Persuadersthriveonchallengeandmobility,andoverthenexttenyears sheledoverthreehundredslavestothesafetyoftheNorth.Becauseoftheseefforts,shebecame knownastheMosesofherpeople.Decisiveactioninthefaceofconflictcharacterizedherlife. TubmanwentbehindenemylinesasaUnionspyseveraltimesduringtheCivilWar,andwhileshe wasthereshealsorecruitedslavestohelpfightintheUnionArmy."TherewasoneoftwothingsI hadtherightto,liberty(freedom)ordeathifIcouldnothaveoneIwouldhavetheother.
SampleUser
Communicating
2011,PeopleKeys,Inc.
SampleUser
withthePersuaderstyle
Communicating
withthePersuaderstyle
Remember,aPersuadermaywant:
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Socialesteemandacceptance,freedomfromdetailsandcontrol,peopletotalkto,positive workingconditions,recognitionforabilities,opportunitytomotivateandinfluenceothers
Greatestfear:
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Rejectionandlossofinfluence
Communicating
withthePersuaderstyle
WhencommunicatingwithSample,aPersuader,DO:
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Knowledgecomes,but wisdomlingers.
AlfredLordTennyson
WhencommunicatingwithSample,aPersuader,DONOT:
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Whileanalyzinginformation,Sample,aPersuadermay:
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MotivationalCharacteristics
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Communicating
2011,PeopleKeys,Inc.
SampleUser
withthePersuaderstyle
Communicating
withthePersuaderstyle
Valuetothegroup:
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Persuaderspossessthesepositivecharacteristicsingroups:
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Instinctivecommunicators Participativemanagerswhoinfluenceandmotivateothers Spontaneousandquickthinker Respondwelltotheunexpected Createanatmosphereofwellbeing Enthusiastic Providedirectionandleadership Expressideaswell,opinionated Workwellwithotherpeopleinmanagementorinteams Makegoodspokespersons Haveapositive,candoattitude Accomplishgoalsthroughpeople Goodsenseofhumor Stronginbrainstormingsessions
PersonalgrowthareasforPersuaders:
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CommunicationTips
2011,PeopleKeys,Inc.
SampleUser
relatingtoothers
YourIandDplottedabovethemidline,yourstyleisidentifiedbythekeyword
CommunicationTips
relatingtoothers
YourIandDplottedabovethemidline,yourstyleisidentifiedbythekeyword Persuader. ThisnextsectionusesadjectivestodescribewhereyourDISCstylesareapproximatelyplottedon yourgraph.Thesedescriptivewordscorrelateasaroughapproximationtothevaluesofyour graph. DMeasureshowdecisive,authoritativeanddirectyoutypicallyare.Wordsthat maydescribetheintensityofyourDare:
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CommunicationTips
relatingtoothers
IMeasureshowtalkative,persuasive,andinteractiveyoutypicallyare.Wordsthat maydescribetheintensityofyourIare:
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SMeasuresyourdesireforsecurity,peaceandyourabilitytobeateamplayer. WordsthatmaydescribetheintensityofyourSare:
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CMeasuresyourdesireforstructure,organizationanddetails.Wordsthatmay describetheintensityofyourCare:
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DEFIANTOpen,boldresistancetoauthority OBSTINATEDeterminedtohaveone'sownwaystubborn
CommunicationTips
2011,PeopleKeys,Inc.
SampleUser
howyoucommunicatewithothers
HowYouCommunicatewithOthers
CommunicationTips
howyoucommunicatewithothers
HowYouCommunicatewithOthers PleasereturntotheCommunicatingsectionofthisreportandreviewthecommunicatingDO andDONOTsectionsforyourspecificstyle.Reviewingyourowncommunicationpreferences canbeaneyeopeningexperienceorsimplyconfirmationforwhatyoualreadyknowtobetrue. Eitherway,youhaveyourcommunicationcharacteristicsinwriting.Thisinformationispowerful whensharedbetweencolleagues,friends,andfamily.Othersmaynowrealizethatsome approachesdonotworkforyourstyle,whileotheronesarereceivedwellbyyou.Equally importantisthatyounowseethatTHEWAYYOUSAYSOMETHINGcanbeasimportantasWHAT ISSAID.Unfortunately,weallhaveatendencytocommunicateinthemannerthatweliketo hearsomething,insteadofthemethodanotherpersonprefers. YourstyleispredominatelyanIstyle,whichmeansthatyoupreferreceivinginformation thatstressestheEXPERIENCE.But,whentransferringthatsameinformationtoaclientorco worker,youmayneedtotranslatethatintogivingthemprecisefacts,orjusttheendresult,or howtheyareapartofthesolutionandweneedtoworkasateam. Thisnextsectionofthereportdealswithhowyourstylecommunicateswiththeotherthree dominantstyles.Certainstyleshaveanaturaltendencytocommunicatewell,whilecertainother stylesseemtobespeakingdifferentlanguagesalltogether.Sinceyouarealreadyadeptat speakingyournativelanguage,wewillexaminehowtobestcommunicateandrelatetothe otherthreedominantlanguagespeoplewillbeusing. ThisnextsectionisparticularlyusefulforadominantIstyleasyoumayhavethetendencybe morevocalbutlessfocusedonresultsordetailsasothersaroundyou. TheCompatibilityofYourBehavioralStyle TheIandtheDstylesnormallygetalongprettywellinrelationshipssincetheIisagreat encouragertotheD.Inworktasks,the ImayfeeltheDistoodemandingandtootask orientedattimes. TwoIstylesgetalongextremelywellinpersonalrelationships.Theyareverysocialandliketo trynewexperiences.TwoIsworkingtogethermayhaveatendencytomissdeadlinesandnot completetaskswithattentiontodetail. TheIandtheSstylegetalongwellintheworkenvironmentsincetheSwillserveas supportfortheIinmakingsuretasksstayontrack.InrelationshipstheImaywanttobe moresociallyorientedwhiletheSwouldprefertospendmorequalitytimewithlesspeopleand outsideactivities. TheIandtheCworkwelltogetherastheirstrengthstendtocomplementoneanother.In relationshipstherecansometimesbeconflictsastheIismuchmoresociallymotivatedand impulsivethantheC.
SampleUser
Communicating
withothers
CommunicationTips
2011,PeopleKeys,Inc.
SampleUser
compatibilityofyourbehavioralstyle
HowtheICanEnhanceInteractionwithEachStyle
CommunicationTips
compatibilityofyourbehavioralstyle
HowtheICanEnhanceInteractionwithEachStyle IwithD I'stendtoviewD'sasargumentative,dictatorial,arrogant,domineering,nervousandhasty.As anI,youarelikelytoresenttheDtellingyouwhattodo.Itwillfrustrateyouwhentheydon't noticeyourideas.Sinceyouareusedtobeingabletotalkyourwayintooroutofconfrontations youwilllikelybesurprisedwhenyoufindoutthatyourcharmdoesnotbringafavorable responsefromtheHighD. RelationshipTip: Tomakethisrelationshipwork,youmusthavedirectcommunication.Dealwithissuesina straightforwardmanner.Workatnegotiatingcommitmentsandgoalsonanequalbasis.Focuson tasksandissues,notpeopleandpersonalities.Pointoutspecificaccomplishments. IwithI I'senjoyrelationshipswithotherI's...thoroughly.Youwillseeeachotherasstimulating, charismatic,outgoingandoptimisticrelatingwelltoeachotheranddevelopingrelationships quickly.Youwillbothtendtomixbusinessandpleasure,andstrivetoimpressoneanother possiblyevencompetingforrecognition. RelationshipTip: MaximizingrelationshipsbetweenI'sisnotdifficultit'scontrollingthemthatwillrequireeffort. Befriendly,complimentaryacknowledgeeachother'saccomplishments.Listensincerelyinstead ofplanningwhatyouwanttosaynext. IwithS YouwillseeHighS'saspassive,nonchalant,apathetic,possessiveandnondemonstrative.But you'llalsofindthemaccepting,andwillingtoenterintorelationshipsifyoucanslowdownthe paceeventhoughyou'lltendtobecomefrustratedwhentheSdoesn'texpresstheirthoughts andfeelingslikeyouwantthemto.YoucanbeamotivatorandencouragertoS's. RelationshipTip: Slowdownbemoreeasygoing.Showthemsincereappreciationandyou'llfindfriendshipswith S'sveryrewardingthey'llstickwithyou.Aboveall,don'tbepushy. IwithC I'sviewC'sasoverlydependent,evasive,defensive,toofocusedondetails,toocautiousand worrisome.Thenaturalinteractionbetweenyouwillstraintherelationshipandrequirework. You'llfocusonpeoplethey'llseethefacts.You'llbeoptimisticthey'llseempessimistic.You'll lookatthebigpicturethey'llseeonlydetails.You'llwanttomakeadecisionthey'llfrequently wanttogatheralittlemoredatafirst. RelationshipTip: Presentyourfactsclearly,anddon'texaggeratedetailsandnumbers.Preparewellfora discussionwithaC.Expectthemtoexpressdoubtsandneedtimetoevaluatedatabeforemaking adecision.Removeanypotentialthreats,makingtheirdecisionseasier.Writenotesoften.
SampleUser
Enhance
Communication
Communication
2011,PeopleKeys,Inc.
SampleUser
worksheet
Communication
worksheet
CommunicationTipsWorksheet
Changesinyourgraphsindicateyourcopingmethods.Thehumanpersonalityisprofoundly influencedbychangesinourenvironment.Typically,peoplechangesignificantlyfromgraphone tographtwoasaresultofstressorsorenvironmentalchanges.Recognizingthedifferencesor changesbetweenthesetwographshelpsusunderstandourinstinctivecopingmechanism,and indicateshowtobetteradaptinthefuture. Instructions:Eachofyourgraphsilluminatesdifferentaspectsofyourpersonality.Acloserlookat thosechangesrevealsvaluableinsights.Pleaserefertobothgraphs(ifnecessary,referencedata throughoutyourprofile).ComparetheD,I,S,andCpointsongraphsoneandtwo.Finally,read theanalysisofyouranswers,andconsiderhowyourenvironmentaffectsyourdecisions, motivations,actionsandverbalmessages.
SampleUser
Communication
worksheet
DChanges:
Comparegraphs1and2.Whenyoulookatgraph2,isyourDhigherorlowerthantheDin graph1?Considerhowhighorlowthelettermoves.Ahighervalueindicatessomeonewho desiresmorecontrolinstressfulsituations.IftheDgoesupconsiderably,youcanbecomevery controllingwhenyoubecomestressed.Alowervalueindicatessomeonewhodesireslesscontrol instressfulsituations.IftheDgoesdownconsiderably,youmaywantsomeoneelsetoleadyou andyouwillfollow.
IChanges:
Comparegraphs1and2.Whenyoulookatgraph2,isyourIhigherorlowerthantheIin graph1?Considerhowhighorlowthelettermoves.Ahighervalueindicatessomeonewho desiresmoresocialinfluenceinstressfulsituations.IftheIgoesupconsiderably,youmaytryto useyourcommunicationskillstosmooththingsout.Alowervalueindicatessomeonewhodesires lesssocialinfluenceinstressfulsituations.IftheIgoesdownconsiderably,yourelylessonverbal meanstocometoaresolution.
SChanges:
Comparegraphs1and2.Whenyoulookatgraph2,isyourShigherorlowerthantheSin graph1?Considerhowhighorlowthelettermoves.Ahighervalueindicatessomeonewho desiresamoresecureenvironmentinstressfulsituations.IftheSgoesupconsiderably,youmay tendtoavoidanyconflictandwaituntilamorefavorableenvironmentisavailablebeforemaking anychanges.Alowervalueindicatessomeonewhodesiresalesssecureenvironmentinstressful situations.IftheSgoesdownconsiderably,youbecomemoreimpulsiveinyourdecisionmaking.
CChanges:
Comparegraphs1and2.Whenyoulookatgraph2,isyourChigherorlowerthantheCin graph1?Considerhowhighorlowthelettermoves.Ahighervalueindicatessomeonewho desiresmoreinformationbeforemakingadecisioninstressfulsituations.IftheCgoesup considerably,youwillprobablynotwanttomakeadecisionuntilyouhavesignificantlymore information.Alowervalueindicatessomeonewhodesireslessinformationbeforemaking decisionsinstressfulsituations.IftheCgoesdownconsiderably,youmaymakedecisionsbased moreongutfeelings. Whichoneofyourpointsmakesthemostdramaticmoveupordown?Whatdoesthat tellyouabouthowyoureacttopressure? Howcouldyourcopingmethodhelporhinderyouinmakingdecisions?Howcanyou usethisinformationtohelpyouseepossibleblindspotsinyourreactiontopressure?
ScoringData
2011,PeopleKeys,Inc.
SampleUser
graphpage
Howcouldyourcopingmethodhelporhinderyouinmakingdecisions?Howcanyou usethisinformationtohelpyouseepossibleblindspotsinyourreactiontopressure?
ScoringData
graphpage
SampleUser
TemperamentStyleGraphs
PublicPerception
StressPerception
Mirror
D=1.02,I=6.94,S=4.48,C=7.76
D=3.93,I=5.53,S=0.27,C=2.83
D=1.14,I=7.04,S=2.69,C=5.15
GraphsExplanationPage
SampleUser
Graph1Mask,PublicSelf
BehaviorExpectedByOthers Everyoneactsaccordingtohowtheythinkotherpeopleexpectthemtoact.Thisbehavioristhepublicself,the personprojectedtoothers.Sometimes,thereisnodifferencebetweenthetruepersonandtheirpublicself. However,thepublicselfcanbeverydifferentfromthe"real"personitisamask.Graph1isgeneratedbythe "Most"choicesonThePersonalitySystem,andhasthegreatestpotentialforchange.
Graph2Core,PrivateSelf
InstinctiveResponseToPressure Everyonehaslearnedresponsesfromthepast:consequently,thesearebehaviorswhichthepersonacceptsabout him/herself.Underpressureortension,theselearnedbehaviorsbecomeprominent.Thisisthegraphwhichisthe leastlikelytochangebecausethesearenaturalandingrainedresponses.Aperson'sbehaviorunderpressuremaybe drasticallydifferentthanhis/herbehaviorinGraphs1and3. 2011,PeopleKeys,Inc.
Graph3Mirror,PerceivedSelf
SelfImage,SelfIdentity
GraphsExplanationPage
SampleUser
Graph1Mask,PublicSelf
BehaviorExpectedByOthers Everyoneactsaccordingtohowtheythinkotherpeopleexpectthemtoact.Thisbehavioristhepublicself,the personprojectedtoothers.Sometimes,thereisnodifferencebetweenthetruepersonandtheirpublicself. However,thepublicselfcanbeverydifferentfromthe"real"personitisamask.Graph1isgeneratedbythe "Most"choicesonThePersonalitySystem,andhasthegreatestpotentialforchange.
Graph2Core,PrivateSelf
InstinctiveResponseToPressure Everyonehaslearnedresponsesfromthepast:consequently,thesearebehaviorswhichthepersonacceptsabout him/herself.Underpressureortension,theselearnedbehaviorsbecomeprominent.Thisisthegraphwhichisthe leastlikelytochangebecausethesearenaturalandingrainedresponses.Aperson'sbehaviorunderpressuremaybe drasticallydifferentthanhis/herbehaviorinGraphs1and3.
Graph3Mirror,PerceivedSelf
SelfImage,SelfIdentity Everyoneenvisionshim/herselfinaparticularway.Graph3displaysthementalpicturethatonehasofhim/herself, theselfimageorselfidentity.Graph3combinesthelearnedresponsesfromone'spastwiththecurrentexpected behaviorfromtheenvironment.Changeinone'sperceptioncanoccur,butitisusuallygradualandbasedonthe changingdemandsofone'senvironment.
DifferentGraphsIndicateChangeorTransition
IfGraph1isdifferentthanGraph2,thedemandsoftheenvironmentareforcingbehaviorthatisnotcongruent withthecore,orinstinctivebehavior.Insuchasituation,apersontryingtomodifyhis/herbehaviortomeetthe demandsoftheenvironmentwillmostlikelyexperiencestress. IfGraph1isdifferentthanGraph2,butsimilartoGraph3,theindividualhasbeenabletosuccessfullyalterhis/her behaviortomeetthedemandsoftheenvironmentwithoutalteringhis/hercore.Thisindividualisprobablyfairly comfortablewiththebehaviorshowninGraph3(PerceivedSelf),andisprobablynotexperiencingstress. IfGraph1isdifferentthanGraph3,anindividualmaybeinaperiodofgrowth(andsomediscomfort)whilehe/she attemptstoalterbehaviortomeetthedemandsofanewenvironment.Aperson'sbehaviormayfluctuateduringthis periodofadjustment.
SimilarGraphsIndicateFewDemandsForChange
2011,PeopleKeys,Inc. Anindividualwhoperceivesthecurrentdemandsoftheenvironment(Graph1)tobesimilartohis/herpast
(Graph2)willhavelittleneedtochangehis/herselfperception(Graph3).Thismaybeduetoanyofthe followingfactors:
SimilarGraphsIndicateFewDemandsForChange
Anindividualwhoperceivesthecurrentdemandsoftheenvironment(Graph1)tobesimilartohis/herpast (Graph2)willhavelittleneedtochangehis/herselfperception(Graph3).Thismaybeduetoanyofthe followingfactors: Thebehaviordemandedbythepresentenvironmentissimilartodemandsinthepast. Thisindividualcontrolswhatothersdemandofhim/her. Thebehaviordemandedbythepresentenvironmentisdifferentthandemandsinthepast.However,insteadof alteringbehavior,thispersonhaschosentoaugmentstyle.Toaccomplishaugmentation,thisindividualhas surroundedhim/herselfwithpeopleofcomplimentarystyles,thuscreatingateamwithcombinedstrengths.
ActionPlan
ImprovingYourInterpersonalSkills
Sample'sActionPlan
Thisworksheetisatooltoenableeffectivecommunicationbetweenyouandotherswithwhom youinteractonaregularbasis.Thegoalistohelpyoumaximizeyourstrengthsandminimizethe effectsofpotentiallimitations.Itaddressesworkrelatedandgeneralcharacteristicsthatare commontoyourstyleasawhole,andisnotderiveddirectlyfromyourgraphs. Thissectiongivesyouanopportunitytositdownwithacoworker,employer,friend,spouse, etc.,andassessyourpersonalitystyle,gettingfeedbackfromsomeonewhoknowsyouwell. Althoughdoingsoisbeneficial,itisnotrequiredtohaveanyoneelsepresentwhilecompleting thissection.Ifyouchoosetogetfeedbackfromanother,youmayprintthereportanddosothat way.
SampleUser
ActionPlan
ImprovingYourInterpersonalSkills
Instructions:
Step1:Theitemslistedbelowareareastoreflectuponbetweenyouandyourclosestcontacts. Afterprintingoutthisreport,givethispagetoanotherpersonwhoknowsyouwell(associate, teammember,teacher,familymember,friend)andaskthemtoreadeachitem.Theyshould considerwhetherornottheyperceivetheitemtodescribeyourtraits.Then,checkeitherYesor Nobesideeachitem.Opendialogueisencouragedandanyblindspots(areasofyourpersonality thatyouareblindto)shouldbediscussed.Sincecommunicationisatwowaystreet,itis recommendedthattwopeoplecompleteoneanother'sworksheets. Rashdecisionmaker Lowtoleranceforerror Cantbebotheredwithdetails Seekspracticalsolutions Tendstobeabrupt/overlydirect Overlydemandingofothers Volunteersforjobs/showsinitiation Presentswell/polished Outgoingandpersonable Overlydependantuponfeelings 2011,PeopleKeys,Inc. Seesthebigpicture Goal/resultsoriented Organizeswell Movesquicklytoaction Delegatesworkwell Thrivesonopposition Wouldrathertalkthanwork Frequentlylacksfollowthrough Prioritiesoftengetoutoforder Easilydistracted
alteringbehavior,thispersonhaschosentoaugmentstyle.Toaccomplishaugmentation,thisindividualhas surroundedhim/herselfwithpeopleofcomplimentarystyles,thuscreatingateamwithcombinedstrengths.
ActionPlan
ImprovingYourInterpersonalSkills
Sample'sActionPlan
Thisworksheetisatooltoenableeffectivecommunicationbetweenyouandotherswithwhom youinteractonaregularbasis.Thegoalistohelpyoumaximizeyourstrengthsandminimizethe effectsofpotentiallimitations.Itaddressesworkrelatedandgeneralcharacteristicsthatare commontoyourstyleasawhole,andisnotderiveddirectlyfromyourgraphs. Thissectiongivesyouanopportunitytositdownwithacoworker,employer,friend,spouse, etc.,andassessyourpersonalitystyle,gettingfeedbackfromsomeonewhoknowsyouwell. Althoughdoingsoisbeneficial,itisnotrequiredtohaveanyoneelsepresentwhilecompleting thissection.Ifyouchoosetogetfeedbackfromanother,youmayprintthereportanddosothat way.
SampleUser
ActionPlan
ImprovingYourInterpersonalSkills
Instructions:
Step1:Theitemslistedbelowareareastoreflectuponbetweenyouandyourclosestcontacts. Afterprintingoutthisreport,givethispagetoanotherpersonwhoknowsyouwell(associate, teammember,teacher,familymember,friend)andaskthemtoreadeachitem.Theyshould considerwhetherornottheyperceivetheitemtodescribeyourtraits.Then,checkeitherYesor Nobesideeachitem.Opendialogueisencouragedandanyblindspots(areasofyourpersonality thatyouareblindto)shouldbediscussed.Sincecommunicationisatwowaystreet,itis recommendedthattwopeoplecompleteoneanother'sworksheets. Rashdecisionmaker Lowtoleranceforerror Cantbebotheredwithdetails Seekspracticalsolutions Tendstobeabrupt/overlydirect Overlydemandingofothers Volunteersforjobs/showsinitiation Presentswell/polished Outgoingandpersonable Overlydependantuponfeelings Seesthebigpicture Goal/resultsoriented Organizeswell Movesquicklytoaction Delegatesworkwell Thrivesonopposition Wouldrathertalkthanwork Frequentlylacksfollowthrough Prioritiesoftengetoutoforder Easilydistracted
ActionPlan
2011,PeopleKeys,Inc.
SampleUser
Continued
Step2:Now,selectthethreeitemsthatwouldbenefitthemostfromfocusedattention.Discuss
ActionPlan
Continued
Step2:Now,selectthethreeitemsthatwouldbenefitthemostfromfocusedattention.Discuss anddeterminespecificoutcomesandareasonabletimeframefortheirachievement.Writethe detailsinthespacesprovided,alongwithnoteshelpfultoachievingspecificoutcomes.Setadate 6090daysfromnowforadiscussionwithyourcontacttoreviewyourprogress.Thepersonwho workswithyouonthisisimportanttoyourgrowthandshouldhelpyoustayaccountabletoyour plan. 1. ThefirstitemuponwhichIwillfocus:
SampleUser
ActionPlan
ImprovingYourInterpersonalSkills
2.
TheseconditemuponwhichIwillfocus:
3.
ThethirditemuponwhichIwillfocus:
2011,PeopleKeys,Inc.