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Too Pretty to Pay the Bills: Keys to
Gold Digging Success
Book Description – Are you fed up with leaving relationships
brokenhearted and empty handed? Have you played by the rules and gotten
married or had children out of love, only to be cheated on and left in the
dust? If you’re tired of being played by men, it’s time you learn the secrets
to getting what you want out of relationships—by digging for gold instead
of accepting scraps.

For those new to SheRaSeven1’s work, this book is an introduction to her

teachings and approach to gold digging. And for those who are current
followers and subscribers, this book offers a quick summary of her
YouTube videos and teachings.

In less than 4,000 words, this quick read will cover:

Being a Material Girl
Male and Female Roles: The Alchemy of Balance
50/50 Men
Pick Me Chicks
Upgrade Yourself
How to Tell If They’re Wealthy Enough
The Age Formula + Women Over 30 or 40
Meeting and Dating Wealthy Men
Keep Your Legs Closed. Get More.
How Men Seduce

How Gold Diggers Seduce: How to be seductive and delay sex/Everyday

Seduction

How Not to Get Emotionally Attached

Getting to Exclusivity and Commitment
Conclusion + Review: A Dozen Do’s and Don’ts to Attract and Date
Wealthy Men

About the Author – SheRaSeven1 is a women’s empowerment leader,

spiritual teacher and popular YouTuber with millions of views. In addition
to facilitating an exclusive Facebook group for single women, she offers
private readings and consultations.

CONTENTS
Introduction
Being a Material Girl
Male and Female Roles: The Alchemy of Balance
50/50 Men
Pick Me Chicks
Upgrade Yourself
How to Tell If They’re Wealthy Enough
The Age Formula + Women Over 30 or 40
Meeting and Dating Wealthy Men
Keep Your Legs Closed. Get More.
How Men Seduce

How Gold Diggers Seduce: How to be seductive and delay sex/Everyday

Seduction
How Not to Get Emotionally Attached
Getting to Exclusivity and Commitment
Conclusion + Review: A Dozen Do’s and Don’ts to Attract and Date
Wealthy Men

Introduction
The purpose of this book is simple. My objective is to help women improve
themselves, so that they can upgrade their lives and improve the types of
men they date and marry.

Think about it. Women who marry wealthy men secure better futures for
their children and have more time to pursue and achieve their passions.
If you only remember one thing from this book, I want you to remember
this:

Go into relationships with a goal, not expectations.

Before getting into a relationship or dating situation, ask yourself, “What do
I want to accomplish by being with this person?”

This question needs to supersede any expectations about his emotional

attachment to you. When you have expectations, you’re likely to be
disappointed.

That being said, don’t date for potential. Date for what’s before you now.
Rarely will a man change and reach your idea of what his potential is.

You should have something going for yourself

Whether it’s going to school, writing a book, working a part-time job, or
starting a business—having your own pursuits makes you more attractive to
wealthy men and it enhances your own life and well-being.

Why gold digging or getting a wealthy man is important

Women who work are pulled in too many directions. However, having a
man who can financially support his family enables the woman to focus on
creating a great home environment.

The woman who works outside the home doesn’t have the time to love on
her man, when she’s up early in morning going to work and slaving until 9
or 10 at night caring for the children and/or household.

Men like to invest

Men value what they invest in. If a man can sleep without you without
investing in you first, he doesn’t and won’t value you.

Being a Material Girl

Remember Madonna’s song, Material Girl? It’s OK to be a material girl.
You can get your phone bill paid for or get that new purse and shoes by
your man. You can get your rent or car payment paid for by your man, too.
I have clients who are getting trips paid for and who are receiving
thousands of dollars each month from the men they date.

The bottom line

Would you rather get left by a rich husband or a poor husband? When you
marry and subsequently divorce a broke man, you end up worse off than
before.

You don’t just ask for money outright by saying, “Can I have some money.”
There are more elegant ways to get what you want. Most women ask at the
wrong time or in the wrong way.
Be feminine and sweet sounding with a softer sounding voice.
Have a need that you need the money for. It’s not a big deal for men with
money to give you money.

An example, if you go on a trip, don’t pack a lot. When you get to your
destination, say that you forgot your evening clothes, shoes, perfume etc.
Then look sad until he offers to take you shopping.

If you do need cash to replace a tire or pay rent, say “I am really stressed
about my apartment. I don’t know what to do. My bills are due and I need
the money.”

Always ask for double the amount you need, that way if you only get half,
you’re still covered.
Look them in the eye and be joyful and happy with your thank you. Men
love to be appreciated and like to make their woman feel good

Male and Female Roles: The

Alchemy of Balance
The balance of male and female energies is important in relationships.
Women are naturally and physiologically the receivers.
While men are innately and physiologically the givers.
These roles also translate to relationships as well.
In dating, men love the case and women loved being pursued. Gender roles
are set and must be balanced for optimal relationship success. Women can’t
be too masculine or overly independent.
Men can’t be unmotivated and desire a woman to take care of him.

There’s mutual respect when gender roles are honored between men and
women. Life is much smoother when we each stay in our lane. Well, what
about gender equality?
Many men nowadays, want women to be equal with men in terms of
contributing to the household. Hence, the next chapter on 50/50 men.

50/50 Men
“A 50/50 man is a roommate. You can be single and have a roommate.”
–SheRaSeven1
What do Kevin Hart, Jesse Williams and felon bae, Jeremy Meeks have in
common.

They all were 50/50 men who built themselves up to a certain level of
success and left their wives and children behind.
They upgraded on the women who they built with.
Fortunately for these women, their husbands (except for felon bae) were
wealthy enough to provide them with big alimony payments.

Most women aren’t this lucky. They help a man reach success on their
backs, only to be cheated on and left when the man starts a second family
elsewhere with a woman he really wants.

Don’t fall for the 50/50 okey doke

Just because you’re physically attracted to or have feelings for a low

income, mediocre man doesn’t mean you need to settle for a life with them.
Their call center, warehouse, security guard or restaurant job paycheck isn’t
enough to even get adequate child support should your relationship ends.

Pick Me Chicks
Women get what they put up with or tolerate.
Men don’t have to come correct with pick me chicks. Pick me chicks get
used by men who don’t really care about them.

Pick me chicks are so needy and desperate to be in a relationship that they

will lower their standards and accept just about any man—just to be in a
couple.

Pick me chicks give away free sex because they have low self value. Pick
me chicks are usually into being ‘extra’ in an attempt to impress men (when
it’s the man who should be impressing the woman).

Pick me chicks accept disrespectful, unacceptable and even abusive

behavior. Because of their low self worth, they let men walk all over them.

Pick me chicks live with men and pay half the bills, which is essentially like
having a room mate. They will cook, clean, do the laundry for their man—
just to have him around.

However, as they begin to awaken to the truth, pick me chicks begin to

question their mediocre man’s lack of ambition and lack of success. The
problem is that they wait and stay in the wrong relationships for far too long
—hoping that the man will change.
On the other hand, men don’t wait on women to change. If they don’t want
a particular woman, they get up and go. They just leave.
So, why do women, specifically pick me chicks sulk and complain about
the mediocre men they date?
The answer: Lack of confidence and self worth.

Upgrade Yourself
“A 3 can turn into 10 real quick with a wig and some make up.”
-SheRaSeven1
You’ve got to put yourself together enough to compete with the next
woman who has her game already together. You can’t just attract a wealthy
man because you ‘feel’ you deserve one.

You can’t walk out of the house looking crazy or trashy.

You’ve got to upgrade the areas that you know you need to work on.
Upgrade your looks and yourself esteem.

Look good. Smell good. Speak well. You may need to change your hair,
make up and clothing to attract the man you want.
You don’t have to be a 10 or an Instagram model.

If you can’t afford to go to Sephora or Ulta, you can get good cosmetics at
the drug store. If you’re not an expert at make-up application, watch
YouTube videos to learn how to apply it. Nowadays, even trans men know
how to apply make up well.

Dress as a classy, sophisticated woman—who’s wife material. Don’t have

all your business hanging out of your clothes.

Your look will prove your worth and broke men won’t approach you
because they know you’re going to reject them.

How to Tell If They’re Wealthy

Enough
Men that have houses, cars, businesses and abundant money exist. Women
in my exclusive Facebook group land men with money daily. They’re
getting gifts, trips, monthly allowances of $3k-$4k.
There are plenty of men who are looking for a woman they can be good to
and invest in.
The Age Formula + Women Over
30 or 40
“If you don’t want to go uglier for a financially stable man, go older.”
–SheRaSeven1
You don’t have to be 21 to be a successful gold digger.
My formula is to date men 15-20+ years older than them. As you’ll notice
from the list below, men in their 20’s and 30’s aren’t listed?

Why? Because they generally are still building themselves up financially or

are into playing games, including sleeping with as many women as they can
for free, without investment.

Ages: 18-22 - go with men in their 40’s for longer term.

Ages: 23-30 - go with men in their 50’s for longer term.
Age: 30-40 - go with men in their 50-60’s for longer term
Ages: 40+ - go with men closer to 60+

You may have to go older or less attractive to get the wealth you want, but
you can do so when you’re honest with yourself, assess yourself and stack
yourself up to the man’s wealth/looks/age.
For example, if you’re a 7 out of 10 in terms of attractiveness, the type of
financially stable man you should go after should be a 4 or a 5. You make
him look better.

Should you get a man that’s more attractive than you—things won’t go in
your favor.

Meeting and Dating Wealthy Men

One of the most frequent questions I get is, “Where do I meet wealthy
men?”
Go to places where only the wealthy can get into. Skip places where broke
men go because they can’t afford the parking.
Go outside your comfort zone. Go to places where you would want to be
seen with your man of means. Don’t go to the club.

Go to fund raisers, go to nice restaurants and sit at the bar. Go to business

networking events and seminars. Go to events at the museum, if you want a
cultured man.

Go to nice hotels in affluent areas and have dinner at the restaurant. When
you go out, go alone.

Keep Your Legs Closed. Get More.

Before sleeping with him, tell him that, “There are things I need that turn
me on.”
And then continue to share things that you enjoy…
For example, “I love when a man takes me shopping. Books spa days for
me. I enjoy weekend trips to nice places.” You get the picture. My rule of
thumb is that you want a man to spend at least $3,000 on you before
considering sleeping with him.
In addition to him spending money on you, you can extend the time of
‘your legs being closed’ by seducing him with words.
Tantalize him in phone and in person conversations with sexually charged
language.

How Men Seduce

“Men seduce with money. Women seduce with lust.”
-SheRaSeven1

There are two primary ways men seduce women.

#1. They play on your emotions by telling what you want to hear. #2. They
wine and dine you with your desires.

The first way that men (mostly broke men, but sometimes wealthy ones too)
use is by sweet talking you. They know all the right things to say to get you
in bed with them then they’re gone. They leave you broken hearted and
empty handed because of their broken promises.

The second way of seduction for men is with the use of their money. Quite
simply they seduce by giving you what you want. He wants to help you. He
wants to rescue you.

Don’t ask for money straight out. Ask for a specific gift or for money for
something you need. Come up with something that makes them save you.
Let them be a hero to you and they will feel like they’re getting somewhere
with you.
They use their money to see why they need you in their life. They spend,
You respond.

How Gold Diggers Seduce

Nice women finish last. I know that’s a hard pill to swallow, but I’ve heard
it time and time again.
Women do right by her man only to be mistreated and done wrong.
Deprogram yourself so that you don’t feel guilt about going for yours. You
have to develop acting skills when it comes to getting what you need. Men
have a game plan when they approach a woman. So you need to have one.

Women talk too much. Don’t tell your whole life story. This is why you get
dumped after 3 dates. It’s not interesting. When gold digging, silence can be
golden.
Every word you say on a date should be strategic. Surprise them. Be
mysterious and sexy—yet classy.

About seduction

Women dominate men through sex. You can’t try to control or emasculate a
man and think he’ll want you. Make him feel good and masculine and
you’re there!
How to be seductive and delay sex
Invoke the dominatrix energy. You are in control. You have to take charge
of when sex will happen—not him.
Men like a challenge. If you give it up too soon, he’ll lose interest and go
find someone new.

In your seductive talk, tell him something like, “I can’t wait to tell you
about all the stuff I want to do to you. I promise ou’ve never experienced
what I’m going to do to you.”

Throw in some seductive behavior such as: Kissing him cheek, putting your
tongue in his ear or touching his nipple over his shirt.
Then pull back and tell him, “No, no. I want you to wait. I want you to
suffer by waiting first. I want you to want me so bad.”
In one or two days, text him and ask him, “Are you suffering? How bad do
you want me? Tell me.”

If they think you’re freaky or kinky they’ll wait longer.

Everyday Seduction

Make them feel good about themselves. Always leave them wanting more
and they’ll be like putty in your hands.
Compliment him on their clothes, smile, etc. “You’re so strong. You’re so
handsome. You’re so smart. You smell so good”
Compliment him in front of the waiter and other people. “He’s so good to
me.”
Whisper something seductive and dirty to him at the end of a date (and
spontaneously/unexpectedly at other times).

Tell him that you can’t wait to see him again. You’ve got to act. You want
him to associate you with pleasure and happiness.
Let go of being shy and seduce your way to what you want.

Go to places where there’s shopping and restaurants. Use this time to both
show what you want, be seductive to get a response and as a response to
what he does.

Don’t try to impress him or bore him by talking too much.

Don’t be so serious. Let go of your serious business/intellectual talk. If he
feels that you are smarter than him, he’ll feel that you won’t need him. This
threatens his masculinity.

Be the most exciting thing in his life. Be fun and unpredictable. So, let him
feel like he’s teaching you things. This plays to his ego. Get him hooked on
you.

How Not to Get Emotionally

Attached
The ultimate goal is to not get upset when a man doesn’t meet your
expectations.
Remember what I said at the beginning of this book: Go into relationships
and dating with goals NOT expectations.
Why?
Because when your emotions get wrapped up in a man, as a women—all of
your standards go out the window.
Catching feelings with get you caught up in unnecessary heart break. Now,
I’m not saying you can never fall in love with a man or have affection for
him, but you can’t do so too soon.
Think about this: Why don’t men get emotionally attached to women?
Because when they first approach you, they have an agenda in mind for
their involvement with you. Usually it’s that they want to sleep with you.

It’s a game to them. They have short term, shallow goals for you. You have
to have the same types of goals for him.

Have short term goals. Once you achieve them move on to other goals and
this keeps you from falling in love too fast.

Instead of fantasizing about a wedding, you’re thinking about what you can
get out of the relationship now. If things progress or end, you’re good either
way.
Be strategic, not emotional

Like financial investments...don't put all yourself into one person. Spread
yourself out like investments (diversify), so that if one "stock" goes down,
you're still solvent.

When you give too much, they don't appreciate you.

Make him think that marriage is the last thing on your mind.
Have someone (another guy) in your back pocket. Your back up or Plan B.
If you're too easy, they won’t chase you. They're chasing the woman who
doesn't answer their calls or texts.
Never fall for them (pretend you're falling for them) or they can manipulate
you. Make them fall for you. They'll try harder because you're a challenge.

Get emotional issues out with a friend, so that you're not tempted to call or
text him all the time. Get your emotional baggage out with another phone
buddy.

You can get a little emotionally attached only after they become
emotionally attached to you first.

Get him emotionally attached by getting him alone and seducing him. Get
him hooked with a weekend vacation. Lingerie (fetishes?) Blow his
mind...then pull back (be busy all the time) Do this because men fall in
"lust" first before falling in "love."
You've got to be the best he's ever had sexually. Study on techniques. Read
The Art of Seduction. Turn him out. Put it on him like he's never had it
before.

This is a job and a goal...not about emotions. You don't have to feel
anything or be in love, so that he gives you whatever you want after that.

Getting to Exclusivity and

Commitment
If you’re a sugar baby, you can easily be replaced. That’s why I say always
have at least one or two Plan B’s on the side, just in case.

Men can get bored with you, not see you as exciting or move on to someone
who’s younger, prettier, etc. Just as you have a right to move on to better
things, so do they. So make sure you have a back up plan.

Getting to commitment mentally

But if you do want to be exclusive, Make him see himself with you long
term. Paint a picture of your life together when you’re with him. Say, “I’m
imagining us at the beach” “I can see us during the holidays.” Then he will
see himself in your vision in a relationship with you. If you know the law of
attraction, you know that visions become reality. Plant the seed in his mind
of being a couple with you. Couple the coupling visions with sex and
seduction.

Conclusion + Review: A Dozen

Do’s and Don’ts to Attract and
Date Wealthy Men
Well, we’ve come to the end of our time together in this book. My hope is
that you’ve found valuable information for your success in dating wealthy
men.

Below, I’ve listed 12 do’s and don’ts for you to keep in mind as you go
forward:
#1. Don’t be desperate. You can’t be afraid to lose a man.
#2. Don’t play by the traditional rules of dating that say the woman can’t
have standards and must accept whatever she gets. Men go for what they
want, so can we.
# 3. Don’t get emotionally attached. This gives you room to be objective
and strategic in your decision making with men.
# 4. Don’t get physical or intimate too soon. The longer you hold of sex, the
more you can get from a man.
#5. Don’t entertain 50/50 men. This scatters your energy and takes your
eyes off of your priority—a wealthy man.
#6. Don’t do coffee dates. You’re worth more than $4.75.
#7. Do realize the importance of your appearance. You don’t have to be a
perfect 10 in the looks department or be 25 years old—but you must look
your best at all times.
#8. Do expand and upgrade where you hang out. Go to places in affluent
areas. Go where wealthy people go.
#9. Do expect that you will get what you want if you don’t lower your
standards.
#10. Do enter into dating and relationships with goals, not expectations.
Expectations are usually unmet when it comes to men.
#11. Do know your inherent value. You’re the prize. As a woman, you
inspire men to achievement.
#12. Do know the most elegant way to ask for what you want from a man.
Whether it’s money or another resource, your must ask at the right time and
for something that enables them to be a hero to you.

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