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An Early Start for Your Child with Autism: Using Everyday Activities
to Help Kids Connect, Communicate, and Learn
Sally J. Rogers, Geraldine Dawson, and Laurie A. Vismara
Sally J. Rogers
Laurie A. Vismara
Geraldine Dawson
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About the Authors
Laurie A. Vismara, PhD, BCBA-D, LBA, has spent her research career work-
ing closely with families with autism and contributing to the science and pro-
gram development of ESDM. She is coauthor of An Early Start for Your Child with
Autism (for parents). Dr. Vismara uses telehealth platforms and travels throughout
the United States and internationally to help families, publicly funded programs,
and universities develop ESDM in their communities.
Autism Spectrum Disorder, Second Edition. Her books for professionals include Early
Start Denver Model for Young Children with Autism. She is an elected member of
the American Academy of Arts and Sciences; received the Distinguished Career
Award from the Society of Clinical Child and Adolescent Psychology (Division
53 of the American Psychological Association) and the Lifetime Achievement
Award from the Association for Psychological Science; and ranks in the top 1% of
Clarivate Analytics Highly Cited Researchers.
Acknowledgments
The concepts and materials provided here for readers result from our many years
of discussion, collaboration, research activities, and clinical work. All three of us
have a long history of parent coaching, from the beginnings of our professional
careers. Efforts to coach parents in Early Start Denver Model (ESDM) concepts
began as early as 2001–2002, as Geri and Sally were building the main procedures
and tools that became ESDM in the initial randomized controlled trial led by
Geri at the University of Washington. The model grew conceptually as Laurie and
Sally began to work together, and each new parent coaching study tested addi-
tional concepts, techniques, and tools. The power of the model to affect children’s
behavior was demonstrated most effectively in the Rogers et al. paper published in
2019 (Rogers, Estes, Vismara, et al., 2019), which demonstrated for the first time
a direct positive relationship between parent fidelity of implementation and child
growth. We need to acknowledge the parents and families who spent so much
time teaching us and working with us in these projects and sharing their data so
that we could learn and understand the effects of our efforts.
Many, many colleagues have contributed to the work represented here. We
want to recognize especially Annette Estes, Jessica Greenson, Meagan Talbott,
Gregory Young, Jamie Winter, Cynthia Zierhut, and Carolyn McCormick, who
have shared their expertise, their time, and their talents over the years as these
studies were designed and carried out. We thank the many members of Sally’s lab
at the MIND Institute, and Geri’s lab at the University of Washington, whose sup-
port and ongoing efforts made the work possible. And finally, we need to acknowl-
edge our funding sources, both the National Institutes of Health and Autism
Speaks, for making the work possible.
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x Contents
References 307
Index 316
Chapter 1
Receiving a diagnosis of autism is one of the most devastating events that can hap-
pen to parents of young children. The profound sense of loss and grief for an imag-
ined future, the fear and anguish about their child’s life, the guilt and blame about
possible contributors the parents* might have avoided—it is a defining moment in
family life that changes them forever. And somewhere in the near future, during
this critical time, most such families in the United States will develop a relation-
ship with a person who signifies help—an early interventionist—whose role it is
to work closely with them to help their children engage and learn.
This relationship typically follows one of two models. In the first model, one
or more well-trained adults deliver a clinician-generated treatment plan directly to
the child and provide advice and guidance to the family to incorporate at home.
The family relies on the interventionists as experts in the child’s treatment needs.
When the family asks questions, the interventionist gives answers. As new learn-
ing needs develop, the interventionist defines or revises the intervention plan and
carries it out. In the best situations, the interventionist uses skills, knowledge, and
experience to support and guide the family, particularly the primary caregiver, in
areas where the caregiver needs help. In publicly funded services, early interven-
tion tends to be low-intensity intervention, ranging from two to three hourly visits
per week to 1 hour or less per month, although a few communities provide much
greater intensity.
*Throughout this book we use the terms parent and parents generically to refer to any person or any part-
nership or group of people raising a child. We also use case examples throughout, with all names and other
identifiers disguised.
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2 Coaching Parents of Young Children with Autism
Potential problems with this model reveal themselves quickly. One is that,
for low-intensity delivery, there is no evidence from high-quality* studies that this
model results in either the parent’s overall adoption of the guidance provided, or
benefit to the child. Second, the family’s dependence on the interventionist for
determining what the child needs and how to meet those needs is not well sup-
ported with infrequent contacts. Third, this model is built on the assumptions
that parents are not competent enough to discern their children’s needs or to sup-
port their children’s progress without the interventionist’s help. Fourth, multiple
providers are often involved, each providing advice and guidance to the family
from a limited perspective, leaving them to integrate and act on differing and
sometimes conflicting advice. Fifth, interventionists come and go throughout the
child’s early years, providing discontinuous relationships with the family, who as
the constant figures in the child’s life from birth hold the only comprehensive
view of the child’s developmental course, skills, and need, and of the family’s sta-
tus, structure, strengths, and needs. Yet, with all these drawbacks, our experience
tells us that this is the most prevalent model of care for young children with autism
spectrum disorders (ASD), in our nation and in others.
A second model exists, one described in multiple high-quality research stud-
ies and websites, embraced by many states’ early intervention philosophies, and
widely discussed. In this family-centered model, the interventionist focuses on the
child as embedded in a family with strengths and needs, with its members mobi-
lized to help their child. The interventionists’ focus is supporting the key adults
in the child’s life to support the child’s learning needs within their daily routines
with the child. The interventionist steps away from the role of the authority figure
with all the answers and toward the role of partner who understands that early
intervention contacts are opportunities to pass on skills and knowledge to caregiv-
ers so that they can support their child’s growth during their ongoing interactions.
The shift from expert to partner, and from direct intervention to guidance
and support for the family, requires a relationship with the parents different from
that of teacher and learner, with its inherent hierarchy. A relationship that bet-
ter captures the transfer of knowledge and skills from one competent person to
another is the coaching relationship. In our early childhood work, coaching refers
to “an adult-learning strategy that is used to build the capacity of a parent or col-
league to improve existing, abilities, develop new skills, or gain a deeper under-
standing of practices for use in current and future situations” (Rush & Shelden,
2008, p. 1). Thus, a coach is a person whom another requests to pass on his or
her skills and knowledge. When parents make this request, the coach begins the
relationship by asking about the family’s goals, assessing initial skills and needs,
*Throughout this text, the term high-quality refers to well-designed studies using either single-subject or
group designs in which the research design clearly controls for all sources of potential effect on change other
than the treatment being studied (e.g., randomized group studies that are appropriately powered and analyzed
as time-by-group interactions, and single-subject designs using multiple-subject multiple-baseline designs).
An Introduction 3
and then working with the family to form action plans based on family goals,
values, and priorities. The plans are put into practice through regular contacts in
which the family member demonstrates and continues his or her learning as the
coach supports parent and child learning, while seeking and sharing reflections
and plans for the next steps (see Figure 1.1).
Young children spend most of their waking hours (75 or so per week) with care-
givers in everyday activities and everyday contexts. Those interactions offer the
learning opportunities that build cognitive, motor, social, and communicative rep-
ertoires for all young children. Harnessing those daily, hourly interactive experi-
ences to meet the learning needs of young children with ASD can provide more
opportunities for practice and learning than can any external provider. Working
this way maximizes the interventionist’s impact on child learning. Most interven-
tionists with whom we have interacted want to transfer their skills and knowledge
to parents and to support them in their use of the learning opportunities inherent
in everyday activities but have found it difficult to do.
In our own Early Start Denver Model (ESDM)–based work with families and
with early childhood practitioners, we have encountered many early intervention-
ists who wish to adopt this second model of family-centered parent-implemented
intervention, but who struggle to find ways to shift out of traditional provider-
directed intervention. The interventionist who wants to change approaches
often feels uncertain about what behaviors actually constitute coaching and how
Figure 1.1. Key components of the practice-based coaching (PBC) framework. From Snyder,
Hemmeter, and Fox (2015). Copyright © 2015 Sage Publishing. Reprinted by permission.
4 Coaching Parents of Young Children with Autism
a collaborative practice should look and feel (Fixsen, Naoom, Blasé, Friedman,
& Wallace, 2005). Shifting from authority to partner and coach necessitates a
new way of thinking about knowledge transfer and skill building. This book was
written to help professional and paraprofessional interventionists who treat early
autism and other developmental disorders in public and private settings make the
transition from a one-on-one delivery model to a caregiver-based delivery model
through their coaching and partnering relationship with families.
Distinctive Features
The content of parent coaching includes (1) the current learning needs and goals
for the child intervention and (2) methods for creating needed learning opportu-
nities within the daily routines and interactions that occur between the child and
other family members. The coaching relationship supports parents to build this
skill and knowledge base by developing a partnership whereby both parties pool
An Introduction 5
their existing skills and knowledge. The result of this process is increasing child
learning opportunities to enhance child’s development.
The coach shares knowledge and skills about early autism, child learning,
child development, specific intervention techniques, and principles and behavior
management strategies. Caregivers share knowledge of the child’s unique abili-
ties, vulnerabilities, preferences, interests, and typical skills and behavior in many
environments and with many different people. Caregivers bring knowledge of
their extended support network, the community, their lifestyle, resources, culture,
values, philosophies about parenting and ideal parent–child relationships. They
bring their ideas and priorities with regard to the goals they have established for
themselves as parents and for their child. And, they bring to the table what they
have learned through thousands of hours of interaction with their child. The par-
ent–coach partnership thus involves a balanced relationship among experts, each
seeking to learn from the other and each seeking to share what they have of value
with the other to achieve a common goal: supporting the child’s optimal develop-
ment.
Challenges to Coaching
This view of coaching often runs counter to how professionals who work in early
intervention were trained to deliver treatment. We were taught that our direct
treatment was vital to improving child outcomes. We still see such thinking in
An Introduction 7
action when observing therapists who ignore the parent sitting in the treatment
room, or who leave the parent in the waiting room as they take the child into
their therapy room to work alone as a solution to the difficulties that might ensue
when the child wants to interact with his or her parents during the therapy ses-
sion. This approach is clearly seen in the autism field where recommendations of
20–40 hours per week of one-on-one treatment for very young children are still
made by many knowledgeable health professionals—as if no learning can occur
outside of the therapy setting; as if learning occurring inside the therapy setting
will magically transfer to everyday life and everyday relationships; as if it is benefi-
cial for very young children to be in such intensive interactions for long periods;
as if naps, mealtimes, diaper changes, and baths are not key learning activities for
young children; as if there was any empirical evidence for the beneficial effects of
such intensive treatment on outcomes of young children with autism; as if the evi-
dence of the benefits of high-quality parent-implemented interventions at home
did not exist.
Having experienced the medical system of assessment and diagnosis, parents
are also primed to seek an expert model of intensive interaction when they begin
early intervention. Parents’ previous interactions with professionals and the advice
they may have found in various media tools will likely have directed them to find
professionals with the greatest expertise and do as they direct. Their hope for
professionals who can “fix” their children’s delays and symptoms and prevent long-
term disability is part of their coping strategy for managing the massive crisis in
their lives that the ASD diagnosis has created.
Yet, while these experiences of interventionists and parents initially move
both to seek a more hierarchical expert-based direct intervention model, it is
interesting to look at the backgrounds of the authors of some of the most well-
supported (in terms of evidence) parent-implemented models for ASD, all of whom
were initially trained in direct treatment of children. We interventionists realize
that children’s best outcomes cannot be supported unless everyday life provides
children with needed learning and practice opportunities. Everyday life is where
children spend most of their time, even for children who are spending 40 hours of
their week in treatment. If everyday life does not provide the learning and practice
opportunities that children need, then children will learn other skills and behav-
ior that are adaptive in these out-of-therapy environs—skills and behavior that
may be just those that therapists are trying to replace. Furthermore, if parents do
not know how to support their children’s new learning, they will not necessarily
appreciate their child’s learning ability. And most unfortunately, if parents only
become aware of their child’s new skills in the presence of a therapist, then they
may assume that they themselves lack the skills to teach their child, with result-
ing feelings of inadequacy, and that their child no longer cares about cooperating
with them, which may fuel feelings of anger and the attribution of manipulation
or malicious intent to the child.
An Introduction 9
The ideas, practices, and philosophy found in this book come from more than
20 years of learning from our colleagues and from our own research on early
intervention and parent- implemented interventions for young children with
ASD, as well as our direct experience as clinicians coaching families of children
with developmental difficulties, especially autism and those at risk of autism. We
have been heavily influenced by the work of Dunst and Trivette (2009a, 2009b);
Dunst, Trivette, and Hamby (2007); Hanft, Rush, and Shelden (2004); Rush and
Shelden (2011); and Snyder, Hemmeter, and Fox (2015), all hailing from the field
of early intervention for children with developmental disabilities; by work in the
field of infant mental health (Zeanah, Stafford, Nage, & Rice, 2005). Much of
our clinical work has involved our intervention model, ESDM, and its related
parent-implemented version (P-ESDM). We have published many research papers
concerning the efficacy of these approaches (Dawson, Rogers, et al., 2010; Jones,
Dawson, Kelly, Estes, & Webb, 2017; Rogers, Estes, et al., 2012; Rogers, Estes,
Vismara, et al., 2019; Rogers, Vismara, et al., 2014; Sullivan, Stone, & Dawson,
2014; Vismara, Colombi, & Rogers, 2009; Vismara, Young, & Rogers, 2012; Webb,
Jones, Kelly, & Dawson, 2014).
We are writing for readers whose intervention approach shares the characteris-
tics of a naturalistic developmental–behavioral early intervention model (NDBI;
Schreibman et al., 2015) for young children with ASD or other developmental dis-
orders. NDBI approaches share these characteristics: (1) a natural type of back-and-
forth communication between child and adult; (2) following child preferences and/
or choices for activities and materials; (3) child initiations of activities; (4) adult
responses that are sensitive and responsive to the child’s verbal and nonverbal com-
munications; (5) goals for learning that reflect the child’s developmental readiness
and represent developmentally and culturally appropriate activities for the child;
(6) teaching approaches derived from learning science as used in applied behavior
analysis (ABA), including analysis of antecedents, behaviors, consequences, func-
tions of behavior, prompting shaping, modeling, and graduated least-to-most guid-
ance; (7) teaching trials, frequently initiated by child actions, are embedded in the
flow of adult–child activities; and (8) rewards for the child’s learning response are
typically the child’s ability to achieve his or her own goals—the child is able to do
what the child intended to when he or she chose this activity. In short, the prin-
ciples in this text can be used with any early intervention approach that embeds
learning in the child’s preferred activities—it is about the process of working with
parents as they interact with their children in everyday routines.
10 Coaching Parents of Young Children with Autism
In the chapters that follow, we offer a more detailed definition of coaching and
how it differs from direct intervention with the child. In Chapter 2, we outline the
theoretical and empirical bases and key practices for our parent coaching model
for early ASD. Our model draws on the adult learning and coaching literature; on
cognitive–behavioral therapy as well as ABA; on the science of developmental
psychology and infant mental health as it has described the processes of relation-
ship development, communication development, play, and cognitive development;
and on infant learning research. In Chapter 3, we describe what a coach needs
to know, coaching characteristics, the coaching process, and recommended sup-
ports. Chapter 4 outlines the key elements of the coach’s tool kit. Starting with
Chapter 5 and continuing through Chapter 6, we take you through the coach-
ing process beginning at the first point of contact with the family; the steps for
identifying parent, child, and family learning needs across environments; and the
collaborative intervention planning process. We share user-friendly data tools
that we have developed, both for our own use and for parents’ use, to assist us all
to determine and address the child’s needs, to evaluate the child’s learning and
response to the intervention, and to troubleshoot difficulties that arise and prog-
ress that is slower than expected. Chapter 5 walks the reader through an assess-
ment and goal-setting approach. In Chapter 6, we cover the initial parent coach-
ing session and subsequent sessions, describing ways to work alongside families to
introduce and practice various intervention practices by using the coaching skills
of observing, giving feedback, problem solving, and, most importantly, listening
and reflection. Chapter 7 provides the coach with technical guidance for sharing
key intervention concepts with families and coaching families to implement key
strategies. In Chapter 8, we discuss situations in which the core practices we have
described need to be varied or adapted in order to meet specific family needs or
characteristics. Chapter 9 offers several directions for future research on aspects of
parent coaching and considerations that need to be made when working with par-
ents whose children have additional psychiatric or medical problems, those whose
infants are showing concerning symptoms, and those who live in low-resource
communities in the United States and elsewhere. Coaching stories accompany key
topics to illustrate the qualities of relationships and interactions with families and
to share important moments in our own learning as well.
Throughout the book, we cite the empirical evidence that has influenced our
learning and that documents the evolution of parent-implemented early interven-
tion practices. We hope that this book will provide some support to practitioners
who are seeking additional ways of helping young children with ASD progress,
those who desire to partner more successfully with families and to evolve a more
family-centered, parent-implemented approach to delivery of early intervention for
young children with or at risk for ASD. Most of all, we hope that this text will
An Introduction 11
Key Practice:
Parents Working with Their Children at Home
Before the early 1970s, children with autism were very often treated in treatment
centers, institutions, and psychiatric settings by therapists. The work of two men,
Eric Schopler and Ivar Lovaas, had tremendous influence on the development of
parent-implemented intervention for ASD.
Eric Schopler (1971), a student of Bruno Bettelheim’s, reacted strongly to Bet-
telheim’s destructive and inaccurate suggestions that autism was caused by reject-
ing parents. Convinced that autism was a biological condition, Schopler showed
in his doctoral thesis (personal communication to G. Dawson, 1983) that children
with ASD have unusual ways of processing information. Soon thereafter, he made
a radical proposal: Parents can and should provide therapy directly to their chil-
dren, at home. He led a pioneering effort to mobilize home- and community-based
services for children with ASD and spearheaded an intervention called Treat-
ment and Education of Autistic and Related Communication-Handicapped Chil-
dren (TEACCH; Mesibov, 2005), still in use today. He provided four completely
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Key Practices in Parent-Implemented Interventions 13
new ideas about how children and adults with ASD should be treated, ideas that
have had lasting influence (Schopler, Reichler, & Lansing, 1980). The first idea
involves a generalist approach: that autism therapists need to bring generalized
knowledge of autism treatment to families and children, knowledge developed
within an interdisciplinary team in which professionals from a wide range of dis-
ciplines learn from each other and pool their knowledge, with each taking on the
role of primary therapist for children with ASD and their families. The second
idea promotes working with parents and children in a home setting as a crucial
part of intervention. Schopler’s third novel idea is the need for parents to have a
strong voice in their child’s treatment and to work as partners with professionals
in all aspects of assessment, diagnosis, and treatment of children with autism.
Fourth, ASD interventions need to respect people with ASD, supporting their
preferences, strengths, and needs rather than working to eliminate or hide their
symptoms and individual differences. TEACCH achieves these goals by building
on individual preferences and strengths as well as needs, delivering interventions
whose methods and content best support an individual’s personal learning styles
and needs, and simultaneously supporting the independence, comfort, and com-
munity participation of those with ASD (Mesibov, Shea, & Schopler, 2005).
The influence of the TEACCH generalist model is clear in interventions such
as ESDM, in which one member of an interdisciplinary team takes on the role of
team leader, partnering with parents in the design, implementation, and oversight
of their child’s intervention. Other professionals on the team serve as consultants
to the team leader and parent, rather than as direct interventionists with the child.
This model has three major effects on service delivery. First, responsibilities for
team leadership and decision making are shared by parents and the team leader.
Second, the generalist team leader helps integrate information from all available
sources for parents to apply to the child’s intervention; in so doing, the generalist
6. Intervention needs to respect the unique strengths and needs of each child
with ASD.
14 Coaching Parents of Young Children with Autism
is in a position much like that of parents, who need to make decisions about their
child based on information from many resources. Third, the generalist team leader
uses the interdisciplinary intervention knowledge acquired to coach the parents
and to help develop a practical and effective approach to their work at home.
Lovaas, approached autism as a problem of learning. Lovaas, like Schopler,
began his work with older children, 6- to 10-year-olds, since autism was not yet
recognized or diagnosed in early childhood. Building on the work of his colleagues,
the early leaders in ABA—Sidney Bijou, Donald Baer, Montrose Wolf, and Todd
Risley, among others—Lovaas commenced his independent work by creating a
teaching environment based on the principles of operant learning in a hospital
setting and taught his staff to work intensively with children with autism using
the principles of ABA throughout the children’s waking hours. While these chil-
dren made considerable progress, return to their previous settings after the study
ended resulted in a loss of new skills and the resumption of their previous patterns
of behaving. Learning from this experience, Lovaas and colleagues (1973) shifted
their focus to beginning interventions as early as possible and carrying them out
using trained interventionists at home, with the family and in the community.
Parents were taught the same intervention strategies that the intervention team
used. The curriculum itself was comprehensive (Lovaas, 1981, 2003), providing
systematic teaching programs to address children’s behavioral deficits and excesses
across developmental and behavioral domains and embedding needed supports in
community activities to assure child participation and learning (Lovaas, Koegel,
Simmons, & Long, 1993).
Several aspects of Lovaas’s practices are apparent in many parent coaching
approaches in ASD, including ESDM, today: (1) Young children with ASD need
to engage with others in typical activities throughout their waking hours; (2) the
home, family, and community provide optimum contexts for supporting the learn-
ing of young children with ASD; (3) children with ASD (and all of the rest of
us) learn when the learning content is broken down into small steps and taught
systematically; (4) intervention should begin as soon as possible; and (5) children
with ASD are adaptable and need to learn within the everyday environments
of family, typically developing peers, and community members. (Although these
were the principles that Lovaas and his close colleagues espoused and demon-
strated, it is often the case that they are not the aspects of his practice that we
associate with some community discrete trial training [DTT] services.)
There was a long period of time in which professionals assumed that the attach-
ment relationship in ASD was either disturbed or nonexistent. These assumptions
Key Practices in Parent-Implemented Interventions 15
ASD (and thus were assumed to have more autism risk genes) and those who had
children exhibiting typical development. Thus, 30-plus years of studying parent–
child interactions in ASD have not reported significant parenting differences that
might be responsible for any ASD symptom development in their children.
Perhaps someday science and advocacy will be able to put this destructive idea
to rest once and for all. The critical findings suggest the opposite: Children with
ASD and parents generally develop close ties; children with ASD know and prefer
their family members and caregivers and feel safe with them, although they may
use different behaviors than other children to express these feelings (Rogers et al.,
1991); and parents of children with ASD interact with them in ways that demon-
strate their understanding and support for their children’s unique needs.
Our understanding of the processes that young children use to develop spoken
language has altered radically over the past few decades. Before the 1970s, the
predominant theories of language development represented nativist and environ-
mentalist viewpoints. The most well-known representative of the nativist position
was Noam Chomsky; his hypothesized Language Acquisition Device (Chomsky,
1965, 1980) was a uniquely human brain mechanism that parsed language into
its elemental parts and helped children acquire speech and language. The envi-
ronmentalist view was best represented by B. F. Skinner’s operant learning model,
which posited that speech and language evolved from the same learning processes
seen in all other aspects of learned behavior (Skinner, 1957). The operant learn-
ing approach to language is still embraced by many and is highlighted in the Ver-
bal Behavior method of intervention (Sundberg & Partington, 1998).
In the 1970s, a new model of language development was articulated and
began to be studied in infant developmental labs across the country. Known as
the pragmatics approach and articulated by Jerome Bruner (1983), Elizabeth Bates
(1976), Inge Bretherton and Bates (1979), and other key scientists, the pragmatic
approach suggests that children decode and learn language by discerning the
speaker’s intent (the goal of the communication). Is the speaker making a request,
offering or asking for help, directing a partner to act, seeking a social response,
directing a partner’s attention? Such intents are expressed by body language—
gesture, posture, vocal tone, and facial expressions—as well as word meanings.
Young children demonstrate their understanding of these intents toward the end
of the first year of life, through their preverbal responses to partners and their
own gestural production of these intents. A series of elegant experiments occur-
ring across several decades have firmly supported the pragmatics foundation of
Key Practices in Parent-implemented interventions 17
infant speech and nonverbal communication. The experiments have changed the
view of speech and language from behaviors learned via imitation and associative
learning for the purpose of representing objects and actions in the world, to efforts
to join a social partner in shared activities for the pleasure of social connectedness
and social influence through shared meanings.
Early on, Ratner and Bruner (1978) highlighted the key roles of infant–adult
play routines in infants’ learning to anticipate and predict others’ behaviors and
intentions. They pointed out that first words were very often the cue words in
social games like peekaboo, “uh-oh,” “so big,” rather than need-fulfilling words
like milk, food, or help. Their insights about the impact of emotionally salient and
highly pleasurable routines with favored social partners on early word learning
have stood the test of time and formed the basis for the ESDM intervention.
The second contribution of pragmatics researchers was to examine what par-
ents did that fostered word learning in their infants. In direct challenge to the
operant learning theory of language learning, a large variety of studies have dem-
onstrated that infants and toddlers benefited the most in the early stages of word
learning from partners who used language to describe the focus of an infant’s
attention or goals, rather than using it to direct the infant’s attention and to teach
word labels.
Many studies have found that young children with autism learn spoken lan-
guage using the same processes as do typically developing children (Lord & Scho-
pler, 1989; Sigman & Ruskin, 1999; Tager-Flusberg et al., 1990). A milestone study
by Michael Siller and Marian Sigman (2002) demonstrated the effect on language
development of parents who use language to follow their autistic children’s leads
rather than to direct them, and this style positively affected their children’s lan-
guage learning not only in early childhood, but also all the way through adoles-
cence.
Longitudinal findings by Mundy and colleagues and others demonstrated that
a child’s early joint attention gestures were strong predictors of later language acqui-
sition (Mundy, Sigman, & Kasari, 1990). Such findings indicate that language
interventions for preverbal toddlers should
focus first on developing use and understand-
ing of communicative gestures, especially
the joint attention gestures involving initiat-
ing and following a partner’s gaze, pointing,
showing, and sharing/giving. These and many
other research findings stress the importance
of parents and other adults interacting with
young autistic children by responding to and
following such children’s focus of attention and goals, talking with them about
their activities, and joining them as play partners.
18 Coaching Parents of Young Children with Autism
On October 8, 1986, a federal law (Public Law 99-457) was passed that amended
the 1975 Education for All Handicapped Children Act (Public Law 94-1142)—
now known as the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA)—to
require public educational services be provided to children with disabilities from
age 3 to 22. Public Law 99-457 also required that assessment, intervention, and
family support for all infants and toddlers with or at risk of developmental delays
be provided at little or no cost to families. This law cast a wide umbrella for infants
and toddlers with difficulties in all spheres of development, including the social
and behavioral domain. It called for interdisciplinary services from a wide range of
disciplines, both educational and health-related, as well as case management ser-
vices, home visits, parent training, counseling, and the full range of allied health
benefits and educational benefits. It also mandated that a family service plan be
developed and carried out.
The content required of the family service plan was specific, family- and
strengths-focused, completely individualized, and outcome-oriented. It required
objective demonstration of the child’s progress and benefit. It required specifica-
tion of the nature, frequency, and method of each type of intervention provided.
Finally, it required that parents receive the help and information needed to partic-
ipate in the educational decision-making processes, including the development of
the child’s individualized educational program, as well as the right to obtain infor-
mation about what programs, services, and resources were available to children
with disabilities and the degree to which the programs, services, and resources
were appropriate for their child.
This family-centered orientation was a drastic change from the medical model
of therapy delivery for infants and toddlers that prevailed at the time. Parents were
required to be at the table, fully informed on all available services and members
of the decision-making group establishing a service plan for their child—and for
themselves. This focus on supporting the family set in place the idea of parents
and professionals as partners in all aspects of infant–toddler identification assess-
ment and intervention. It also reflected the importance of professionals learning
about the challenges to families created by a young child’s delays or disabilities, and
of supporting families and parenting in order to support children’s development.
The focus on services at home and in typical community settings further empha-
sized the socioecological Bronfenbrenner model of child development (1986) and
its grounding in the family, home, neighborhood, and community for supports.
Working at home with parents to help them incorporate children’s intervention
needs into everyday life developed during these years as a primary delivery model
for children from birth to age 3 (Brown & Moersch, 1978).
It is interesting that in 2021 these principles are often set aside for young
children with ASD in favor of an intensive one-on-one therapy model, likely due
Key Practices in Parent-Implemented Interventions 19
These themes and values resonate with the kinds of relationships that we
authors have maintained in parent coaching relationships with families and with
the values that we hold as clinicians. The development of our parent coaching
approach has been powerfully influenced by many voices. Two, in particular,
require mention. Carl Dunst has provided an unwavering voice and key research in
support of family-centered care (Dunst & Trivette, 2009a, 2009b; Dunst, Trivette,
& Hamby, 2007). His research findings and values have influenced an entire gen-
eration of early intervention practices. Ann Turnbull, a professor of special educa-
tion and the parent of a child with disabilities, has powerfully voiced the necessity
of parental advocacy and parent–professional partnerships in order to create a
world of inclusive education, work, and supports for persons with developmental
disabilities (Turnbull & Turnbull, 2015). Dunst’s and Turnbull’s visions, advocacy,
and science have had major impacts on special education and early interventions’
transition to a more family-centered focus on parent coaching and parent–profes-
sional partnerships.
In 2004, a landmark publication by Hanft, Rush, and Shelden (2004) brought
the practice of coaching into early childhood intervention front and center. It
clearly articulated a radically different way of working with parents from that to
be found in parent training models, like TEACCH and DTT, or the “show-and-
tell” or “magic hands” models that came from the health sciences and emphasized
20 Coaching Parents of Young Children with Autism
(1) that professionals have a proactive stance marked by a belief that help-seekers
are already competent or have the capacity to become competent; (2) that profes-
sionals create opportunities for competence to be displayed by providing enabling
experiences to help-seekers; and (3) that they allow help-seekers to use their
competencies to access resources and attribute success to their own actions, not
the professional’s. In essence, Dunst and Trivette (2009a) suggested that viewing
the relationship with help-seekers from a strengths-based perspective rather than
one of deficits is a more effective way to achieve desired outcomes for children
with special needs and their families. Dunst and his colleagues have been lead-
ers in advocating, defining, demonstrating, and examining family-centered care
for decades. Their work to transform early intervention practices from “a deficit-
based, child-focused early intervention to a strengths-based, family-focused early
childhood and family support program” (Dunst & Trivette, 2009a, p. 120) began
in 1975 and continues to the present, influenced strongly by advanced in-family
systems theories, by the development of ecologically based frameworks for looking
at child development (e.g., Bronfenbrenner, 1986), and by a productive program of
research (Dunst & Trivette, 2009b) into every aspect of the model that has gener-
ated considerable support. Table 2.1 condenses descriptors of family-centered care
from McGuinn and Worley (2008) and coaching practices from Hanft, Rush, and
Shelden (2004).
Conclusion
The importance of family interactions and routines as the context for children’s
early learning was a compelling concept behind the 1975 creation of the Educa-
tion for All Handicapped Children Act (Public Law 94-142). The concepts and
law were extended to infants and toddlers with risks and disabilities (Part C of
IDEA) to enhance infant–toddler development and to provide support for families
to meet the special needs of their young child, as well as to reduce the downstream
governmental costs of treatment and education by intervening as soon as inter-
vention needs were recognized and by emphasizing least-restrictive environments.
Both the law and findings from decades of research on infant–toddler develop-
ment of both typically and atypically developing young children over the past 4
decades emphasize the necessity of (1) supporting positive parent–child relation-
ships fundamental to optimal early development, and (2) supporting caregivers in
each child’s natural environments and activities, to understand and support the
young child’s development—in order to optimize child and family outcomes.
22 Coaching Parents of Young Children with Autism
Parents need to be part of the decision- Parents and coach make decisions together.
making process.
Needs of all family members must be Supporting family means supporting all its
considered. members.
Services need to be easy for parents to Skills being coached need to be easy to learn
use. and easy to implement in everyday contexts.
Honoring diversity in all its aspects Having honest reciprocal exchanges and
within families. sharing reflections and evaluations.
Services organized and designed based on Coaching services designed based on family
child–family needs, not agency needs. needs and preferences.
Becoming a Coach
Knowledge, Characteristics,
and Supports
Parent coaching adds additional skill sets to our early interventionist repertoires:
new ways of thinking, new skills and knowledge, and new resources to tap. The
more complex interactions and events that occur in coaching create needs for new
supports and resources for coaches. This new tool kit supports parent-implemented
child intervention in all kinds of natural environments. It provides the interven-
tionist with new ways to build working relationships with parents, based on part-
nership, collaboration, and adult learning principles.
Very few parent-mediated interventions discuss straightforwardly the fact that
the primary goal of coaching parents is to change adult behavior. Child change is
the secondary goal, and it is the hoped for effect of parent behavior changes. The
learning process that parents begin as they enter parent coaching requires ongoing
effort in learning, practicing, and generalizing new skills, as does any other adult
goal of changing out old habits for new ones. This is not how our field has typically
discussed parent-mediated interventions. However, we have found it very helpful
to recognize and embrace the behavior change of parents as the primary target
of intervention in the P-ESDM model and the mediator of change in children
(just as behavior change was our goal as we learned these skills and taught them
to our students.) This conceptualization of parent coaching led us to a number
of adult learning concepts, empirically based tools, and teaching and assessment
procedures from other well-established interventions that we found helpful as we
coached and supported parents through a process of change.
In this chapter, we describe the coaching approach we have developed to
help parents turn their new learning into long-term cognitive, emotional, and
action-oriented habits. This chapter addresses what coaches need to know, some
23
24 Coaching Parents of Young Children with Autism
(IFSPs) and individualized education plans (IEPs) for preschoolers. For interven-
tions grounded in ABA, NDBI adds developmental knowledge to decisions about
goal development, communication-stimulating interaction with an adult who is a
reciprocal communicative partner in all activities, and the motivational benefits
of child choice and child preferences. One unique aspect of ESDM within the
NDBIs is the practice of teaching to multiple objectives with several repetitions
inside a single ongoing activity, which adds many more learning opportunities in a
time period than can be attained when only one objective is focused on at a time.
In order to coach a parent to implement an intervention approach at home,
a coach has to have extended mastery of the skills and concepts to be learned. It
is far more difficult to coach someone else in a skill than to carry it out oneself,
because coaching another person requires that the coach translate into words all
that he or she knows, including knowledge held so deeply that the coach performs
those actions without thinking about them. Bringing such “automatic” actions
into one’s mind and one’s vocabulary; learning to articulate the why’s and where-
fores behind such actions; being able to break down complex actions and ideas
into very simple, quickly learned scripts (see Chapters 6 and 7 of this book for
detailed how-to examples); and being able to deliver that learning at just the point
and level that a parent needs to learn in order to use the skill in the moment and
also generalize it—this requires additional learning and practice, both didactic
and experiential, including self-assessment, feedback, and supervision.
Given all that goes into providing intervention for young children with ASD,
how does a coach decide what parents need to learn in order to implement a prac-
tice at home? Most name-brand NDBI practices use an explicit assessment tool or
approach that helps to define what the adult needs to do within a teaching inter-
action, and these are known as fidelity of implementation (FOI) or fidelity measures.
The FOI measure explicitly describes each skill that a well-trained practitioner
uses and provides a means of measuring the accuracy of each skill, thus giving
the coach a convenient way to assess what parents are learning within coaching
and where additional coaching is needed. In addition to the brand-specific fidelity
tools, there is also a recently published NDBI FOI tool that coaches can use if their
method of practice does not have an FOI associated with it (Vibert et al., 2020).
We recommend that coaches assure their own fidelity of practice before coaching
others, and this can be accomplished in a variety of ways, including formal train-
ing (with associated fees and associated professional continued education units
[CEUs]), self-study or group study using Web-based and written materials and peer
supervision, and inservice training efforts utilizing a consultant, among others.
For parent coaching, we have created a public website, Help Is in Your Hands
(www.helpisinyourhands.org), with many free materials for coaches and parents.
Other branded interventions also have affiliated websites and offer a variety of
training options.
For busy early interventionists, taking the time to learn and perfect their skills
Knowledge, Characteristics, and Supports 27
may seem incredibly difficult, but most of us are accustomed to the expectation of
continued learning in our professions, given our agency or licensing requirements
for continued professional education. Ongoing inservice training at an agency
level, the requirements of an agency’s annual review, and annual professional goal
setting all provide structure and incentives from employers and professional asso-
ciations for improving clinical practice. Joining a formal training program brings
the benefit of externally structured learning and motivational enhancements. If
you decide to take a self-instructional approach, consider the following, and please
remember that social support from peer learners will help you with consistency,
motivation, and practice as well as objective feedback about your learning, all of
which will help you learn more rapidly and more successfully. Try teaming up with
a colleague or two to complete this process together by following these steps:
So far, we have discussed the tools a coach needs in his or her tool kit in order
to transition into a coaching role. We have additionally discussed interdisciplinary
knowledge of the child’s needs and strengths (the generalist role), a back-up team
of colleagues who also know the child and family and can provide advice and sup-
port, well-developed skills in the intervention being applied, and a peer support
and supervision group. We also assumed that the coach has kept the child’s goals
in clear view and has broken down all related objectives into short-term learning
goals. A final assumption is that the coach has had meaningful experience train-
ing others to carry out interventions—students or other trainees, assistants, and
colleagues who have asked for help with certain techniques. We will cover step-by-
step skills in coaching a session in later chapters. Right now, we need to focus on
28 Coaching Parents of Young Children with Autism
two more areas of skill: how to transition from direct therapy to coaching models,
and how to develop the kind of relationship that is necessary with parents when
one becomes a coach.
• Working with the child, rather than supporting the parents to work with
their child
• Telling the parents what the intervention’s goals are, rather than asking
them what they want their child to learn
• Directing parents what to do at home, rather than asking them how the
therapist can be of help in everyday life at home
• Working only with materials and equipment that the therapist has brought
to session, rather than items the parents have at home
• Conducting activities that are far removed from the typical daily living
routines these parents carry out with their child
• Expecting that the parents will observe rather than interact, or asking the
parents not to interact because it interferes with treatment
For all these reasons, it is often easiest to begin your coaching practice with
families that are new to you as an interventionist, so you can develop coaching
interactions from the start. Chapters 5 and 6 describe how to begin the parent–
child–coach interactive triangle from the very first contacts, in the initial assess-
ment and treatment sessions. However, we have watched so many therapists shift
their practice from direct therapy to coaching that we know this approach can be
successful and that parents will be very appreciative of their new role once they
Knowledge, Characteristics, and Supports 29
have had the chance to learn it. For families that are accustomed to being on the
periphery, the coach can set up a new plan for collaborating following these steps:
1. Discuss the new plan and the reasons for it at the beginning of a session.
Be ready to notice and address positive and negative emotional reactions
to change.
2. Ask parents what their goals are for the session, and ask them to describe
something that has gone well or not so well with their child over the past
week (the initial observation activity). If the parents do not have a goal,
you can share your list of treatment goals and let them choose one.
3. Ask the parents an open-ended question: how they felt about the activ-
ity and their child’s response, and share your own reflections about what
occurred, emphasizing the parents’ successful actions and any positive
reactions to the parents the child may have had. You have begun the plan–
act–reflect–evaluate format that will be laid out in Chapters 5 and 6.
4. It is critical that in this first encounter the parents have a positive experi-
ence working with their child, and it is the coach’s responsibility to make
sure this happens. However, for adult learners, feelings of success and com-
petence come not from adult praise, but rather from meeting their own
goals, which in this situation are reflected in their child’s positive response
to them, their child’s learning, the parents’ enjoyment of such interac-
tions, and the parents’ sense of mastery and competence as expressed in
the child’s learning and engagement. The coach who responds to parents’
efforts with their child by highlighting these observations has provided a
much more powerful reinforcer than the coach who simply tells them how
“great” they’re doing (which in itself is kind of judgmental and distancing
for some parents).
Coaching Characteristics:
The Relationship between Coach and Parent
Parents need to know (and feel) that the coach genuinely cares about them
and their child in order to be open to the coaching process and willing to work
together. Think back to the last time you tried to learn something completely new.
Remember how inept you felt, how anxious you might have been, how embar-
rassing it was to make mistakes, how impossible it seemed that you would ever
master the skill. With coaching, parents are not only trying something different
but also doing so with the most important person in their life—their child—in
front of an “expert” whom they do not know very well. Parents have to trust what
the coach is teaching them, have to be motivated to keep practicing, have to feel
safe enough to talk about their experiences, and have to be comfortable asking
for help without feeling inept, ignorant, judged, or criticized. They must have the
humility to make mistakes and demonstrate failures in front of the coach without
becoming so discouraged that they give up trying. A competent coach shows a
caring, compassionate attitude through encouragement, humor, acceptance, and
the creation of a safe, supportive, and motivating environment in which parents
can try out new approaches, ask for guidance, and make mistakes, accepting them
as a necessary part of the learning process. The coach who empathizes and reflects
on his or her own mistakes or misjudgments emphasizes a common learner stance.
A coach who understands errors as markers of learning opportunities is providing
the kind of emphatic reciprocal relationship that will support parent learning.
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s’ennuyait certainement avec cet homme méticuleux qu’était son
mari. Elle devait être assoiffée de lyrisme. C’était avec elle qu’il eût
voulu vivre.
Il dit un soir :
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tour.
— J’y pensais, répondit Jeanne.
Elle vint, superbe. Il tremblait quand elle lui tendit la main.
Cependant elle disait :
— Mais c’est très bien, chez vous ! Mieux que chez nous ! Qu’est-
ce que vous me racontiez donc, Jeanne ?
— Oh ! dit celle-ci, ce sont des meubles que je tiens de mes
parents. Ils ne sont pas vilains mais si ça continue nous serons
obligés d’en vendre et de nous contenter d’une chambre et d’une
cuisine.
— Allons donc ! protesta Ternant, vous n’en êtes pas là ! Et
Monsieur va devenir célèbre un jour ou l’autre.
Il dit cela d’un ton plus méprisant que sérieux. Vaneau manquait
trop d’assurance pour riposter. Et puis elle était là. Toute la soirée il
espéra que grâce à quelque coïncidence il se trouverait seul avec
elle. Ternant pouvait passer dans l’autre chambre pendant que
Jeanne serait à la cuisine. Il en fut ainsi à la fin du repas. C’était une
des manies de Ternant de se dégourdir les jambes après avoir
secoué sa serviette. Jeanne préparait le café. Il resta seul en face
d’elle plusieurs minutes à pâlir, à trembler, à ne pas pouvoir
prononcer une parole.
— Vous ne dites rien ? fit-elle.
Il répondit, d’un air qu’elle dut trouver, pensa-t-il ensuite, niais :
— Mais si, madame !
Ce fut tout. Il n’en reprit que de plus belle le soir ses allées et
venues, ne pouvant se débarrasser de son désir. Jeanne ne
soupçonnant rien parlait toujours de Mme Ternant. Hier elle était
allée s’acheter un chapeau au Louvre ; ce soir elles étaient montées
ensemble jusqu’à la place Clichy : Vaneau cependant errait dans les
environs du Conservatoire. Il désespérait de jamais la rejoindre.
Jusqu’au soir où grâce au hasard il la vit descendre d’une voiture et
entrer dans un hôtel pendant qu’un jeune homme — gants, monocle
et chapeau haut de forme, — payait le cocher. Vaneau n’en mourut
point mais il souffrit quelque temps.
Les années passaient l’une après l’autre. C’était toujours la
suivante qui devait lui apporter avec la gloire la richesse et la
délivrance. Elle viendrait comme la colombe de l’arche annoncer que
les temps étaient révolus et tenant une couronne de lauriers. S’il
avait pu partir au-devant d’elle, l’obliger à se hâter ! Cependant elle
arrivait avec ses trois cent soixante-cinq jours alignés en bon ordre
comme des soldats de plomb : les dimanches étaient leurs sergents,
les douze mois leurs capitaines. Mais ils se ressemblaient tous.
Des dimanches, il en vécut de sinistres l’hiver. Jeanne préférait
rester à la maison. Il n’aurait pas demandé mieux que de sortir mais
pour quoi faire ? Il ne se sentait ni le courage ni seulement le désir
de recommencer à chercher l’aventure comme autrefois par les
rues, sur les quais, dans la cathédrale, au musée. L’après-midi lui
paraissait interminable : personne ne venait frapper à leur porte. Dès
trois heures la brume envahissait la cour ; des fenêtres s’éclairaient.
Aux étages inférieurs ce n’étaient que va-et-vient, que poignées de
mains sur les paliers, que : « Vous êtes bien aimables d’être venus
nous voir ! », que bruits de pianos. Jeanne ne détestait point cette
solitude ; elle cousait, reprisait, tandis que dans sa chambre il se
morfondait. En vain essayait-il d’écrire : il le faisait avec de moins en
moins de confiance en lui-même. Pourtant il ne consentait pas
encore à renoncer. Il venait de terminer un acte en vers dont Jeanne
n’avait pas voulu écouter la lecture et qu’il ne savait à quel théâtre
déposer ; il avait autant de chances ici que là. N’ayant réussi à se
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conseiller utilement. Sans résultat, lorsqu’une simple mention lui eût
fait si grand plaisir, il prit part à d’infimes concours littéraires. Mais il
ne suffit pas d’être inconnu pour que ce soit un devoir à la foule de
vous hisser sur le pavois.
La nécessité le condamnait à des besognes dont la monotonie
devenait accablante. Parmi ces hommes dont l’énergie déjà mince
s’épuisait à ressasser des potins de bureau, parmi ces hommes
aussi cancaniers que des femmes il se rapetissait encore lui qui
avait rêvé de monter haut. Les autres vivaient là comme poissons
dans l’eau. Ils écrivaient, les coudes largement écartés sur leurs
tables comme pour être avec elles en parfaite communion. En été
dehors c’était le chaud soleil sur les feuilles roussies des squares, le
murmure des jets d’eau tièdes dans les vasques, les passants
obligés de marcher habillés de pied en cap, avec d’inutiles faux cols
vite trempés de sueur. Ici ils étaient à l’ombre. Chaque après-midi
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d’une boisson presque glacée. Quant aux trains qui sifflaient dans
les gares chargés à rompre leurs essieux de voyageurs et de malles,
ils ne les entendaient pas : assis chacun sur sa chaise ils ignoraient
la fiévreuse attente des départs. Il y avait bien chaque année un peu
avant Pâques les mêmes discussions pour établir la date du congé
de deux semaines auquel chacun avait droit. Sans doute en
parlaient-ils longtemps à l’avance et la veille du départ chacun se
montrait-il quelque peu surexcité. Mais aussitôt rentrés ils
reprenaient leurs habitudes en même temps que leur veston de
travail usé aux coudes. L’image des champs, des bois, des
montagnes, de la mer, s’effaçait vite de leur mémoire. Et leur vie
n’était complète qu’au bureau. Ils s’y trouvaient heureux en toute
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venait de se fonder une place plus avantageuse : cent soixante-
quinze francs par mois. Pour Jeanne qui en gagnait la moitié c’eût
été le rêve. Mais avec un mari comme le sien qui ne connaissait
personne inutile d’y songer.
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secret il continuait à se frapper le cœur ; aucune source vive n’en
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impatience ses deux semaines de congé annuel pour faire ce qu’il
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escaliers, à attendre dans une antichambre de journal pendant une
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portes :
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que je le regrette.
Ou encore :
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une fleur à la boutonnière, entraient en frappant du talon, apportant
des articles que quelques jours après non sans amertume il lirait
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l’avenir s’était ouvert devant eux comme une belle avenue qui
semble là-bas se rétrécir mais s’élargit à mesure que l’on avance et
qui se peuple de claqueurs dont les applaudissements intéressés ou
tarifés flattent pourtant l’oreille. Pour eux la vie ne pouvait être
qu’une succession de triomphes : elle n’était pour lui qu’une
succession de défaites. Jeanne quand il rentrait ne l’interrogeait
même pas.
Il regardait de loin la mêlée en spectateur qui parfois et malgré
lui-même eût été heureux d’être un combattant. Pas une œuvre ne
serait restée vivante s’il avait été possible de la jeter en proie aux
différents partis qui se heurtaient dans l’arène. Il y avait des corps-à-
corps et des luttes à distance. Ils ne mouraient pas tous mais tous
étaient atteints. Les invectives sifflaient comme des javelots pour
s’enfoncer par delà les groupes dans les statues d’argile, d’airain ou
d’argent. Mais chacun ne regardait que devant soi ; personne ne se
retournait pour écouter sonner le métal ni pour voir s’effriter la pierre.
Et les statues continuaient de se dresser hautaines et, la minute
d’après, par miracle intactes ; l’herbe et les fleurs des champs
poussaient encore autour de leurs socles et les oiseaux du ciel
venaient boire dans leurs mains tendues vers les foules. Ils se
disputaient l’héritage, dont chacun prétendait s’établir l’incorruptible
gardien, de cadavres à peine refroidis. Grandes âmes à les en croire
et pour qui ne les voyait que de loin ; mais si l’on pénétrait en elles
on y sentait grouiller la jalousie, la méchanceté, parfois la haine,
comme des crapauds et des serpents dans des souterrains de
châteaux haut bâtis sur les collines. Le plus noble d’entre tous
gravissait la pente de la montagne, fraternellement précédé des
ombres de Michel-Ange, de Beethoven et de Tolstoï et donnant la
main à Jean-Christophe. Plus il s’éloignait de la plaine et plus
nombreuses les flèches partaient de tous les camps ; mais elles
n’avaient point la force d’arriver jusqu’à leur but et leur pointe
s’émoussait contre les rochers ou s’enfonçait inoffensive dans la
bruyère. Vaneau comme les autres le regardait de loin ; si comme
eux il ne bandait point son arc contre lui il ne se sentait ni la force ni
même le désir de marcher à sa suite. Que ne tâchait-il de se
rapprocher de lui ! Chacun portait avec lui son étalon de la dignité de
l’artiste, comme dans les bois on se coupe un bâton de houx
proportionné à sa taille ; tant pis s’il était trop long, — où trop court,
— pour les autres. Les mendiants des salons ricanaient des
mendiants des antichambres. Et c’était comme le bruit d’une
tempête, comme le bruit d’un vent qui souffle avec impétuosité et qui
remplit toute la maison où sont assis les Douze. Mais il n’y en avait
pas douze sur qui vinssent se poser les langues de feu.
Son père lui écrivait quelquefois. S’affaiblissant il cessait peu à
peu de travailler. Les Lavaud vieillissaient de plus en plus acariâtres.
A Grenelle aussi leurs clients s’en allaient les uns après les autres
pour ne plus revenir. Il apprit par un journal le suicide de Detroyes
désespéré, disait-on, du silence qui se faisait autour de lui. Vaneau
le revit rallumant sans cesse son cigare ; un filet de fumée s’en
échappait un instant, puis une fois de plus le cigare s’éteignait. La
gloire ne durait donc qu’un temps ? Elle n’était que fumée. Cette
fumée même on ne pouvait donc pas au gré de ses désirs en
respirer de nouveau le parfum ?
Toute la détresse humaine se rassemblait au-dessus de sa tête
comme une nuée d’orage. Il arriva que Jeanne fut enceinte.
VII
FIN
ACHEVÉ D’IMPRIMER
le trente et un janvier mil neuf cent quatorze
PAR
E. ARRAULT ET Cie
A TOURS
pour
BERNARD GRASSET
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