Grade Your Relationship

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The Couples Report Card
In Dr. Ken Druck’s book, The Real Rules of Life, Ken
     Trust true true false
I don’t feel as much a part of talks about self-worth and the currency of love. Real
     Availability    his/her life as I’d like to value comes from the people in your life. The way you
I have to be careful about what I cash in on that value is by cultivating your heart and
     Ability to be direct with each other    say your relationships.
     Closeness and affection    He/she holds back with me
I have a problem he/she couldn’t The purpose of this report card is
     Creative problem solving    handle to learn more about how your
Our relationship could be more primary relationship (current or
     Spontaneity, playfulness & fun challenging and meaningful if
   he/she knew more about how I future) can improve. The results
     Communication feel depend on your willingness to be
     Enthusiasm & Energy    As parents we are a good team completely open and honest.
We handle conflict and
     Sexual Satisfaction    disagreements well
     Shared Values
In Your Words
Check the Items You Agree With My relationship would be better and more effective if I…

My relationship would be more interesting and satisfying if… ___________________________________________________ This tool is intended to build bridges of insight
We spent more time together and understanding, not as a weapon to judge
 ___________________________________________________
or hurt yourself or someone else.
 We spent more intimate, uninterrupted time together
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We learned how to be more understanding of each
 other To learn more about the real
My goals for in being in relationship would be better served if my
 We had more fun together partner… value in your lives, read
We expanded our interests and activities Ken’s chapter on “real value
 ___________________________________________________ has no dollar signs” in the
Real Rules of Life.
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