40 Best Compliments for Guys

1. You are so handsome.

I know what you are probably thinking: “I thought you said we weren’t going to do the same
hum and drum compliments?” But hear me out. Saying you’re handsome isn’t as common as you
might think. In fact, men are rarely complimented for their looks or appearance like a woman is.
And, of course, saying handsome rather than cute or hot adds a certain level of intimacy that men
don’t hear often. There’s so much more meaning to the word handsome than any other word, so
keep it classy and let him know how good-looking he REALLY is with this simple compliment.
(And yes, this totally needed this long of an explanation!)

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2. Wow, you weren’t lying when you said you were hitting the gym!

Because saying “I like your muscles” never gets old, right? This tells him that you’ve noticed his
(growing) muscles and you’re very pleased with what you see. Plus it motivates him to keep
hitting the pavement as hard as he can!

3. I love your (insert color here) eyes. I just get lost in them.

A piece of advice for this particular compliment: make sure you get the eye color correct. (You
can’t even imagine what a mood killer that can be!)

4. You always making me smile!

Many men will admit that the most beautiful thing about a woman is her smile. So hearing (and
seeing) that he’s capable of planting that gorgeous smile on your face in a matter of seconds is a
definite confidence booster for him. (Don’t forget to smile after saying this, too!)
5. You’re the funniest man I’ve ever met.

It’s no secret: men LOVE to make woman laugh. In fact, I think sometimes they believe if you
can make a woman laugh you can almost always score with her. But anyways, hearing that he’s
the funniest man you have EVER met is an obvious winner for him. There’s no way he couldn’t
absolutely one hundred percent LOVE this compliment.

6. I always feel safe when I’m around you.

Hey, just because he doesn’t have to kill our dinner for us anymore doesn’t mean he doesn’t
want to be the protector. In fact, guys love when they get to ‘protect’ their woman from danger
and harm. Letting him know that you feel safe with him is just one of those compliments that
really stick and make him feel like the manly head hancho he’s always dreamed of being.

7. You are so handy!

Just like they love to be manly protectors, they also love to be handy. (They are technically
SAVING us from something we couldn’t do, like fix a broken faucet or change the tire on our
car.) He will love hearing how handy he is- it simply uproars his ego!

8. It’s so nice to see a man who can cook.

Not many men can cook. And if they do, it probably doesn’t taste that great. Let him know he’s
one out of a million with his delicious cooking skills.

9. You’re the strongest man I’ve ever met.

To a man, muscles and strength is almost everything. And having a masculine, manly physique
that allows him to push a car all on his own is his dream. Trust me, every guy wants to hear he’s
THE strongest. Do it, do it now!

10. Geez, girls can’t keep their eyes off of you!

I think we can all determine why this is an awesome compliment. But in case you didn’t know,
guys love it when ladies look at him. Hearing it from a woman is just an extra 10 ego points. He.
Will. Love. It. Hands down!

11. Any lady would be lucky to have you.

If you’re not yet his lucky lady, let him know what a catch he is. It’ll boost his confidence while
also letting him know you’re interested.

12. I love the way you (insert something here).

Do you love the way he dresses? The way he bench presses? Is there something that goes on
‘behind the scenes’ that drives you wild? Then this is the compliment he wants to hear!

13. I love how you listen and respect me.

Every woman wants to be respected. It’s a fact! This lets him know that he’s doing a great job in
the respect department and not to change a thing.

14. Wow, you really rock that (shirt, tie, etc).

Better than just saying “You look nice in that”, this compliment is a bit more personalized and
will definitely be a shirt (or tie, pair of pants) that you see more often. There, you both win!

15. I love spending my time with you.

At the end of the day, we all just want to be wanted. He will love this simple, yet deep
compliment.

16. You make me feel beautiful (or appreciated, respected, etc).

Let him know exactly how he makes you feel so he can be confident in his abilities and keep
doing the things you love.

17. I respect you.

Just like every woman loves respect, so does every man. This easy compliment simply reassures
him of himself and lets him know that you aren’t taking him for granted or not caring about what
he says.

18. You always give the best advice.

A man knows he is doing a great job when a woman comes to him for advice, but he feels even
better knowing that he gives the BEST advice. He must be pretty smart and sure of himself to be
the best, right?

19. Your arms look great in that shirt.

Does this really need an explanation? GUYS LIKE HEARING ABOUT THEIR MUSLES. Case
closed.

20. You really turn me on.

It’s every guys dream (more like a daily dream) to turn a woman on. Hearing this will be so
much of a confidence booster he won’t even know what to do with himself.
21. What are you wearing? You smell magnificent.

We’re not sure quite why, but men just love to hear how great they smell.

22. You are the manliest

man I’ve ever known.

This roots back to the beginning of time when every man wanted to be the manliest. It still holds
true today, and trust me, you will definitely make his day (or week, month, year, maybe?) by
telling him he is the MANLIEST of them ALL.

23. Thanks for helping me (_____) today. I really appreciate it!

If you tell him you appreciate his help, then he will be more willing to do things for you in the
future. So please give me a good reason NOT to use this compliment? (Over and over again,
mind you!)

24. Your voice is so deep, masculine, and comforting.

You have big muscles? Cool. You have a great job? Awesome. But if you have a deep, manly
voice that drives the ladies crazy, you simply earn a million extra sexy points. Trust me, you
can’t go wrong with this ensuring compliment.

25. You really know how to treat a woman.

Letting a man know he’s doing a good job? Always the right way to go.

26. I couldn’t be any more comfortable around you.

Because at the end of the day, we all just really want to be around someone who ‘gets us’. No
secrets, no hiding. Just comfortable fun where you can tell each other anything. He will love this!

27. There’s something about your smile that gets me every time.

Like we said before, appearance compliments don’t come as easily to men as they do to women.
This simple compliment is perfect because it will make him feel special while also making him
want to smile more. WIN!

28. You did such a great job at (____).

Because hearing “Good job” or “Way to go” is just so boring and common. He wants to know
WHAT he is doing good at, so keep his confidence up and let him know what things he is so
great at.

29. I can’t help but smile around you.

This roots back to the other compliment about him always being able to make you smile, but
with this compliment you let him know he doesn’t even HAVE to do anything to make you
smile- and that’s extra points for him.

30. You always know exactly what to say.

We are always wondering if we’ve said the right thing to someone, right? Well why not let him
know that he did- and that he always- knows what to say to make you happy, cheer you up, etc.

31. I’ve never seen a man who can (____) quite like you can!

Is he the best of the best at something? You should clearly make his ego fly off the charts with
this awesome compliment that ANY man would love to hear.
32. Is there anything you CAN’T do?

Perfect compliment after he’s done something ‘manly’, like opening the jar of pickles or
switching the oil in your car.

33. (Insert color here) is really your color! You should wear it more often.
Another simple compliment that is so much better than “You look nice”.

34. Honestly, you are way hotter than Brad Pitt.

Or Johnny Depp, or Channing Tatum, or whoever you think is the hottest man alive. He will love
to hear he is hotter than the top notch Hollywood stars. Talk about a massive ego boost!

35. Hey, can I have a ticket to your gun show?

A funny compliment that not only makes him chuckle but compliments his bulging arm muscles:
double win!

36. I have never met a man like you. You’re genuinely different from the rest and I’m
loving it!

Women are constantly saying “All guys are the same”, so hearing that he is totally different but
in the BEST way possible is a wonderful compliment that men love to hear. Who wants to be
like all the rest, anyways?

37. I love how easy it is to have a conversation with you.

This just makes him smile in ways you wouldn’t even begin to imagine.

38. You are absolutely charming. I just can’t pull myself away!

There’s something about a woman saying she can’t pull herself away that drives a man wild. He
will LOVE this compliment and feel like he is on top of the world.

39. You can fix anything, can’t you?

Another wonderful compliment to say after he’s done some amazing fixer upper you wouldn’t
even dream of doing.
40. Judging by the way you’re so sweet and playful with kids, you’re going to make a great dad
one day.

You should probably save this one until you’re closer with the guy, but either way-this is a
wonderful compliment that makes him feel special and secure and also confident about his
future.
12 Things A Woman Does That Men
Find Irresistible
Follow Brandon Martin’s Easy Advice To Quickly Become Irresistible To Men…

By Brandon Martin

How can you make a man attracted to you beyond your looks… attracted enough
to see you as psychologically and emotionally irresistible… and how do you
keep this long into a relationship?

The bigger question is why do men who seemed interested and connected with
you suddenly become disinterested, pull away and shut down… and what can
you do about it?

After years of coaching thousands of women around the world to success with
men (including high-profile female celebrities) and researching relationship
dynamics and male psychology, I’ve discovered what causes that “spark” that
makes a man see a woman as “the one”, and what causes men to lose interest
for seemingly no reason… and it’s not for the reasons most women think.

Unless you understand these “secrets” I’m about to share with you to being
IRRESISTIBLE to a man, you will most likely constantly deal with men pulling
away, losing interest, avoiding commitment and even leaving.

Let’s get to it…

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #1: Avoid

Over-Seriousness & Worrying
What I’ve found after coaching thousands of women over the years is that when
men do stupid things in a relationship, most women tend to become overly-
emotional, hurt, angry and worry if things are “okay”.

Men do sometimes really stupid things, and you have every right to feel what
you’re feeling.

The problem is if you let your emotions control your actions with men, it can
severely impact his level of attraction for you.
Being serious and sharing a deeper connection has it’s place (something I go
deep into in my free relationship advice eLetter), but when a man does hurtful
things like being unaffectionate, distant or not calling you back, most women’s
reaction is to become “serious” over the bad things theybelieve to be happening
and lose that light-hearted fun they were originally bringing to the table that
draw men in in the first place.

Men absolutely crave a woman who is light-hearted and doesn’t take things too
seriously… ESPECIALLY when things get rough.

Humor is like a BILLBOARD mounted to a woman’s forehead that says “I’m the
one!”

Men feel this on a subconscious gut level.

If you’re becoming overly serious, worried, self-conscious, your man is very likely
to lose attraction and pull away.

If you lead with a sense of humor most of the time, it’s an amazing find for a
man. Men not just want this but NEED it.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #2: Lead

With Your “Youthfulness”
Most women believe that attraction has to do mostly with their body… weight,
breast size, bone structure etc.

And while this plays a part, it couldn’t be further from the truth.

A man desires youthfulness in a woman he would consider spending all of his

time with.

Youthfulness means a state of being innocent and childlike, and this is

something that stimulate men on a subconscious level to crave.

Youth is an attitude.

Most women are very burned out inside from the obligations of the world, and
this has a very strong effect on how men will perceive you.

It may be difficult for you to “get” this because women in our society are
virtually “brainwashed” to believe if their bodies are not young or pretty, they
don’t stand a chance at captivating a man.
NOT TRUE… and I have many, many cases to back this up. I’ve documented that
attraction has MOSTLY to do with your internal “energy”.

Men sense when a woman is fresh and has kept herself separate from the
negativity of other’s opinions and when a woman has allowed herself to be
burned out, burdened with obligations and has lost touch with the little girl
within.

A child playing on the playground hasn’t been burdened by the world’s

“adulthood” and “responsibilities” yet.

All she cares about is PLAYING… in the sand, swinging on the swings and having
fun. She is fresh, she doesn’t hold onto the past and isn’t worried about the
future.

It’s one thing be responsible, and another thing to allow it to define who you are.

I’m always amazed when I see 18-year-old girls who feel 40, and then when I
see 40-year-old women who feel 18.

It’s just a matter of learning what type of energy men are emotionally attracted
to in a woman.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #3: Attract

With Body Language
Behavioral psychologists say that body language makes up for 55% of all
communication in relationships… vocal tonality comes in second with 38%.

And the actual words we use to talk? A whopping 7%.

Pay close attention… words are only 7% of ALL communication.

That means that 93% of ALL communication and signals that we give and
receive are based on body language and vocal tonality alone.

Most women ask me “what do I say to him to make him want me?”. But if you
focus on only that 7% you’re missing 93% of the puzzle!

I don’t have time right now to get too deep into this, but here’s the “magic
formula” for body language.
Hips loose and tilted a bit forward, arch in the lower back allowing weight to
release off the upper-back, shoulders and upper back relaxed back, chest
present, chin up.

A smile tells a man on a gut level that you’re receptive and no smile says you’re
“untouchable”.

You may have mixed feelings towards her (and I’m not her biggest fan either),
but Paris Hilton has great body language.

When you learn how to have powerful body language, it’s as close to “magic” as
it gets to seeing men respond INSTANTLY with attraction.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #4: Avoid

Getting Overly-Emotional
Most women allow their negative emotions to build up in a relationship and
inadvertently take them out on a man. While you and I know that you
don’t mean to do this, it has a strong effect on how men feel towards you, and
this is where you’ll see men pull away.

Most women don’t realize that by becoming overly-emotional, it freaks men out
and causes them to close down.

But expressing positive emotions in the right way has the power to get a man
literally addicted to you.

It just takes a retraining of your approach to men and relationships…

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #5: Avoid

Impatience

Let’s face it, most women today have a borderline A.D.D. situation going on…

But seriously, most men are extremely grateful when they find a patient
woman.

A.D.D. is cute to some guys at first (I find it hilarious and love to make light-
hearted fun of women like this) but impatience can slowly turn into unnecessary
frustration and emotional aggression when things don’t happen fast enough.
What I’m talking about is relaxing more and being more open to going with the
flow of your relationship with him. This is the same attitude that rockstars have,
and rockstars, whether male or female, are some of the most desired people on
the planet.

Why is patience so valuable to being attractive to men? Because it is very RARE

for a man to find and sub-communicates confidence and desirability.

Here’s a secret about men most women will never understand.

Men are purpose and goal-oriented… Men value the vision they want to create in
life above all else. It could be that he wants to start a family, travel the world,
build a business… it could be anything.

The point is when a man meets a woman, he secretly hopes that she will relax
with his path. If she does he will literally feel that she completes him.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #6: Self-Care

And Beauty
While I talk a lot about inner beauty, it is expecting too much to not keep
yourself looking good and think that men will chase after you.

Beauty, healthy hair, good-looking skin, well-done makeup, healthy weight; these
are the more superficial things men adore.

Most men are not looking for you to be a super model, they just want to know
that you care about your presentation.

Now where most women get tripped up is believing that external beauty is
everything… it is not.

Let me ask you something. Have you ever thought… what is beauty?

Beauty is the OUTWARD expressions of femininity, which men are attracted to

like NOTHING else. This is why beauty is so powerful to men.

This is not good because you become an insecure ROLLERCOASTER seeking

approval from men, and when you’re chasing after his validation, you can’t be
irresistible.

Here’s what I believe is needed ===> Balance, balance, balance.

Put some weight onto the other leg of INNER beauty. The fact is inner is just as
important as outer.

And there is a way to becoming internally beautiful to men in a way that makes
men RESPOND like crazy.

Listen, I have even coached supermodels who have trouble with men. But it is
still a piece none the less.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #7:

Emotional Intelligence
You are intelligent, I already know this.

I know this simply because you’re here right now looking to better your love life,
which is an intelligent thing to do… and it’s rare.

But what exactly do I mean by “intelligence”?

Well, I don’t necessarily mean book intellect, “street smarts” or being a

philosopher.

I really mean a woman who is PRESENT and “here now”. She is sharp,
responsive, alive, witty and keeps a man o

n his toes.

If you drift into all of the bad stuff you’ve done in the past and all of the regrets
and constantly worry about the future, there’s a good chance you’ll have trouble
being attractive to men.

A woman who is present, who a man can look into her eyes and see that she is
with him right here and now… not zoning off into space or thinking about a
millions thoughts is catnip to the male mind.

She responds to the moment… and this is an ability thatevery woman has.

A woman who is “with” a man is extremely attractive, desirable and irresistible

to a man.
Unfortunately, most men will never know this kind of women, so when she does
come, well let’s just say, have you ever heard of those stories of guys proposing
in the first 3 months?

There is a way to cultivate this aspect of yourself, and I believe you DO have this
inside you… you just have to learn how to release it.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #8: Not

“Needing” But Wanting
Many, many women fall into the trap of confusing liking, caring for and loving
someone for being attached and needing that someone.

Loving someone and being attached to someone are not the same thing.

Let me help you to understand the difference.

Loving someone is when you are thinking about the other person’s needs and
happiness while when you become attached to someone you think about how
YOUR needs are not being fulfilled by this person.

Love is fearless and feelings joyous and attachment is fearful and feels bad.

Most guys can sense neediness, which usually causes them to run the other
direction.

But they can also sense a girl who WANTS rather than needs.

What is the real difference between want and need?

Need is obliging the other person, that you can’t live without him, while want is
being secure in yourself but liking that he be an addition to you, that you could
live without him if need be.

I only know this by talking to thousands of guys about this.

A woman who has the self-confidence enough to want, to desire, and not be
attached gets the love from any man she wants.

Most women are in fact needy, and it’s not their fault (it has to do with many
factors), but it is completely possible to learn to have confidence and security in
yourself.
If you deal with neediness on a day-to-day basis and want to learn how to
become self-confident and free of fear, anxiety, neediness, self-doubt or
jealousy, then check out my emotional balancing tips.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #9:

Nurturance
Most men enjoy independence in a woman, but men also secretly like to feel
taken care of as well.

To most women this comes naturally. The problem is when a man does
something hurtful to a woman, she has a tendency to begin to withhold this
quality out of either fear or anger.

Osho, an enlightened Indian mystic, once said “a man’s life is a journey to find
the happiness he once felt inside the womb of his mother.”

Very deep stuff.

Could you imagine the repercussions if you were able to make him feel this way?
You wouldn’t be able to get rid of him!

And there are ways to make him feel this way that I don’t have time to get into
right now (that’s what my free email newsletter and programs are for).

The great thing is nurturance is one of your most basic female instincts… Most
guys do want that little tiny bit of mommy in a girlfriend.

But because of society, “responsibilities” and the resentment that most women
feel unconsciously towards men, women end up losing touch with this part of
themselves.

If you’re not nurturing to a man, there’s a good chance that he will feel a level of
distrust in your ability to fulfill him emotionally.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #10: Sexual

Adventurousness
Sexual repression makes people very, very… VERY angry and afraid.
Scientists, presidents, poets, hot guys and musicians all agree.

By sexually adventurous I do NOT mean having sex with every person in sight, or
having fivesomes in a bathroom stall on Hollywood Blvd.

I simply mean being RELAXED about sex instead of tense, nervous or rejecting of
it… and never using it or withholding it as a tool to make a man give you love…
because it simply does nothing to make him feel irresistibly in love and attracted
to you… in fact it will do the opposite.

If you are alive sexually, you will cause a man to feel a deep sense that you
are different from other girls.

He never knows what’s going to happen next… and what happens in the
bedrooms carries in a relationship.

If you’re not adventurous sexually, unpredictable and spontaneous then the

relationship will turn cold.

Sex is the barometer of a relationship, and what you bring to it will decide how
irresistible your man will find you.

It’s easier than you might think to cultivate this way of being, you just have to
know how.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #11: Love

Love… there is not a more significant word in the English language.

What do I mean about “love” in the context of making men irresistibly attracted
and in love with you?

There are two types of people.

One who lives life in fear, and the other who lives life in love.
Most people tend to live in fear. i.e. fear of being left, not being loved, pain, being
cheated on, being left, and the list goes on.

Believe it or not, living in constant fear and worry can kill a man’s attraction for
you and cause him to pull away.

Men universally are drawn to women who live a life of love, positivity, joy,
creativity and keeps worry and fear to a minimum.

The fact is this type of woman is rare. Unfortunately most women live in
constant fear, worry, self-judgment, guilt and anxiety.

Further, when you base your actions with men off of fear-based emotions , you’re
bound to act in a way that predisposes you to lose attraction and love from men.

Living positively has to be learned… and it can be learned.

I’m going to share with you a secret that has taken me years to understand.

A woman filled with love in her heart, who sees dance, celebration and music
everywhere she goes is the most desirable quality a woman can posses to a
man.

Love is not weak…. it is PURE POWER.

What Men Find Irresistible Secret #12: Integrity

A woman who has real values and sticks up for herself is like a beacon of light to
a man.
Most women say one thing and do another. When you do this with a man, you will
lose his trust and respect… two very critical ingredients to being irresistible to a
man.

For instance many women will tell a friend they love them, and then talk
negatively about them behind their back to gain approval from other friends. I
have to sit down with them and get them thinking of what they stand for and
believe in… and drop the addiction to external approval.

Most women don’t understand why they feel so much insecurity and constant
worry in life.

It’s because they never develop a sense of integrity and the feeling of self-
respect and love that comes with it.

Most men don’t value women who don’t value themselves.

Integrity creates sanity. It’s one of the few things you come into the world with,
and its one of the easiest things to take for granted and sell to try to be
accepted by others.

It’s a delicate balance and you must understand how to balance it correctly.

Here’s a simple list I suggest you start with:

a. Your Health. Your mind, body and soul come FIRST. Without you there
is nothing elseso you must be kept in good shape and happy.

b. Love. Love is one of the highest values. Anything that is not love should not
be allowed.

c. Freedom. Never be a slave to anybody, even if you feel like you want to. You
are a freebeing, and men want to see this in you.

d. Pleasure. Most people put pleasure first. They abuse their bodies, weaken
their integrity and sell their soul to have it. Pleasure is always accompanied by
pain. There’s an endless roller-coaster of pleasure/pain when it becomes number
one. However, pleasure comes naturally when it comes after other more
important things… like having the “know how” to sustain a long LASTING
relationship (if you have my book, you know exactly what I’m talking about).

This is just the tip of the iceberg, and I’ve done my best to condense a lot of very
important information into one article.

There is much more you must understand if you’re to make a man find you
irresistible, feel emotional attraction, and want to be and stay in a relationship
with you. You also must know what to AVOID doing what makes men fall out of
love, lose attraction, shut down and even leave.

That’s why I created my free relationship advice eLetter, where I’ll share with
you my most powerful secrets about men and relationships.

Inside I’m going to teach you things like…

- The inside “secrets” of male psychology, and exactly how to get your man’s
unconditional love
- Why most women fail with love, and what you can do differently to succeed
where most women don’t
- Why men pull away or shut down in a relationship, and how to quickly spark his
connection back
- The subtle mistakes most women make with men that cause a relationship to
fail, and how to avoid them.

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