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PORTOFOLIO
2. They charm you personality. Etiquette and good manners beautify your
personality by enhancing your social skills and adding a surplus of charm.
For example, simple gestures such as offering your seat to an elderly or
disabled person will create a positive impression upon yourself.
3. They increase your confidence. Good manners make you a more pleasant
person to be around and will draw others towards you like a magnet.
Knowing how to behave will earn you positive feedbacks from your peers
and help build your confidence and self-esteem. Furthermore, for people
who master social skills, it is more presumptive to succeed professionally.
6. You have better control over your emotions. Your natural stance becomes
calmer every time you succeed to deal with uncomfortable situations. Thus,
figuring the solution to every problem is getting easier and in a controlled
manner.
Youth’s Ignorance towards Etiquette
Teaching children manners, in today’s fast-paced and technology-driven
world, is the most critical aspect of keeping etiquette alive. A parent’s
responsibility nowadays is to help their children gain social skills, showing them
how to interact using a courteous manner and teaching them the value of treating
others with respect. Regardless the opportunities, holiday gatherings or family
meals, good manners in children will become a habitual part of their lives, even
beyond childhood.
There are several studies that confirm the fact that children do not practise
basic manners. Here are some examples of honorable habits that are altered:
Greeting people properly. Good knowledge over etiquette means having eye
contact when saluting others or speaking to them, listening to their ideas and
responding to their questions.
Saying “thank you” and “please”. This is a truly sad fact to add on the list.
Many children today are rude even when someone serves them, at a
restaurant or similar setting, or when requesting an object or service, it
would not hurt to add one of the two phrases. Such simple acts are difficult
to be learnt unless they were taught when only a toddler.
As mentioned, it is regretful to say that such basics are on the edge of
extinction, but it is not too late for recovery as well. There are improvements
to be made which could lead to a harmonious growth. Good influences and
examples from parents are crucial, but two straightforward steps are to make
considerable changes:
First is to realize the importance of empathy. Focusing on others and
not only ourselves will determine you to see the ones who are in need of
help. Figure out how you can help the one who needs your help.
Second is to turn off the TV, limit the phone use and ignore all the
tomfooleries happening in other places. Open your eyes, look out, observe
the outside world and do not pay attention at the online drama anymore.
There is plenty to do in order to detoxify your brain.
Conclusions
To sum up, etiquette and manners have existed since first civilizations, but
late in the timeline people discovered its importance and since then they have
embraced it throughout our evolution. As a result, they have brought us more than
enough evolution. From the three latest centuries we have learned that the human
race has the capacity to create complex codes of recognition, so chaos would exist
no longer as much as it used to. For example, empathy, the greatest compound in
etiquette, has brought us the good we needed to overcome the bad.
After its peak, mass-media has spread in popularity and with the pleasing
pluses it has come, there was a detrimental minus, the speed with which the filthy
messages were increasing and from then on. There is a constant decrease in
etiquette’s value. As many elderly people mention, the world is getting gradually
expressive and even vulgar. Thus, this is the time when we need etiquette the most
for continuing our path to the goal of evolution. Our world is detaching itself from
social activity and the main thing which embraces it is etiquette. Therefore,
etiquette matters the most at the moment.
References
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https://www.polishedmanners.co.uk/why-do-we-need-etiquette/
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Etiquette