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How To Raise An
INTELLIGENT
CHILD
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Michelle Ang
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CONTENTS
05 Why Early
Math Matters
08 Can IQ Be Improved By
Doing Maths?
15 4 Things To Do At Home To
Enhance Your Child’s IQ
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Mother of 3 children P4 student
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Why Early
MATH MATTERS
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Can IQ Be Improved By
DOING MATHS?
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also been found between a child’s rela- steps to make learning math easier.
tional skills and IQ scores. Through math
practice, your child not only sharpens However, practice alone is not enough, and
their relational skills, they also sharpen practice with little understanding of the
their own learning process and capacity concepts can be ineffective. It is the brain
to learn. storming process; the understanding of
concepts, problem solving, critical thinking
Building up on intelligence and IQ and logical reasoning, on top of person-
A study by Stanford University School alised training and practice that deepens
of Medicine found that personalised-tu- and improves their understanding.
toring, coupled with arithmetic practice
helped children to remember better. The Are these processes fostered in your
findings also suggest that when children child? Are they engaged in dialogue and
are able to solve basic arithmetic problems encouraged to exercise problem solving,
from memory, their brain is more prepared critical thinking and logical reasoning?
to tackle more complex questions.
If your child has a low or average IQ score,
How can we ensure that our don’t be disheartened. It does not mean
children start off with the the scores will remain the same. It simply
right foundation? means there is potential for them to do
Find an approach that combines the ben- better.
efits of personalised training with the
discipline of self-learning and self-dis- IQ can be improved. All you need is to ex-
covery; an approach that is designed to ercise your brain. And early exposure to
introduce new concepts in incremental math can go a long way.
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Contrary to popular thinking, developing a words. For older children, introduce con-
child’s IQ is not about getting them to do cept stories to expand their vocabulary and
tons of IQ questions or assessment books. encourage imagination. This helps them to
Neither is it about improving their memory. have better grasp of more abstract con-
cepts.
It is the everyday activities of what parents
do and you say that matters. Here are 5 2 Play with Blocks To Improve
things you can do to improve your child’s Spatial Intelligence
intelligence. Puzzles, blocks, memory games, crafts, toys
figurines – these are tools every child should
1 Read To Improve Verbal and grow up with. Give your children ample time
Linguistic Intelligence and space to play with these tools when
Linguistic intelligence is the ability to pro- they are in preschool. Block and construc-
cess information using words and language. tion play is particularly important and ben-
eficial as it gives your child multiple learning
Compared to processing images or speech, opportunities.
reading is more challenging as parts of our
brain are making connections. When we When building structures or engaging in
read, we are also required to construct and block play, children discover spatial aware-
imagine. Reading not only helps to improve ness and develop their spatial intelligence.
language, which is necessary for communi- Spatial intelligence is the ability to imagine
cation and to get on with tasks of everyday pictures in your mind. When deciding how
life, it also keeps our mind sharp. to stack blocks, under, above or perpendic-
ular – children are engaged in using their
Starting to read early may not only help in spatial intelligence.
the growth of your child’s literacy, but it
may also benefit a wider range of cognitive Studies have shown that developing spatial
abilities that are crucial later in their life. skills support later learning in science, tech-
nology, engineer and math. Young children
Early start in reading is important in pre- who are better at visualising spatial rela-
dicting a lifetime of literacy experience. In a tionships have also been found to develop
study done by Professors Cunningham and stronger arithmetic abilities in primary
Stanovich, they found that students who school.
had a quick start in reading were more likely
to read more over the years. The results also
revealed that reading volume had a signif-
icant contribution to vocabulary, general
knowledge, verbal fluency and spelling. In
a nutshell, reading does make you smarter!
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5 Praise Their Efforts To Develop they found that students who were praised
A Growth-Mindset for their intelligence shied away from a chal-
Praise is most effective when it is focused lenging assignment far more than the stu-
on the process and commitment, not the dents who were praised for their process.
end result. Your child’s learning process and
effort should be the main emphasis of your How can you communicate a praise that
praise. encourages a “growth-mind set”? Instead
of praising them for their results, “Wow,
Carol Dweck, a Professor at Stanford you scored full marks, you’re so smart!”
University, came up with two views of in- say this instead, “I saw that you really put
telligence learners might have. One view in the time and effort to do your home-
is the “fixed-mind set” that has the belief work. I like the way you tried a lot of dif-
that intelligence is a fixed trait. The oth- ferent methods on that math question
er view is the “growth-mind set”, where until you finally got it. I’m really proud
process is focused rather than talent or that you stuck through it and didn’t give
intelligence. up!” It pays to be specific in your praise
as well. Real learning is active. Real learning
In a study she conducted, it was found that is emotional.
praise focused on intelligence encouraged a
fixed mind-set compared to students who Children need a good dose of encourage-
were praised for their process. When she ment to spur their learning. As a parent,
and her researchers asked a group of fifth you have a huge influence over your child’s
graders questions from a nonverbal IQ test, learning.
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Can we enhance our child’s IQ through picture books out there to read to your
a stimulating environment at home? preschoolers. Here are recommended
Research shows it is possible to create books for children aged 4 – 6.
a highly conducive environment for
cognitive and emotional growth. COUNTING
Ten Black Dots by Donald Crews. What
A child surrounded by books and can you do with ten black dots? This
educational toys will leave positive imprint counting book shows your child the
on their brain, which will follow through many unique ways that dots can make.
into their late teens.
12 Ways to Get to 11 by Eve Merriam.
Improving your child’s intelligence This book takes readers on a counting
requires organising and streamlining your adventure as they demonstrate twelve
child’s thought process to suit and match witty and imaginative ways to get to
a stimulating setting. eleven.
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Besides IQ:
IMPORTANT
QUALITIES EVERY
CHILD NEEDS
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Studies have shown that IQ results them to a car show. When you teach
can be a strong predictor of a child’s them how to count or spell, weave
future life outcomes, such as academic their favourite cars or trucks in. A
achievement, income and health. University of Chicago study found that
the common trait among exceptionally
Besides IQ, research also reveals other high-achieving athletes and artists was
factors involved in determining a child’s having parents who recognised their
success later in life. Here are two big interest and provided support during
qualities that will complement a child’s IQ. their early years.
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feelings, take risks, and make choices. As doing something, they feel embarrassed
parents, we wear many hats in this process. and tend to avoid these activities. Isn’t this
As an observer, we listen and watch. As a the same for adults too?
supporter, we accept and encourage. As a
facilitator, we assist and inspire. As a role The solution? Focus on effort and
model, we demonstrate and surprise. strategy. Praise children for their
effort. Remind them and point out their
2. Motivation progress of how they struggled initially
A study revealed effective studying and then succeed. You could say, “You
techniques and those who were self-driven used to have trouble with these kinds of
that had the most improved math skill. problems, but now you really get them!”
A simple sentence like this can empower
So how can parents help children build children to feel more capable.
internal motivation? According to
Edward Deci and Richard Ryan at the Next, equip them with study strategies
University of Rochester, addressing to address skills gaps. For instance,
these needs can help to build children’s if they always get a certain math sum
intrinsic motivation. wrong, find out what is the cause of the
mistake instead of quickly prescribing
• Competence them to more math practice. It could be
Being able to master a skill is extremely a misunderstanding of a certain concept
motivating. When children are bad at that they might need to relearn.
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If your child tends to make careless building your memory skills so you can learn
mistakes or jump in without reading the to remember more important things.”
instructions, show them how to circle or
underline key instructions. • Connection
A powerful source of motivation is
• Autonomy relationships. Children are motivated to do
When children feel that they are being things that bring them closer to parents or
restrained, their motivation is thrown out peers. When they are low in motivation, there
the window. We cannot offer children total could be underlying negative emotions. It
freedom, but we can minimise resistance could be feelings of being judged unfairly by
by offering choices. Don’t overwhelm them an adult, or having feelings being left out in
with too many alternatives. Keep your a social setting.
options to just two or three.
Having a role model can help children with
Sometimes, children don’t understand their motivation too. It can be parents, or a
the reason why they need to do certain beloved teacher. It could also be being part
things. Providing a rationale that makes of a team or a peer group that inspires them
sense and relates to their life might help. to try hard.
For instance, if your child laments the purpose It takes time and growth to muster intrinsic
behind learning “stuff” that he’s never going motivation, especially for mundane and
to use later in his life, you can reply, “It may tasks that are less fun. Always exercise
not seem relevant or important to you now, patience, reasonable expectations and
but it gives you a chance to practice skills shower children with encouragement. Who
that will be useful in your life in the future. For knows, your child might just surprise you
example, getting your work done on time, one day.
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