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Did Plato Nod? Some Conjectures On Egoism and Friendship in The Lysis
Did Plato Nod? Some Conjectures On Egoism and Friendship in The Lysis
Some Conjectures
on Egoism and Friendship in the Lysis
by Michael D. Roth (Lancaster)
doctrine are not difficult to ascertain. Among those who are prepared
to defend the claim that some positive theses regarding φιλία can be
justly ascribed to Socrates in the Lysis, the view which has, by far,
found the most favor is that Socrates, in the Lysis, is committed to a
blatantly egoistic conception of friendship whereby no person is ever
motivated either to enter into a friendship or to sustain a friendship3
unless the friendship is seen by that person to promote certain of her
own interests, regardless of whether that friendship promotes the inter-
ests of her friend. Those who are willing to ascribe such a view to
Socrates on the basis of what he says in the Lysis are often quick to
point out that this view can be contrasted, to Socrates9 great detriment,
with Aristotle's much admired and oft-quoted view in the Nicomachean
Ethics that a friend is someone who wishes good to his friend "for the
sake of his friend".4
In what follows I propose to challenge these two commonplaces, but
I do so without the normal (and, some would think, requisite) degree
of confidence which usually accompanies such challenges. My overall
reaction to the Lysis is one of honest perplexity. I do not have a satis-
factory answer to the question of why Plato makes it appear that
Socrates comes to the end of the discussion having retained no sincerely
from those of the latter half of the previous one, it could be plausibly argued
that the nineteenth century scholars were governed more rigidly by an attitude
of "strict constructionism" in matters of Platonic scholarship than those of the
present era. Every positive thesis regarding φίλος and φιλία in the Lysis is either
subsequently given an explicit denial or occurs within a context which impugns
the sincerity of Socrates* commitment to such a thesis. It is not difficult to see
how someone who took this aspect of the text seriously could conclude that the
Lysis was somewhat arid as a source of Socratic doctrine. Contemporary schol-
ars, on the other hand, acknowledge that there is a genuine problem of Socratic
irony or coyness which often does pose a challenge for uncovering Socrates' real
views but that this problem is not confined to any single dialogue. It is pervasive
throughout the so-called "early Socratic" dialogues and appears to be deliberate.
Thus unless one wants to address, specifically, the problem of why Plato so often
appears to hide Socrates' true meaning, one is free to read "between the lines" in
interpreting particular dialogues such as the Lysis where this sort of phenomenon
occurs. Uncovering such hidden doctrines becomes, on this account, a test of
one's scholarly acumen. I confess to having certain sympathies with the strict
constructionists but I do not intend to pursue their cause here. Since the scholars
whose views I confront below subscribe, without exception, to the contemporary,
more liberal scholarly attitude, I too will adopt that attitude for the purpose of
this essay.
3
By the phrase, "sustain a friendship" I mean to include the performance of acts
which one friend might expect of another friend because they are friends.
4
Aristotle, N. £, 1166a.
Among recent writers on the Lysis, the interpretation which has had
the widest readership as well as the greatest influence is that offered by
Gregory Vlastos. In his famous essay, "The Individual as the Object of
Love in Plato", Vlastos sets out to show that the text of the Lysis
commits Socrates to an egostic conception of love and friendship6, a
5
See n. 2 above and Lysis, 222E.
6 "The Individual as the Object of Love in Plato", Platonic Studies, 2nd ed.
Princeton, 1981 (hereafter "IOLP"), pp. 3-11.
10
N. E., 1156a. This similarity between Plato in the Lysis and Aristotle in the Nico-
machean Ethics is flatly denied by Julia Annas, op. cit., pp. 533 f. Annas claims
that Aristotle, in emphasizing the mutual aspect of friendship, is responding
directly to Plato's "rejection" of it in the Lysis. She bases her remarks on
212D-E which she concedes occurs as part of a series of paradoxes which are
point that while Plato does seem to be making a case for the mutuality
of friendship, it appears to be the sort of mutuality to be found in what
Aristotle calls, "friendships for utility"11, i.e., relationships in which
each of the parties uses the other solely to gain some advantage for
herself. I concede that, on the basis of the text which has been intro-
duced up to this point, this is a fair objection. Vlastos himself is well
aware that the passage, 21OB-D is open to just this possibility:
There is not a word here to imply that Lysis's father and mother love him when
he is "wise" because they see how beneficial it would be for Lysis if he were wise,
and that they wish this for him just because their loving him means wishing for
his own good for his own sake. What Socrates says of their love for the boy
would have been perfectly true even if they had happened to be arrant egoists
who wanted their son to be sensible and well-behaved only because of the trouble
this would spare them and the credit it would bring on them. So egoistic love is
not excluded though, so far, neither is it implied.12
There is devastating irony in the opening sentence of the above
quote. Had Vlastos given the text the sort of careful reading he was so
justly famous for holding his students to, he would have encountered
Socrates a few pages earlier, once again discussing Lysis' parents,
speaking as follows:
Soc. I suppose Lysis, your father and mother are exceedingly fond (σφόδρα
φιλεΐ) of you.
Lys: Yes [...].
Soc. Then (ούκουν) they wish (βούλοιντο) you to be as happy as possible (εύδαι-
μονέστατον είναι). . ;. ,
Lys: Yes.
Soc: [...] Then if your father and mother are fond of you and desire (έττιθυμοΟσι)
your happiness it is plain that they are anxious to secure your happiness.13
I submit that not only can Vlastos be properly faulted for overlook-
ing this piece of text14, but that this can hardly be viewed as a minor
"purely verbal" and "sophistic" and which she herself characterizes as "boring
and trivial". She then goes on to offer the proposal that such paradoxes "could
be cleared up quickly by paying attention to the various uses of φίλος in ordinary
Greek", and concludes that Plato's use of them is thus "irresponsible". Now
either Plato was fully alive to the "purely verbal" and "sophistic" nature of these
paradoxes when he introduced them into the Lysis or Annas is well-positioned
to give Plato lessons in "ordinary Greek". I leave it to the reader to judge which
disjunct is more likely to be true.
11
N.K, 1156a.
12 IOLP, p. 8.
13
Lysis, 207D-F.
14
It was my privilege and pleasure to be one of Vlastos' students a few years ago
in a summer long NEH seminar on Socrates. True to his character, Professor
Vlastos was quick to acknowledge the irony noted above. The phrase "properly
faulted" is borrowed from his comments.
parents and the σφοδρά φιλία they have for him was to draw our atten-
tion to a special kind of friendship - friendship in its fullest and most
realized form. To point to this normal state of parental love as a para-
digmatic instance of such friendship would, I suggest, be no less un-
common to Plato's Greek contemporaries than it is to contemporary
speakers of English.15 When we wish to indicate that someone outside
of our immediate family is related to us in this special sense of friend-
ship, the most commonly used phrases are variants of sentences such
as "he was like a son to me" or "he was my brother" etc. I will specu-
late that Lysis and Menexenus are introduced into the dialogue as ex-
amples of friends in this sense and this explains why Socrates tells them
that neither is wealthier than the other since "friends are said to have
everything in common" (207C). Moreover, it is tempting to suppose
that it is friends in just this sense for which Socrates expresses such a
passionate longing at 21 IE, a longing which surpasses in intensity even
his desire for "all of Darius'gold".
I submit then that there is ample evidence in the.Lysis that Plato
was well aware of this paradigmatic notion of friendship and that it
was a type of friendship which was to be distinguished from the sorts of
relationships that one might have with colleagues, co-workers, drinking
companions, neighbors, sorority sisters etc. If we are willing to grant
that these are not unfounded conjectures, then there should be little
difficulty in accommodating Socrates' remark that not only will Lysis'
parents not love him unless he is useful, but that no one will have φιλία
for anyone who is not useful. If, as I have speculated, Plato is thinking
primarily of this strong sense of φιλία, then the requirement of useful-
ness amounts to nothing more than a commonplace about friendship
of this kind. A friend in this sense is someone we "can count on", one
who will "be there for us" and who we would "trust with our lives".
Of course, what we expect of such people is rooted in the conviction
that they expect, with good reason, the same of us. Such relationships
can be either sustained or broken depending on how well the patients
live up to each other's expectations. While the occurrence of the cir-
cumstances which call for the expected responses may be accidental,
the expectations themselves are not. They are conceptually connected
to the notion that the other party is one's friend in the relevant sense.
I propose to call people who are such friends, "σφοδροί φίλοι", and I
will stipulate that with respect to such friends the following very strong
condition holds: necessarily, if χ and y are σφοδροί φίλοι, then χ and y
15
Such a paradigm certainly occurred to Aristotle; c. f. N. E., 1166a5.
16
Plato explicitly draws this inference at 215A-C. See below.
your friends? Most people will never believe that it was you who refused to leave
this place although we tried our hardest to persuade you.
SOCRATES: But my dear Crito, why should we pay so much attention to what
'most people' think? The really reasonable people, who have more claim to be
considered, will believe that the facts are exactly as they are, (Crito, 44B-C)
I read this passage on the reasonable supposition that Crito has σφο-
δρά φιλία for Socrates and that his appeal to what his fellow Athenians
will think of him is predicated on his awareness and acceptance of their
beliefs about this kind of friendship. It should be noted that Socrates
does not dispute Crito's claims about the obligations of such friendship,
but only that the many will be wrong in thinking he has failed to
discharge those obligations.
777
Given the argument set out above, I submit that it is not implausible to conjecture
that Plato was aware of the, type of frienship that obtained between σφοδροί φίλοι.
But given the text of the Lysis., it is equally fair to claim that Plato was also well
aware that such words as 'φίλος' and 'φιλία' could be used to refer to instances of
relationships which were clearly not cases of σφοδρά φιλία. In such instances the
meaning of these terms had shifted to the extent that the type of relationship in-
stanced by σφοδροί φίλοι could no longer stand as a paradigm without gross inaccu-
racy. It is a common complaint about the Lysis that Plato keeps introducing these
different and incompatible uses of 'φίλος' without any acknowledgement on the part
of any of the characters in the dialogue, including Socrates, that such a shift of
meaning has occurred.17 The complaint is justified and I have no ingenious explana-
tion to offer as to why Plato chose to do this, although the literature does not lack
for such explanations.18
17
See, for example, Guthrie, op. cit., pp. 136 f., 143; Annas, op. cit., p. 551; Price,
op. cit., p. 34.
18
Guthrie, op. cit., gives a brief overview of such explanations, chief among which
are that Plato is satirizing the methods of some of the leading sophists of the
day or that Plato is showing his contempt for the intellectual pretensions of the
Athenian society which had sentenced Socrates to die. Guthrie complains with
regard to the former explanation that it seems unfair for Plato to vent his wrath
on two admiring and unsuspecting schoolboys and in the process make Socrates
appear to be an ogre. But it is possible that both explanations have a role to
• play here. Plato's point may have been that the capacity for understanding of
most of the Athenian "intelligentsia" i. e., those who most admired the Sophists,
was equal to but not beyond that of Lysis and Menexenus. At any rate, it is
strange to find Guthrie making the philosophical worth of the dialogue depend,
even in part, on the "niceness" of its main character. See Guthrie, pp. 143 f.
19
IOLP, p. 8. Vlastos' examples are drawn from the passage under discussion,
except for the sick person's' love for the doctor. For this pair Vlastos chooses to
cite its occurrence at 218E rather than the source of all his other examples, even
though the sick/doctor pair is to be found with the others at 215D. I am at a
loss to understand Vlastos' motives here.
2° At 215E Socrates unidentified "speaker", the proposer of this theory, goes on to
claim that everything desires (έπιθυμεϊν) its opposite, where "everything" is
gious and its presence so intrusive that to suppose that Plato was unaware of it
simply defies credulity. 21
But even if there were not this damaging evidence within the passage itself can
we take seriously the implication, inherent in Vlastos' remarks quoted above, that
Plato could have held the view that what the poor felt for the rich was anything
even remotely like what Lysis' parents felt for him? Is it conceivable that in citing
these two disparate examples of φιλία Plato believed himself to be illustrating dif-
ferent but compatible aspects of one and the same thing? It is worth recalling that
when Plato cited Lysis' parents feelings toward their son as an instance of σφοδρά
φιλία it followed from their φιλία that they desired his happiness. Would the same
thing follow if we increased the strength of the φιλία the poor must feel towards the
rich? One consideration which tells heavily against such an idea is the fact that in
English we have preserved the same sense of "friend" and "friendly" that Plato was
clearly trying to capture in his pairs of opposites. I suspect, or, once again, to speak
more accurately, I offer as a plausible conjecture that when Plato has Socrates tell
us that the poor "must be" friendly to the rich he does not mean only that poor
hold "dear" something that the rich possess, but that the poor are prepared to be-
have toward the rich in certain ways in order to improve their prospects of getting
what they want. But this is exactly the sense of "friend" from which advertising
agencies become exceedingly rich. When we are in need of a loan and money is dear
to us, the prospect of our making payments at a substantial rate of interest becomes,
in turn, dear to our banker. In such circumstances, it is supposedly comforting to
know that we can talk to someone at the "Friendly First". The state in which I am
presently writing this paper beckons potential visitors (and their credit cards) by
declaring that they have a "friend in Pennsylvania" and while others may be content
to find themselves in good hands at Allstate, we, fortunately, have yet another
"friend at State Farm". Now when speakers of English hear such claims being made,
they understand perfectly well the sense in which "friend" and "friendly" are being
used and are not prone to the sort of confusion which would lead them to ask their
insurance agent to look after their children while they vacation in Hawaii. I submit
that when Socrates is made to introduce this very sense of the term "friend" into
the Lysis, it would be as absurd to suppose that he failed to be aware of the differ-
ences between this sense and the σφοδρός φίλος sense as it would be to suppose it of
ourselves. Thus, I want to claim that the case for interpreting the passage 215C—
216A as one which begs for a subtle rather than a literal reading is, at a minimum,
as strong as its converse.
clearly meant to include such opposed pairs as rich and poor and weak and
strong. Even those who find Plato to be a writer whose capacity for subtlety
knows no bounds might be daunted by the prospect of explaining in what sense
Plato could have thought that the rich "desire" the poor.
21
It is worth noting that the argument embodied in the passage 215C—216A is
immediately followed by a passage in which the thesis that all and only opposites
are friends is described as "άλλόκοτον" whose main meaning seems to be 'absurd'
and which Lamb chooses to translate as 'monstrous'. Why Vlastos consistently
ignores such disclaimers is puzzling.
IV
But the passage which Vlastos puts the most weight on, the one which, in his
mind, commits Socrates "unmistakably" to egoism occurs at 215B where Socrates
says: .;' . .
And if a man has no need (δεόμενο$) of anything he will not cherish (άγαπώτ))
anything [...] and that which does not cherish will not love (φίλον) [...] and one
who loves not is no friend (φίλο$).
Of this passage, Vlastos writes:
The lover Socrates has in view is positively incapable of loving others for their
own sake, else why must he feel no affection for anyone whose good-producing
qualities he did not happen to need?22
What lover does Socrates have in view here? Does Vlastos believe that Socrates
is singling out some special class of human beings who had either previously been
or were at the time walking about on the face of the earth? If this were so and we
asked Socrates to characterize that special class of human beings he would have no
choice but to reply that they were those human beings who have no need of anything.
Surely it is not ill-founded to conjecture that Socrates is perfectly aware that there
never have been and never will be such human beings, and that the proper conclu-
sion to be drawn from 21,5B is that the capacity to express φιλία is available only to
those beings who have needs, wants and desires. A being who is so self-sufficient as
to need nothing is not even a possible candidate for expressing φιλία, for such a being
is beyond human capability. Thus, in characterizing a being as one who is in need
of nothing Socrates is not merely describing someone who is "incapable of loving
others for their own sake", he is describing someone who is incapable of loving-
period. Does this commit Socrates to the view that human beings lack the emotional
and psychological wherewithal to "wish another person's good for that person's
sake"? If so, then Vlastos must forfeit his claim that Aristotle provides a "standard
against which to measure Plato's concept of love".23 At the very outset of his discus-
sion of friendship in the Nicomachean Ethics, Aristotle declares that every human
being needs friends in order to live a good live.24 One immediately consequence of
this declaration is that all human beings have at least one need and are thus excluded
from the category of "those who are in need of nothing". But if Aristotle can extend
the concept of φιλία to include beings who have needs, and at the same time make
it a requirement of φιλία that the φίλοι wish each well for the other's sake, then why
can't Socrates? Moreover, both in the Ethics and the Metaphysics, Aristotle appears
to have quite definite views about a being whose perfect self-sufficiency frees it from
22 IOLP, ρ. 8.
23 IOLP, p. 6.
24 N.E., 1155al.
all needs, wants and desires. Such a being would be divine, says Aristotle, and its
sole activity would be θεωρία. As such, it has no need of the many virtues which are
a prerequisite for φιλία.25 Thus, from the fact that Socrates excludes those who are
in need of nothing from participation in φιλία, it does not follow that those who are
able to participate in it must do so from an "egoistic perspective".26
Not only does such a conclusion not follow, but if we examine closely the context
surrounding the alleged "smoking gun" passage contained in 215B, we find Socrates
committed to claims which have a markedly non-egoistic character. If we expand
the passage cited by Vlastos to include the lines both immediately preceding and
immediately succeeding it, we find that Socrates' claims all of the following:
»
(a) If χ and y cherish each other (άγαπηθείη) then they help each other when in
need (έττικουρίαν, 215A1 — 2).
(b) If χ is a friend (φίλο$), then χ is cherished (215A3 — 4).
(c) If χ expresses φιλία then χ cherishes (215B3).
(d) If χ is a friend then χ expresses φιλία (215Β4).
(e) If χ and y are friends then they set a high value on each other (περί πολλού
ποιούμενοι έαυτού$, 215C). · ,
25
Ν. Κ, 1178b8ff., Met. XII, 7-10. See also Professor Irwin's instructive com-
ments in the Glossary which he provides for his translation of Ν.-Έ.' (Hackett,
1985), pp. 405 f.
26
The temptation to think otherwise is rooted, I suspect, in the failure to place
proper constraints on the notion of egoism. There is a doctrine which I believe
both Socrates and Aristotle would endorse and which says, in effect, that one's
own happiness is the ultimate goal of all of one's rational acts. Let us call such
a doctrine, "eudaimonism". Thus, for the eudaimonist, the penultimate step in
any successful attempt to provide a complete, rational justification for a particu-
lar act would take the form "Because I wanted X". And in response to the
question "Why did you want X?" the eudaimonist would reply "Because X
makes me happy" — supposedly rendering any further demand for justification
pointless. It is worth noting that eudaimonism, as I have presented it here, is
not constrained by any sort of principle of 'eudamonistic closure'. If I do X
because X makes me happy and I do Y because Y makes it possible that X, it
does not follow that I do Y because Y makes me happy. Thus, I may go fishing
because fishing makes me happy and I may dig worms because digging worms
makes it possible for me to go fishing. But it is no the case that I dig worms
because digging them makes me happy. Now given this account of eudaimonism,
it is perfectly plain (at least to me) that in order to be an eudaimonist one need
not be an egoist. Whether or not one were an egoist would depend entirely on
what sort of things make one happy. If Mother Teresa justifies her efforts to
relieve the suffering of the helpless poor in Calcutta on the grounds that such
efforts make her happy, surely it would be grotesque to accuse her, on those
grounds, of egoism. If, on the other hand, one were to argue it is not even
possible to separate the two since eudaimonism just is a species of egoism as a
matter of definition, then egoism ceases to be a moral theory worthy of philo-
sophical interest. If Mother Teresa's appeal to her own happiness is itself suffi-
cient to commit her to egoism then that is an unfortunate consequence not for
Now if we draw the obvious inference from (c) and (d) and conjoin it to (b), we
discover that Socrates is committed to the claim that in order to qualify as a φίλο$
one must both cherish and be cherished. I am, once again, prepared to offer a conjec-
ture on what is not definitely nailed down in the text - namely that to satisfy the
requirement of being a φίλος the one cherishing must cherish the one she is cherished
by. The alternative would be absurd. It would allow for the possibility that one could
still satisfy all the requirements of friendship even if one cherished only wine and
was cherished only by one's mother, (a) and (e) make it plain enough that this is not
what Socrates has in mind. Furthermore, I believe it is plausible to hold that when
we are told in (a) that if the people cherish each other, then they provide help for
each other when in need, the prospect of help is not the cause of the cherishing, but a
logical consequence of it. In other words, they do not cherish each other because they
provide needed assistance for each other but, rather, they provide such assistance be-
cause they cherish one another. One possible motivation for interpreting (a) in this way
is by understanding (e) in the charitable but not improbable sense that friends set a
high value on each other, as opposed to each other's gold or skills or social status etc.
It is significant that Socrates is not made to argue for any of the claims (a)—(e). He
appeals to them as though they were commonly shared intuitions which would be im-
mediately accepted by any Athenian citizen fluent in his native language.
Assuming the foregoing speculations all have the plausibility I have claimed for
them, it can be argued that from 207D through 215C Socrates proposes the
following theses regarding φιλία: (1) If χ has σφοδρά φιλία for y then χ desires y's
happiness. (2) If χ & y are (σφοδροί) φίλοι, then χ & y provide mutual benefit to each
other. (3) If χ is a (σφοδρός) φίλος then χ both cherishes y and is cherished by y. (4)
If χ & y are (σφοδροί) φίλοι then they have high regard for each other's person. If
we could somehow put different theories of friendship on the altruism scale and
measure (1)—(4) against Aristotle's "wishing each other well for the other's sake",
those who would contend that Aristotle's theory will have a higher weight must
sustain that belief in the hope that the scale is calibrated to register the most exquisite
discriminations.
Mother Teresa but for the doctrine of egoism. Thus, for the purposes of this
essay, we shall understand an egoist to be someone who could never terminate
a complete, rational justification for some act by truthfully stating that helping
others makes her happy.
27
IOLP, pp. 10 f. I take Vlastor's supposition that another person might be the
ττρώτον φίλον to be purely rhetorical since he is already committed himself to
an egoistic interpretation of Socratic φιλία as it applies to persons.
28
IOLP, p. 26. For two different readings of the πρώτον φίλον passage, both of
which also commit Socrates to egoism, see T. Irwin, Plato's'MoralTheory^ (Ox-
ford, 1977), p. 84, and A. W. Price, op. cit., p. 8.
29
Guthrie, op. cit., pp. 151 f.
30
Annas, op. cit., pp. 534—538.
to do at this point is to set beside these other views still another specu-
lative account which will make the passage conform to the rather chari-
table readings I have offered of previous passages.
Once again, I adopt the strategem of interpreting the passage by
considering the context into which it is introduced. At 216D Socrates
proposes a new thesis about friendship at least one aspect of which
appears to have gone unnoticed in the literature. He introduces this
thesis by claiming it as his own and does not assign its authorship to
either some poet or some unspecified source. Such a claim takes on
added significance when we realize that this is the only place in the
dialogue where Socrates does this.31 The thesis is that what is neither
good nor bad in itself is a φίλος to what is instrumental to it in attaining
some desired good and avoiding some corresponding evil (216Dff.).
The example Socrates uses to illustrate this thesis is the familiar one of
the body's relation to health. The body, which is neither good nor bad
in itself, is a φίλος to medicine for the sake of attaining health and
avoiding disease (217A). I am inclined to interject a reminder at this
point that Socrates is using φίλος here in the same sense in which the
poor man was a φίλος to the rich. This is surely not the same sense of
φιλία which is exemplified by Lysis' parents feelings towards their son
and I suggest that it is as unlikely to suppose that Socrates is unaware
of the difference in this latter case as it was in the former.
Socrates then proceeds to use the example of the body's relation to
health to generalize: "Hence the friend is a friend of. its friend for the
sake of its friend and because of its foe" (217B). Thus the body is a
friend of medicine for the sake of health because of disease. I find this
illustration of the general formula for φιλία to be highly suggestive. At
two places in the text (218B-C and 220C) Socrates draws our attention
to the fact that like the body, the soul is to be counted among those
things that are neither good nor bad in themselves. He then points out
that just as disease in the body is cured by medicine, so is ignorance in
the soul cured by wisdom (218A-B). The suggestion of analogy ap-
pears to be deliberate and Socrates has filled in for us three of the four
terms in his general formula for φιλία. The soul is a friend of wisdom
for the sake of χ because of ignorance. Socrates is never made to say
explicitly what χ is but it would clearly be that which is to the soul
31
"Then I will be a diviner for once (λέγω τοίνυν άττομαντευόμενος) and state that
what is neither good nor bad is friendly to what is beautiful and good" (Lysis,
216D).
32
It is a view which seems perfectly compatible with the one Vlastos himself
ascribes to Socrates in his recent assay "Happiness and Virtue in Socrates' Moral
Theory" (Proceedings of the Cambridge Philological Society, 1984), pp. 181-213.
33
Ν. Ε., 1156b7, see also 1165bl3ff. While there is danger in citing anything from
the chaotic final section of the Lysis (220C-223B), it is a fact that the very last
point that Socrates has to make about friendship in the dialogue is that "we
34
cannot avoid making the good only a friend to the good" (222D).
Ν. Κ, 1155al4, 1155a29. But it is a point worth repeating that if Aristotle would
insist that the virtuous friend is required to wish good things to her friend for
her friend's sake, then there is no reason not to suppose that Socrates would
too.
35
Gregory Vlastos, Richard Kraut and Robert Heinaman all commented on an
earlier draft of this paper. I am grateful to each of them for suggestions which
improved the argument of the paper considerably.