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Elisabeth Kübler
Elisabeth Kübler
On Grief and Grieving: the life lived. (page 216) feel (page 115) and
Finding the Meaning of Kessler, in the book's preface The dying ultimately must accept
written after Kubler-Ross' death, that their lives are now complete
Grief through the Five also discusses his grief process in just as they are. (page 158)
Stages of Loss coming to terms with Kubler-
David Kessler and Elisabeth Ross' dying and death. Titled "I Chapter 4 deals with "specific
Kubler-Ross; Scribner, 2005; am Done," Kessler recounts when circumstances" such as how chil-
ISBBN 0743266285 he and Kubler-Ross finished work dren grieve, dealing with grief
on this project. "Am I done then?" during a disaster and coping with
"You don't ever bring the grief Kubler-Ross asked. Kessler the suicide of a loved one. For
over a loved one to a close." So state remembers Kubler-Ross stating, anyone trying to make sense of
authors David Kessler and Elisa- Listen to the dying. They will tell the senseless, such as the death of
beth Kubler-Ross in the beautifully you everythingyou need to know a loved one during a crime or dis-
written book On Griefand Griev- about when they are dying. And it aster, this is the chapter to read.
ing: Finding the Meaning of Grief is easy to miss. (page xv) Kubler-Ross contributed im-
through the Five States ofLoss. The mensely to the public's under-
book is a follow-up to the original In addition to their accounts standing of how we die, how we
Kubler-Ross book Death and about grief and grieving, Kessler prepare ourselves for death but,
Dying as well as the collaborative and Kubler-Ross ably tackle grief, ultimately, how we live. This
efforts of Kubler-Ross and Kessler grieving and the myriad ways posthumous publication is a trib-
entitled Life Lessons. people deal with loss. The book is ute to an individual that has left an
This book looks at Kubler- divided into seven chapters: indelible legacy on the grief and
Ross' five stages of death and grieving landscape.
dying through the lens ofthe grief 1. "The Five Stages of Grief"
process. The book is particularly 2. "The Inner World ofGrief" Reviewed by
poignant because Kubler-Ross 3. "The Outer World of Grief" Heather Butts, JD, MPH
died soon after the completion of 4. "Specific Circumstances" hmbutts@aol.com
this book in August 2004. To the 5. "The Changing Face of Grief"
extent that Kubler-Ross, who had 6. "Elisabeth Kubler-Ross: My
battled a debilitating illness for Own Grief" Understanding Health
more than nine years, is able to dis- 7. "David Kessler: My Own Grief"
cuss her own personal acceptance Literacy: Implications for
of dying, the reader is offered a rare There are a plethora of gems in Medicine and Public Health
insight into the five stages from its this book, but in addition to the Edited by Joanne G.
creator. Chapter 6 ofthe book, enti- chapters already cited, of particular Schwartzberg, MD; Jonathan
tled "Elisabeth Kubler-Ross: My note are chapters 3 and 4 in the B. VanGeest, PhD; and Claire
Own Grief," and written on July 17, wake ofboth the Tsunami disaster C. Wang, MD; AMA Press, 2005
2004, is Kubler-Ross' account of and the 9/11 tragedy (both refer-
being partially paralyzed following enced in the book). How individu- This useful volume is written
a stroke. In an extremely moving als cope after major, sudden for physicians and other health-
account, Kubler-Ross examined tragedies has become ofgreat inter- care professionals. It is organized
personal loss that she had experi- est to the public. into four sections, and the chapter
enced, loved ones she had lost and This book delivers with true authors do their best to integrate
how she survived. She ends her insight into coping after a sudden their subject matter into the theme
chapter with the profound words: loss. Chapter 3-"The Outer World of each section. Their major
of Grief," deals with topics such as achievement, however, seems to
I now know that the purpose of anniversary, holidays and finances. be that each chapter is in fact a
my life is more than these stages. The chapter is peppered with self-contained research paper,
I have been married, had kids, insight such as: with all the references listed at the
then grandkids, written books, end of the chapter, instead of at
and traveled. I have loved and Mourning is the externalpart of the end ofthe book.
lost and I am so much more than loss. It is the actions we take, the As I thumbed through the con-
five stages. And so are you. It is rituals and the customs. Griefis tent, I noticed that the authors
notjust about the life lost but also the internalpart ofloss, how we were concerned about first creat-
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