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Objections are what stands between you and the girl going back to your place. The difference between
intermediate to advanced skills is the ability to deal with objections. The better you get at helping girls
deal with issues and concerns that might surface during the interaction, the more girls you’ll pull home
and develop deeper connections with.

There are a few common objections that you will encounter. Later in this chapter, we will show how to
deal with each one.

Friends
The most common form of objection in the club is friend related. Women have all decided to go out and
spend time together and might feel guilty for leaving their friends, or fear the ridicule for making such a
decision. Slut-shaming is also common, and we will discuss how to deal with this concern in the Limiting
Beliefs chapter.

Girl: “I can’t leave my friends.”

Girl: “I can’t, I’m going back to my friend’s house / “They are coming back with
me.”

Girl: “We came together, so we have to leave together.”

Location

Girl: “You live too far away.”

Girl: “I live too far away.”

Girl: “I won’t be able to get home.”

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Time

Girl: “I have to be up early in the morning.”

Attainability

Girl: “Do you do this with every girl?”

Girl: “Why me?”

Boyfriend

Girl: “I can’t, I have a boyfriend.”

Period

Girl: “I can’t. I’m on my period.”

Shaved

Girl: “I haven’t prepared.”

Girl: “I haven’t shaved.”

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Safety
These concerns are most often token, but at times they can be real. Especially for women that have had
negative experiences previously.

Girl: “How do I know you’re not a serial killer.”

Girl: “You might kidnap me.”

Girl: “How do I know you won’t rape me?”

Undiagnosed
Undiagnosed objections are ambiguous and do not give you the exact reason as to why she doesn’t want
to go home with you.

Girl: “I shouldn’t go back with you.”

Girl: “Let’s just meet again another day.”

Girl: “Not tonight.”

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