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Anger Management
Anger Management
Krodh Maya
Maan Lobha
The four categories above are the main reasons for rebirth, and
Dasveaaliyam also talks about these reasons:
The four Kashaayas, or bad emotions, that keep the cycle of rebirth going
are uncontrolled anger, pride, lying more and more, and greed.
Around these four Kashaayas, all faiths revolve. They contribute to the
concept of Samsaara (the world) and the production of such works of
literature as the Aacharshaastra and the Mokshashastra (literature
concerning codes of conduct and emancipation). Anger is the most
obvious of these four emotions that we experience. Let us talk about
anger.
Anger is present in every human being. There are four anger states.
1.Aabogh Nivartit
2.Anaabogh Nivartit
3.Upshaant
4.Anupshaant
Intentional anger is known as Aabogh Nivartit.
The term "anabogh nivartit" is used to denote uncontrolled rage.
Upshaant is the state in which fury is neutralized, pacified, and elevated.
Anupshaant is the name of the fourth state when anger is active.
No one can eternally remain in a condition of fury. One cannot be furious each
and every instant, hour, and day! It is transitory. Why is this occurring? It detects a
stimulus and becomes active. Rage vanishes the moment that trigger is removed.
Both internal and external factors have an impact on the origins, effects, and
stimulation of anger.
Some do become enraged, but they quickly cool down. You genuflect
before them. and their rage of the greatest kind would vanish. These
individuals are of the highest caliber.
The third category of individuals remains furious throughout the day and
night.
The lowest class is made up of people who can never let go of their anger.
According to the Jain philosophy of Karma, there are four types of passion
(Kashaaya):
Anantaanubandhi
Apratyaakhyaana
Pratyaakhyaana
Sanjavalan
2. Aptyaakhyaana Krodh is like a scratch on a dry pond that stays there until
it rains, floods, or a river fills it. This form of rage is readily eliminated.
3. The third sort of rage, known as Pratyaakhyaana, resembles a line drawn in
the sand. It lingers for a little while, then dissipates with the breeze.
A conversation took place between two married ladies who were friends.
Do you ever become furious with yourself?
friend: "I get irritated with myself sometimes."
1" close friend: May I ask why?
Occasionally, excessive intelligence may also be the cause of this form of
wrath.There are several other internal causes for this fury. The second sort of
anger, par-pratishthit anger, is triggered by external events.
Therefore, as soon as a person is mistreated, insulted,
has his ego damaged, or has his assets taken, he becomes
furious. Someone else is held accountable for this rage.
When anger is provoked, our brain turns innocent, blind,
intelligent, or crafty, according to an ancient tale.
A guru had two obedient disciples. Both parties desired to
provide their services to Guru. They frequently engaged
in competitive arguments while serving the Guru.
Without giving the other an opportunity, they desired to serve separately. Guru
devised a remedy after often observing similar confrontations.
He called both of his followers and said, "You are both equally obedient and
devoted to me." I desire that each of you serve me. Consequently, I will assign the
left side of my body to one of you and the right side to the other for massage, and
you may service the allocated area. Both disciples were pleased with this impartial
resolution.
Our body is divided into two halves, including the left and right halves of the brain,
hands, legs, etc. Despite being an integral part of the human body, the left and
right sides each have their own lives and personalities.
The Guru had judiciously and kindly assigned the chores to his two followers. Both
parties accepted the provided approach and began caring for the allocated half.
While delivering a massage one day, the guru fell asleep. It is normal for a person to
fall asleep during a massage since the body is in a state of full relaxation. While the
Guru slept, he twisted his body so that his right leg rested on top of his left. As soon
as this occurred, the disciple assigned to the left side of the body seized his
master's walking stick and smashed the left leg.
Guru began to scream in anguish. The disciple said,
"Why can't the other disciple take care of the portion that has
been assigned to him (based on the division)?"
I do not know if the Guru wept or laughed in response
to this circumstance.
As soon as one leg was put on top of the other, the disciple
became angry because it was against what they had agreed
to and it was getting in the way. The pupil was so incensed that
he was oblivious to the fact that the limb belonged to his revered Guru. When
confronted with any type of separation, the mind begins to operate differently.
For example, there is no issue until the brothers are reunited. But when the
property, assets, and cash are divided between them, their minds, consciences, and
capacities for comprehension are also divided. Even if the brother's children enter
the land, a fight ensues. When there are divisions or distinctions, encroachment from
others must be accepted.
This is rage that is provoked or fuelled by an external issue or other individuals. A
normally tranquil individual can lose his composure in an instant when confronted
with such external forces. Others' actions might cause him to lose his tranquilly.
This wrath caused by the actions of others is referred to as Par-Pratishthit fury.
Ubhay Pratishthit Anger is the third type of anger, which is generated
by both the self and others.There are, for instance, two partners. Due
to one party's deception of the other, a dispute develops between the
two parties. Now, the other person is furious with the cheater
and with himself for picking such a poor spouse.
The cheater conducts a scandal without the
opposing party's knowledge and quits the firm
with aplomb. The fraud compelled the innocent partner to repay the
fraudulently produced debt. In such a circumstance, a person may not
only get furious but also depressed.
Similarly, many other circumstances, such as
insulting, accusing, arguing, etc., can contribute to this type of anger
in which both oneself and others are the cause.
The fourth sort of fury is known as Apratishthit rage. The individual
becomes enraged regardless of the lack of any external stimuli.
A woman once sold a brilliant stone for Rs 5 to the owner of a small
store. He kept it at the shop with the intent of reselling it for Rs. 15–20.
One day, a jeweller entered his business. This stone attracted his
attention, and he decided to purchase it. The jeweller offered Rs 20 in
exchange for the vendor's asking price of Rs 25; nevertheless, the
vendor refused to budge. The purchaser believed that if he pretended
not to purchase the stone, the shopkeeper would drop the price.
However, this did not occur, and the jeweller left.
When a professional jeweller inquired about the same stone, the seller
increased the price to Rs 50.The customer was ecstatic and instantly
purchased the gem since he realised it was a genuine diamond valued
at around 5 lakh rupees.
The gullible vendor was overjoyed with his Rs 45 profit.When the
former jeweller returned to his shop, he discovered that the gemstone
had only been sold for Rs 50.
He told the vendor. "Oh, you silly man!" You received fifty rupees in
exchange for a valuable diamond worth five lakhs.How could I be so
dumb, sir, when I was unaware of its true value? In fact, I made Rs. 45.
What should I believe about you? "Despite your certainty, you missed
out on purchasing the valuable diamond for a lower price."
The poor jeweller was filled with remorse and rage because he had
missed out on a great chance. This form of rage is neither caused by
one's own faults or ideas nor by the actions, attitudes, or words of
others.