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Autoregulation - Mental Health Article - April 2024
Autoregulation - Mental Health Article - April 2024
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In this way, our children will learn to identify their feelings, regulate them, regain a state of
calmness, gain clarity about their situation, and make better decisions. All of this benefits their
interpersonal relationships but also increases their productivity, academic performance, and
What is the window of tolerance and what does it mean to be emotionally regulated?
appropriately to demands, we are emotionally regulated. The limits within which we regulate
emotions, socialize, and adapt are called the "window of tolerance" according to Siegel
(1999). Being regulated allows us to be functional despite daily stressors. For example, a
person may feel stressed about pending work, but anticipating the risk of not completing it
drives them to finish it. Stress was not a comfortable emotion, but we tolerated it and it served
Conversely, being "outside our window of tolerance" alters our autonomic nervous system to
polarized alarm states. That is, when we are very altered, we can remain in one of these
states: hyperactive (very excited or ready to fight or flee) or hypoactive (slow, disconnected,
Physiological alarm reactions overwhelm us and interfere with our ways of thinking and
response, such as when a student "freezes" during an exam even though they have studied.
On the other hand, hyperactivation can generate an excessive energy response to prepare
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the person to "flee" or "defend" themselves. If we notice, anxious, angry, or impulsive
According to the polyvagal theory (Porges, 2003), the brain, when perceiving a threat,
activates its primitive defenses to survive but inhibits the prefrontal lobe, which helps us
manage impulses, plan, and make decisions. Your autonomic nervous system prepares you
to face a threat, like when primitive man faces a tiger, changing the energy level to respond
by freezing, fleeing, or defending. The brain can act immediately to stressors as if life were
experience. Thus, some are triggered by an exam, others by speaking in public, or by more
subtle stimuli such as an odor, tone of voice, etc. Being regulated is the key to integrating
different parts of the brain quickly and being effective in problem-solving. This is achieved in
different ways, by reducing or increasing energy, depending on their activation states. So, the
goal will be to expand the window of tolerance so that they can regulate more easily.
connection by hugging your child, speaking sweetly, can help them feel secure. Just as
safety and connection from others to regulate itself; this is called "coregulation"
and sensory stimulation can awaken the nervous system. In this sense, you can walk
and increase the pace of your steps or play jump rope and increase speed... Use
smells, colors, flavors, etc. An excellent example is using ice and massaging your face
● Breathing and relaxation. Deep breathing and abdominal breathing (filling your
stomach until it feels fully expanded, holding a bit, and releasing the air) can help
increase alertness.
● Provide a space to relax. You can have a relaxation corner at home where you feel
comfortable calming down when overwhelmed. It can have a cushion, a blanket, a toy,
etc.
● Vigorous exercise. Running, jumping rope, playing basketball, can help channel
energy. After releasing excess energy, you can decrease the intensity, take more
● Mindfulness. Exercises that lead people to focus on the here and now, by focusing
their attention on the sensations around them and noticing them carefully, can help
● Act with empathy rather than impulsivity. Try to understand their version before
● Cultivate a growth mindset in which your child understands that mistakes, conflicts and
Remember to build memories. As a parent, you play a role in helping your child make sense
of their experiences and how they integrate them as memories that can help their emotional
well-being.
through the window of tolerance provides an ideal framework for developing self-awareness,
self-regulation, and coregulation. Now we know how to make better use of strategies,
depending on the dysregulated state, and how to develop confidence and emotional security
in our children by using the window of tolerance. We encourage you to follow the guidelines
that help you guide your children on how to regulate emotions, have meaningful
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conversations, and give adaptive meanings to experiences so that the integration of
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