I’ve found that if you explain this topic like I just have to a

woman, you’ll often show her a perspective that

she’s never even considered. My experience is that

women actually LOVE to hear a man talking this way. It’s

refreshing to women to hear a man being open about this

controversial topic rather than hiding his ideas. It’s

important to remember what I said above: “It’s OK To Be

A Man.”

If you are who you are and make no apologies for

yourself, you will be taken seriously. But if you approach the

topic cautiously and act like you’re trying to see if

she’s OK with your views, you’ll be seen as weak and

insecure.

I’ve found that most women will accept you as you

are. But if you try to act like someone that you’re not and
you’re found out, you will be treated with disrespect and

ex-communicated.

Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo ©2001-2005, All

Rights Reserved

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My Story
I made the decision a few years ago that I needed to

get the area of my life ‘handled’ called ‘dealing with

women’. So I made a decision and a commitment to

myself and my best friend that I would do whatever it

took to learn and ‘figure this out’. (Read Chapter 1 from

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill for more on this

mindset.)

Some background: The girlfriends that I had in the

past were mostly from luck now that I reflect on it. They

were there, and I felt lucky to have them as my girlfriend at

the time.

But I never knew how to approach women I didn’t

know, and I could sit in a bar for three hours making eye

contact with a woman and never have the nerve to go

talk to her. Right now I’m just turning 30, and I’m about

5’10” and 160 pounds. I think I’m reasonably good

looking, but I’ve never been the kind of guy that women

just walk up and approach. (I say this to give you a frame of

reference in relationship to the comments I make

relating to looks, etc.) I’ve made myself more attractive

by paying attention, learning, and using what works.