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Couple and Family Seminar WSU CC 14 September 2023
Couple and Family Seminar WSU CC 14 September 2023
Therapy considerations
G E R A L D I N E M C K AY
Overview
• How is couple and family counselling is different to working with individuals
• Common elements in approaches to couples and families
• Importance of structure
• Establishing balance
• Tracking sequences and asking circular questions
• Challenges
• Questions and comments
What are you most
excited or nervous
about working with
couples and
families?
Individual vs Couple and Family
How to bring a couple and family
mindset to individual counselling
• Be relationally informed
• Common presenting problems in individual therapy
• Do a one-off consultation (accidental couple/family
session)
• Conceptualising in a relational way
What do couples bring?
Mismatched
goals, values Infidelity and Financial
Life transitions Intimacy Past traumas trust issues
or parenting conflict/stress
styles
What do families bring?
Relationship challenges
Mental Health
Money issues
Making the shift to couple/family
• Joining with the client system (comprising more than one person)
• Both people are impacted both individually and relationally
• Focus on understanding the relationship between couple/family members
• Different set of ethical issues (couple/family therapist tend to face more ethical
challenges)
Some important principles
• No singular truth
• Circular rather than linear thinking
• Strengths over deficits
• Impact of context and social and cultural constructs
• Meaning making
• Facilitating and role modelling (e.g. deep listening)
• Awareness of our own biases
Roadmap – first session format
Exploration of Contracting
Pre-session Engagement Problem Problem
problem and session
hypothesising (joining) identification description
development closure
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Roadmap - first interview format
Exploration of Contracting
Pre-session Problem Problem
Engagement problem and session
hypothesising identification description
development closure
Exploration of
Pre-session Engagement Problem Problem Contracting and
problem
hypothesising (joining) identification description session closure
development
Exploration of
Pre-session Engagement Problem Problem Contracting and
problem
hypothesising (joining) identification description session closure
development
Exploration of Contracting
Pre-session Problem Problem
Engagement problem and session
hypothesising identification description
development closure
Exploration of Contracting
Pre-session Problem Problem
Engagement problem and session
hypothesising identification description
development closure
Exploration of Contracting
Pre-session Problem Problem
Engagement problem and session
hypothesising identification description
development closure
Exploration of Contracting
Pre-session Problem Problem
Engagement problem and session
hypothesising identification description
development closure
Process by which the therapist Therapist explores what Marks the end of the session
establishes a relationship with happens when the problem and any further discussion
each member. occurs. A description of the about the problem.
problem in interactional
behavioural terms.
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John walked in
after work, and
John asked Lisa
muttered under
what she had been
breath, threw bag
doing all day
down and went to
fridge to get a beer
Lisa couldn’t
believe he didn’t
even acknowledge
her and said:
“where’s my
hello?”
Circularity
Circular questions
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Therapeutic challenges
25
Questions
and
comments