Nama: Muhammad Farhan Fakri

NIM : 5200511058
Sociolinguisticts

Questions

1. Why do we have to be polite in communication?

2. What would happen if we did not greet our friend when we meet?
3. Give some examples of addressing in Indonesian Language.
4. What are the differences between greetings and addressing?

Answer

1. Politeness in communication serves to facilitate important social interactions, foster

positive interactions and maintain harmonious relationships between individuals. When
people engage in polite communication, it demonstrates respect for others, acknowledges
their feelings, and helps create an atmosphere of mutual understanding. Politeness
functions as a social norm that contributes to the smooth functioning of societies by
minimizing conflict and promoting cooperation. It allows individuals to express their
thoughts and opinions without causing unnecessary offense, fostering open dialogue and
the exchange of ideas. Additionally, politeness reflects on one's character, often
enhancing personal and professional reputations. In both formal and informal settings,
being polite establishes a foundation for trust and collaboration, facilitating effective
communication and building bridges between diverse individuals and communities.
Ultimately, politeness serves as a valuable tool for creating a positive and inclusive social
environment.

2. Failure to greet a friend when meeting could have various consequences, impacting the
dynamics of the relationship and the overall interaction. Greetings serve as social rituals
that convey warmth, friendliness, and acknowledgment. When we neglect to greet a
friend, it might be interpreted as indifference, rudeness, or a lack of interest. This
omission could create a sense of discomfort or confusion, potentially leaving the friend
feeling neglected or undervalued. In the absence of a greeting, the interaction may start
on an awkward note, hindering the establishment of a positive and welcoming
atmosphere. Over time, repeated instances of not greeting friends could strain the
relationship, leading to a sense of distance and strained communication. Greetings are
simple yet powerful gestures that contribute to the social fabric, fostering connection and
reinforcing the bonds of friendship. Therefore, the absence of greetings may result in
missed opportunities to strengthen relationships and diminish the overall quality of
interpersonal interactions.

For example, when I was walking in the village and then passed my friend but neither of
us said “hello/hi”. Then from there negative thoughts arise about that person which
ultimately makes a rift in a relationship, even though previously we had a good
relationship.
3. In Indonesia there are many examples of the way we addressing people. Some of them
was:

A. Professional Titles:
Dokter - Used for addressing a doctor. In indonesia we usually call it like: “Dok mau
bertanya, operasinya apakah benar di hari senin besok?”

Profesor - Used for addressing a professor. For example: “Dengan itu kami meminta
Profesor Mulyadi menjadi pembicara untuk acara bulan depan, apakah prof
bersedia?”

Pak/Bu Guru - Used for addressing a teacher. For example: “Pak guru, saya izin mau
mengumpulkan tugas ya, terimakasih.”

B. Formal Address:
"Bapak" is similar to "Mr." or "Sir" when addressing an adult male. For example,
Bapak Zaki means Mr. Zaki.

"Ibu" is similar to "Mrs." or "Ms." when addressing an adult female. For example, Ibu
Johnson means Mrs. Johnson

C. Informal Address:
"Mas" - Used to address an older brother or a close male friend. For example: “Mas
boleh minjem motornya dulu buat berangkat kuliah engga?”

"Mbak" - Used to address an older sister or a close female friend. For example:
“Mbak, aku boleh minjem 100 dulu engga, aku belum dikirimin lagi sama mama.”

Or we can also call it by addressing by their first name, for example: Maria, Farhan,
Vandy, or Keysha.

4. Greetings and addressing, while related aspects of communication, serve distinct

purposes in social interactions. Greetings encompass the initial verbal or non-verbal
expressions exchanged when individuals meet, acting as a social lubricant to initiate
communication positively. These can range from simple verbal salutations like "hello" or
"hi" to non-verbal gestures such as a smile, a nod, or a handshake. Greetings set the tone
for an interaction, conveying warmth, friendliness, and acknowledgment. On the other
hand, addressing involves the specific terms or titles used when referring to or calling
someone. It goes beyond the initial encounter and is more about ongoing communication.
Addressing includes formal titles such as "Mr." or "Mrs.," informal terms like "brother"
or "sister," and even professional titles like "doctor" or "professor." The choice of
addressing reflects the social context, the nature of the relationship, and the level of
formality required. While greetings are momentary and often ritualistic, addressing is a
continuous aspect of communication that evolves based on familiarity, respect, and the
dynamics of the relationship. In essence, greetings initiate interaction, while addressing
sustains and defines it over time, both playing integral roles in effective and culturally
appropriate communication.