HEARTLINE

AIRING TIME/DATE: MAY 22, 2023 I 9PM-11PM

TALENT: CARMEN GO VARGAS AND ERIC BOLIVAR
TOPIC: MOTHER WOUNDING
GUEST: GING REGENCIA

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HEARTLINE MONDAY EDITION
DATE: MAY 22, 2023
HOSTS: JAYVEE DYCHIOCO AND ERIC BOLIVAR
GUEST: GING REGENCIA
TITLE: MOTHER WOUNDING

Discussion:
1. How do we define "mother issues"? What are some of the common/"normal" things we see in
us/others that are actually manifestations of "mother issues"?

2. What usually causes these issues? Are our moms even generally aware of these? Is this
intentional, or not? Can we call it "indirect revenge"?

3. Is it still possible to "reverse" these issues in one's life, esp if the damage have been too much?

4. How can churches be safe places of healing and restoration for those who have these issues?

Counselling questions:
1. Our mom left us for another man when I was 1yr old. She now has a new family, although still
(legally) married to my dad, who also eventually had a new family when he went abroad. I was
closer to my dad growing up bec of this, and so always longed for my mom. I dont know if this
caused a pattern I am observing in my life: each time an older woman gets close to me, takes
care of me, and shows an interest (not even romantically!), I tend to be emotionally dependent on
her, and becomes jealous when they show the same affection to others. A few times it also gets
sexualized in my thoughts. What should I do? How do I get out and be freed from my ED and
sexual thoughts?

2. Growing up, my mom would always complain about my dad, how irresponsible, unaffectionate,
and unspiritual he is. I remember one time when I was boy and swore never to be like my dad.
So I strove to do all things opposite of what he does and likes, and to emotionally be distant from
him. Now that I am a husband myself, I began to slowly appreciate him, his sacrifices, his love for
me and my siblings the way he knows best. But I am afraid that might happen to my own family,
so I strive to do my best 24/7, which has been exhausting. I feel my wife judging me in her head
each time I will fail. How can I be freed from these unhealthy thoughts and expectations on myself?
I want to be a good husband and father but also know I will never be good all the time.

3. My mom always compared me to my younger and prettier sister. She was always tough on me,
and was never really affectionate. Maybe this has caused this, but I noticed that I have become
resistant to my immediate authorities (boss in the office, church ptr, etc.) esp those who are not
in line with my wavelength. I also dislike ppl who I see try to impress or woo others. I also dress
a bit boyish (I hate wearing a dress!), coined a boy nickname for myself, and so at times ppl label
me as "tomboy". But I know I am not. I think and feel I am just fine even with these. But am I
wrong? Should I deal with any (or all) of these? If so, how do I start? I am not comfortable talking
to my mom abt this. She is old and sick, and I am a professional now.

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