TRUE SELF VS FALSE SELF

Donald Winnicott
Donald Winnicott
- A pediatrician in London, studied Psychoanalysis and
object relations.
- Psychoanalysis: Focuses on the unconscious mind and how
it relates to our current experiences.
- Object Relations: Emphasizes the importance of the
consistent pattern of interpersonal relationships,
particularly between infants and their mothers.
False Self
False Self
- The False Self is an alternative personality used to
protect one's true identity.
- It is activated to maintain social relationships and
anticipate the demands of others.
- Example: A person may present a false self in certain
situations to conform or please others.
Healthy False Self
Healthy False Self
- A healthy false self is perceived as functional for both
the individual and society.
- It involves being compliant without feeling a sense of
betrayal to the true self.
- Example: Acting professionally in a work setting while
still maintaining a sense of authenticity.
Unhealthy False
Self
Unhealthy False Self
- An unhealthy false self occurs when an individual feels
forced compliance in any situation.
- Example: Pretending to be someone else to fit in, leading
to feelings of emptiness and disconnection.
True Self
True Self
- The True Self is characterized by a sense of integrity
and connected wholeness.
- It is rooted in experiences from early infancy.
- The true self creates a sense of reality and a feeling of
life worth living.
Good Parenting
and
True Self
Good Parenting and True Self
- Good parenting plays a significant role in the
development of the true self.
- Winnicott emphasizes that perfect parenting is not
necessary for achieving the true self.
- Example: Providing a nurturing and supportive environment
that allows for the authentic expression of the child's
true self.
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