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Those who’ve been to the US know tipping is
commonplace, an expected practice, whereas in the
UK it’s entirely up to the individual. SEND IT TO ME!

When it comes to tipping in Thailand, it’s not so


straight-forward.

Now, even though I’ve been in Thailand a fair old


while, and do enjoy studying Thai culture and
tradition, whenever I do a post like this, I reach out
to my Thai peers and ask for their opinions and
experiences; simply because it’s easy to
misinterpret things as a foreigner.

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many foreigners who don’t tip either. I must admit,
I do feel a tad embarrassed when I see a fellow UK
citizen snatch that 5 Baht from the tray.

It’s easy to assume Thais don’t tip based on having


seen a few that don’t, and while I would argue there
isn’t a tipping culture per se, people do tip, but
it’s more a culture of leaving a tip to keep face if you
need to, which also reflects the notion that the
posher the nosh, the more likely a Thai is to tip.

I don’t think this approach is that different to


London, to be fair.

What there has been historically, however, is a


culture of “giving extra” in Thailand. For example, in
a market-style setting, a vendor might choose to
give extra fruit to a regular or particularly friendly
customer, and conversely a customer might choose
not to bater and knowingly pay a bit more because
they like the interaction they’ve had with the
vendor.

This is still very common. in fact, my fruit lady is


forever trying to sneak more fruit in my bag, and
I’m forever trying to get her to keep the change.

So, to Tip or Not to Tip?

So what does a foreigner do? Well, let’s start by


taking a look at the three general lines of thinking
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foreigners usually follow when they’re in Thailand,


and probably in many other countries too, and my
own personal approach:

1. Why should I pay extra for someone to do their


job.

2. I only pay a tip if I think the service was


exceptional.

3. I always tip in restaurants and bars because the


staff earn low wages on the basis that this will be
compensated for by tips.

All of these approaches make a fair point, but


personally I adopt the third. I have a good
knowledge of what people are paid for different
jobs in Thailand, and I know what a massive
difference tips can make to restaurant workers.

I tip even when the service is bad. Why? Because in


life I try to always consider what it’s like to be in
someone else’s shoes. I doubt I’d be smiling if I was
on my feet 10 hours a day serving meals and drinks
in Black Canyon for 160 quid a month.

In fact, I wouldn’t get out of bed for that a day, so


why would I begrudge giving someone a bit extra to
help them pay their rent, take the kids out, send a
bit of money to their aging parents, buy some new
shoes to replace the ones they’ve had for three
years. You get the picture.

I don’t consider myself rich, spiritually rich,


perhaps, but not financially. But I can afford to tip,
in Thailand anyway, so I do. I enjoy giving people a
tip. I also enjoy helping others where I can in daily
life. It’s rewarding.

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I always leave a tip for the maid when I checkout of


a hotel too. The way I see it, if every guest leaves
100 Baht for the maid (that’s less than 2 GBP, come
on people!), and she collects from 5 guests checking
out each day, she could make a solid 15k on top of
her salary. This would put her salary at say 22k a
month; which would mean she’d at least be able to
say a little each month and treat the kids now and
again.

But I also understand that some people can’t afford


to tip. So I understand that some people have to
take the non-tip approach (2), and only tip in
exceptional circumstances . Some people are living
on a shoe string budget themselves, struggling to
make ends meet, so tipping isn’t always an option,
even if they want to.

Those who take approach 1 also make a good point;


because if we always tip the waiter regardless of the
service, it creates a precedent and becomes an
expectation. This will serve (pardon the pun)
to keep wages low, as employers will stipulate in job
descriptions that employees can expect “generous
tips”.

In truth it isn’t up to us to tip. It is up to employers


to properly compensate their workers for the job
they are doing, and up to the government that
people vote in to set wages at a sustainable level for
living a healthy, prosperous existence.

So it really comes down to your personal stance on


the culture of tipping, and of course whether you
can afford to so.

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But if I Do, How Much Should I Tip?

I’ve read a few threads on the web over the years


where some foreigners curse others for tipping too
much. They say it reinforces this whole “farangs are
rich and have bottomless pockets” idea that many
Thais have.

And there is some truth in this “farang ATM” theory.

Uneducated Thais, who haven’t been outside of


Asia, tend to have this idea that all whites from
Europe and America are wealthy. This perhaps
comes from watching American films and soap
operas, and of course is compounded by those
retired expats with big pensions who buy the
proverbial “farang castle” in Nakhon nowhere for
their Thai wife.

I mean, it makes sense, right? If foreigners are


tipping 20% on top of every meal they eat at a
street stall and a restaurant, and the average Thais
tip nothing, the general perception is that
foreigners have money to burn and can afford to do
so.

This perception then turns into staff being


judgmental of those foreigners who don’t tip;
“farang keenieow” (stingy foreigner) is the term.

But this is of course unfair, as the show string


budget backpacker is less likely to be able to afford
to tip on each meal than the stacked 60+ retiree
who has a pension and a nice family inheritance to
live off.

That said, most people can afford to at least leave a


10-20 Baht tip. So, if you’re stuck for knowing what
to tip,
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Follow the Thai culture for tipping as set out above.


Don’t tip at street stalls unless you really want to
show your appreciation, do leave a tip at high-street
eats: I suggest say 10 Baht in every 100 Baht, so 40
Baht on a 400 Baht meal.

And, if you like a posh nosh, well, you’ve got the


dosh to flash, so you might as well show some love
to the staff, who, by the way, probably earn less
than a glass of the fine wine you are drinking for a
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Pete says
When I first came to Asia, many years ago, I was
given advice from a long time stayer…. haggle
hard, tip good.

So, buying anything off the street for example,


they say 500, you say 200. They say’ lets split the
difference….350. (My target price is 240..always a
little bit less than half…) I say 210. then they
understand you are serious and not stupid. Never
split the difference, (350) ..its always in their

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favour… but go up by 10/15 each time. Reach your


target price, say 240 and call it a day. Don’t be shy
about it..they want...

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Reply Nov 06, 2016 at 10:08 am

CJ says
My first time in BKK, I stayed at an upscale
American hotel. The Concierge took care of several
things on my behalf, so I tipped him 1,000 Baht,
which was in line with what I would have tipped a
Concierge in the US for the same service. (~$30)
His immediate reaction let me know I had over-
tipped, but what do you do at that point, ask for it
back? A friend staying at the same hotel later
confirmed that I way over-tipped. For the rest of
the stay, he couldn’t do enough. The next time I
came back, he...

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Reply Aug 29, 2016 at 6:08 am

Doug says
I ALWAYS follow the rule:
“When in Rome, do as the Roman do”.

Using your logic, should a Thai follow the Thai


tipping standards when in New York ?

Reply Oct 30, 2016 at 4:09 am

Dave17 says
I just tipped my chambermaid 500 tbh halfway
through my ten day stay.im far from rich but she
has done an excellent job,my room is pristine
everyday.lets face it,in the grand scheme of things
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what’s a tenner.oh and by the way,it made me feel


good too.

Reply Jun 29, 2016 at 12:38 pm

TheThailandLife says
Awesome. I totally agree. Sometimes people
forget just how little 5 or 10 quid is to us when
back home, so why be stingy with people
abroad when they have done a great job.

It’s like the maintenance guys in my building.


No one ever tips them for fixing things inside
the room, except me, because people say this
is their job. But their salaries are so low! If we
all gave them a few quid every time they did a
job inside the room, it would double their
wages and make life a lot better for their
families.

Cheers!

Reply Jun 29, 2016 at 12:50 pm

Ken says
I always tip in Thailand, sometimes even when I
don’t need to. For example, on the rare occasions
that I have to hire a taxi off the meter I will still tip
the driver. The funny thing is I will haggle over the
initial price until I get it down to what I know is the
lowest he can possibly go, and I’ll even walk away
when I don’t get what I want. But then at the end
of the trip I will let him keep the change anyway
and this often adds up to a pretty big tip....

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Reply Apr 03, 2016 at 1:33 pm

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TheThailandLife says
Your approach mirrors mine in that I like to
get a fair price; it is about the principal of not
being ripped off, not the money. I’m happy to
tip and do so in most circumstances.

Interesting story about your date. Sounds like


it was a loaded test, so to speak. Did she really
expect you to then turn around and run back
to tip the driver? Or was it because you didn’t
explicitly state that he could keep the money?

Reply Apr 04, 2016 at 2:00 pm

Ken says
Yes, in truth I was equally responsible for
the misunderstanding. First of all, back
then I did not even know how to say “keep
the change” in Thai so I would always
either just say it in English or just get out
and walk away. And when my date
handed me the money I did not actually
say that it was supposed to be a tip. I just
gave her a confused look, which said “why
on earth did you take the change”. So we
both just made assumptions without ever
really discussing it. This is probably
because people...

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Reply Apr 05, 2016 at 8:14 am

Mydee says
I usually won’t tip at establishments such as up
market restaurants that charge Service fees. I
thought that this was the tip. I usually at
restaurants that don’t charge VAT and service fees.

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I also tip taxi drivers if they are OK as they get


messed around by experts and it is a hard way to
earn a living.

Reply Oct 14, 2015 at 9:14 am

TheThailandLife says
The service fee is a tricky one. I know what
you mean: if you tip it’s like you’re tipping
twice, but then I sometimes wonder if the staff
really do see the money later on. Also, the
service charge takes away from the
personalisation of tipping. Sometimes you
have a great waiter/waitress and you want to
tip them personally.

Reply Oct 14, 2015 at 11:39 am

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