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DR Alexander Berzin On Issues in Relating To A Spiritual Teacher - Part 1
DR Alexander Berzin On Issues in Relating To A Spiritual Teacher - Part 1
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Introducing Dr Berzin
In order to gain this understanding, I turn to Dr. Alexander Berzin (1944 – present), a Buddhist translator,
teacher, scholar and practitioner with more than 50 years of Buddhist experience. After receiving his Ph.D.
at Harvard, Dr. Berzin spent 29 years in India training under the guidance of some of the greatest Tibetan
masters of our times. There he served as occasional interpreter for H.H. the 14th Dalai Lama and His tutors.
He is the founder and author of the Berzin Archives and studybuddhism.com and author of many books
including Relating to a Spiritual Teacher: Building a Healthy Relationship. Ithaca: Snow Lion, 2000; Second
reprint, Wise Teacher, Wise Student: Tibetan Approaches to a Healthy Relationship. Ithaca: Snow Lion,
2010. It is this book that provides the basis of the next few blog posts. Find out more about him
here. https://studybuddhism.com/en/dr-alexander-berzin/who-is-alexander-berzin
This book provides an in depth look at the student teacher relationship from the perspective of all the
different schools of Tibetan Buddhism. It is the best source I have found so far in that the author
understands both the Western perspective and has a deep understanding of Tibetan Buddhism. He is aware
of the pitfalls Western students fall into and gives clarifications so that we can avoid these pitfalls and
common misunderstandings.
The whole book is free on his website. It starts on this page https://studybuddhism.com/en/advanced-
studies/lam-rim/student-teacher-relationship/factors-affecting-a-relation-with-a-spiritual-teacher and if you go
to the bottom of the page it shows links to the next parts of the book. Or you can purchase a Kindle copy
HERE It’s also available in paperback.
In these posts I will share some main points on the different chapters and direct you to the relevant chapter,
but if you want to read the whole thing, I think it would be most beneficial.
The modern Western situation for studying with a spiritual teacher is completely different from the
traditional Asian one;
Dangers are exacerbated, in the case of the Tibetan tradition, by texts on “guru-devotion.” The
audience for such texts was committed monks and nuns with vows, needing review in preparation for
tantric empowerment. The instructions were never intended for beginners at a Dharma center.
He introduces a nontraditional scheme (that is not included in the book) for analyzing and problem-
solving the issue, suggested by and expanded from the work of the Hungarian psychiatrist Dr. Ivan
Boszermenyi-Nagy, one of the founders of family therapy and contextual therapy. Here he looks at the
aims and expectations of the relationship for each party, the roles and level of committment they take,
and the psychological factors affecting the relationship.
This would be an excellent model for Rigpa to use when looking into any issue a student has with a
teacher.
Then he asks: “Do they student and teacher together form:
Berzin concludes:
“The recurring misconduct has led some Dharma practitioners to become indifferent. No longer
believing in anyone, many find their spiritual practice has weakened and become ineffective.
Resolution of the problems and a healing of wounds are desperately needed so that sincere seekers
may get on with the work of spiritual development. The student-teacher relationship as understood
and developed in the West needs re-examination and perhaps revision.”
Be sure to check out the What Now? References page for links to a wealth of articles in the topics
related to abuse in Buddhist communities. For links to places to assist in healing from abuse
see the sangha care resources page.
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