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Empowerment English Sem 4
Empowerment English Sem 4
Empowerment English Sem 4
Intraditional
A
relationships to India, woman's
a
others. irstly,identity defined is by her
wife to hershe is a
parents;; secondly, sheeisis :a
in-law to his
daughters. parents; thirdly, she is a husbanddaughter
and a
to her
mother to hisdaughter
The Hindu ideal of sons and
Sita, Savitri, woman defined and
is
Damayanti, Draupadi and others.
legendary Woman in the
of womanhood and her epic
personiSita,fied by
tion to go to the
foresst
Ramayana,
speech, emphasizrepresents
ing her
the ideal
statement of tthe dharma withof a
her
husbarnd, is andetermina-
For a woman, it is Hindu wife: eloquent
not her father, her
mother,
in this riends, nor her own self, son, nor her
world and in the next but the husband, who
salvation.
O Ifthou dost enter the isever her sole means of
Descendant of Raghu, I impenetrable forest today,
treading down the shall precede thee on foot,
it be in spiky kusha grass. In truth,
palaces, in
shadow of the feet ofchariots, or in heaven, whether
her consort wherever the
falls, it must be followed.
The Savitri myth
refines the statement of Sita.
follows Yama to his country;
the boon of offspring and, she persuades Yama to give Savitri
a century of sons thereby, her husband too to give her her
possessed of
apable of perpetuation of our race'strength and prowess, and
birth to sOns. . To be a good wife is to give
In the
legend of Nala and Damayanti, Damayanti
accompani
gambl ed es Nala, her husband, intothe forest though cheerfully
he
sleeping away everythingthey owned. He leaves her while
in the forest at night, taking away half ofthe garment
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A, 1.
Comprehend our conventions.
Allour religious
image of a perfecttraditions
wife. Can
have already constructed an
you list the
an ideal wife as
demanded by our qualifications 0t
She must not remain conventions?
wife. unmarried, she must become a
IList as many as can, even the ones
implied in the textyou
given above.] not
included or
Aperfect wife l 147
im. 2. Critical comprehension.
; Do youthink that
the qualities of a perfect
horst uies arevery explicitly stated in our husband
andstories? Can you list the religious texts, epics
qualifications of an ideal
husband as implied in our tradition?
ii How many of the
qualifications
dwrat a perfect
the ones that are
wife
that are essential for
traditional are acceptable to you? List
acceptable. lf some are
acceptable, give reasons not
for not accepting them.
Aebaristhae iii. Do you think that the vast
majority of the rural
women are aware of the changing perceptions of
n-salalsoathwedbte
modern urban women?
iv. Even today as part of the Hindu marriage rituals,
the following are done in some parts of India:
egods. a. The bride is made to sit on her father's lap and is
Hlenesd given away as agift to the bridegroom--it's called
kanya daanlam).
b. Thefather ofthe bride, while offering his daughter,
aining chants: I offer you my daughter, a maiden
tecontr
virtuous, good-natured, very wise, decked with
Sveritabe ornamentsto the best of my ability.
C. The bridegroom shows the star, Arundhati (of the
Saptha Rishi Constellation), the wife of Vasishta
Maharishi, exemplified as an ideal wife and the
and
stora embodiment of chastity.
Sonaltr
d. The Mangala Sutra that is tied around the bride's
thwlns
neck to lie on the middle of her chest symbolizes
shandaáe
that her man has occupied her whole being
na
d nb
dy
through her heart.
e, The word sumangali bestows on the bride a life
yoked toher husband; without him there is no
life.
Any reactions to the significance of these rituals? You
ay record your critical reactions to each one in two or
three sentences.
Are in-laws out-laws?
17
severalstoriesabout the archetypal
must have
heard of popular TV seriale
A Youmother-in-law'; there are also some the daughter-in-law
bad relationship between
aboutthe uneasy
and the mother-in-law. mother-in-law runs as
the
Avery popular story about
follows: house, asking for alms and the
Once a beggar came to aasked him to go away saying that
daughter-in-law promptly beggar was about
in the house to give. The
there was nothing daughter-in-law went into the kitchen where
to leave and the mother-in-law came rushing
she wassupposed to be. Then, the
and called the beggar;the beggar felt happy and returned
out him some
smiling, thinking that the older woman would give she toask
food or money. The mother-in-law shouted:Who is
you to goaway? Sheisonly the wifeofmy son and she has no
authority to say so. I'm his mother and, now, I ask you to go
away; get out."
The beggar was not bothered about the power-politics in
the house;he was worried about his next meal!
It is often said that a woman's worst enemy is another
woman andthatwhiletwo men can co-exist twowomen cannot!
Based on the notorious 'mother-in-law stories men usually
point out that there are no problems between
and d¡ughters-in-law, But, women sav that this fathers-in-law
is not true
according tothem, there are other kinds of
typical household, and generally, such thingsharassment
about.
1n a
are not talked
How is it
is not foundthat the much talked myth'
in our about'stories?
stories we don't puranas and other
mother-in-law
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come across instances of women harassed by
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Freedom and choice | 165
oomputer literate, software, hardware, micro-,
and many other macro-, super.
computer-related expressions are becoming
part of English usage.
Also gaining in popularity are courses in
mass commu
nication, advertising and journalism, electronic
video editing, and many more. These options are journalism.
addition to the conventional courses in medicine, available in
and commerce; competing with the IITs andengineering
Regional
Engineering Colleges, new IIITs and International/Indian
Business Schools are being established.
Fashion,until recently unexplored, has become a popular
profession. NIFT (National Institute of Fashion Technology)
and NID (National Institute of Design)offer a wide range of
courses in fashion designing, apparel pattern making and
industrial design. The related field is of graphic arts and
interior decoration that concentrates on designing and
developing graphics, colour schemes, furnishing,etc., often
vershiz nputer-aided,for a variety of advertising and business
artwork, pictures, illustrations,layouts, bookcovers, logos,
ete. The School of Interior Design, Centre for Environmental
aresut Planning and Technology in Ahmedabad, and some other
institutions offer courses on this subject. For a creative mind
with an artistic bent and a good knowledge of designing and
typography, the sky is the limit.
For enterprising entrepreneurs, beauty parlours, interior
to
che
stereotype
bread-winner, andthe
mother house.
relationships aree being redefined.
and changing; 17. M
keeperis fast are lucky to be borninthistransitional
th
Don't youthinkyou s
society?
t
understand modern society?
A, Doyou above? Wor
freedom' defined in the text given
1. How is are we living in now?
2. What kind ofa world choicefutigue? 1.
3. What do you understand by the expression
Isit good or bad? educational spectrum? Is it
4. What is happening to the
related tocareer options'?
where do you
5. How does one select a career path? From
get all the information required?
6. Whatis happening in the field offashion? Would you like
to classify fashion as a technology or as an art? Give
reasons for your answer.
7. What is meant by the expression, the sky is the limit? In
what context is it used in the text?
8. What are the options available to an enterprising entre
preneur? Who is an entrepreneur? Is an entrepreneur
only a man?
9. Can you list some of the options available in the field o
management? What are the new expressions that ae
used in English as a result of new
the field? concepts emerginB
10. What are the career options
computers? List as
available in the fiela o
11. What do you many as you can.
computer
12. What
understand
literate? by
computeracy? Are you
outside! In order to
accesstothe world typical she ends up doing'double duty
that is predictable and the tragic tale ofthe
burdens. This is Mhiat
s
m
or shouldering multiple
liberated' or 'empowered' women. perform the traditional ender
eq
expected to
A modern woman is roles'in the world oútside: How
sho