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IF YOU WERE TO BUY ME A


WHAT DOES MY PRESENT KNOWING NOTHING
INSTAGRAM TELL ABOUT ME OTHER THAN WHAT
I LOOK LIKE, WHAT WOULD IT
YOU ABOUT ME? BE?
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

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FINISH THE THINK OF YOUR FAVOURITE


SENTENCE: JUST BY CHILDHOOD TV SHOW OF
LOOKING AT YOU I’D ALL TIME. ON THE COUNT
OF THREE, SAY IT OUT
THINK... LOUD.
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION WILDCARD

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DO I REMIND YOU OF WHAT’S THE FIRST


ANYONE? THING YOU NOTICED
ABOUT ME?
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

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THINK OF YOUR FAVOURITE WHAT IS MY BODY


BRAND OF CEREAL. ON THE LANGUAGE TELLING
COUNT OF THREE, SAY
YOUR ANSWERS OUT LOUD! YOU RIGHT NOW?
WILDCARD LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION
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WHAT CHARACTER WHAT DOES MY


WOULD I PLAY IN A PHONE WALLPAPER
MOVIE? TELL YOU ABOUT ME?
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

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WHAT DO YOU THINK WRITE DOWN SOMETHING


OTHERS WOULD NEVER
I’M MOST LIKELY TO GUESS ABOUT YOU BY JUST
SPLURGE ON? LOOKING AT YOU. COMPARE.
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION WILDCARD

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HOW MANY SPEEDING WHO DO YOU THINK


TICKETS DO YOU THINK
I’VE GOTTEN IN MY MY CELEBRITY
LIFE? CRUSH IS?
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

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AS A CHILD, WHAT DO YOU THINK I’M


DO YOU THINK I USUALLY EARLY, ON
WANTED TO BE? TIME, OR LATE TO
EVENTS? EXPLAIN.
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION
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DO YOU THINK I’VE WHAT DO YOU


EVER CHECKED AN THINK MY GO TO
EX’S PHONE FOR KARAOKE SONG IS?
EVIDENCE?
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

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WHAT DO YOU THINK DO YOU THINK I WAS


I’M MOST LIKELY TO POPULAR IN SCHOOL?
SPLURGE ON? EXPLAIN.
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

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WHAT DO YOU THINK WHAT ABOUT ME IS


IS THE HARDEST PART MOST STRANGE OR
OF WHAT I DO FOR A UNFAMILIAR TO YOU?
LIVING?
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

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CLOSE YOUR EYES. HOW LIKELY AM I TO


GO CAMPING? HOW
WHAT COLOUR ARE HIGH MAINTENANCE IS
MY EYES. MY SET UP?
WILDCARD LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION
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DO I SEEM LIKE A WHAT SUBJECT DO YOU


THINK I THRIVED IN
MORNING PERSON OR AT SCHOOL? DID I FAIL
A NIGHT OWL? WHY? ANY?
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

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DO YOU THINK I FALL DO I SEEM LIKE SOMEONE


WHO WOULD GET A NAME
IN LOVE EASILY? TATTOOED ON MYSELF?
WHY OR WHY NOT? WHY OR WHY NOT?
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

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WHAT REALITY SHOW WHAT COMPLIMENT


DO YOU THINK I’M
MOST LIKELY TO BINGE DO YOU THINK I
WATCH? EXPLAIN. HEAR THE MOST?
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

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ASK AND ANSWER MAINTAIN EYE


THE NEXT QUESTION CONTACT FOR THIRTY
IN A DIFFERENT SECONDS. WHAT DID
ACCENT. YOU NOTICE?
WILDCARD WILDCARD
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DO YOU THINK DO YOU THINK I


PLANTS THRIVE OR INTIMIDATE
DIE IN MY CARE? OTHERS? WHY OR
EXPLAIN. WHY NOT?
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

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DRAW A PICTURE IF MYSPACE WERE


STILL A THING, WHAT
TOGETHER (30 WOULD MY PROFILE
SECONDS). SONG BE?
WILDCARD LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

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WHAT FAST FOOD


RESTAURANT DO YOU CLOSE YOURE EYES.
THINK I’M MOST LIKELY TO WHAT COLOUR IS MY
DRIVE THROUGH? WHAT’S SHIRT?
MY ORDER?
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION WILDCARD

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RATE YOUR DANCING


MAKE AN SKILLS ON A SCALE OF 1-10.
ASSUMPTION ABOUT ON THE COUNT OF THREE,
ME (BOTH PLAYERS). SAY YOUR ANSWERS OUT
LOUD.
WILDCARD WILDCARD
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DO I SEEM LIKE MORE DO I SEEM LIKE A


OF A CREATIVE TYPE
OR ANALYTICAL CAT OR DOG
TYPE? EXPLAIN. PERSON?
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

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DRAW A PORTRAIT
OF EACH OTHER TO WHAT ABOUT ME
THE BEST OF YOUR INTRIGUES YOU?
ABILITY (1 MINUTE).
WILDCARD LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

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ON A SCALE OF 1-10, HOW


MESSY DO YOU THINK MY LET GO OF YOUR
CAR IS? 1 BEING THE ATTACHMENT TO
CLEANEST, 10 COMPLETE THE OUTCOME.
DISASTER. EXPLAIN.
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION REMINDER

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WHAT DOES MY
DO I LOOK KIND?
STYLE TELL YOU
EXPLAIN.
ABOUT ME?
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION
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WHAT WAS YOUR DO YOU THINK I’VE


EVER BEEN FIRED
FIRST IMPRESSION FROM A JOB? IF SO,
OF ME? WHAT FOR?
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

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WHAT HAS BEEN QUESTIONS ARE AN


YOUR EARLIEST ART FORM. CREATE
RECOLLECTION OF YOUR OWN QUESTION.
HAPPINESS?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION WILDCARD

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BOTH PLAYERS WRITE ALL PLAYERS WRITE AN


THE MOST IMPORTANT EMBARRASING FUN FACT
ABOUT YOURSELVES. PLAY A
THINGS IN LIFE TO YOU GAME OF ROCK, PAPER,
(30 SECONDS) COMPARE. SCISSORS. LOSER MUST REVEAL!
WILDCARD WILDCARD

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FINISH THE SENTENCES: WHAT TITLE WOULD


STRANGERS WOULD YOU GIVE THIS
DESCRIBE ME AS... CHAPTER IN YOUR
ONLY I KNOW THAT I AM ... LIFE?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION
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WHAT WAS YOUR DO YOU THINK I’VE


FIRST IMPRESSION EVER BEEN FIRED
FROM A JOB? IF SO,
OF ME? WHAT FOR?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

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WHAT HAS BEEN WHAT LESSON TOOK


YOUR EARLIEST
RECOLLECTION OF YOU THE LONGEST
HAPPINESS? TO UNLEARN?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

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WHAT PART OF WHAT WOULD YOUR


YOUR LIFE WORKS? YONGER SELF NOT
WHAT PART OF BELIEVE ABOUT YOUR
YOUR LIFE HURTS? LIFE TODAY?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

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WHAT QUESTION ARE HAVE YOU CHANGED


YOU TRYING TO
YOUR MIND ABOUT
ANSWER MOST IN YOUR
LIFE RIGHT NOW? ANYTHING RECENTLY?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION
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IF YOU HAVE, WHEN WHAT ARE YOU


WAS THE MOMENT STILL TRYING TO
YOU REALIZED YOU PROVE TO YOURSELF?
WEREN’T INVINCIBLE?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

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SHOW THE FIRST ARE YOU LYING TO


PHOTO IN YOUR
CAMERA ROLL. YOURSELF ABOUT
EXPLAIN. ANYTHING?
WILDCARD LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

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WHAT IS THE MOST HAVE YOU EVER TOLD


UNEXPLAINABLE I LOVE YOU BUT
THING THAT’S EVER DIDN’T MEAN IT? IF
HAPPENED TO YOU? SO, WHY?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

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SING THE CHORUS TO PRESS SHUFFLE ON


YOUR MUSIC LIBRARY.
YOUR FAVOURITE EXPLAIN THE FIRST
SONG OF ALL TIME. SONG THAT COMES UP.
WILDCARE WILDCARD
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STARING CONTEST. FIRST TO WHAT’S YOUR


BLINK MUST REVEAL A
PERSONAL PROBLEM AND ASK MOTHER’S NAME? AND
YOUR PARTNER FOR ADVICE ON THE MOST BEAUTIFUL
HOW THEY MIGHT HANDLE IT. THING ABOUT HER?
WILDCARD LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

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IS THERE A FEELING CREATE A SECRET


YOU MISS? HANDSHAKE.
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION WILDCARD

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WHAT’S THE MOST


DESCRIBE YOUR PAIN YOU’VE EVER
PERFECT DAY. BEEN IN THAT
WASN’T PHYSICAL?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

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WHAT’S BEEN THE


BEST COMPLIMENT A ADMIT SOMETHING.
STRANGER HAS EVER
GIVEN YOU?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION WILDCARD
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IF YOU COULD GET TO KNOW WHAT IS YOUR FIRST


SOMEONE IN YOUR LIFE ON LOVE’S NAME AND THE
A DEEPER LEVEL, WHO REASON YOU FELL IN
WOULD IT BE AND WHY? LOVE WITH THEM?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

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SWAP SEATS WITH HOW ARE YOU,


YOUR PARTNER. REALLY?
WILDCARD LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

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WHEN YOU’RE ASKED


HOW ARE YOU, HOW WHAT IS A DREAM
OFTEN DO YOU ANSWER YOU’VE LET GO OF?
TRUTHFULLY?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

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WHAT IS SOMETHING BE MORE INTERESTED


YOU WOULDN’T WANT IN UNDERSTANDING
TO CHANGE ABOUT OTHER THAN BEING
YOURSELF? UNDERSTOOD.
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION REMINDER
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WHAT’S YOUR IF YOU COULD HAVE IT YOUR


FATHER’S NAME? AND WAY: WHO WOULD YOU BE
WITH? WHERE WOULD YOU
TELL ME ONE THING BE? AND WHAT WOULD YOU
ABOUT HIM. BE DOING?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

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DRAW YOUR WHAT ARE YOU MORE


CURRENT MOOD. AFRAID OF, FAILURE
THEN COMPARE. OR SUCCESS? AND
WHY?
WILDCARD LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

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THINK OF SOMETHING YOU HOW WOULD YOU


STRONGLY DISLIKE THAT DESCRIBE THE
MOST PEOPLE LOVE. ON THE
COUNT OF THREE, SAY IT FEELING OF BEING IN
OUT LOUD! LOVE IN ONE WORD?
WILDCARD LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

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ARE YOU MISSING CALL SOMEONE YOU ADMIRE


ANYONE RIGHT NOW? AND TELL THEM WHY YOU
DO YOU THINK THEY APPRECIATE THEM! (PUT
ARE MISSING YOU TOO? ON SPEAKER PHONE)
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION WILDCARD
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HAS A STRANGER WHAT’S BEEN YOUR


EVER CHANGED YOU HAPPIEST MEMORY
LIFE? THIS PART YEAR?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

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WHAT IS THE LAST WHAT IS A


THING YOU LIED TO COMPLIMENT YOU
YOUR MOTHER WISH YOU RECEIVED
ABOUT? MORE FREQUENTLY?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

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ASK A QUESTION YOU’D WHEN WAS THE


BEEN TOO AFRAID TO LAST TIME YOU
ASK. SOMETHING YOU SURPRISED
WOULND’T DARE TO ASK. YOURSELF?
WILDCARD LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

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HOW CAN YOU


WHAT DO YOU
BECOME A BETTER
CRAVE MORE OF?
PERSON?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION
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DO YOU THINK THE IMAGE


YOU HAVE OF YOURSELF WHAT DO I NEED TO
MATCHES THE IMAGE HEAR RIGHT NOW?
PEOPLE SEE YOU AS?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

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WHAT DO YOU
WHAT CAN I HELP
RECOMMEND I LET GO
YOU WITH?
OF, IF ANYTHING?
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

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SWAP A SONG HOW DOES ONE EARN


SUGGESTION YOUR YOUR VULNERABILITY?
PARTNER MAY HAVE I EARNED IT? HOW
ENJOY. CAN I EARN MORE?
WILDCARD LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

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WHAT DO YOU
TAKE A SELFIE
ADMIRE MOST
TOGETHER.
ABOUT ME?
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION WILDCARD
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WRITE A SONG ABOUT WHAT WOULD BE


YOUR PARTNER (30
SECONDS). THEN SING IT THE PERFECT GIFT
ALOUD. FOR ME?
WILDCARD LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

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WHAT AM I MOST DO YOU BELIEVE


EVERYONE HAS A
QUALIFIED TO GIVE CALLING? IF SO, DO YOU
ADVICE ABOUT? THINK I’VE FOUND MINE?
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

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BOTH PLAYERS SHARE WHEN THIS GAME IS


SOMETHING YOU’RE MOST OVER, WHAT WILL
GRATEFUL FOR IN THIS YOU REMEMBER ABOUT
CURRENT MOMENT. ME?
WILDCARD LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

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WHAT ANSWER OF
MINE MADE YOU ADMIT SOMETHING.
LIGHT UP?
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION WILDCARD
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WHAT WOULD MAKE


GIVE EACH OTHER
YOU FEEL CLOSER TO
NICKNAMES.
ME?
WILDCARD LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

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WHAT DO YOU THINK I


SHOULD KNOW ABOUT WHY DO YOU THINK
MYSELF THAT PERHAPS WE MET?
I’M UNAWARE OF?
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

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BASED ON WHAT YOU WHAT DO YOU


LEARNED ABOUT ME,
WHAT BOOK WOULD YOU THINK I FEAT THE
RECOMMEND I READ? MOST?
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

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WHAT ABOUT ME BOTH PLAYERS WRITE


MOST SURPRISED A NOTE TO YOUR
YOU? YOUNGER SELVES (1
MINUTE). COMPARE.
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION WILDCARD
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HOW DO OUR WHAT IS ONE THING YOU


PERSONALITIES THINK I CAN DO THAT
COMPLEMENT EACH WOULD DRAMATICALLY
OTHER? IMPROVE MY LIFE?
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

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WHAT PARTS OF WHAT DO YOU


YOURSELF DO YOU THINK MY
SEE IN ME? SUPERPOWER IS?
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

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BASED ON WHAT YOU


LEARNED ABOUT ME, DOES MY IN ONE WORD, HOW
SOCIAL MEDIA ACCURATELY WOULD YOU DESCRIBE
REFLECT WHO I AM? WHY OR OUR CONVERSATION?
WHY NOT?
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

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HOW WOULD YOU DARE YOUR PARTNER TO


DO SOMETHING OUTSIDE
DESCRIBE ME TO A OF THEIR COMFORT ZONE
STRANGER? IN THE NEXT WEEK.
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION WILDCARD
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IF WE WERE IN A IN ONE WORD,


BAND, WHAT WOULD DESCRIBE HOW YOU
OUR NAME BE? FEEL RIGHT NOW.
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

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CREATE YOUR OWN


WHAT CAN WE
QUESTION. MAKE IT
CREATE TOGETHER?
COUNT.
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION WILDCARD

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WHAT ABOUT ME IS WHAT DO YOU


HARDEST FOR YOU THINK MY
TO UNDERSTAND? WEAKNESS IS?
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

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BASED ON WHAT YOU WRITE DOWN A GOAL FOR


KNOW ABOUT ME, DO THIS YEAR. FOLD &
YOU HAVE ANY NETFLIX EXCHANGE. HOLD EACH
RECOMMENDATIONS? OTHER ACCOUNTABLE.
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION WILDCARD
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PLAY A ROUND OF ROCK,


WHAT DO YOU THINK PAPER, SCISSORS. WINNER
OUR MOST IMPORTANT CAN ASK THEIR PARTNER
SIMILARITY IS? ANYTHING. LOSER MUST
ANSWER.
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION WILDCARD

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WRITE DOWN ONE THING GIVE YOUR PARTNER A


YOU WANT TO LET GO OF COMPLIMENT YOU
THIS YEAR. READ OUT
LOUD, THEN RIP UP
DON’T THINK THEY
TOGETHER. HEAR ENOUGH.
WILDCARD WILDCARD

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SCROLL THROUGH EACH OTHER’S WHAT HAS THIS


INSTAGRAMS. FIND THE PICTURE CONVERSATION
YOU FEEL BEST REPRESENTS
YOUR PARTNER’S ESSENCE AND TAUGHT YOU ABOUT
COMMENT ON WHY. YOURSELF?
WILDCARD LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

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EACH PLAYER WRITE A GIVE YOUR PARTNER A


MESSAGE TO THE OTHER. HUNG. NOT THE CRAPPY
FOLD AND EXCHANGE. OPEN KIND. A WARM FLUFFY
ONLY ONE YOU TWO HAVE
PARTED. ONE.
FINAL CARD WILDCARD
HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

JUST BY LOOKING AT HOW MANY RELATIONSHIPS


ME, WHAT WOULD YOU DO YOU THINK I’VE BEEN IN?
HOW MANY TIMES DO YOU
THINK I DO FOR A THINK I’VE BEEN IN LOVE?
LIVING? EXPLAIN.
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

WHAT DO YOU WHAT DO YOU


THINK MY TYPE IS? THINK MY DRINK OF
DESCRIBE IN DETAIL. CHOICE IS?
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

DO YOU THINK I’M STILL WHAT WAS THE FIRST


ON GOOD TERMS WITH THING YOU NOTICED
MY EXES? WHY OR WHY ABOUT ME WHEN WE
NOT? MET IN PERSON?
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

WRITE DOWN YOUR 3


WHAT DO YOU THINK FAVOURITE PHYSICAL
I WAS LIKE IN HIGH FEATURES OF YOUR
SCHOOL? EXPLAIN. PARTNER. READ THEM OUT
LOUD.
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION WILDCARD
HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

HAVE YOU EVER WHAT ARE YOU


CONSIDERED AN OPEN
RELATIONSHIP? WHY FEELING A LOT
OR WHY NOT? LATELY?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

WHEN’S THE LAST HOW EMOTIONALLY


TIME YOU GHOSTED AVAILABLE DO YOU
CURRENTLY FEEL?
SOMEONE AND WHY? EXPLAIN.
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

WHO IN YOUR LIFE DO WHAT DID THE PEOPLE WHO


YOU FEEL MOST RAISED YOU TEACH YOU
ABOUT LOVE? HOW HAS
YOURSELF AROUND? THAT SHAPED YOUR VIEWS
WHY? ON LOVE TODAY?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

THINK OF THE MOST GIVE EACH OTHER


UNDERRATED SHOW TATTOOS WITH THE
STREAMING CURRENTLY.
ON THE COUNT OF 3, SAY NEAREST PEN OR
YOUR ANSWERS OUT LOUD. MARKER (30 SECONDS).
WILDCARD WILDCARD
HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

WHAT HAVE YOU DESCRIBE YOUR


TOLERATED FROM OTHERS WORST HEARTBREAK.
IN THE PAST THAT YOU NO WHAT DID IT TEACH
LONGER HAVE SPACE FOR? YOU?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

HOW HAS YOUR VIEW DO YOU HAVE ANY


ON LOVE EVOLVED UNCONVENTIONAL
OPINIONS WHEN IT COMES
OVER TIME, IF AT TO ROMANTIC
ALL? RELATIONSHIPS?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

WHAT ARE YOU WHICH ONE OF YOUR


PARENTS’ PERSONALITY
OVERTHINKING TRAITS DO YOU WANT TO
RIGHT NOW? KEEP? LET GO OF?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

I KNOW I REALLY WHAT DATING ADVICE


LIKE SOMEONE WOULD YOU GIVE
WHEN... YOUR YOUNGER SELF?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION
HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

WRITE DOWN YOUR TOP 2 WHAT’S A NON-


RELATIONSHIP DEAL
BREAKERS. BOTH PLAYERS. NEGOTIABLE IN YOUR
COMPARE. LIFE?
WILDCARD LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

WRITE DOWN THE TOP 3 WHAT DO YOUR


MOST IMPORTANT FRIENDS KNOW
QUALITIES IN A ROMANTIC ABOUT ME, IF
PARTNER. COMPARE. ANYTHING?
WILDCARD LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

WHAT PART OF YOUR


JOB ENERGIZES YOU THE HOW DO YOU DEFINE
MOST? LEAVES YOU THE “DATING”?
MOST DRAINED?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

I KNOW I REALLY WHAT DATING ADVICE


LIKE SOMEONE WOULD YOU GIVE
WHEN... YOUR YOUNGER SELF?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION
HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

WHAT HAS BEING WHAT IS SOMETHING


NEW YOU’VE LEARNED
SINGLE TAUGHT YOU ABOUT YOURSELF
ABOUT YOURSELF? RECENTLY?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

WHAT ABOUT ME HAS SEX EVER BEEN A


INTRIGUED YOU BESIDES DEAL BREAKER IN YOUR
MY PHYSICAL PAST RELATIONSHIPS?
APPEARANCE? EXPLAIN.
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

WRITE DOWN YOUR


FAVOURITE SONG LYRIC YOU WHAT’S THE
CAN THINK OF THE TOP OF HARDEST PART
YOUR HEAD. COMPARE AND
EXPLAIN.
ABOUT DATING YOU?
WILDCARD LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

I KNOW I REALLY WHAT DATING ADVICE


LIKE SOMEONE WOULD YOU GIVE
WHEN... YOUR YOUNGER SELF?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION
HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

WHAT ABOUT YOU HAS WHAT WAS THE


FELT REPEATEDLY WORST DATE YOU’VE
MISUNDERSTOOD BY EVER BEEN ON AND
OTHERS, IF ANYTHING? WHY?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

ASK LITERALLY WHAT PART OF MY


ANYTHING. PERMISSION PERSONALITY ISN’T
TO GO THERE. SHOWCASED ONLINE?
WILDCARD LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

SHARE SOMETHING
YOU TYPICALLY WHAT MANNERISMS OF
MINE STOOD OUT THE
WOULDN’T ON A FIRST MOST TO YOU, IF ANY?
DATE.
WILDCARD LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

IF YOU WERE TO WRITE HOW WOULD YOU


MY DATING PROFILE DESCRIBE OUR DATE
BIO, WHAT WOULD IT IN ONE WORD?
SAY?
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION
HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

WHAT SONG SHOULD BASED ON WHAT YOU’VE


LEARNED ABOUT ME, WHAT
I LISTEN TO ON MY DO YOU THINK I’M LOOKING
WAY ONE? FOR ROMANTICALLY?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

LOOK THROUGH EACH WHAT DO YOU FIND


OTHER’S SOCIAL MEDIA.
PICK YOUR FAVOURITE
MOST ATTRACTIVE
PHOTO. COMPARE AND ABOUT ME THAT ISN’T
EXPLAIN? PHYSICAL?
WILDCARD LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

HONEST DATING HONEST DATING

WRITE YOUR PARTNER ON A SCALE 1-10 HOW


A TEXT OUTSIDE YOUR “EMOTIONALLY
COMFORT ZONE AT THE AVAILABLE” DO I
END OF THIS DATE. SEEM? EXPLAIN.
WILDCARD LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

WHO DO YOU THINK HOW IMPORTANT DO


WAS MORE NERVOUS YOU THINK
ON OUR FIRST DATE? BIRTHDAYS AND
EXPLAIN. HOLIDAYS ARE TO ME?
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION
RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

WHAT DO YOU THINK WHAT ASSUMPTION DID


YOU MAKE ABOUT ME
MY PERFECT DATE THAT TURNED OUT TO
NIGHT WOULD BE? BE FALSE?
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

WHAT WAS THE ON A SCALE OF 1-10,


HOW OPEN DO YOU FEEL
FIRST THINK YOU I AM WITH YOU?
NOTICED ABOUT ME? EXPLAIN.
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

WHAT HAS THIS WHAT DID OUR


RELATIONSHIP
TAUGHT YOU ABOUT WORST ARGUMENT
YOURSELF? TEACH YOU?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

ARE THERE ANY INSECURITIES WHEN WAS THE LAST


FROM PREVIOUS TIME I HURT YOU,
RELATIONSHIPS THAT YOU
CARRIED INTO THIS ONE? IF SO, PERHAPS
WHAT ARE THEY? UNINTENTIONALLY?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION
RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

HOW DOES ONE EARN WHAT ARE YOU


YOUR TRUST? HAVE I CURRENTLY WORKING
EARNED IT? HOW CAN THROUGH THAT I DON’T
I EARN MORE? SEE, IF ANYTHING?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

WHAT HAVE YOU ASK YOUR PARTNER


BEEN EXTRA SOMETHING YOU’VE
SENSITIVE TO NEVER ASKED THEM
LATELY? BEFORE.
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION WILDCARD

RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

WHAT FEAR DO YOU HAVE I HELPED YOU


THINK HOLDS ME CHANGE YOUR MIND
BACK THE MOST? ABOUT ANYTHING?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

WHAT SONG BEST HOW DO I SHOW


DESCRIBES OUR THAT I LOVE
WITHOUT TELLING
RELATIONSHIP?
YOU?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION
RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

WHAT MADE YOU WHAT DO YOU WISH


FALL IN LOVE WITH WE DID MORE OF?
ME?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

DRAW ONE OF YOUR WRITE A LOVE SONG


FAVOURITE MEMORIES FOR YOUR PARTNER (1
FROM OUT RELATIONSHIP MINUTE). PERFORM FOR
(30 SECONDS). COMPARE. EACH OTHER.
WILDCARD WILDCARD

RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

WHAT’S ONE SMALL WHAT IMMEDIATELY


WAY WE CAN ATTRACTED YOU TO ME?
IMPROVE OUR SEX WHAT ATTRACTED YOU
LIFE? MORE OVER TIME?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

WRITE DOWN THE TITLE ON A SCALE OF 1-10 WRITE


YOU WOULD GIVE THIS DOWN THE IMPORTANCE OF
CHAPTER OF OUR HAVING KIDS TO YOU.
RELATIONSHIP. COMPARE. COMPARE AND EXPLAIN.
WILDCARD WILDCARD
RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

THE HARDEST THING FINISH THE


FOR ME TO REVEAL SENTENCE: THANK
ABOUT MYSELF TO YOU YOU FOR ACCEPTING...
WAS...
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

WHAT’S THE BEST GIFT WHAT’S THE MOST


I’VE GIVEN YOU? ROMANTIC THING I’VE
MATERIAL AND DONE FOR YOU
IMMATERIAL? RECENTLY?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

WHAT’S THE MOST HOW DOES OUR AGE


ATTRACTIVE THING I DIFFERENCE, OR LACK
DO WITHOUT THEREOF, AFFECT US? IF
REALIZING IT? AT ALL?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

WRITE DOWN THE TITLE ON A SCALE OF 1-10 WRITE


YOU WOULD GIVE THIS DOWN THE IMPORTANCE OF
CHAPTER OF OUR HAVING KIDS TO YOU.
RELATIONSHIP. COMPARE. COMPARE AND EXPLAIN.
WILDCARD WILDCARD
RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

WHAT HAVE I HELPED WHAT’S THE MOST


YOU APPRECIATE IMPORTANT LESSON A
ABOUT YOURSELF? PAST RELATIONSHIP
HAS TAUGHT YOU?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

WHAT’S ONE SMALL DO YOU THINK MY JOB


WAY I CAN BE A AFFECTS ME POSITIVELY
OR NEGATIVELY? HOW
BETTER PARTNER? DOES IT AFFECT US?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

WHAT ABOUT YOU WRITE A SHORT GUIDE


OF HOW TO LOVE YOUR
FEELS HARDEST TO PARTNER WELL (30
LOVE? SECONDS).
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION WILDCARD

RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

HOW DO OUR STRENGTHS WRITE DOWN THE TOP 3


AND WEAKNESSES THINGS YOUR PARTNER DOES
COMPLEMENT EACH THAT MAKES YOU FEEL THE
OTHER? MOST LOVED. COMPARE.

LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION WILDCARD


RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

WRITE DOWN ONE SMALL HOW HAVE YOU SEEN


WAY YOU CAN BE BETTER
IN THIS RELATIONSHIP. ME GROW IN THIS
COMPARE. RELATIONSHIP?
WILDCARD LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

WHAT WOULD A DAY


WHAT RECENT
OF COMPLETELY
EXPERIENCE MADE YOU
SPOILING ME LOOK
FEEL CLOSER TO ME?
LIKE?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

WHAT FEELINGS ARE HARD IS THERE ANYTHING YOU


FOR YOU TO COMMUNICATE STILL DON’T KNOW
TO ME? HOW CAN I MAKE IT ABOUT ME THAT YOU
EASIER? WISH YOU DID?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

THANK YOU FOR WHAT ABOUT OUR


HELPING ME
REALISE____ABOUT RELATIONSHIP ARE
MYSELF. YOU PROUDEST OF?
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION
RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

WHAT GOAL WOULD FEEL


WHAT DON’T I GIVE BEST FOR YOU TO
MYSELF ENOUGH ACCOMPLISH THIS YEAR?
CREDIT FOR? HOW CAN I SUPPORT YOU
IN THAT?
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

WHAT DID THIS WHAT ANSWER OF MINE


CONVERSATION TEACH YOU SURPRISED YOU THE
ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP?
WHAT DID IT TEACH YOU MOST THROUGHOUT THIS
ABOUT YOURSELF? GAME, IF ANY?
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

RELATIONSHIP INNER CIRCLE

WRITE DOWN YOUR WHAT DO YOU


INTENTION FOR OUR
RELATIONSHIP. THINK MY MAIN
COMPARE. LOVE LANGUAGE IS?
WILDCARD LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

INNER CIRCLE RELATIONSHIP

WRITE DOWN THE TOP 3


WHAT DO YOU THINGS YOU’RE MOST
THINK I’M MOST GRATEFUL FOR IN YOUR
PARTNER (30 SECONDS).
SENSITIVE TO? COMPARE.
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION WILDCARD
RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

WHAT ARE YOU WHEN’S THE LAST


CURRENTLY WORKING
THROUGH THAT I TIME I SURPRISED
DON’T SEE? YOU?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

INNER CIRCLE INNER CIRCLE

WHAT’S BROUGHT YOU WHAT ANSWER OF MINE


THE MOST SURPRISED YOU THE
UNEXPECTED JOY MOST THROUGHOUT THIS
RECENTLY? GAME, IF ANY?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

INNER CIRCLE INNER CIRCLE

SING YOUR FAVOURITE DRAW YOUR


SONG LYRICS YOU CAN
THINK OF OFF THE TOP FAVOURITE MEMORY
OF YOUR HEADS. WITH ME.
WILDCARD WILDCARD

INNER CIRCLE INNER CIRCLE

HOW CAN I ADD 1% FINISH THE


MORE HAPPINESS TO SENTENCE:
YOUR LIFE? WHEN I’M HURT I...
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION WILDCARD
RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

WHAT’S THE A PERFECT DAY


HARDEST TRUTH YOU
HAD TO FACE THIS TOGETHER WOULD
PAST YEAR? BE...
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

INNER CIRCLE INNER CIRCLE

WHEN’S THE LAST WHAT IS A MOMENT IN


OUR RELATIONSHIP
TIME YOU FELT THAT YOU FELT
LUCKY TO BE YOU? UNDENIABLY LOVED?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

INNER CIRCLE INNER CIRCLE

SET AN INTENTION WHEN WAS THE


FOR NEXT WEEK. LAST TIME YOU FELT
STICK TO IT. MOST YOURSELF?
WILDCARD LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

INNER CIRCLE INNER CIRCLE

WHO IN YOUR LIFE DO WHAT’S A FEELING


YOU FEEL YOU CAN BE YOU’RE
MOST VULNERABLE UNCOMFORTABLE
WITH? EXPLAIN. SHARING WITH ME?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION
RELATIONSHIP RELATIONSHIP

HOW CAN I BEST WHAT’S THE MOST FUN


SUPPORT YOU IN THIS YOU CAN REMEMBER
CHAPTER IN YOUR HAVING WITH ME
LIFE? RECENTLY?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

INNER CIRCLE INNER CIRCLE

HAVE I EVER WHAT ARE YOU


CHALLENGED YOUR PROUDEST OF ME
WORLDVIEW? HOW FOR?
SO?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

INNER CIRCLE INNER CIRCLE

ASK ME SOMETHING WHAT’S SOMETHING


WE SHOULD
YOU THINK IS OFF CELEBRATE
LIMITS. TOGETHER?
WILDCARD LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

INNER CIRCLE INNER CIRCLE

YOU’VE SHOWN FINISH THE


ME____ ABOUT SENTENCE:
MYSELF. THANK YOU FOR...
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION WILDCARD
OWN IT OWN IT

WHAT BLAME HAVE YOU WHAT PART(S) OF


BEEN PLACING ON SOMEONE YOURSELF HAVE YOU BEEN
ELSE THAT YOU CAN TAKE MINIMIZING THAT YOU’RE
SOME ACCOUNTABILITY READY TO FINALLY OWN?
FOR?

OWN IT OWN IT

WHAT HAS BROUGHT WHO FROM YOUR PAST


YOU THE MOST WOULD YOU WANT TO
UNEXPECTED JOY REUNITE WITH? WHAT
RECENTLY? WOULD YOU ASK THEM?

OWN IT OWN IT

WHAT HAS YOUR WHAT HAVE YOU


HEART BEEN TELLING
YOU THAT YOU’VE NOT FORGIVEN THAT
BEEN IGNORING? HURTS THE MOST?

OWN IT OWN IT

WHAT ACT OF WHAT DO YOU WISH


KINDNESS FROM A YOU HAD THE
STRANGER WILL YOU COURAGE TO DO? TO
NEVER FORGET? SAY?
OWN IT OWN IT

WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME WHO IN YOUR LIFE DO


YOU FELT COMPLETE ZEN? YOU WANT TO BUILD A
WHO WERE YOU WITH?
WHERE WERE YOU? WHAT DEEPER RELATIONSHIP
WERE YOU DOING? WITH?

OWN IT OWN IT

WHAT HAVE YOU WHAT LESSON IN


ENVIED IN THE PAST LOVE TOOK YOU THE
THAT YOU CAN LONGEST TO LEARN?
LAUGH AT NOW?

OWN IT OWN IT

WHAT AREA OF YOUR LIFE HOW WOULD YOU


HAVE YOU MADE THE MOST DESCRIBE YOUR
PROGRESS IN RECENTLY? GET
SPECIFIC. TAKE A MOMENT TO RELATIONSHIP WITH
CONGRATULATE YOURSELF. YOURSELF IN ONE WORD?

OWN IT OWN IT

WHO DO YOU FEEL


WHAT IS YOUR X- MISUNDERSTOOD BY?
FACTOR? PERMISSION WHAT DO YOU WITH THEY
TO BRAG. WOULD COME TO
UNDERSTAND?
OWN IT OWN IT

SET AN INTENTION WHAT HAVE YOU


FOR TODAY, THIS BECOME NEWLY
MONTH, AND THIS AWARE OF WITHIN
YEAR. WRITE IT OUT. YOURSELF RECENTLY?
WILDCARD

OWN IT OWN IT

SPEND AT LEAST 5 WHAT’S THE HARDEST


MINUTES IN NATURE TRUTH YOU’VE HAD TO
TODAY. BE STILL AND OWN THIS PAST YEAR?
OBSERVE. WHAT DID YOU WHAT HAS OWNING IT
NOTICE? TAUGHT YOU?
WILDCARD

OWN IT OWN IT

WHAT STILL FEELS HOW HAS YOUR


VULNERABLE IN YOUR DEFINITION OF SUCCESS
LIFE? WHAT DOES OWNING EVOLVED OVER TIME?
IT LOOK LIKE FOR YOU? WHAT IS YOUR DEFINITION
OF IT TODAY?

OWN IT OWN IT

WHO IS A WOMAN IN YOUR WHAT DOOR ARE YOU MOST


LIFE THAT INSPIRES YOU TO GRATEFUL FOR CLOSING
BE A BETTER PERSON? WHY THAT FELT LIKE THE END OF
DOES SHE COME TO MIND? THE WORLD AT THE TIME?
(SEND HER A THANK YOU) WHAT DID IT OPEN FOR YOU?
OWN IT OWN IT

WRITE DOWN 3 THINGS WHAT QUESTION HAVE YOU


YOU’RE MOST GRATEFUL AVOIDED ASKING SOMEONE?
WHAT QUESTION HAVE YOU
FOR IN THIS PRESENT AVOIDED ASKING
MOMENT. BIG OR SMALL. YOURSELF?
WILDCARD

BREAKUP BREAKUP

BREAKUPS SKEW YOUR WHAT WAS THE


MEMORY. YOUR EX WAS BIGGEST TURNING
NOT PERFECT. YOU POINT IN YOUR
WILL FEEL BETTER. DATING LIFE?
REMINDER

BREAKUP BREAKUP

WHAT WERE YOU OVER-


WHAT’S THE BEST RATIONALIZING
LESSON AN EX HAS THROUGHOUT YOUR LAST
RELATIONSHIP, IF
EVER TAUGHT YOU? ANYTHING?

BREAKUP BREAKUP

WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU WHAT CAN YOU DO FOR


GIVE A FRIEND OR LOVED YOURSELF TODAY, EVEN IF
ONE GOING THROUGH A YOU DON’T ENJOY IT, TO
SIMILAR SITUATION AS MAKE FUTURE YOU HAPPY?
YOU?
BREAKUP BREAKUP

WHAT CAN YOU BE WHAT STORY ABOUT LOVE


DOING NOW WITH ALL HAVE YOU BEEN TELLING
YOURSELF THAT NO LONGER
THE ENERGY YOU WERE SERVES YOU? HOW WOULD YOU
PUTTING INTO THEM? LIKE TO CHANGE THAT STORY?

BREAKUP BREAKUP

WHAT DO YOU WANT TO WRITE 3 THINGS YOU


RECEIVE FROM A FUTURE WOULDN’T CHANGE
RELATIONSHIP? WHAT ABOUT THIS CURRENT
DO YOU WANT TO GIVE? MOMENT.
WILDCARD

BREAKUP BREAKUP

DRAW HOW YOUR WHAT WOULD FEEL


BEST TO FULLY ACCEPT
HEART FEELS IN THIS CURRENT
TODAY. MOMENT?
WILDCARD

BREAKUP BREAKUP

WERE THERE ANY PATTERNS WOULD YOU ENCOURAGE


IN YOUR PREVIOUS
RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU’RE YOUR FUTURE CHILD TO BE IN
NEWLY AWARE OF? IF SO, A RELATIONSHIP LIKE YOUR
WHAT WERE THEY? LAST? WHY OR WHY NOT?
BREAKUP BREAKUP

DID YOU LIKE YOUR EX WERE YOU MORE


AS A PERSON? OR ATTRACTED TO THEIR
WERE YOU JUST IN POTENTIAL OR WHO THEY
LOVE? EXPLAIN. REALLY WERE? EXPLAIN.

BREAKUP BREAKUP

WHAT DO YOU WANT TO WRITE 3 THINGS YOU


RECEIVE FROM A FUTURE ABOUT YOUR LAST
RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU
RELATIONSHIP? WHAT WILL NO LONGER ACCEPT
DO YOU WANT TO GIVE? MOVING FORWARD.
WILDCARD

BREAKUP BREAKUP

DO YOU WANT HOW CAN YOU SHOW


CLOSURE OR JUST AN UP FOR YOURSELF
EXCUSE TO TALK TO WHEN NO ONE ELSE
THEM? EXPLAIN. CAN?

BREAKUP BREAKUP

WHAT HAVE ALL YOUR DON’T LET YOUR


PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIPS HAD LONELINESS TAKE YOU
IN COMMON THAT YOU’D LIKE
TO AVOID MOVING FORWARD, BACK TO PEOPLE WHO
IF ANYTHING. REPEATEDLY HURT YOU.
REMINDER
BREAKUP BREAKUP

WHAT IS YOUR HEART WHAT ARE 3 THINGS YOU


TELLING YOU? WHAT IS CAN APPRECIATE ABOUT
YOUR MIND TELLING BEING SINGLE (EVEN IF IT
YOU? FEELS HARD)?

BREAKUP BREAKUP

WHAT HAS HELPED YOU WHAT DID YOU LAST


HEAL FROM A HEARTBREAK RELATIONSHIP MAKE
IN THE PAST, BESIDES TIME
AND MEETING SOMEONE YOU APPRECIATE
NEW? ABOUT YOURSELF?

BREAKUP BREAKUP

WHAT PARTS OF WRITE DOWN 3 THINGS


YOURSELF DO YOU YOU LOVE ABOUT
NEED TO BREAK UP YOURSELF THAT
WITH? AREN’T PHYSICAL.
WILDCARD

BREAKUP BREAKUP

HOW DID YOU GET WHAT VALIDATION ARE


YOU SEEKING FROM A
OVER YOUR FIRST PARTNER? HOW CAN YOU
LOVE? GIVE IT TO YOURSELF?
BREAKUP BREAKUP

WHAT FEELS UNIQUE DID THEIR LOVE LEAVE YOU


ABOUT THIS FEELING GOOD MOST OF THE
TIME? IF NOT, WHAT WAS
HEARTBREAK, IF THE DOMINANT FEELING
ANYTHING? THEY LEFT YOU WITH?

BREAKUP BREAKUP

PICTURE YOU’RE TALKING ARE YOU TALKING TO OTHER


TO YOUR EX. FINISH THE PEOPLE CURRENTLY? IF SO,
ARE YOU SEEKING A REAL
SENTENCE: YOU HURT ME, CONNECTION OR NEEDING A
BUT THANK YOU FOR... DISTRACTION?

BREAKUP BREAKUP

HOW HAS YOUR LAST YOUR LOVE LIFE IS ONE


RELATIONSHIP AREA OF YOUR LIFE.
PREPARED YOU FOR DON’T FORGET TO
YOUR NEXT ONE? NURTURE THE REST.
REMINDER

BREAKUP BREAKUP

WHAT PART OF YOUR DO YOU HAVE A LIMITING


LAST RELATIONSHIP BELIEF ABOUT LOVE? WHERE
DO YOU THINK IT STEMS
WORKED? WHAT FROM? HOW CAN YOU
PART OF IT HURT? CHALLENGE THIS BELIEF?
BREAKUP BREAKUP

SIGNIFICANT OTHER ASIDE, IMAGINE YOU’RE


WHEN YOU VISUALIZE TALKING TO YOUR EX.
COMING HOME TO A LIFE YOU
LOVE, WHAT DOES THAT FINISH THE SENTENCE:
LOOK LIKE? I’M SORRY FOR...

BREAKUP BREAKUP

IF YOU COULD ASK YOUR EX DID YOUR LAST


ONE THING, AND GET A RELATIONSHIP REVEAL SOME
COMPLETELY HONEST TOXIC TRAITS IN YOURSELF
ANSWER, WHAT WOULD IT THAT YOU’D LIKE TO WORK
BE? ON? IF SO, WHAT ARE THEY?

BREAKUP BREAKUP

WERE YOU LYING TO WRITE DOWN 3


YOURSELF ABOUT ANYTHING THINGS YOU LOVE
DURING YOUR LAST
RELATIONSHIP? IF SO, WHAT ABOUT YOURSELF
WAS IT? PHYSICALLY.
WILDCARD

BREAKUP BREAKUP

WHO IN YOUR LIFE HAS BEEN WHAT TITLE WOULD


TREATING YOU RIGHT LATELY? YOU GIVE THIS
LET THEM KNOW BEFORE
MOVING ON TO THE NEXT CHAPTER OF YOUR
CARD. (EXES NOT INCLUDED) HEALING PROCESS?
BREAKUP BREAKUP

WHAT’S YOUR EX’S AFTER YOUR MOST


RECENT BREAKUP,
NAME AND ONE WHAT SONG DID YOU
THING ABOUT THEM? PLAY ON REPEAT?

BREAKUP BREAKUP

SET A TIME THIS WEEK WRITE A NOTE TO YOUR


TO DO SOMETHING YOU FUTURE SELF. FOLD AND
PLACE SOMEWHERE SAFE.
LOVE AND LIMIT ANY SET A REMINDER TO OPEN 3
DISTRACTIONS. MONTHS FROM TODAY.
WILDCARD WILDCARD

BREAKUP BREAKUP

WRITE A FINAL NOTE TO


WRITE A STAND UP ROUTINE
YOUR EX THAT THEY’LL
ABOUT YOUR LAST
NEVER SEE. GET IT ALL OFF
RELATIONSHIP (1 MINUTE).
YOUR CHEST. TEAR WHEN
READ IT OUT LOUD.
YOU FEEL READY.
FINAL CARD WILDCARD

HEALING HEALING

DELETE ALL OF YOUR WHAT PIECE OF ADVICE


SOCIAL MEDIA APPS FOR HAS HELPED YOUR
A DAY. JOURNAL ABOUT MENTAL HEALTH THE
HOW YOU FELT AFTER. MOST?
WILDCARD
HEALING HEALING

WHAT TITLE WOULD WHAT DOES SELF-CARE


YOU GIVE THIS CHAPTER LOOK LIKE FOR YOU? GET
OF YOUR HEALING SPECIFIC. CREATE THAT
JOURNEY? DAY FOR YOURSELF.

HEALING SELF-REFLECTION

WHO’S BEEN GOOD FOR WHAT ARE YOU


YOUR MENTAL HEALTH? CURRENTLY HEALING
SEND THEM A PICTURE OF
THIS CARD AS A THANK
FROM THAT OTHER’S
YOU. DON’T SEE?

HEALING HEALING

WHAT HURT YOUR YOUNGER


ADMIT SOMETHING SELF THAT YOU NEVER FULLY
HEALED FROM? WHAT WOULD
(TO YOURSELF). YOU SAY TO YOUR YOUNGER
SELF TODAY?
WILDCARD

HEALING HEALING

HOW HAVE YOU NEGLECTED WHAT HAVE YOU BEEN


YOUR MENTAL HEALTH AVOIDING THAT DESERVES
RECENTLY? WHAT’S ONE YOUR ATTENTION? WHY
SMALL WAY YOU CAN MAKE IT HAVE YOU BEEN AVOIDING
UP TO YOURSELF? IT?
HEALING HEALING

WHAT DOES PRIORITIZING WHEN WAS THE LAST


YOUR MENTAL HEALTH TIME YOU DIDN’T ASK
LOOK LIKE IN THIS FOR HELP, BUT REALLY
CHAPTER OF YOUR LIFE? NEEDED IT?

HEALING HEALING

WHAT WOULD FEEL WHAT PROMISE DO YOU


BEST TO LET GO OF WANT TO KEEP TO
YOURSELF THIS YEAR?
TODAY? WRITE IT OUT WRITE IT OUT AND DATE
AND RIP IT UP. IT.
WILDCARD WILDCARD

HEALING HEALING

WHAT’S ONE THING (BIG OR


SMALL) YOU’RE MOST I KNOW MY
LOOKING FORWARD TO? ANXIETY IS SETTING
WHAT ABOUT IT EXCITES
YOU MOST? IN WHEN...

HEALING HEALING

WHAT HAVE I BEEN HOW WOULD I DESCRIBE


SENSITIVE TO MY RELATIONSHIP WITH
LATELY? MYSELF IN ONE WORD?
HEALING HEALING

GET SOMETHING OFF FINISH THE


YOUR CHEST. WRITE SENTENCE: I NEED
IT OUT (1 MINUTE). HELP WITH...
WILDCARD

HEALING HEALING

WHAT’S BEEN THE WHAT’S BEEN CAUSING YOU


BEST THING FOR YOUR UNNECESSARY STRESS?
MENTAL HEALTH WHAT WOULD HELP
LATELY? ALLEVIATE THAT FOR YOU?

HEALING HEALING

YOU DON’T HAVE TO HOW CAN YOU CONTRIBUTE


HAVE IT ALL FIGURED TO SOMEONE ELSE’S
HAPPINESS TODAY? DO
OUT RIGHT NOW. SLEEP THAT THING, BIG OR
ON IT. SMALL.
REMINDER

HEALING HEALING

WHO DO I FEEL MOST WHAT IS ONE TRUTH


I’VE RECENTLY COME TO
MYSELF AROUND? TERMS WITH? (WRITE
WHY? IT OUT.)
WILDCARD
HEALING HEALING

FINISH THE WHAT’S SOMETHING YOU CAN


SENTENCE: I’M SAY “NO” TO THIS WEEK TO
PRIORITIZE YOUR MENTAL
WORKING ON HEALTH? WHAT’S SOMETHING
ACCEPTING... YOU CAN SAY “YES” TO?

HEALING HEALING

WHAT OR WHO DO WRITE OUT AN INTRUSIVE


YOU NEED TO SET A THOUGHT. CROSS IT OUT.
HEALTHY BOUNDARY REPLACE WITH A POSITIVE
WITH? AFFIMARTION.
WILDCARD

HEALING HEALING

TODAY I’M WHAT SMALL STEP CAN


YOU TAKE TOWARDS
STRUGGLING WITH... YOUR HEALING TODAY?

HEALING HEALING

WHAT DO YOU IF YOU’RE TRYING NOT


UNDERSTAND NOW ABOUT TO THINK ABOUT IT,
THE HEALING PROCESS IT’S PROBABLY TIME
THAT YOU DIDN’T BEFORE? TO HEAL IT.
REMINDER
HEALING HEALING

TAKE 3 DEEP BREATHS WRITE DOWN THE NAMES OF


BEFORE FLIPPING TO THE EVERYONE YOU FEEL
NEXT CARD. HOLD FOR 2 UNCONDITIONALLY LOVED BY.
SECONDS BETWEEN EACH MAKE MORE TIME FOR THESE
BREATH. PEOPLE (EVEN IF IT’S YOURSELF).
WILDCARD WILDCARD

HEALING HEALING

WHEN WAS THE FIRST


ILLUSTRATE HOW MENTAL HEALTH SCARE YOU
YOUR MIND FEELS REMEMBER HAVING? WHAT
STANDS OUT TO YOU ABOUT
TODAY (30 SECONDS). IT?
WILDCARD

HEALING HEALING

JUMP UP AND DOWN AS IF YOU’RE


HOW DO YOU DEFINE CELEBRATING THE BEST NEWS OF
YOUR LIFE FOR 30 SECONDS BEFORE
HAPPINESS? FLIPPING TO THE NEXT CARD. NO,
SERIOUSLY, DO IT.

WILDCARD

HEALING HEALING

FINISH THE SENTENCE: I WANT


TO GIVE MYSELF PERMISSION WHAT IS YOUR BODY
TO FEEL____. WHAT’S TELLING YOU
GETTING IN THE WAY OF
THAT? TODAY?
HEALING HEALING

WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME WHAT EMOTION KEEPS


YOU HEALED FROM COMING UP FOR YOU
SOMETHING YOU WEREN’T LATELY? WHY DO YOU
SURE YOU COULD MOVE PAST? THINK THAT IS?

HEALING HEALING

WHAT DO YOU NEED STRETCH FOR 30


SECONDS BEFORE
RIGHT NOW MORE FLIPPING TO THE
THAN ANYTHING? NEXT CARD.
WILDCARD

HEALING HEALING

WHAT SONG MAKES YOU I’M PROUD OF THE


HAPPY? PLAY IT IN THE PROGRESS YOU’RE
BACKGROUND WHILE YOU
ANSWER THE NEXT FEW MAKING. NO MATTER
CARDS. HOW SMALL.
REMINDER

HEALING HEALING

WHAT’S BEEN DRAINING WHAT’S BEEN THE WORST


YOUR ENERGY LATELY? THINK FOR YOUR MENTAL
HEALTH LATELY (THAT’S
WHAT’S BEEN GIVING YOU WITHIN YOUR CONTROL TO
ENERGY? CHANGE)?
HEALING HEALING

HOW HAS YOUR MENTAL PAY ATTENTION TO


HEALTH AFFECTED YOUR WHO YOU’RE WITH
ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS, WHEN YOU FEEL YOUR
IF AT ALL? BEST.
REMINDER

HEALING HEALING

WHAT’S A BOUNDARY YOU WRITE OUT 3


CAN SET WITH YOURSELF
TODAY THAT WILL THINGS THAT MADE
BENEFIT FUTURE YOU? YOU SMILE TODAY.
WILDCARD

FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

WHO IN YOUR LIFE WHEN WAS THE LAST


GIVES YOU THE WORST TIME YOU GAVE AN
APOLOGIES? WHY DO INGENUINE APOLOGY?
THEY COME TO MIND? WHY?

FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

HAVE MORE FINISH THE


SENTENCE: I’M
EMPATHY. FOR WORKING ON
YOURSELF TOO. ACCEPTING...
REMINDER
FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

HAVE YOU BEEN CARRYING


ANY RESENTMENT RECENTLY? AN APOLOGY ISN’T
WHAT’S ONE SMALL STEP YOU THE TIME TO
CAN TAKE TOWARDS LETTING
IT GO? DEFEND YOURSELF.
REMINDER

FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

WHAT DOES AN WHAT MISTAKE ARE


IDEAL APOLOGY YOU MOST GRATEFUL
LOOK LIKE TO YOU? FOR MAKING?

FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

WHAT DID YOU HAVE WHO’S THE MOST


TO UNLEARN ABOUT
FORGIVENESS, IF UNDERSTANDING
ANYTHING? PERSON YOU KNOW?

FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

FINISH THE SENTENCE: WHAT TITLE WOULD


I’M STILL WORKING YOU GIVE THIS CHAPTER
ON____. AND THAT’S OF YOUR FORGIVENESS
OKAY. JOURNEY?
FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

LOOK IN THE MIRROR. WHAT HAVE YOU


FINISH THE SENTENCE: I LEARNED ABOUT
FORGIVE YOU FOR FORGIVENESS AS YOU’VE
____. GOTTEN OLDER?
WILDCARD

FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

WHO DO YOU WISH YOU FINISH THE SENTENCE:


COULD RECEIVE AN APOLOGY THE HARDEST PART
FROM, IF ANYBODY? WHAT
DO YOU WISH THEY WOULD ABOUT FORGIVENESS
SAY? IS...

FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

IS THERE SOMEONE YOU’VE WHAT HAVE YOU BEEN HARDEST


FORGIVEN WHO DOESN’T ON YOURSELF FOR RECENTLY?
WHAT WOULD YOU SAY TO A
KNOW IT YET? IF SO, FRIEND GOING THROUGH A
WHAT’S STOPPING YOU? SIMILAR SITUATION?

FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

WHAT DO YOU NEED WHAT DOES A BAD


TO FORGIVE YOURSELF APOLOGY LOOK
FOR TODAY? LIKE?
FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

LOOK IN THE MIRROR. WHO HAVE YOU HAD


FINISH THE SENTENCE: I
FORGIVE YOU FOR TO FORGIVE TOO
____. MANY TIMES?
WILDCARD

FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

REPLACE “THAT WAS SO WHAT DOES


STUPID OF ME” WITH
“THAT WAS SO HUMAN RESENTMENT FEEL
OF ME.” LIKE IN YOUR BODY?
REMINDER

FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

HAS AN APOLOGY EVER WHO DO YOU WISH YOU


STUCK WITH YOU TILL COULD APOLOGIZE TO?
THIS DAY, OR LACK WHAT WOULD YOU
THEREOF? IF SO, WHY? SAY?

FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

WHAT DO YOU NEED WHAT DOES A BAD


TO FORGIVE YOURSELF APOLOGY LOOK
FOR TODAY? LIKE?
FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

BEFORE APOLOGIZING ASK WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME


YOURSELF: WHAT AM I SAYING
SORRY FOR? DO I MEAN IT? OR
YOU WERE WRONG IN A
AM I ACTING SMALL FOR SITUATION BUT DIDN’T
SOMEONE ELSE’S COMFORT? ADMIT IT BECAUSE OF PRIDE?

WILDCARD

FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

ARE YOU PUNISHING YOURSELF


FOR ANYTHING RIGHT NOW? FORGIVE YOURSELF
HOW CAN YOU SHOW EMPATHY LIKE YOU DID YOUR
FOR YOURSELF IN THIS
MOMENT? EX SO MANY TIMES.
REMINDER

FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

HOW FORGIVING ARE YOU IS THERE SOMETHING YOU


TOWARDS YOURSELF ON A HAVEN’T FORGIVEN YOUR
SCALE OF 1-10? HOW CAN
YOU INCREASE YOUR PARENTS FOR? IF SO,
ANSWER BY 1 POINT? WHAT COMES TO MIND?

FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

WHAT’S THE HARDEST WHAT DID YOU BEAT


THING YOU’VE HAD TO YOURSELF UP OVER WHEN
YOU WERE YOUNGER THAT
FORGIVE YOU CAN HAVE MORE
YOURSELF/SOMEONE ELSE EMPATHY FOR NOW?
FOR?
FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

WHAT DID YOUR CHILDHOOD


WHAT ARE YOU HOLDING ON
TEACH YOU ABOUT
TO THAT’S NO LONGER
FORGIVENESS? TOWARDS
HOLDING ON TO YOU? WRITE
OTHERS? TOWARDS
IT DOWN AND RIP IT UP.
YOURSELF?
WILDCARD

FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

WHO IS SOMEONE THAT HAS HOW FORGIVING ARE YOU OF


FORGIVEN YOU IN THE PAST, OTHER PEOPLE ON A SCALE 1-
THAT YOU’RE GRATEFUL FOR 10? HOW CAN YOU INCREASE
TO THIS DAY? YOUR ANSWER BY 1 POINT?

FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

WRITE OUT ONE MISTAKE HOW DO YOU TREAT


YOU’VE MADE RECENTLY YOURSELF WHEN
AND THE LESSON IT YOU’VE MADE A
TAUGHT YOU. MISTAKE?
WILDCARD

FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

WHAT DO YOU KEEP FINISH THE


HAVING TO APOLOGIZE FOR
THAT’S WITHIN YOUR SENTENCE: I’M TIRED
CONTROL TO CHANGE? OF APOLOGIZING FOR...
FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

IS THERE SOMEONE YOU IS THERE SOMEONE IN


OWE AN APOLOGY TO YOUR LIFE YOU’VE YET
THAT PERHAPS YOU’VE TO FORGIVE? IF SO,
OVERLOOKED? WHY?

FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME


HOW DO YOU DEFINE YOU OWED SOMEONE AN
APOLOGY BUT DIDN’T GIVE
FORGIVENESS? IT TO THEM? WHAT
STOPPED YOU?

FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

WHO TOOK YOU THE WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME


LONGEST TO FORGIVE? YOU FELT UNAPPRECIATED BY
SOMEONE? GIVE YOURSELF
WHAT HELPED YOU THAT VALIDATION BEFORE
GET THERE? FLIPPING TO THE NEXT CARD.

FORGIVENESS FORGIVENESS

FINISH THE IS THERE SOMETHING


SENTENCE: I KNOW YOU HAVEN’T
I’VE FORGIVEN FORGIVEN YOUR EX
SOMEONE WHEN... FOR?
FORGIVENESS QUARANTINE

WHO IN YOUR LIFE GIVES WHAT DO YOU THINK


THE BEST APOLOGIES?
WHY DO THEY COME TO
I’VE BEEN BINGE
MIND? WATCHING LATELY?
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

QUARANTINE QUARANTINE

DO YOU THINK I’M WHAT DO YOU


MAINLY COOKING OR THINK IS MY GO TO
GETTING TAKE OUT? SNACK?
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

QUARANTINE QUARANTINE

WHAT TIME DO YOU WHAT ARE YOU MOST


THINK I USUALLY EXCITED FOR TODAY?
WAKE UP? BIG OR SMALL?
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

QUARANTINE QUARANTINE

WHAT CAN YOU


SHARE YOUR SCREEN CREATE TODAY WITH
TIME. EXACTLY WHAT YOU
HAVE? BIG OR SMALL.
WILDCARD LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION
QUARANTINE QUARANTINE

SHARE YOUR MOST WHAT WOULD FEEL


BEST TO FULLY ACCEPT
PLAYED SONG AT IN THIS CURRENT
THE MOMENT. MOMENT?
WILDCARD LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

QUARANTINE QUARANTINE

WHAT MOVIE DO YOU WHAT CHANGE DO YOU


WISH YOU’D NEVER SEEN WANT TO MAKE IN
SO YOU CAN WATCH IT YOUR DAY TO DAY
FOR THE FIRST TIME? LIFE IF ANY?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

QUARANTINE QUARANTINE

WHAT HAS BEEN THE WHAT’S BEEN THE KINDEST


HARDEST PART OF ALL THING SOMEONE HAS DONE FOR
YOU? WHAT’S BEEN THE
THIS FOR YOU? KINDEST THING YOU’VE DONE
PERMISSION TO VENT. FOR YOURSELF?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

QUARANTINE QUARANTINE

IF YOU MADE A WHAT DO I NEED TO


PLAYLIST FOR ME,
WHAT 3 SONGS WATCH AS SOON AS I
WOULD BE ON IT? HAVE THE TIME?
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION
QUARANTINE QUARANTINE

WHO’S BEEN ON YOUR MIND WHAT DO I NEED TO


LATELY? SEND THEM A
TEXT LETTING THEM KNOW WATCH AS SOON AS I
YOU’RE THINKING OF THEM. HAVE THE TIME?
WILDCARD LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

QUARANTINE RACE AND PRIVILEGE

HOW CAN I BEST BE WHAT PRIVILEGES


THERE FOR YOU? DO YOU THINK I
HAVE? EXPLAIN.
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

RACE AND PRIVILEGE RACE AND PRIVILEGE

WRITE DOWN YOUR WHAT STEREOTYPES DO


BIGGEST FEAR ENTERING YOU THINK HAVE BEEN
THIS CONVERSATION
ABOUT RACE (1 MINUTE). MADE ABOUT YOU, IF
COMPARE. ANY?
WILCARD LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

RACE AND PRIVILEGE RACE AND PRIVILEGE

PERMISSION TO SOUND WHAT HAS BEEN YOUR


UNINFORMED: WHAT HAVE PERSONAL EXPERIENCE WITH
YOU ALWAYS WONDERED POLICE? WHY DO YOU THINK
BUT FELT TOO AFRAID TO THAT IS? WHEN YOU GET PULLED
ASK ABOUT RACE/RACISM? OVER HOW SAFE DO YOU FEEL?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION
RACE AND PRIVILEGE RACE AND PRIVILEGE

WHAT DID THE PEOPLE HOW DO YOU DEFINE


THAT RAISED YOU TEACH “PRIVILEGE”? ARTICULATE
YOU ABOUT RACE? WHAT PRIVILEGES YOU
DIRECTLY OR INDIRECTLY? THINK YOU HAVE.
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

RACE AND PRIVILEGE RACE AND PRIVILEGE

WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU WHAT DO YOU FEEL


HAVE A SHIFT IN PERSPECTIVE WHEN YOU HEAR “BLACK
REGARDING THE TOPIC OF
RACE/RACISM? HOW DID THAT LIVES MATTER”? “ALL
SHIFT OCCUR FOR YOU? LIVES MATTER”?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

RACE AND PRIVILEGE RACE AND PRIVILEGE

HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT WHAT DID YOU GROW UP


CANCEL CULTURE IN REGARDS BELIEVING “BEAUTIFUL”
TO RACE/RACISM? WHAT ROLE LOOKED LIKE? WHERE DID
DOES IT PLAY? HOW DOES IT THAT COME FROM? HOW HAS
HELP? HOW DOES IT HURT? IT EVOLVED?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

RACE AND PRIVILEGE RACE AND PRIVILEGE

HAVE YOU EVER HAD TO


HAVE YOU EVER BEEN CALLED OUT UNFRIEND OR CREATE A
FOR SAYING SOMETHING BOUNDARY TOWARDS SOMEONE
INSENSITIVE REGARDING RACE?
HOW DID IT MAKE YOU FEEL? DID IT YOU LOVE BECAUSE OF A
CHANGE YOU? WHY OR WHY NOT? DISCONNECT CONCERNING THE
TOPIC OF RACE/RACISM?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION
RACE AND PRIVILEGE RACE AND PRIVILEGE

ON A SCALE OF 1-10 HOW WOULD YOU


RATE YOUR CURRENT KNOWLEDGE OF WHAT QUALITIES DO
YOUR NATION’S HISTORIC REGARDING
OR SLAVERY AND SYSTEMIC RACISM? YOU ASSOCIATE WITH
WHAT CAN YOU DO TO HELP RAISE
YOUR KNOWLEDGE BY 1 POINT?
A GOOD LISTENER?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

RACE AND PRIVILEGE RACE AND PRIVILEGE

WHAT’S AN UNPOPULAR OPINION BE OPEN TO CHANGING YOUR


YOU HOLD REGARDING MIND WHEN RECEIVING NEW
RACE/RACISM THAT YOU FEEL TOO INFORMATION, ESPECIALLY IF
AFRAID TO VOICE? HAVE YOU EVER IT MAKES YOU
CHALLENGED THAT OPINION? UNCOMFORTABLE.
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION REMINDER

RACE AND PRIVILEGE RACE AND PRIVILEGE

HAVE YOU EVER HAS YOU FAMILY EVER SAID


EXPERIENCED RACISM IN SOMETHING YOU DEEPLY
YOUR FRIEND/PEER GROUP? DISAGREED WITH REGARDING
DID YOU CALL IT OUT? WHY THE TOPIC RACE/RACISM?
OR WHY NOT? HOW DID YOU RESPOND?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

RACE AND PRIVILEGE RACE AND PRIVILEGE

IN YOU DAY TO DAY LIFE, HOW HOW CAN YOU TURN YOUR
OFTEN DO YOU THINK ABOUT PRIVILEGE INTO POSITIVE
RACE/THE COLOUR OF YOUR
OWN SKIN? WHY DO YOU CHANGE WITH YOUR
THINK THAT IS? VOICE AND RESOURCES?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION
RACE AND PRIVILEGE RACE AND PRIVILEGE

WRITE DOWN ONE WHAT DO YOU HOPE FUTURE


LESSON THIS GENERATIONS UNDERSTAND
ABOUT RACE? WHAT IS OUR
CONVERSATION ROLE IN HELPING THEM
TAUGHT YOU. COMPARE. UNDERSTAND?
WILDCARD LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

RACE AND PRIVILEGE VOTING

HOW CAN YOU BE A IF THE ELECTION DOESN’T GO YOUR


WAY, HOW WILL YOU OR YOUR
BETTER LISTENER TO LOVED ONE’S LIVES BE AFFECTED?
THINGS YOU DON’T ARE YOU INFORMED ABOUT THE
POTENTIAL IMPACT YOUR
UNDERSTAND? VOTE/LACK THEREOF WILL HAVE?
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

VOTING VOTING

WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU WHAT BOUNDARIES FEEL


CHANGED YOUR MIND ABOUT IMPORTANT FOR YOU TO
SOMETHING POLITICALLY? WHAT
PROMPTED YOUR SHIFT IN SET IN THE CONVERSATION
PERSPECTIVE? SURROUNDING POLITICS?

VOTING VOTING

WHAT’S ONE THING YOU FEEL HOW DO YOU WANT TO USE


UNINFORMED ABOUT POLITICALLY
THAT YOU’D LIKE TO GATHER MORE YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA
INFORMATION ON? WHAT’S ONE PLATFORM (BIG OR SMALL)
SMALL STEP YOU CAN TAKE TOWARDS
GAINING MORE KNOWLEDGE ON THIS TO ENACT CHANGE THAT
TOPIC? FEELS AUTHENTIC TO YOU?
VOTING VOTING

HOW DID YOUR IF YOU COULD ENACT


UPBRINGING SHAPE YOUR ONE POLICY TODAY,
VIEWS ON POLITICS? HOW
HAS IT EVOLVED OVER WHAT WOULD IT BE
TIME? AND WHY?

VOTING VOTING

WHAT DO YOU WISH THE PEOPLE


FROM THE OTHER SIDE OF THE
POLITICAL SPECTRUM UNDERSTOOD I DO/DON’T VOTE
ABOUT YOUR POV? WHAT DO YOU
WISH YOU UNDERSTOOD ABOUT
BECAUSE...
THEIRS.

VOTING VOTING

WHERE DO YOU GET THE


THE WORLD NEEDS MAJORITY OF YOUR VOTING
MORE____, AND INFORMATION? HOW HAVE
YOU CHECKED ITS
LESS ____. CREDIBILITY?

VOTING VOTING

WHEN WAS THE FIRST IF YOU COULD ASK EACH


TIME YOU VOTED? PRESIDENTIAL CANDIDATE
ONE QUESTION AND GET
WHAT GOT YOU TO THE AND HONEST ANSWER,
VOTING BOOTH? WHAT WOULD YOU ASK.
VOTING VOTING

WHAT DO MOST PEOPLE NORMALIZE SAYING I DON’T


ASSUME ABOUT YOUR HAVE ENOUGH
POLITICAL VIEWS/BELIEFS? INFORMATION ON THIS
HOW ACCURATE ARE THOSE TOPIC TO FORM AN
ASSUMPTIONS? OPINION JUST YET.
REMINDER

VOTING VOTING

HOW WOULD YOU WHAT BIASES CAN YOU


DESCRIBE THE RECOGNIZE THAT YOU
IMPORTANCE OF VOTING HAVE REGARDING YOUR
CURRENT POLITICAL
TO YOUR YOUNGER SELF? STANCE?

VOTING VOTING

WHAT’S ONE THING YOU DO YOU HAVE OPEN


KNOW ABOUT THE VOTING CONVERSATION WITH PEOPLE
PROCESS TODAY, THAT YOU WHO HOLD DIFFERING
DIDN’T IN THE PREVIOUS POLITICAL VIEWS AS YOU?
ELECTION? WHY OR WHY NOT?

VOTING VOTING

HOW HAS SOCIAL HAVE YOU EVER HAD


MEDIA INFLUENCED THE OPPORTUNITY TO
YOUR POLITICAL VOTE AND NOT TAKEN
VIEWS, IF AT ALL? IT? IF SO, WHY?
VOTING VOTING

IS THERE A POLITICAL WAS THERE A MOMENT


VIEW YOU HAVE THAT RECENTLY THAT
DRASTICALLY SHAPED
YOU FEEL TOO AFRAID YOUR POLITICAL IDEOLOGY?
TO ADMIT PUBLICLY? IF SO, WHAT WAS IT?

VOTING VOTING

DO YOU HOLD ANY LISTEN TO LEARN


LIMITING BELIEFS WHEN
IT COMES TO VOTING? IF EVEN WHEN YOU
SO, WHAT ARE THEY? DON’T AGREE.
REMINDER

VOTING VOTING

WHAT’S ONE THING YOU DO YOU HAVE OPEN


KNOW ABOUT THE VOTING CONVERSATION WITH PEOPLE
PROCESS TODAY, THAT YOU WHO HOLD DIFFERING
DIDN’T IN THE PREVIOUS POLITICAL VIEWS AS YOU?
ELECTION? WHY OR WHY NOT?

BUMBLE BUMBLE

DO I SEEM LIKE MORE HOW ORGANIZED DO YOU


THINK MY COMPUTER
OF A CREATIVE OR DESKTOP IS ON A SCALE
ANALYTICAL TYPE? 1-10?
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION
BUMBLE BUMBLE

HOW WOULD YOU FINISH THE


DESCRIBE WHAT YOU
THINK MY TYPE IS IN SENTENCE: DATING
THREE WORDS? IS...
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

BUMBLE BUMBLE

WHAT’S THE MOST WHAT DO YOU WISH


EMBARRASSING THING
THAT’S EVER HAPPENED YOU COULD SPEND
TO YOU ON A DATE? MORE TIME DOING?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

BUMBLE BUMBLE

WHAT’S THE NICEST WHAT’S THE MOST


THING YOU CAN FULFILLING MOMENT
REMEMBER DOING FOR OF YOUR CAREER THIS
A FRIEND? PAST YEAR?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

BUMBLE BUMBLE

WHAT CAREER LOW HAS A QUOTE EVER


HAS TAUGHT YOU CHANGED YOUR
THE MOST? WORLDVIEW?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION
BUMBLE BUMBLE

HOW OLD DO YOU WHEN’S THE LAST


FEEL, TIME YOU SURPRISED
EMOTIONALLY? YOURSELF?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

BUMBLE BUMBLE

WILL I FIND YOUR EX


ON YOUR INSTAGRAM DESCRIBE YOUR
FEED? WHY OR WHY PERFECT DATE.
NOT?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

BUMBLE BUMBLE

WHAT DID THE WHAT HAVE YOU LET GO


PEOPLE WHO RAISED OF THIS YEAR THAT’S
YOU TEACH YOU MADE THE MOST
ABOUT LOVE? POSITIVE CHANGE?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

BUMBLE BUMBLE

ILLUSTRATE YOUR WRITE DOWN THE THREE


MOST IMPORTANT THINGS
CURRENT LOVE LIFE TO YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP
(30 SECONDS). (30 SECONDS).
WILDCARD WILDCARD
BUMBLE BUMBLE

THINK OF A MOVIE WHEN WAS THE LAST


TIME SOMEONE MADE
THAT ALWAYS YOU FEEL SPECIAL ON
MAKES YOU CRY. YOUR BIRTHDAY?
WILCARD LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

BUMBLE BUMBLE

HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE WHAT TAKES


YOUR EX IN THREE WORDS? SOMEONE FROM A
HOW WOULD THEY FRIEND TO A BEST
DESCRIBE YOU? FRIEND?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

BUMBLE BUMBLE

IF FUNDING WEREN’T WHAT ARE YOU


AN ISSUE, WHAT IDEA
WOULD YOU EXECUTE PASSIONATE
THIS YEAR? ABOUT?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

BUMBLE BUMBLE

WHAT QUESTION ARE ADMIT SOMETHING: IS THERE


AN IMAGE OF YOURSELF YOU
YOU TRYING TO TRY TO PROJECT ON A FIRST
ANSWER IN YOUR LIFE DATE THAT YOU WISH YOU
RIGHT NOW? COULD LET GO OF?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION
BUMBLE BUMBLE

WRITE DOWN A WHAT HAS BEING


SINGLE TAUGHT YOU
DATING PET PEEVE ABOUT YOURSELF, IF
(30 SECONDS). ANYTHING?
WILCARD LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

BUMBLE BUMBLE

WHAT TYPE OF
WHAT DATING ADVICE
SOCIAL SITUATION
WOULD YOU GIVE
MAKES YOU FEEL THE
YOUR YOUNGER SELF?
MOST AWKWARD?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

BUMBLE BUMBLE

WHAT’S YOUR LEAST


FAVOURITE QUESTION TO WHAT ARE YOU NOT
BE ASKED ON A DATE? GIVING ENOUGH TIME
WHAT DO YOU WISH YOU TO, CURRENTLY?
WERE ASKED MORE?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

BUMBLE BUMBLE

ADMIT SOMETHING: WHAT WHAT ARE YOU


COULD YOU HAVE DONE BETTER AT THAN
BETTER IN YOUR PREVIOUS MOST PEOPLE YOU
RELATIONSHIP(S)? KNOW?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION
BUMBLE BUMBLE

WHAT DO YOU WHAT’S THE MOST


ATTRACTIVE QUALITY
ADMIRE MOST ABOUT ME THAT ISN’T
ABOUT ME? PHYSICAL?
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

BUMBLE BUMBLE

WHAT TYPE OF
WHAT DATING ADVICE
SOCIAL SITUATION
WOULD YOU GIVE
MAKES YOU FEEL THE
YOUR YOUNGER SELF?
MOST AWKWARD?
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

BUMBLE BUMBLE

WHAT’S YOUR LEAST


FAVOURITE QUESTION TO WHAT ARE YOU NOT
BE ASKED ON A DATE? GIVING ENOUGH TIME
WHAT DO YOU WISH YOU TO, CURRENTLY?
WERE ASKED MORE?
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION

BUMBLE BUMBLE

ADMIT SOMETHING: WHAT WHAT ARE YOU


COULD YOU HAVE DONE BETTER AT THAN
BETTER IN YOUR PREVIOUS MOST PEOPLE YOU
RELATIONSHIP(S)? KNOW?
LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION LEVEL 3 - REFLECTION
BUMBLE BUMBLE

IF I WERE A SONG, ON A SCALE OF 1-10,


WHICH SONG WOULD HOW HIGH DO YOU
I BE? THINK I AM?
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION

CANN CANN

WHAT’S SOMETHING WRITE A RAP VERSE


YOU’VE NEVER NOTICED THAT DESCRIBES YOUR
ABOUT ME UNTIL THIS CURRENT LOVE LIFE
MOMENT? AND PERFORM IT.
LEVEL 1 - PERCEPTION WILDCARD

CANN CANN

WHAT HAVE YOU WHAT DO YOU WISH YOU


COULD SEE WITH A
BEEN FEELING A LOT BRAND NEW
OF RECENTLY? PERSPECTIVE?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

CANN CANN

WHAT’S THE MOST


WHAT’S YOUR EMBARRASSED YOU
FAVOURITE GUILTY REMEMBER BEING FROM
PLEASURE? SOMETHING YOU DID WHILE
DRUNK?
WILDCARD LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION
CANN CANN

WHAT DO YOU WANT WHAT ARE YOU MOST


TO SPEND LESS OF GRATEFUL FOR IN
YOUR TIME DOING? THIS CURRENT
MOMENT?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

CANN CANN

WHAT DOES “TAKING SHARE A VIDEO THAT


CARE OF YOU” LOOK ALWAYS MAKES YOU
LIKE IN THIS CHAPTER LAUGH WITH YOUR
OF YOUR LIFE? PARTNER.
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION WILDCARD

CANN CANN

WHAT IDEA OF YOURS MAKE THE


DO YOU FEEL MOST WEIRDEST NOISE
EXCITED ABOUT? YOU CAN.
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION WILDCARD

CANN CANN

IF YOU COULD HAVE DRAW A SNAPSHOT


ANY FOOD IN THE
WORLD RIGHT NOW, OF YOUR DREAM
WHAT WOULD IT BE? VACATION.
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION WILDCARD
CANN CANN

WHO IN YOUR LIFE DO WHAT DO YOU NEED


YOU NEED TO SET RIGHT NOW BUT
BETTER BOUNDARIES AREN’T
WITH? COMMUNICATING?
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION

CANN CANN

WHAT’S BEEN HARD DESCRIBE THE BEST


FOR YOU TO SAY OUT PARTY YOU’VE BEEN
LOUD? GET IT OFF YOUR TO RECENTLY IN A
CHEST. DIFFERENT ACCENT.
LEVEL 2 - CONNECTION WILDCARD

CANN

WHAT’S YOUR
FAVOURITE PICK-
ME-UP?
WILDCARD

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