Reflection Paper - Maluya

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Title: Marriage in India

Marriage in India is deeply rooted in tradition and cultural customs, reflecting the diverse religious and
regional practices prevalent in the country. One prominent tradition is the arranged marriage, where
families play a significant role in finding suitable partners for their children. Arranged marriages are
based on the belief that parents are best equipped to choose a life partner who will ensure compatibility
and long-term happiness.

In an arranged marriage, the process begins with families seeking potential matches through social
networks, matrimonial websites, or professional matchmakers. Once a potential match is found, families
engage in discussions to assess compatibility in terms of family background, education, financial status,
and social standing. If both families agree, the couple is introduced, and they have the opportunity to get
to know each other before making a decision.

As an outsider, I initially found the concept of arranged marriages challenging to comprehend. However,
upon reflection and considering my moral principles, I began to appreciate the underlying values of
family unity, commitment, and the belief in long-term compatibility. The emphasis on family involvement
and support in the decision-making process demonstrates a deep respect for elders’ wisdom and the
strength of familial bonds.

Moreover, arranged marriages do not necessarily imply forced marriages or lack of consent. In modern
times, individuals have the freedom to accept or reject a proposed match, ensuring their consent and
agency in the process. This realization helped me overcome my initial reservations and understand that
moral principles can vary across cultures, shaped by different socio-cultural contexts.

In conclusion, while the practice of arranged marriages in India may initially seem unfamiliar or even
oppressive to some, it is essential to approach it with an open mind and respect for cultural diversity. By
considering the moral principles and sentiments embedded within this tradition, we can recognize the
importance of family, commitment, and the belief that love and compatibility can be fostered through
shared values and support. It is through understanding and appreciating different cultural practices that
we can find valid reasons for the moral arguments we make, ultimately fostering a more inclusive and
compassionate world.

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